STORY EXCLUSIVE TO STELLA DIMOKO KORKUS BLOG.
Lets call her Lady X....
She called me this Morning and told me a chilling recount of how Mr Akinfolarin Baruwa the lecturer who is presently being held for allegedly raping an 18year old girl also tried same with her in his office.
She recounted how she reported him to the school authorities and nothing was done...Please read her story with proof attached.
If you are a pen pushed with a Daily News and wish to interview her,please call me and i will give you her contact...
She wishes to remain anonymous for now but she is already making moves to re-open the case she filed last year.
MY STORY:-As Told By Lady X
This happened early 2014.
I had finished my project with my supervisor a pleasant middle aged woman but because she retired before I could get time off work to have her sign off my score sheet I had been re-assigned to Mr Akinfolarin Baruwa as my new project supervisor.
I remembered immediately I got off my first call from him my roommate let’s call her K told me “omg! Is that guy your supervisor?hian” it took me a while to get around the meaning of her words.
My first impression about him was he was a no nonsense kinda lecturer. I walked into the office he was at the bus admin complex top floor he seemed to be sharing an office with another lecturer.
It was about 5pm I had a paper that day. He didn’t attend to me till the other man was done, he sent me on silly errands like “make this photocopy”, “go and buy me tom tom” all this continued till about 8pm after waiting for like forever he attended to me, glanced at my work and said it was rubbish and couldn’t believe my former supervisor who happened to be a professor could approve such nonsense I appealed to him that it was exam period I couldn’t possibly work on my project from the scratch and still meet the deadline for submission so I begged him to let me make corrections instead.
He said someone has done the same topic 2/3 years back and he would easily report me to the authorities that I copied which would guarantee I’ve an extra year. He went on and on ,he had me believe the work was so bad assuring me that I couldn’t escape an extra year he even said he would report me for plagiarism because I forgot to site a particular reference. At some point he said I shouldn’t bother with correcting the work that he’s submitting my name to Admin with the batch of students to be carried over next year, I was stoned.
After begging him over and over to make me correct [mostly typographical errors] he finally agreed, my mind was finally at rest and I thanked him, as I made to leave he looked at me and was like ‘is that how to say thank you?’ I then went on both knees thanking him profusely “thank you sir”, “God bless you sir”…. While I was at it he was closing the blinds of the office and he turned off the A/C [the office was very cold] like he was going to wrap up for the day, he was clearing the sofa that had other peoples projects next thing I know he locks the door…
I was stilling trying to wrap my head around him locking the door when he dragged me; Stella I was a size 12 5”4 then, I am big, this guy is strong ,he just grabbed my boobs and my arms to his manhood rubbing it, next thing He was forcefully trying to remove my clothes, when I tried to force myself off his grip he got more aggressive when I tried to scream he got even more aggressive.
That place is isolated and quiet at night [the office is opposite UNILAG guesthouse by the sea side] I figured screaming was a waste of time and being forceful wasn’t getting anywhere so I lay still begging, then I began to cry “I’m asthmatic I can’t breathe” so I pretended to have an attack then he stopped he started apologising he said it was a mistake and he’s usually not like that and he’s sorry then he started again apologising that he’s hard, okay he doesn’t want sex again that I should just give him a hand job, I said I needed air that he should please open the door [acting like I was about to faint], he then finally opened the door apologising, I rushed out and I was still acting like I was short of breath and fainting with plenty tears in my eyes.
He later called me apologising that he doesn’t know what got over him, it was a mistake etc. I told my best friend, i was in complete shock ,all my years in UNILAG I had never experienced such, i was so stunned that day i lost my bag.
He said we should set him up And I am like “no all I want is to just graduate in peace” because when the matter gets to the authorities now it is another thing he would say.... he can even say we are cultists.
I started using different strategies when visiting his office like going with friends, he always says he is not around [because from up he could see people down] he would later call me to say “you think you are smart abi, you are playing with your graduation”.
On another occasion I had to have him sign my score sheet and i thought to my that this was broad daylight and what could possibly happen?
I was wrong!
A lecture was going on the floor before and the noise from the mega phone clouded the office and this man started again. I was furious and I started to insult him when he was trying to pin me down and as we were dragging my shirt tore and as I was shouting he pushed me.
I stormed out and he was shouting “get out of my office”, ”you can’t graduate i promise you”.
This time I had had it and I was going to the authorities, when I got downstairs I met a friend who happened to be a staff and he saw how mad I was and I narrated all that had happened.
we went to faculty of bus admin and reported to some lecturers they then followed me to his office and met with him.
If you see the way this man painted me black, he denied what happened he almost denied knowing me sef in fact he was mumbling my name like we had just met 5min ago. “He said you know how these students can get” the way he turned the story around I know deep down they knew he was lying but they had to be diplomatic they asked me to do my corrections and forget the matter.
Baruwa then started stalking me.
I remember after an exam while hanging with a friend of mine he called my number saying something like “is that your boyfriend? Is it because of him you are doing shakara for me” I was disgusted, I couldn’t see him but obviously he could see me. This happened on 2 separate occasions.
Stella this man frustrated me because it was a finished project before I was assigned to him, he made me redo and retype, photocopy, bind about 3 times over and every given time he says “you just like punishing yourself” with a snare.
I felt bullied.
it was one thing for a lecturer to ask a student out, it was a different thing entirely to manipulate me into sleeping with you and physically and emotionally harassing me in the process.
When he saw I was adamant he held on to my score sheet without which I couldn’t submit my project or do my defence. He was eager to break me but when I had had enough I reported to the authorities and at that point I was introduced to another girl by my class governor who had complained about this same Baruwa man.
I’ve attached a copy of the handwritten letter I submitted to the authorities and I had to keep it short and brief. The other girls he sexually harassed [my roommate and the other girl] didn’t show up on the day of the report and my class governor didn’t want to have anything to do with the case too so i flew solo.
I guess everybody was afraid of the consequences of reporting a lecturer.
The school promised to look into the matter but I think because of lack of concrete evidence or other witnesses the best they could do was stop him from supervising student’s projects.
I’m not saying he raped or didn’t rape the girl but the way he’s going on about it being consensual and sounding all believable made me remember when I had those lecturers go meet him and he turned the tables around and got them all confused.
What I do know for sure is though an 18 year old is an adult one cannot expect her to show any more than the decent level of tact she did to avoid an abuser as experienced as Baruwa. She shouldn’t be expected to know how to use Witt or tact to manoeuvre her way around an experienced molester who obviously emotionally and psychologically abuses his victims and pounces on them through a little perceived window of opportunity.
The other girls Baruwa abused that were too afraid to speak up are way older and more experienced than her. Akinfolarin Baruwa sexually harasses like a tutored glutton, If she gave even a little level of physical resistance then SHE WAS RAPED.
To the victim this is for you!..I am coming out to tell my story because of you!
Many Thanks Stella for giving me this platform and God bless.
LADY X
God bless you,Shame on all of you that doubted that little girl,You all are the reason why raped victims do not come out...
ReplyDeleteUsuless man with very lame story. How can an 18 year old girl rub his private without threat or permission. I just hope this case isn't swept under the carpet.
DeleteAbi o.
DeleteThank You Poster .Thank you very much.
DeleteI knew that thing called a man was lying.
God will definitely punish him,I bet he is going down this time around.Fooooooooooooooooooool!!!!
God bless you Lady X.
DeleteIt's hard enough being a victim of attempted rape or rape itself, insulting and blaming the victims is just inhuman. And this bs usually comes from women. Imagine someone saying a 13 year old had consensual sex with a 21 year old.
Please lets change our way of thinking. This is why most rape victims would rather keep quiet about it.
The girl is 18, has obviously lived a sheltered life and some people could still find it in themselves to blame her? Even here someone has said 'how did you get your lecturer's number'
Some comments just make you wonder.
I hope this pervert gets charged to court and answers for his crimes. I also hope more victims muster enough strength to speak out. Animal. Mr Baruwa, you're liable to be imprisoned for life. Hope they flog you each day for the rest of your life.
God Bless you Lady X for doing this. No rapist must go scot free.
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DeleteWen I was still iin ss1, a man dat was my
dad's godfather via marriage almost did dis
to me and u need to feel d respect I had for
him before; he came to d house and told my
mum that he wanted to buy Xmas clothes for
me like he promised and on our way he said
he wanted to see sum1, wen we got dere it
was a hotel I just closed my mouth as a jjc
but wen we got in dere was no 1 dere, I
immediately got scared and he told dat he
liked me bla bla bla, as a small girl dat knows
nothing I started crying and wen I saw dat
he was still telling me wot he will give me if I
accepted I just pushed him opened d door
and ran without looking back..i neva told my
mum or any1, I just told her dat he got a
call and had to go meet sum1..and dz man
still had the effrontery to read a tribute
and poured sand into my father's grave
when he died. .rapists are all in human with
no conscience
Dr. Obisi too of IRPM used to be like that too. I wonder if he has changed!
DeleteA certain Osilagun Kayode, Mathematical Science Lecturer at OOU did worse. I hope karma catches up with him and his family.
DeleteHe made graduating students buy rice and tinned tomatoes for his mother's burial.
He intimidated girls to sleep with them.
He made people graduate with bad results for no reason, regardless of the carry overs you had, if you bought veg oil, you'd graduate.
Jesus i cant believe this! Ve had lecturers ask me out but this is way beyond it! wtf?! A dog is better than this man! Shame on him! I hope justice is served!!!
DeleteDevil has been put 2 shame........finally
DeleteBig shame on all of u that doubted that little girl over a mature rapist. Forming stupid stories in his behalf like u guts were there. Nonsense!!
DeleteShame on him! I pity his wife and kids. His own is finished!
DeleteNeed a yummy Birthday/Wedding cake in Abuja? Home / office delivery. Also send a gift of cake to your loved one in Abuja.Pls click on my ID to see pics and my contact details.
This is so terrible.
DeleteNappyhaired.com
God bless you lady x for coming out about it..
DeleteYou are a very courageous Lady..
Mr baruwa! Nigerian Bill Cosby,you've met your Waterloo..
I can assure you,more and more victims will still come out..
Na wa o
DeleteHmmm only God will reward u for standing up for the TRUTH!! Nothing more to add.
DeleteThat's how useless Dr. Barry of Uniben harasses innocent girl such that they are forced to leave the school. Their day of reckoning is coming. PIGS in human skin.
DeleteA resounding and loud shame, to think some of them are mothers, pathetic comments, as if d guy will wave his hands and confirm he raped her when he isn't an illiterate.
DeleteMy darling, God bless you abundantly for speaking up, you will not be put to shame ,amen.
We are different, a guy once tried to rape me but when he saw how aggressive and mad I was, he backed off.I was just lucky.
This girl is 18years, perhaps,she has a small stature and is fragile, couldn't match his strength My point is that cretin can pin her down and conveniently rape her.
Will you guys say this if she was your daughter, niece or sister?
This is why rape victims go into depression, imagine the useless comments on this blog.Mr Lecturer, you are doomed, God punish you.
Whirlwind
I have goose bumps from reading this. Those who have similar experience with this Baruwa person should please speak up. What can happen?
DeleteGod bless u anon
DeleteI was shocked when I saw how people doubted that girl
Its cos of people like u guys rape victims hardly speak about it.
We women are our own worst enemy
Tufia
Stellastic lala!she had to call u personally cos she knew u were d fearless one#winks#
DeleteThat's why we love ur blog jare!...this is another Bill Cosby story in d making,more gals are coming out!!for a highly educated enlightened man to partake in dis,then all I can say is sickness has no boundary'!
Barry ke,mcb Barry uniben,hian I was just floating in that Dept.... I Neva even knew he used to disturb the ladies,orishirishi,mschewww
DeleteThank u anony, i was sad when i saw some pple comment doubting the young girl and most of the it were from ladies and all i cld say within me is i pray ur children experience the same. So they can know the trauma she's going through.
DeleteStella u are also to be blamed.I was dispointed by ur red ink comment this morning and u gave so many idiot reason to doubt the girl. An 18yrs to 43yrs man and u r talking abt concensual.
Pls let change our thinking and reason bfor talking.God bless u lady x..He will def router in jail
When i read stories like this, i'm always thankful i didn't attend higher education in that naija.
DeleteAnimalistic lecturers preying on young helpless students, when they're meant to be in positions of trust and authority.
I hope baruwa goes down for this; ugly rapist!
Click my name for all your celebration cakes and cupcakes, cheers
Did people doubt her? If it is true, shame on them
DeleteYes people doubted her and casted different aspersions. Not that some wayward girls cannot lie they got raped even though consensual. But the details of this particular case was transparent enough to see that she wasn't lying. I am super glad that this rejoinder made it here. And I also hope that those in charge of her case get this witness for scrutiny to better prosecute that bastard!!!
DeleteMr Adekola,Mr Adeboye of accounting department the polytechnic ibadan Ay nemesis catch up with u and may u be put to shame for all d sexual harassment u put us tru back den in 2003.i remember D useless Mr Wahab too who later got a job at an oil company.may Ur sins be visited upon Ur chipdren.I graduated from ds school without result cos of Ur threats which u eventually carried out.May God punish Ur generation.as a young girl den I couldn't get to tell my parents about all ds harassments so I understand d pain of not being able to talk wen ure going through ds.thank God d world is much more civilised.lets stand up to rape issues nd help d helpless.shame on all rapists
DeleteGod bless you my dear, who knows how many girls he has raped.
ReplyDeleteMy Sister!
DeleteMy mouth was wide open.
Nawaoh
DeleteYou see... I never believed that RAPIST from the begining, consensual kor consensual ni. I pray he rots in jail, foolish man
DeleteEveryday for the thief,one day for the owner. God will punish any idiot that will try to close this case. That sick baruwa must pay for his crimes
DeleteBaruwa , God will punish you for what you did to these girls.
ReplyDeleteBaruwa is one out of many, they are everywhere, thank God for social media.
DeleteThanks poster for your story. This is making it easier for us to decide who is lying. Shame on that pig of a man. Shame on him. May he rot in jail.
DeleteStella if you wouldn't mind or see it strenuous, can you pls start a platform on your blog for students who are being victimised this way by some wayward lecturers? I think this will probably help to fish out this bad lecturers that forcefully harass students.
DeleteThis man should be killed.
ReplyDeleteCastrated should be better. So he will live with the consequences. Idiot man lecturer.
DeleteIt's such a pity that some ladies on this blog sided the lecturer previously, delta chick that was so degrading of you. To think that women are supposed to have each others back but we turn against ourselves at the slightest opportunity. Dear poster you are one exceptional lady. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteLady X, you're such an intelligent lady. I love your grammatical construction. And I must commend your courage. Do your best to see that justice is served
DeleteTa! Nnsu mitcha pu gi onu e ji e kwu rubbish there!
DeleteAre you high or sawdust or something? If you had paused to read and understand what I wrote, you would have realized the point I was trying to make.
Mtcheeeeeeeeeew.
No let me waste my anger on a faceless BV like you. Get an i.d first then we can continue
Delta chick you are a big fool and a disgrace to womanhood, the anon is right. Women like you hate on other women for nothing while na una sabi prostitute pass. And you have the right to still show face . Ewu
DeleteDelta Chic....i read your comment and thought you were either illiterate or high on cheap drugs....how can a 13 year oldd have "consensual sex" biko? She's a minor!!! You are really a disgrace!! Pls hide your head abeg.. I cant deal!
DeleteDelta chick shut up and admit your mistake.
Delete@delta chic just admit u made a mistake and say ure sorry...uve got nothing in ur defence,and please change ur mentality
DeleteI listened to encounters from renowned Preacher Joyce Meyer about how she was abused by her father!! She said he never really tore her clothes or forced himself on her...he just used manipulation and threats to scare her.....would you also call that "consensual sex"? Delta chic.....you are a disgrace to us Deltans!! @ Anon....dont mind her, she's a timid and conceited woman!! @ Delta chic.....Madam...you can't be foolish and rude at the same time...pls CHOOSE a STRUGGLE!!! Thannk you
DeleteDelta chick shutup and stop talking rubbish
DeleteGo back and read ur comment fool .."Dunno why I believe the lecturer's side of the story. He has maintained the fact that it was consensual from day 1. " those were part of ur stupid words
.dont sorry wait till it happens to ur daughter and the rapist Will say d same thing
Useless man!
ReplyDeletePervert!
Nemesis is finally catching up with him.
I hope he rots in jail for a very very long time.
Consensual my foot!
He raped the girl is what I know.
Namsense!!!!
#WhiteDiamondOut
Baruwa the Nigerian Cosby..
DeleteNa devil shit for ur head so,ur cup is full and the weight of the law shall come down on u heavily!
Thank you for speaking up.
In unilag? Tooooo many abeg. When I noticed one foolish lecturer getting fresh I refused to go alone to see him. I resorted to dashing him gifts to distract him idiot glutton. When he saw that I was not going to be easy prey he settled for dashings and fashied me. But I used to see plenty girls come out of his locked office. God forbid.
DeleteThis man was the sperm that should have been spat out. Worthless ball of shit. When he can't get any student to rape, he'll pounce on his daughters.
DeleteHian, so their are consequences for reporting a lecturer. This is just stupid. This is one of the reasons I don't like federal schools. Dey don't have the interest of their students at heart. If it's in my school, Babcock Uni, dis lecturer won't even try such cos the school authority takes every sexual harassment case very very serious. They even go as far as setting traps for you themselves. Sorry to the girls doh.
Deleteu said he called u,who gave him ur number?
ReplyDeleteIs it unusual for a lecturer supervising your project to have your number?
DeleteGerrahia! Idiot. Asking stupid question. Mschweee!
DeleteDid you go to school at all? Have you even done a project? Didn't you hear that he was her project supervisor? Anumpam.
DeleteYour just senseless. Can't you read? He's her project supervisor, she can't do it without exchanging no with him. You go school at all? Yeye dumb ass.
DeleteHe? Or she? U no read well? Stella number dey down now, wt email addy dat u can use to get in touch wt her.
DeleteFavour, if her project supervisor does not have her number, who will?
DeleteBut do you know you are stupid? I don't think you attended university talk less of writting project.
Deletedude was project manager which mean u walk hand in hand with him or her and there is no way u won't have his/her number.
Maybe u didn't go to d university to know that u need ur supervisor's no.
DeleteThe thunder that will fire u is still doing press up. Pray u never get raped. Mofo! Gerahia.
DeleteWhat a question?
DeleteA lecturer can't have your number again or what?
If she submitted d letter to sch authority, hw did she get it back? Shldnt d sch av filed it? Or did she write 2 letters? If t was photocopied, ild buy it. But i dnt believe part of her story. Sorry. Apart frm rape bn bad,ppl shld pay attention to victims details. What were d names of d lecturers dat went wit u?
DeleteFavour nor go university,EOD
DeleteYou must be really DUMB for that question! Imagine how did she get her supervisor's number.
DeleteWill u pls SHUT it???
DeleteFavour, like seriously? How could u ask such stupid and senseless question? Didn't u attend university or u didn't have a project supervisor. Na wa for some people on this blog o.
Delete
DeleteLolll @ favour ndi anum pama. You stopped at primary school abi? No wonder. It's an offence to be this stupid.
Really. With the way this world is moving someone is still this dumb. Favour, Please help yourself, don't be left behind.
DeleteMaybe the Anon wey ask that stupid question no go school. Nonsense!
Deleteit is either you gray matter is not evenly distributed or you did not acquire tertiary education..this issue is annoying enough and you are trying to pick holes?you must be sick!
DeleteLmaooo!!! Favour sorry o! All these insults for only u. Haba! Its normal for a project supervisor to have their student's number na.
Deleteanon 18:06.when filing such issue,it must be in 3 handwritten copies.one for your faculty (dean) one for vc office/senate and one for you since it is not an anonymous filing it.
DeleteLobatan! Nothing more.
ReplyDeleteIt's appalling to watch most of you get riled up over another's opinion. If God wanted us to think the same way he wouldn't have created Eve.
DeleteI stated clearly that the narration of the initial story was wrong and didn't seem right no where did I support rape and I will never ever do that.
I have had many near experiences and the last one I ran out of the guy's house with my bra in hand.
Many of you educated illiterates lack the capacity to criticize constructively and once someone doesn't agree with you or share your views, you resort to insults.
As much as I'd have loved to bandy words with everyone who has gone as far as cursing me I won't because I have home training. So do not cease fire, carry on.
Shut up and stop trying to defend ur stupid comment..u said it that d story was like a nollywood and and narrated some point on y u dont believe the girl..like y cant the girl open door blablaaa..haba a naive18yr old girl.stupid home training u av.
Deletewith your square face @ ganja abi cocaine.wont you shut up?shut d fuck up! after saying it looked like nollywood movie? which home training did you have?oh he was able to even remove your bra.ode jati jati.wetin you find go?to collect money abi?whore!
DeleteThank you for coming out. I hope you testify against him in court? Why do I have a feeling that more girls will come forward. #9ja Bill Cosby saga.
ReplyDeleteWow! This Baruwa man na Bastard oo! Your time is up,foolish man!
ReplyDeleteU see! Thank u so much Lady X for speaking up. God almighty will bless u. As for d Anumanu edo, he must ROT in jail just like I said earlier. Iko ya ejugo n'izua. Anu ofia mmuo. Pardon my vernacular plsss
ReplyDeleteEnough Said....Baruwa a duplex awaits u in Hell...Muthafvcker...
ReplyDeleteMr Baruwa is a damned rapist. He should be jailed jare.
ReplyDeleteI hate rapist and bullies.
Mr Baruwa is a damned rapist. He should be jailed jare.
ReplyDeleteI hate rapist and bullies.
This settles it. Mr Baruwa your end is right now.
ReplyDeleteJust wow!!! And no student has set him up and treated his fuck up?
ReplyDeleteOh! How I love my 042...........
Ndi Enugu!!! I hail o
DeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThis is deep and I believe the poster 100%.
The useless Baruwa should be made to rot in jail,atleast the world will be left with one less rapist.
They are in all universities.
DeleteMay God expose them soon.
Amen.
DeleteNa wah ohh!!..
ReplyDeleteAnd this man is someone's husband and daddy...
Tueh...
Shame!!!...
Can u imagine... Tueh Tueh Tueh....
Delete
DeleteWen I was still iin ss1, a man dat was my
dad's godfather via marriage almost did dis
to me and u need to feel d respect I had for
him before; he came to d house and told my
mum that he wanted to buy Xmas clothes for
me like he promised and on our way he said
he wanted to see sum1, wen we got dere it
was a hotel I just closed my mouth as a jjc
but wen we got in dere was no 1 dere, I
immediately got scared and he told dat he
liked me bla bla bla, as a small girl dat knows
nothing I started crying and wen I saw dat
he was still telling me wot he will give me if I
accepted I just pushed him opened d door
and ran without looking back..i neva told my
mum or any1, I just told her dat he got a
call and had to go meet sum1..and dz man
still had the effrontery to read a tribute
and poured sand into my father's grave
when he died. .rapists are all in human with
no conscience
So this man is actually a dog?
DeleteLook at how he wants to shame his family now.....
Pay for your sins perv!!!!
Lol @ Tueh... Na so oh!
DeleteWow God bless u lady x, please other girls should speak out as well, this nonsense is a norm in most universities in Nigeria. I remember during my project my supervisor almost tried that shit, each time I walk into his office my phone recorder was on, I had heard too many stories not to be paranoid. I promised myself that I am ready to loose my 4yrs in school than to sleep with the idiot, with the way I had prepared my mind ehnnn if he had pushed, I would go to any length to bring him down ooh and my kind of father wil make sure he rots in jail. My mother will always say if any lecturer tries nonsense with u and there's no way out pack ur load and come home lol.
ReplyDeleteI remember one stupid Dean in Oou that tormented my life, always telling me he likes it bushy, smh. To think he's a pastor sef, these idiots are cursed!
Delete@baylow,u went to oou? Der is a man called dr Tobi, dat man no gree pass me cause u no fuck am. Nd he likes forming man of god. + why do i av a feeling u r ronke oris of peco. U try sha. U fucked 3 of my bfs. But i forgive u.
DeleteFool, he is her supervisor nd supervisors ve students number that d supervise.
ReplyDeleteeverydqy is for the thief,1 day is for the owner.
ReplyDeletemr Baruwa ur end is near.
more girls are still coming out.
Ghen ghen... Every day for the thief, one day for the owner.
ReplyDeleteMr Lecturer, "God have come and catch you"
They should restrain him....leave him in a room with me alone.....i swear he'll say the truth after i'm done with him.....stupid motherfucker......God will not let u go free.......may men in d jail where u'll be locked up call u pretty and scatter ur asshole....idiot
ReplyDeleteAmen! Stupid man! I pray the devil fucks his asshole hard. He will rot in jail Insha Allah. Thank u lady X
DeleteDey r so many "Baruwas" in our universities. May dey b exposed one by one. Amen!
ReplyDeletedr Ndifon osim unical,law faculty,now dean
DeleteYes oh, example, ndifon, law dept, unical. I hope he has aids now
DeleteMr Ikpoh,unical,microbiology.
DeleteUNILAG campus full of hungry and wandering lions...fac of biz adm,finance dept ,prof.....ur cup ll full trowey soonest..breast sucking bastard..and many more of u pathetic old fools on that ampus
DeleteDr .....,uniport,office at choba park. Likes sucking breasts only.no sex
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
Dude don enter soup nobi lie.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
God help me raise a girl like you.
ReplyDeleteSmart,not easily daunted and highly courageous!!
These are the qualities the other girl lacked,she was just a little girl,no exposure..apparently sheltered!! Very timid.
Chai Mr Baruwa!!! You disgust me!
@Delta chick.. please remember that there is a 13years old child out there you owe an apology!!!
Let us say her "boyfriend" of 21 did not rape her,did you give that child counselling?
How can you even say it was good bye sex gone wrong? Omg!! She was only 13,could be your child,your sister. And you let her go.
You wrote that she told you things that haunted you,it came from her soul. You failed her!!!!
Delta chick should pray she never gets raped. What does a 13 year old? May God see her through. I am amazed by what a fellow woman will say. Wicked woman.
DeleteIphie there are certain persons one do not need to bother about,if u've ever met or had any dealings with a mean soul,u'll understand "delta chick" better.
DeleteMy stomach churned with disgust when I read her comment,its accepted that children these days are full of surprises,but when a woman sees a lost child and looks away becos the mother was careless then her morals should be questioned.
My baby sister is 18 and as grown as she feels I still see her as a child let alone a 13yr old,....if a 13yr old went to a woman that has breast ,is a mother/hopes to be a mother and she turns that child away jst becos the child was "wilder" than her age and she "bragged" abt the manner she handled such situation shamelessly on a blog....by all means let her be,the things holding unto her heart are far from ordinary....I pray light into ur life.
Some 10 yr olds r evn mre sexually active dan u r. My 13 yrs old cousin knw wat fellatio is. I learnt it frm her nd am 27. So if u dnt knw wat to say STFU nd stp soundin myopic nd biased.
DeleteDear Ify,
DeleteYou are one B.V I respect a lot so I feel I owe you an explanation....
Now, I cited the case of the 13year old girl not because I lack sympathy or anything but koz I was only trying to point out how some ladies accuse people of crime they did not commit!
Did I counsel her? Of koz I did but I didn't want to go into details because the issue of her being sexually active @ such an early age is different from her wanting to bring someone down because he broke up with her. That's where I said she was wrong!!!
I really hate to write this epistle but if y'all did not get my point, that's no fault of mine either
Besides, how's your baby doing?
Much love
Xoxo
Thanks iphie dearie...been following ur comments on this case. Thanks for standing in 4 d poor girl, I love u for dat.
DeleteSisi eko, well done too.
Sometimes I feel like throwing slaps at som people thru dis phone. Delta chick, you should leave that place you call an office, you don't fit in there OMG. That may be one out of several rape cases you discarded as consensual sex, cry to God for forgiveness. Mtchwwwwwww!
And several others who doubted d poor girl, sexyboocaler n Co tchwwwwwwwww.
@Lara
DeleteNews like this breaks my heart.
Like I have a girl child you see..
As much as am highly emotional about rape,child abuse and domestic violence... I still do not want an innocent man/boy going down for a crime he didn't commit.. but you see this Mr Baruwa,He stinks!!!!!
Anon please what are you saying????
DeleteYour 13 year old told you the meaning of fellatio? And you're proudly saying this here!
So if God forbid that 13 year old cousin of yours is in a similar position, you'd say 'oh she deserves this because she knows the meaning of fellatio'???
What manner of thinking is this???
So protecting children from perverts and speaking against rape is 'myopic' and 'biased'? You need a dictionary and a new brain.
DeleteDelta Chic.....go and sleep pls!!! A 13 year old is a minor and not legible to have "consensual sex". What amazes me is the levvel of your ignorance! Just because things happen in Nigeria doesn't make them legal!! If she was your daughter, would you say the same thing...ppl like you would make your children commit suicide like that 16 year old who was blamed for getting raped and killed herself! Pls mend your ways and stop giving stupid, baseless and unintelligent explanations for your timidity!! It takes courage to stand up for what is right, and I suggest you build that up....or SHUTDOWN your office!
Delete@ Lara may God help us all dear. It's our collective duty as mothers, intending mothers, sisters, friend, and whatever else, to look out for the vulnerable amongst us. By virtue of my job I see and hear all sorts every single day. Imagine having to dissect a lie from the truth, identifying who is an outright rapist from one who's sexually manipulative.. etc. The burden of proof is always upon the lady involved. In this case a child. As I consider an 18 year old a "child".
Delete@favour onwuama, what do u mean by dat silly question of urs " who gave him ur number"?. for fu*ks sake, do u hv difficulty reading & comprehending?.. hez her project supervisor for crying out loud..they communicate via d telephone..didn't u read where she said sometimes wen she goes to visit him in d company of her friends, he tells her he is not in d ofice(cus he does want her coming wt anyone)..so how does he tell her that?if not thru phone call
ReplyDeletestupid question madam favour onwuama
ReplyDeletestupid question madam favour onwuama
ReplyDeleteHmmm.... Mr Baruwa your cup don overflow. I just pity your wife and what she will be going through emotionally seeing this happening to her. And your kids. The stigma you have made to the family. So sad
ReplyDeleteYou must be very stupid for that question favour.....
ReplyDeleteLady X please don't end this on Stella's blog. Please try to report to the people at Mirabel Centre so you can testify against this animal in court. You will strengthen the case of the 18year old girl and help put this useless man in jail. Please think about it. And if there are any other victims, please come forward. Don't remain silent. You may be saving you own sister tomorrow. As for the useless animalistic women that supported the lecturer and doubted the girl, may you not see the one that is beyond you and when you open your mouth to talk, everyone will doubt you. Stupid women. You hear of a man who raped someone and your first instinct is to disbelieve/shame the victim and defend the rapist. Shame on you people. Shame.
ReplyDeleteAmen! Wicked, heartless women!! "The story get as e be" indeed. Shior.
DeleteGod bless you lady X
ReplyDeleteSad.I hope the victims all get justice.
ReplyDeleteMay God pay that man in his own coin.
ReplyDeleteDear nigerian ladies, if you are a rape victim please speak out, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!
ReplyDeleteI thank this victim for speaking up.
ReplyDelete@favour onwuama: wot kind of question is dt? Are u ds dumb or u reek of stupidity only on weekends. Well I need nt blame u much u probably might nt b an undergraduate sef talk more of writing a project in final year. Analyze a situation critically bfr u comment.
ReplyDeleteLet's b friends!
DeleteThank you to this poster
ReplyDeleteI guessed he was a serial rapist
And I'm right
Ewo! Nke nwokea ekpome me. Iko gi ejugo baruwa abi mbara ka a n'akpo gi? Amu Baruwa araputa go ya. Lmao
ReplyDeleteI pity the wife that went to that court with him. What a disgrace
ReplyDeleteLady X uve a nice handwriting.
ReplyDeleteXoxo
THANK UR GOD SAY NO BE MY SIS U DEY DO ALL DIS TINS..I FOR BARUWA UR GENERTION...ANU OFIA
ReplyDeletehai check this cool animation from a nigerian
ReplyDeletehttps://youtu.be/hsgNFn8He44
you know you are stupid abi? we are talking about a sensitive issue with tension running high and everybody catching feelings and you said we should come and check out what?are you mad?what does "hai" mean? gerrarehia @ udeh!
DeleteMay God bless u lady X and more for the fact that u are willing to come out in the open for the victim's sake... don't knw why some ladies just take pleasure in turning deaf ears n against fellow women. let's have one another's back. To even admit one was raped takes a lot of gut or that one's DH beat...... so when a woman summons that courage to say I was raped, or physically abused, let's know it took a lot of guts.... and be kind and gentle with our words.
ReplyDeletethis one na dr Ndifon osim the second in univ of calabar,faculty of law o,cursed beast
ReplyDeleteThe last sentence of that letter just hit me.
ReplyDeleteWe live in an extremely corrupt country.
Had it been necessary action was taken against this man then,this story would have been avoided.
I hope this serves as a lesson to a lot of people.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Very disgusting man. A total disgrace to men. Leaving young pupils in the hands of men like this is a big problem. I wish other girls will learn to say no to such men.
ReplyDeleteSorry about your experience lady X. I still maintain that Shola's story doesn't add up. Baruwa is a ram no doubt and he probably has molested a lot of students. He has a roving penis from what I can decipher. I would just keep my opinion and pray for the victims to over come this.
ReplyDeleteGoing anonymous on this one....
ReplyDeleteBut the thing dey pain say Nobe that affin lecturer for faculty of philosophy for University of Lagos that drives an infinity jeep.
Too many years of touching the table for this man, the jump and pass jazz he must be using gidigan
heeeeeeee that he goat albino whose office is in fac of ART..GAS101...olofo buruku ni ...left sch in 98...so students stl dey touch table fr him.haaa
DeleteDelta chick and doppelganger, I hope the universe does not bless you with children, you are not fit to be custodians of such a blessing.
ReplyDeleteLady X thank you for stepping forward. I hope this encourages others too. I hope he loses his job, one less raped woman in society.
To the 18 yo victim, thank you for your courage, i wish strenght and healing to you.
Lmaooooooo!!!!!
DeleteNow this is funny
Both of u are fools..now it funny..go back to ur comment on the earlier post and see for ursef if It a good thing u wrote and judge ursef..and u are both here defending ursef n lauging stupidly..idiots
DeleteStella shey u refused to post my comment on this issue, b encouraging ppl to talk anyhow oo
Deleteuseless lecturer
ReplyDeleteRot in jail
Be should be jailed!
ReplyDeleteckjacob.blogspot.com
Honestly, the issue of rape as regards admission into schools should be taken seriously so people can tell their stories and save others. When I was seeking admission to unilag then though now a graduate, I met a guy I'm sorry to disclose his name 'jide' he stayed on community street in akoka, he told me he could help and I was 17/18 years then and asked that I come to see him and he would take me to school to see someone or something. To cut the story short, he tried to sleep with me forcefully, he had almost started pulling my dress and his friends knocked and that was how I got out. Parents and guardian out there, let's keep a keen eye on our wards because we see better than they do.
ReplyDeleteInfact Mr lecturer this is d end of the road for u.rotten in jail and may ur hole be massacred with various sizes of infested rod.oloshi
ReplyDeleteGod bless you lady X, Mr Baruwa your end is here cos you are a fucking rapist and bully may u rot in jail..(sick man)and there are so many of you in unilag especially faculty of arts..yes I know them one by one useless lecturers may God punish you lots.. May Justice prevail
ReplyDeleteNne
Shame on him.
ReplyDeleteI'm currently running an msc prog in unilag , was assigned to a male supervisor, the way he stares at my boobs when talking to me , makes me shiver,i sincerely hope he doesn't pounce on me someday. Since when did it become a crime to be busty bikonu!
ReplyDeleteLady x God Bess you for this...
ReplyDeletePlease this should get to the right authorities Stella, I'm so disgusted!
Dear Ify,
ReplyDeleteYou are one B.V I respect a lot so I feel I owe you an explanation....
Now, I cited the case of the 13year old girl not because I lack sympathy or anything but koz I was only trying to point out how some ladies accuse people of crime they did not commit!
Did I counsel her? Of koz I did but I didn't want to go into details because the issue of her being sexually active @ such an early age is different from her wanting to bring someone down because he broke up with her. That's where I said she was wrong!!!
I really hate to write this epistle but if y'all did not get my point, that's no fault of mine either
Besides, how's your baby doing?
Much love
Xoxo
@Delta Chick,Good you explained further.
DeleteI was emotionally strung when I saw 13years old.
Use your line of work and keep reaching out to as many as possible.
God bless you.
Baby is bouncing....sucking like cray! Lol
Have a wonderful weekend. YOLO
Unfortunately, with your kind of mindset you should not be in a position to counsel any victim of rape.
DeleteA counselor should know that a 13 year old is not emotionally mature and incapable of consenting to sex because she is a minor.
The 21 year old should be a registered sex offender for taking advantage of a 13 year old.
Counselor like you termed it 'good byesex'
A 21 year old has abused his position of power and trust and slept /was sleeping with a 13 year old who is probably in js3 and you were busy judging her instead of being horrified that a minor was being molested.
You are a disgrace.Shame on you!
You have no point.Like I said, you are a PIG. For you to still insist on referring to a 13yo CHILD as a LADY means you do not want to acknowledge that a child was statutorily raped by a 21yo MAN and you did nothing to help her or his next victim.
DeleteA child cannot consent to sex.
Children who act out with promiscuity are usually victim of early sexual abuse.
You need more education and a moral compass because clearly you do not have one. While you are shopping for good character, try and get some compassion too. I am tempted to think you made up this story just so you could have a "cool story" on the blog.
A 21 year old exploiting a 13 year old is wrong. You could have done more than judge the young girl. She you will still have your girls someday. We are watching.
DeleteFor the life of me, I just couldn't understand how a grown man will say he had sex with his daughter's friend with her consent...as in, he must be sick in the head! How do you even do that?
ReplyDeleteHis story was all just played up in his head, he imagined the little girl did all that to him... He is just a freaking pervert.. A sick soul... I don't want to believe anyone actually believed that story... whoever believed that man's story doesn't yet know how wicked and heartless a human can be... It is well!
I hope this young girl gets the justice she deserves.. Her parents must not listen to any association of land Lords begging o.
The terrible things men are capable of doing to another human without remorse is becoming alarming. I hope the proper measure will be implored in this case.
ReplyDeleteKindly click
Ladies: Any which way, let the Man Wear the Trouser.
Na wa o. I said it in the first post,he has other victims. My supervisor in OOU English dept (stupid old man) asked me out,I got married b4 I came back to see him. (Everyone was almost through with project then sef) and I also lied about being preggers. He still made sure I failed the course he taught in my final semester. Thank God it was waived,but it affected my gp. God will catch all of them.
ReplyDeleteHelloooo ! Favor Onwuama abi Disfavor
ReplyDeleteI fell like crying for you right now for your ignorance
I graduated eight year ago, till today I still have my supervisors number
Nne you need to track him with his number
Are you among those that felt the girl was lying ?
*I cover face for all una in shame*
A man called- in in a radio programme (same Lecturer issue being discussed) saying the girl must have worn a revealing cloth.
I was hearing the voice of a rapist.... Felt like extending an E-Reality Slap to him
I sincerely prayed that at least one person will be bold enough to testify against this he-goat
Thank you Lord,
Imagine the litle girl struggling with him
This is soo good of you lady X. Rapist shud be given stricter penalties in this countries walai. I jst wish most women are like you lady X. You're one very strong woman and God bless you for this report. Thank God the bastard did not succeed with you. Thank God.
ReplyDeleteWonder when all the girls that went through such at Ekpoma will speak up. If this lady had spoken up while it happened to her the young eighteen year old girl and many others would have been free from the beast.
ReplyDeleteYou think it's easy to talk......you have no idea what this people go thru, the fear, depression , suicidal thots, stigma, lack of confidence.......etc.....
Deletestella post comments na, wetin happun?!
ReplyDelete@favour onwuamor, u have just displayed ur level of ignorance by dat question u asked. U obviously didn't get to d tertiary level of education and I doubt if u even made it secondary level because if u did u would know what it means to have a project supervisor and also know dat u need to exchange phone numbers in order to communicate. Did u even comprehend what you read?
ReplyDeleteGod has vindicated that poor child. Nigerian women please always try and support your own. Why would an 18year old girl accuse a 40 something years old man of raping her if he didn't ? Remember that there are three responses to fear fight, flight or freeze. To explain why she didn't run away, she could have froze from fear and this is obviously a sheltered child. This lady who has spoken was likely a lot older and could handle things better. let us bear in mind that rape victims are often seriously traumatised. I pray that God heals her broken spirit and make her whole in Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteMy course adviser frustrated me bcos he cldnt get between my legs,he made sure I graduated with 3rd class. He was also my project supervisor,it was hell! In Delsu, even in other naija university, student suffer it when they report randy lecturers to school authority.
ReplyDeleteThat's why victims shy away from testifying against dem.
God has vindicated that poor child. Nigerian women please always try and support your own. Why would an 18year old girl accuse a 40 something years old man of raping her if he didn't ? Remember that there are three responses to fear fight, flight or freeze. To explain why she didn't run away, she could have froze from fear and this is obviously a sheltered child. This lady who has spoken was likely a lot older and could handle things better. let us bear in mind that rape victims are often seriously traumatised. I pray that God heals her broken spirit and make her whole in Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteBaruwa, shame on you and your generations unborn, you have bitten more than you can chew now, plenty days they say is for d thief, let the proper authorities go all the way on this. Lady x God bless you for coming out.
ReplyDeleteThank you lady X.... May Mr Baruwa rot in jail. This should serve as a lesson to those lecturers who force students into sex.
ReplyDeleteWhen will they expose azenabor of philosophy department university of lagos state nigeria.useless SOB!thaat was how he almost raped me as early as 12pm in d broad daylight inside that cocoon he calls an office.wicked soulb
ReplyDeleteI was wondering when someone would call this guy's name. The last post Stella did about lecturers and this serial harassment brouhaha had his name mentioned severally.
DeleteI was doing one of his courses then and I was very awry of him after the comments I read here about him. A friend told mine about how he asked her to hug him and how is hand strayed to her butt. All these journalists please be useful now, investigate, do a story on these terrible people. Stop playing safe and lifting stories from blogs up and down.
Not only azenabor, falaiye nko????
DeleteOMG! I bought a bedspace on philosphy students's wing(Makama hall)& all the the girls talked about was Azenabor. Nobody had anything nice to say about him.he's a dog according to what they all said!
DeleteGod bless you Lady X for not allowing this wicked man go free. Weldone for speaking out. You are a strong Lady. As for this man his sin is finding him out. There is no peace for the wicked. Even if the lady gave him the come on that the father of the girl handed her over to him was enough for him to respect himself. Any ways, he's been caught.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, thank you for your courage. We only have a few people like u in this world who will stand for the truth anytime, any day. But, I don't see the date this letter was written. It only has in it the dates of the incidents. Any lawyer will contend this your letter in the court of law. Thanks for ur boldness!
ReplyDeleteYes oooooo!
ReplyDeleteLet their cup full and let them be shamed and disgraced.
E remain imsu lecturers
Those ones in social sciences, he-goats (mkpi)
Their turn go soon reach. Who knew it could be baruwa's ? Lol.
God don catch you this man. I pray he will be dealt with by the law.
ReplyDeleteThis shit happens in most universities. That was how my project supervisor also grabbed my ass in his office. I was so shocked and scared, I flinched. I went on fasting and prayers because of him and also never went alone to his office.
I ran an advanced diploma course in human resource management organised by Dr Obisi Chris. Sinc e 2012....The guy tried to be funny. I ended up leaving my result for him for fear of having any form of altercation with him. He is another randy he goat known by all. These things are real, sadly some ladies indulge to get higher grades and won't back you when u blow the whistle. Quite sad. I pray the 18 year old girl gets justice.
ReplyDeleteOne lecturer in dept of philosophy in uniport wanted to have sex with me n I refused. He ended up trying to use force and I screamed so loud he slapped. I told my bro in unical n he told me he'll take care of it thru his pals. Later this man called me n apologized. I had A in his course too
ReplyDeleteFor y'all doubting the girl. I have been in a situation similar to this before. I was 15years old. I had my jeans and panties on. While he tried to drag them down, I struggled so much and fought with all my might, even screamed to no avail. I received so many blows to my face until he successfully pulled down my jeans. God saved me that day as I was on the last day of my period. I had even forgotten, since I wasn't flowing, but my pad was bloodish red thou. He saw that, and directed his dick to the middle of my small boobs instead, then holding the boobs together, he thrust till he came. Dude came on my chest, and I threw up on the come immediately, as it was too disgusting a sight. I was a virgin. I could have been dis flowered just like that, nevertheless, I was molested and abused and deserved justice, but who would have believed me? afterall I went with him to his house on my own accord, he was my friend, or so I thought. We attended same jamb tutorials. To make matters worse, the guy was an albino. It is an experience I will never forget. I never told anybody, I was too embarrassed to say nada, plus I felt they'd all blame me for going to his house. I only told my hubby recently. If I ever lay my eyes on that dude again, i'll kill him.
ReplyDeleteLmao @the guy guy is even an albino... U for give am knockout or smash him glasses...him no go see again come begin rain him knockout blows
DeleteAlbino?? Na wa o!! So his vision was focused enough to see boobs and want to rape. He's a lunatic.
DeleteNne m ndo. Stinking albino, may your cup be full soon. Just talk to God about your hurt. Pray for healing. You will be fine. E hugs
DeleteSorry babes,thank God u weren't raped,that must hv bin a horrible experience. Wow
Delete@ Favour... You see how you decided to expose yourself to the world that you didn't pass through the university.. All project supervisors have their students number.. In the university your project supervisor is your best friend because project alone carry 5-6 credit unit and enough to push you from 3rd class to 2 2 if you score A in the project.. Most students are so close to their supervisor that they use their supervisors as one of the reference in the CV
ReplyDeleteHehehe @ nigeria bill cosby
ReplyDeleteHehehe @ nigeria bill cosby
ReplyDeleteHi Stella, I think you should do a post of abusive lecturers for students or ex-students to call them out. A name and shame kind of thing
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