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Thursday, October 15, 2015

October 15th Is Pregnancy And Infant Loss Remembrance Day

''Today October 15th is the pregnancy and infant loss Remembrance Day and that is why I have chosen to tell someone that they are not alone.....




I got married on the 1st of March 2014 and by April, I was already pregnant. What else could we wish for? Everything went so well and I did not miss any of my ante natal appointment. I was always so eager to go to the hospital. I downloaded almost all the apps in the App Store that relates to pregnancy and joined various forums. It was the best time.

I shopped nearly everyday that my husband stopped me from going to the city centre or any shop that sells children's item because, I must bring something home for. I couldn't wait for the baby to arrive.

October 23rd 2014, I noticed few movement and asked people in one of the forums and was advised to drink something cold and lie down ( I wish I had gone straight to the hospital) some said the baby was having a lazy day.

The next day, I did not feel any movement in the morning and went straight to the hospital. The midwife tried several times to find the baby's heartbeat on the doppler but it wasn't picking it. The look on the midwife's face is something I would never forget in a hurry. I was to have a scan done immediately and my worst fear was confirmed. There was no heartbeat!

My world crashed in front of me. I called my husband and sister to tell them the news. For the first time in 5 years, my husband cried. We all cried. I was induced and gave birth to a little girl, she was born sleeping and we called her Michelle.

January 2015, I tested positive again but it ended up in an early miscarriage. I'm still waiting on the Lord and His promises Deut 7:14 say "thou shall be blessed above all people, there shall not be male or female barren among you or your cattles.


If you've gone through a loss, you are not alone. God is working on you and we will hold our babies soon''.

BV Fehintola.


Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day is a day of remembrance for pregnancy loss and infant death, which includes but is not limited to miscarriage, stillbirth, SIDS, or the death of a newborn. It is observed annually in the United States and Canada and, in recent years, in the United Kingdom and in the Australian States of Western Australia, New South Wales and in Italy on October 15.
The day is observed with remembrance ceremonies and candle-lighting vigils, concluding with the International Wave of Light, a worldwide lighting of candles at 7:00 p.m.


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111 comments:

  1. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 09:02

    na everything get remembrance day now shey?

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    1. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 10:38

      And my aunt wants to abort her 6th child coz no money! Sigh

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    2. Emerald Bling NG 0806208740515 October 2015 at 11:16

      The reason behind Stella approving comments like yours on a post like this still amazes me. Can't u just read and pass? I pray such doesn't befall u because of it does, u'll remember the pain all d days of your life

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    3. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 11:36

      Dear poster please don't give up God will surely perfect His works in ur life I got married same year with u but around April 2014 and I didn't get pregnant once. I prayed, fasted, went from one hospital to another. Did several test to know wot was wrong with me but nothing. Today it will be yeast infection tomorrow it's staph, I was the poster on doctor's section asking for help on how to cure stubborn staph I got a lot of response but it didn't end there, my Bobby stop taking those drugs cos he was tired, I didn't give up I kept going to places even herbal remedies all to no avail. I decided to stop taking drugs and left my faith to God, two months after I gave up I fell pregnant now I'm almost 4months gone. God has been faithful and He never let me down. So dear poster keep ur faith God is still in the business of doing miracles He did mine he will surely do yours and those believing in Him for the fruit of the womb. Stella you are the best blogger I've ever come across, keep doing what you know how to do best. I'm so happy that God has put all my enemies to shame. So Rocking this pregnancy even with all the pain and nausea that comes with it, it's a blessing from God.

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  2. STARRY LARRY15 October 2015 at 09:03

    RIP to all the future leaders lost through miscarriage, BJ and wasted away through CDs




    *Larry was here*

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  3. Fehintola15 October 2015 at 09:05

    Thanks Stella for sharing my story. God bless all this waiting.

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    1. Monkey Face15 October 2015 at 10:25

      BV Fehintola, be rest assured that the good Lord will restore ALL you have lost.

      E-hugs

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    2. BLOGLORD (MVBM)15 October 2015 at 10:25

      Very warm hugs to you Fehintola. You will nurse your baby soonest.

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    3. Fehintola15 October 2015 at 10:29

      Those*

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    4. crazyHORNYwife15 October 2015 at 10:31

      I pray u birth twins in 9months to come! God bless your womb,Amen.

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    5. A GIRL HAS NO NAME15 October 2015 at 10:32

      God bless you ma'am for sharing..
      Don't give up yet, he has greater plans for you and your DH..

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    6. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 10:48

      It is well with you dear. You shall have double celebration of your children very soon,God bless you..

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    7. Lizzy T15 October 2015 at 10:53

      My prayers are with you ma'am, you would share your testimony soonest.

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    8. STARRY LARRY15 October 2015 at 10:53

      Before the year runs out, you will be pregnant with twins and they will be yours forever Inshallahu




      *Larry was here*

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    9. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 11:11

      The Lord is your strength and you will hold your testimony by August nxt year

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    10. Emerald Bling NG 0806208740515 October 2015 at 11:17

      It is well with you, the Lord will give u beauty for your ashes and your children shall rise up and call you blessed in Jesus name

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    11. Unknown15 October 2015 at 11:33

      God has a plan for you, double for your losses and pain...To every woman TTC, God never sleeps,hold on tight!

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    12. Ammie15 October 2015 at 11:41

      It's well with u dear
      U'll carry ur bundle of joy soonest
      God is working it out

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    13. Chinus15 October 2015 at 11:56

      It is well with you Fehintola. I had two still births and one miscarriage after waiting several years to conceive. But today I have a boy and a girl, to the Glory of God. He will do it for you too. Cast out fear , hold on to His promises.He is the God of all Possibilities.

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    14. Dolapo15 October 2015 at 12:08

      Fehintola, it is only one who v gone thru this would understand ur post. I got married 2012, conceived immediately but lost d pregnancy in 2nd trimester, I almost died. Few months again I conceived n same thing. The shame and reproach was so much, sex turned to 'work', I became so scared of life, always crying especially when I see babies. I thank God 4 d support system I have. When I took in d 3rd time, I turned myself into 'egg' so delicate. Every morning I prophesy to my baby using some scriptural verses reminding God of His promises, at midnight I pray with psalms 27. Got a very good gynecologist who diagnosed me of cervical incompetence, I avoided sex all thru d 9 months. My beautiful gift from God is about 7months old now. I'm so filled with praise when she smiles at me. No be easy journey o! My sister u will surely breastfeed urs IJN, AMEN. #1st time commenting#.

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    15. Ivie Fortune15 October 2015 at 13:41

      Hi Fehintola,
      Your pain cannot be described only felt, and I must tell you I felt it once. Sept 14 last year, I lost a set of twins at 27 weeks born by force because of severe bleeding, born alive but died due to inadequate neonatal care. We had been in the Lord's waiting room for three years.

      No day goes by that I don't think about them, they were identical boys, although not identical twins and my hubby buried them with his hands.
      God feels your pain too and he will compensate you the way he compensated me. While I grieved, I had already conceived the most beautiful child on earth. I found on Christmas day 2014, my last minute miracle. Even though the devil tried to mess with me again, I went into labor at 6 months, God led me to the right place and eventually she was born at 39/40 weeks, a healthy 4.33kgs!
      He will give you beauty for ashes and turn your mourning into dancing!
      Thanks for remembering all the Angel babies, your Rainbow baby is on the way! Amen

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    16. Unknown15 October 2015 at 15:17

      it is well

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    17. Nmasinachi15 October 2015 at 15:34

      God will bless our mothers and intending mothers. I have two amazing friends, waiting on the Lord for the fruit of the womb, and I pray God visits them soon. Stay strong bv , His words are Yes and Amen.

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    18. Anonymous16 October 2015 at 02:44

      I share your pain dear, suffered almost the same fate.I conceived immediately I got married, had my son @ 6 months through CS, lost him after 2 weeks.It took me 8 painful months to conceive again, followed by a miscarriage @3 months (after being told there was no baby in my womb)but today, i'm a proud mother of a 4months old cutie.Just hold on to God,hold on to His Words, and believe His promises.He will no doubt remember you and cause you to rejoice just like he has done for me.

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    19. Topaz Interiors And Exteriors16 October 2015 at 07:05

      I went thru similar situation few months back. Had my last baby thru Cs bcos of hbp, I never knew it would still be an issue hereon. I took in this year, hubby and I were so happy that he named d baby immediately. Little did i know! Oh well I can't recount the experience cos it happened 2 months ago, n d pain is still fresh.
      I pray my baby comes back to me soonest!

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    20. onyx17 October 2015 at 23:11

      I lost my seven months pregnancy last August. Went to work on Friday and by Sunday morning it was all over. Worse day of my life......affliction shall not arise a second time in Jesus name amen.

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  4. Glorious Child15 October 2015 at 09:06

    It is well with you Feyintola, you shall carry your young and every other women believing God for the fruit of the womb too. Don't give up, your miracle is on the way. Amen

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  5. praise15 October 2015 at 09:12

    Lord almighty bless ur children wt the fruit of the worb.(Bless them wt their own children)

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    1. Fittight quadcore15 October 2015 at 11:38

      Women and wahala. Why should anyone create such a remembrance day, a day that holds no happiness. NA wah oh

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  6. RICHBEE15 October 2015 at 09:20

    This is so painful so sorry for your lost madam
    God will answer your prayer and give you a miracle that will shock you

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  7. BLOGLORD (MVBM)15 October 2015 at 09:29

    It is well with everyone TTC,
    It is well with everyone who has painfully lost and/or buried a child and for all those preparing and anticipating motherhood.

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  8. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 09:39

    Infant loss. Abortion follow this category o! Although that one na willful murder
    I wonder how those who have committed abortion sleep at night!

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    1. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 11:33

      had 6, i sleep as well as anyone. i dont even think about it, i have asked God for forgiveness and more importantly i have forgiven myself. no regrets, no pain , i dont even remember it. people need to learn to move on from unpleasant events.

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    2. lagos is my home15 October 2015 at 15:08

      A whopping 6 ....some people play with fire . Isnt it easier to be on contraceptive ?
      Pls biko take it easy

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  9. danny fisiye15 October 2015 at 09:48

    aiit






    #GODWIN™

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  10. danny fisiye15 October 2015 at 09:48

    aiit






    #GODWIN™

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  11. danny fisiye15 October 2015 at 09:49

    aiit






    #GODWIN™

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  12. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 09:51

    Thanks for remembering our lost babies , lost my baby too early this year on his due date , after 9 months of pregnancy my baby was born still,with no apparent cause, my husband too cried for the first time , it was sad , I thank God for keeping me this far and I hold on to his promises that it shall be well, I held my. Baby, I took pictures with him it was devasting and sad but whenever I remember his kicks and everything , I always smile. Happy rememberance to all our babies that couldn't we love you and we can't wait to see you all on the last day in heaven

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    1. tres belle!15 October 2015 at 10:27

      sweet little flower of heavenly birth, you were too fair to bloom on earth....
      BigHug for u darling. It is well with you'

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    2. A GIRL HAS NO NAME15 October 2015 at 10:28

      God will visit you soon dear anonymous with a baby of your choice..
      Don't give up..

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    3. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 10:50

      It is well dear. Hugs...

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    4. STARRY LARRY15 October 2015 at 10:55

      By this time next year, you will be bless with twins by God



      *Larry was here*

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    5. Monkey Face15 October 2015 at 10:56

      So sad!
      E-hugs dearie

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    6. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 12:06

      Amen thanks for the prayer

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  13. Lady Port (The Portress) a.k.a Mama Bomboys15 October 2015 at 10:04

    It's been a while that I cried while reading a story, this brought torrents of tears to my eyes. O! I pray for all those seeking for the fruit of the womb, may their wombs carry bear fruits and bring them forth hail and hearty In Jesus Name

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  14. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 10:05

    Hmmm. March 2012 I lost my baby girl at birth.... the pain is still there and I always wonder how how grown she must be if she had lived. love u baby... forever and a day

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  15. Lilly15 October 2015 at 10:09

    And the girl was born sleeping....and she was named Michelle. This brought hot tears to my eyes. May God replace ur loss with multiples.

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    1. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 13:02

      Poster my baby's name is Michelle! Oh lord, I shouldn't have opened this post.e-hugs

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  16. SEXY MOTHER Is here....15 October 2015 at 10:10

    Sad story...
    God will bless you with your own dear, it will happen sooner than you think.

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  17. Kween BEE (the satisfier)15 October 2015 at 10:12

    The lOrd has answered you, it iS well

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  18. Nora Nelson15 October 2015 at 10:12

    Oh Lord thank you for the gift of life..dear poster,God will do it for you.
    I almost lost my baby when i was 5 months pregnant..Premature labour started ,i was rushed to the hospital..on getting there,the contractions increased..i was given all manner of drugs..antibiotics,Terbutaline and magnesium sulphate..i almost gave up..i cried,prayed,and was just thinking to myself..how can this baby survive at just 22 weeks..God bless my husband..he was there with me all through,praying and crying with me..
    And just like that,after 2days,the labour stopped..i was still scared..i was in the hospital for 3 weeks and was discharged.
    Then at exactly 34 weeks and 4 days,my water broke. The doctors were still scared that she may not be able to breathe on her own. But I believed that the God that has kept her from that 22 weeks will perform a miracle. And He did.. My babe came out screaming at the top of her lungs,weighing just 2kg.
    Today is her birthday. She's the sweetest kid ever..so so beautiful

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    1. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 13:04

      Awwwwwwww happy birthday to her,she shall live to fulfill her destiny and you shall be called blessed of her amen

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    2. Nmasinachi15 October 2015 at 15:37

      happy birthday lil one.

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  19. Child of grace15 October 2015 at 10:14

    Eeyah, some of us that are mothers should be thankful to God even though things are hard, wen u see ur children, u will be relieved. May God answer all those that are TTC.

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    1. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 12:24

      Honestly I was thinking same. We complain so much of what we don't have and forget to appreciate God for the things that come to us easily. I pray for any woman TTC today, the Lord shall visit you with the fruit of the womb and you will carry your child full term. IJN AMEN

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  20. Nora Nelson15 October 2015 at 10:15

    This is so sad

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  21. Nemerem15 October 2015 at 10:16

    Fehintola you and your family will have no cause to shed such tears again. You shall conceive and carry to full term and hold your babies, they shall grow to make you proud.

    Miscarriage and loss of infant is a very painful experience. RIP little angels.

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  22. Faithful15 October 2015 at 10:28

    Fehintola and Anon 9:51, ur stories made me sad, Anon, u mean u took pictures with him after delivery? Oh dear! God will take pity on u and give u both ur own children.

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    1. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 12:22

      Yes dear I took pictures with him , I have his finger prints and legs print , it meant that I had a baby , it wasn't an imagination but he was a being that was too beautiful for the earth thanks

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  23. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 10:29

    i'm grateful to God for the opportunity to be alive today and I looked back into ten years of marriage without live birth (two miscarriages and two stillbirths).
    it all started when i got married in 2005 ,a month after the wedding ,I got pregnant and my husband was elated but our joy was cut off after when I began to see blood at 12 weeks and that marks of the pregnancy. Three months later I took in again and at 28 weeks I gave birth to a premature baby boy which the was taken to be put in the incubator but unfortunately the nurses at LASUTH(Ayinke)decided not to do their work well.i gave birth to that baby in the night and in the morning I was told to go to neonatal ward in order to get breast milk for the baby and on getting ,I tried to check the name tag on the babies but couldn't find my own surname and I then went back to the nurse and she came to help me check and couldn't find my own baby ,by this time the night nurses had close and it is the morning nurses that are on duty ,the morning nurse went back to get her records and she told me to go and call my husband and that was how I lost the baby. After the incident ,someone advised us to go to a teaching hospital before another pregnancy, we eventually went to OSUTH and various test were carried out but nothing was found wrong but was told whenever I'm pregnant ,my cervix will be tied(Sdirodkar operation) .
    I got pregnant the third time and I followed all instructions but at six months I began to have pains and was admitted and at 8 months and 1 week ,I gave birth to a baby girl and lose the baby again, all these happened within the space of two years after marriage and after the incident I took ill to the extent that it is God that brought me back to life. Then i went to seek for spiritual help but I saw hell in the hand fake prophet, spent money and waste time, but early the year 2015 that i'm not going to go anywhere again if God want to give me a child, He will give me in his own time and in July 2015 ,I discovered that I was pregnant but lost it at 6weeks but the confidence I have is that ,He will remember me and give me the one that would abide. Above all my husband has been supportive.


    BV SHALOM

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    1. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 12:24

      Am so sorry for all lost, this is so devastating, may God answer you soonest ,

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    2. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 12:28

      I'm so sorry for your loss darling. Never give up, though it tarries just keep waiting on the Lord. SOON you shall testify. God bless you.

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    3. BlogProf15 October 2015 at 12:41

      You have gone through a lot. Please,go native. Use herbs

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    4. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 12:48

      Amen . I love your faith . Pls ask your doctor to prescribe cyclogest for you as soon as you confirm pregnancy. Also try and rest and be more prayerful when next you conceive. The good Lord will give you your own babies soonest . Remain blessed

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    5. Unknown15 October 2015 at 13:00

      Jesus christ!!! All this pains for just one person may God answer you speedingly I'm in tears right now after reading your story.

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    6. The General's Wife15 October 2015 at 14:19

      Eeeeya
      Ur name is Shalom and it shall be manifest in ur life.
      Remain still and know that HE is God.
      Sending u warm hugs darling.

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    7. Nmasinachi15 October 2015 at 15:43

      Wow You have been through so much Shalom., and I pray that God will give you double for all your heartbreak. It is difficult to have faith in some situations buy your unwavering faith in Him will cause Him to favour your home roundabout. Stay strong.God bless you

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  24. sewa15 October 2015 at 10:30

    Hmmm it is well ooo.my friend also had a miscarriage yesterdai.a miscarriage that was deliberately caused by her fiance.God wuld definatley punish him .and I wish my friend quick recovery. U r nt alone deaar.

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  25. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 10:33

    you got a chance to meet her,I wasn't lucky enough becos of my health state. its almost two years.its always painful looking at his/her mates.I couldn't even attend the first birthday of his/he
    r mates.RIP beloved.

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  26. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 10:33

    you got a chance to meet her,I wasn't lucky enough becos of my health state. its almost two years.its always painful looking at his/her mates.I couldn't even attend the first birthday of his/he
    r mates.RIP beloved.

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  27. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 10:34

    Lost my first pregnancy last year at 4months, lost my second last two weeks, went into preterm labour at 26weeks and gave birth to a tiny baby boy....Baby lived in incubator for 13days before he died. Such a sad experience, I'm praying for a miracle soon

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  28. tres belle!15 October 2015 at 10:35

    how very softly you tip-toed into my world,
    almost silently and only a moment you stayed.
    But what an imprint your footprints have left upon my heart.

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  29. Presdani Mummy15 October 2015 at 10:37

    God will surely bless you and all the women that painful lost their babies, and all that her believing God for babies. With a shocking testimonies. In Jesus name Amen.

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  30. Presdani Mummy15 October 2015 at 10:37

    God will surely bless you and all the women that painful lost their babies, and all that her believing God for babies. With a shocking testimonies. In Jesus name Amen.

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  31. chinenye15 October 2015 at 10:37

    I remember all the miscarriages I ve had. Its too painful to discuss but im still hopeful dat God will do for us dis time so that his name will be glorified. Im yet to namr them. May their souls rip. Mummy loves u all now and always. I knw u angels wanted to stay but the demons in ur father's compound refused but I thank almighty God that d devil has lost the battle. U will always be in my heart

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  32. Presdani Mummy15 October 2015 at 10:40

    As Today is my Birthday and I bless God for this day and celebrate my day. You all shall be celebrated sooner than you know it. In Jesus name.

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  33. OMALICHAC15 October 2015 at 10:45

    Hmmm RIP to little babies lost. For those TTC may the Lord bless you all and answer ur prayers soon with babies that u will carry and smile to daily. For those pregnant, I pray that after the whole journey you all shall rejoice and laugh with ur babies alive healthy and sound in Jesus Name Amen.

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  34. adetee15 October 2015 at 10:50

    Hmmm,God bless the soul of ny unborn child,lost him/her March 8 2014 at 10weeks, I blamed myself for working too hard and the hospital for making me go home tho I was still bleeding but they kept saying everything is fine only for me to be rushed back...no one understand the pain except God,He alone can heal the pain, am happy I have a Cute Boy now who wiped my tears away.. I pray God heal all broken hearts with Wonderful and Blessed Children..the Lord will Perfect All that Concerns Each and everyone Reading This..

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  35. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 10:58

    This story brought the memories flooding back.
    I lost three babies (2 boys and 1 girl), all still birth.
    Today the lord has wiped my tears, am a mother of three kids (2 boys and 1 girl). my eldest is now 15 years.

    The lord who put a smile on my face will do same for, just hold on to him.

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  36. Kayanmata (NATURAL APHRODISIAC) D623C11B... 08120062969...Order now! 15 October 2015 at 11:02

    Amen to your prayers,Fehintola

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  37. Capoditutti15 October 2015 at 11:08

    My baby died too after birth though I couldn't get d chance to hold her cos i was under anesthesia but my husband held her& I nearly died cos after 9 months of pregnancy I couldn't hold my baby girl. I became pregnant for the second time & I had a miscarriage after the 3rd month. Am still waiting on d Lord for a Miracle. RIP to all infants lost during and after pregnancy.

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  38. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 11:09

    I can relate to this story, I had a still birth in 2007; this was two weeks prior to my EDD, February 2009 I had a miscarriage. Glory to God who works in ways we can never understand, we are blessed with a boy and a girl, my son is almost six and my girl is three.

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  39. Unknown15 October 2015 at 11:09

    Oh dear!got me emotional,God will bless you and every woman ttc with the fruit of the womb..

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  40. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 11:12

    I wil hav 2 go anonymous cus am well kwn gan ni, Here is a story of my baby nd I, I received d swtest result of my lyf on march 11 2015 dat I tested positive 2 d pregnancy test I did I was so hapi dat I culd'nt wait 4 my fiance 2 get home b4 tellin him,he was vry hapi abt it dat we wasted no tym in tellin our families d gud news. As BV fehintola said I also dwnloaded different apps relatin 2 pregnancies nd babies,signed up 4 news letters on my baby's development, always eager to go 4 my ante-natal classes, did scans nd it was durin 1 of d scans I was told my baby was a boy,I was vry hapi includin his dad cus dats wat he wntd a boy. Our introduction preparation started cus I dnt wnt 2 giv birth out of wedluck nd my baby was growin day by day also dat I neva missed my routine drugs. Then d unfortunate tin happend dat made me stil cry 2day, I went 4 ante-natal as usual nd I was given my normal routine drug with ante-malaria drug (laridox) nd of which I was negative 2 malaria wen I did d test buh d wid-wife gave evrybody dat is 6 months nd above so far u av startd feelin ur baby's kicks witout d prescription on how we ar goin 2 use it cus I took tatanus injection dat day,so wen I got hom I jst took all d drugs as usual + d ante-malaria drug few hours later I saw a mucous lyk discharge on my pant buh I neva took it crious den d nxt day I was havin dis stomach pain n I told my fiance he said I shuld find sumtin 2 eat I now told him dat am nt hungry dat d ache is more dan dat he said I shuld go nd complain @ d clinic which I did nd I was given anoda injection 2 subside d pains nd antibiotic drugs so after d injection d pains reduced only 4 it 2 return d followin day nd by den I was already seein water cumin out dat I had 2 use pad 2 hold it den I went 2 my neibour who is a nurse she was nw d one who said I shuld go nd do anoda scan 4 her 2 knw were 2 start frm cus I dnt wnt 2 go bak 2 d clinic cus dey wil wnt 2 bring my baby out nd I dnt wnt dat so I went 4 d scan nd dey confirmed 2 me dat evrytin was ok buh d pains no be here I swear to cut d long story short I was in labour truout saturday/sunday witout me kwnin all I kwn was dt I culd'nt slip so around 5 am on sunday july 26 2015 I went 2 anoda hospital only 4 me 2 b told dt dey will hav 2 bring d baby out since d water am seein did nt stp witin 24hr 2 avoid bin infectd dats how dey forceful opend my cervix cus its stil closed 2 bring my baby of 6 months out buh he was stil small nd culd'nt mak it accordin 2 d nurses dat deliverd him,my hubby cried 4 d 1st in 4 yrs dat we've bin 2geda,dats hw I lost my baby cus dey said I reacted 2 d ante malaria drug so I shuld avoid it in my nxt pregnancy which am stil lukin on 2 God 4 nd I kwn he's goin 2 ans me vry soon cus am meant 2 birth my baby dis Nov. Sorry 4 d long story nd pls bear wit my typo erros cus am in tears as am typin it.

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  41. asdalittleangels 15 October 2015 at 11:22

    We lost our identical male twins at 5 months in September 2013 to preterm labor.................worst moments of my life. It almost destroyed me and almost cracked my marriage. I do not wish my worst enemy this sad experience. You really never stop grieving and you live in fear for the next. However, I held on to and trusted in God. At the appointed time, I took again in May 2014 and in Feb 2015, God completely wiped away our tears and replaced it with joy; he blessed us with another boy.
    Even till now, I can't say I've completely gotten over them, It still hurts and sometimes I wish could have them back, I sometimes wonder how they would have looked presently, how big they would have grown. But God knows best and I am grateful for where I am.
    May GOD bless all couples trying to conceive, may he open up their wombs, may he grant them supernatural conception, supernatural pregnancy and supernatural delivery. Amen.

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  42. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 11:34

    May God compensate you dear.

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  43. Unknown15 October 2015 at 11:35

    May God visit you @Fehintola. I have lost a baby before, no word can describe the pain. God has consoled me with a wonderful baby boy, may it be so for you dear poster, amen!

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  44. Goddesss of Dawn15 October 2015 at 11:49

    Fehintola!
    The Lord is ur strength and will see u thru
    And u shall laugh last
    While waiting on the Lord pls do not hesitate to try some fetility drugs too prescribed only by ur gynecologist
    And also vitamin E is good
    They help
    As Heaven help those who help themselves
    U re blessed

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  45. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 11:51

    I gave birth to a beautiful girl in 2013,she didn't cry at birth but later did after 2hrs omg she was so beautiful and I was overjoyed but my joy was cut short midnight d following day her breathing woke me up,she gave up while d doctor was looking for her vein..rest on my beautiful girl your sister is doing so well

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  46. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 11:53

    I missed my period on May and i registered immediately in a hospital for ante natal. We have already done our traditional marriage and our white wedding was fixed on Sept. I had no spotting neither was i sick. I took all my routine drugs, fruits, vegs and food. I even asked my fellow bvs to direct me where to buy clothes in Lagos cos my mum came visiting. Two weeks before our wedding, i went for ante natal and i was told there was no heart beat. It was a very painful experience; i wept for days. I was already 5months and i was induced, i delivered my baby. I tried as possible as i can not to look at my baby cos i would be miserable if i saw the baby. Iam very strong by His grace and i know that God that gave me the previous will give me double. I still remember everything and cry at times but i try as much as possible to be strong. So poster, you're not alone. One thing am sure is that, i have many children. Am so going to relax and enjoy my marriage and wait on the Creator. Chi Austin.

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  47. Unknown15 October 2015 at 12:18

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  48. starjoy15 October 2015 at 12:24

    Yes poster wait on the Lord, He will do it very soon.

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  49. MamaZeus15 October 2015 at 12:30

    May God comfort and heal everyone going through this phase... and May he put a smile on your faces... a lasting smile. Just as God has blessed my friend, I use her and Zeus as a point of contact to everyone believing God for a child. Amen.

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  50. UJU15 October 2015 at 12:42

    My heart broke reading all your experiences. i pray that almighty God will bless ur wombs and u all shall conceive in Jesus Name. Amen.

    Father i am sorry for all my sins. After 4 abortions with my bf(now hubby). we got married in Nov 2013 and got pregnant in Dec 2013. No sickness, No vomiting, No weakness rather hyperactive. i even worked till my edd. *Faithful are u Lord, all creation call u Lord, worthy is ur name.....(singing). when i got home after work, i noticed blood stain, hubby took me to hospital. after one day of labour, the Dr suggested CS. i gave birth to the most handsome boy thru CS. he is one year plus.

    God is merciful, in spite of all my sins He choose to bless me.

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  51. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 12:48

    Oh Stella, all these stories are making me cry. May God bring joy to all.

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  52. yemmy15 October 2015 at 13:00

    I can neva forget April 12th 2014 I lost my wonderful son,he was 5month 2weeks ....I miss u son even though I neva get to meet u RIP...still hoping on God for anoda baby

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  53. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 13:21

    If you are having recurrent miscarriages, test for antiphospholipid antibodies.

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  54. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 15:14

    I know this is somehow not related to the post but today made it one year i lost my aunt, she died two days after giving birth to her 2nd child leaving behind two sons, hers was as a result of high blood pressure when she went into labor, she had to give birth to her baby through CS immediately after the operation she fell into a coma and we lost her after two days. Her boy turned one on the 13th of this month, very happy child with a healthy appetite, but he has refused to eat since sunday, not like he is sick or anything. Sometimes i feel like he knows this week is the anniversary of his mom's death. I miss you sis uju, you were like a sister to me.Continue to rest in peace.

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    1. Unknown15 October 2015 at 16:09

      So sad, may her soul rest in peace. Please take good care of the little one.

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  55. Anonymous15 October 2015 at 15:55

    Got married Nov 2011, I waited and waited to be called a Mother, went from one hospital, lab or another, did so many test, took both herbal and English drugs, it affected our finances and at a time it seemed like nothing was working for us. In July 2014, things got so bad both financially and otherwise that I told DH that there was no use for us to be together anymore that if by Dec 2014 I was not still pregnant, let's honourably go our separate ways. DH is a man of Faith, he told me we would not part ways. In Sept 2014, I missed my period, oh what joy I felt, I went tru nine months very healthy, no vomiting, no cravings, it was all perfect. Had a normal delivery on the 28th of June 2015, She was such a beauty, could not believe that it was my baby that was so beautiful, the next day the complications started, she was struggling to breath, then Jaundice came from nowhere, and her blood could not be tested as it was not clothing....... So much happened that day. Imagine after so much celebrations, the good news of her birth had already circulated, then at about 10pm 29th of June, my beautiful angel returned back to our Maker. IT IS WELL WITH ME!
    From BV Bulor

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  56. Eka Joy15 October 2015 at 20:39

    I shouldn't have opened dis post. I avoided it like my life depended on it but since Stella refused to post comments and new posts I had no choice. Worst mistake I've made today. I can't stop crying.


    Bv fehintola, it is well with u, u shall carry ur own bundle of joy. Same goes to the rest of u. I'm so sorry about ur predicament.

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  57. PD Young Billionaire15 October 2015 at 22:59

    I remember my dear Oluwaniyitosi today.I lost the pregnancy at 5months,saw the baby move but he was just no more.It was a very devastating experience for me.
    Thank God I am blessed with two adorable kids today.

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  58. PD Young Billionaire15 October 2015 at 23:54

    It is well with you Fehintola.You will soon be a mother.Try and read 'Supernatural Childbirth'...a book by Jackie Mize.It will help you a lot.All the best dear!

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    1. Fehintola16 October 2015 at 13:26

      Thanks dearie, I have the book and was blessed by it. I have given it out on this blog as well.

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