Chronicles Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

Hmmm why do things like happen?

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'THE MORNING' AFTER HE ATE THE COOKIES....

Good day  Stella please i'd like this to be posted in the Chronicles and  I beg to remain anonymous. I am a young 25year old lady from Delta state,I  have parents who have always screamed out loud that we end up with Catholics since we are die hard catholics and this has made me give preference to Catholic guys.

 During the Easter period I finally got to be offered a seat by one of my crushes in Church his name is A.O  and is 31.I have always seen A.O as a very religious person,calm and someone i could spend the rest of my life with,we got talking and he later opened up that he would be travelling out of the country at the end of the year and wont be back till after two years but he promised that before he travels he would make things right.

The relationship started up pretty fast  despite the fact that i knew he was in a relationship with a girl who everyone in my house claim they see him with at church functions but I think I was gullible to have believed that A.O preferred me to his girlfriend and was done with her,  he told all sort of stories about the girl always keeping to herself and how he regrets not meeting me before her,he promised heaven and earth. 

Few days after I said yes to him I travelled down to Enugu hoping to get a job there ,while I was in Enugu this guy could call me like 6 times in a day,chat me up till like 3am,send me love messages accompanied with songs expressing his love. He planned to come to see me like in my third week in Enugu since I had no plans to visit Lagos soon but something came up and I had to be in Lagos earlier than expected.Everything went on smooth till I visited Lagos and went to see him and he ate the cookies o,I didn't plan to have it that soon buh i did.


In the evening of that day after the gbenshing,I noticed great changes,I was no longer addressed with any kind of pet name,if I don't chat up he won't,when he calls he acts like he is in a haste,he changed drastically and at a point stopped calling and stuck to just watsapp conversations,was indeed a great transition .

I kept making possible reasons for him that might have brought up such changes buh it became worse,I had to voice out o then he began saying I complain too much,he called raising his voice that if I didn't have anything to say I shouldn't chat him up and that point I knew he was nothing but a player.Just yesterday he chatted me up in the morning said we needed to talk on getting to his place, there was no reasonable talk all he wanted was sex.


Finally when I got home he sent me a message saying the relationship isn't working and how he was sorry to have made me see him as what he isn't.I thought I was dreaming and I picked up the Phone to  call to confirm if he actually wrote all those to me and  when i did he said we needed to talk,I warned him silly never to call me or come near me but the truth is I am very pained and wondering how a guy would act so well,he would be a great nollywood actor I swear.

Please  Stella ,I am in a serious shock right now and I do not know how to get over this because I would always see him in church every Sunday.



*Hmmm every girl has a heart break story but its very important to move on when it happens so that your chronicles can give someone strength....

i can imagine how the heediot played on your naivety even at your age....It was so obvious all he wanted was to open the cookie jar.
At least you have learnt your lessons right?
Make a resolve not to let anyone use you as foot mat again and pick up whatever is left from the ground...

Oh don't stop going to church because of the wall gecko,Just ignore him and ask God for strength...don't let him chase you away from Church or God.
he will still come back when he sees you can cope without him,oh yes the devil will send him to break down your bridges again but don't even communicate with him for now, block him on all social media and delete him where you can...

what else?...You will be fine!