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Friday, August 04, 2017

Heart Breaking Story As Shared By Woman Who Being A Mum Has Taught A Lesson.....

Oh My Goodness.....This is not the kind of story you will read and walk away from....It contains life's lessons.....I love kids so much and this broke me and taught me the lesson passed across...Love is blind!









When we found out I was having a baby girl, I was so excited and started planning her whole life out in my head. Dance schools, gymnastics, modelling etc. All cute things that little girls do.


And to top it off, my best friend proposed to me, taking the next step to making our family one! Life was looking up and I couldn't have asked for anything more. I ate all kinds of healthy foods, drank the best water, Google was life and avocado became my best friend lol.


The day came on 3.15.2017 at 5:34am after having labour pains for almost two days. It was a natural and easy birth and God blessed me with a beautiful baby girl - Kensley Ayanna. But I noticed something.. it was a big lump under her left eye and her eyes were swollen. I asked the nurses and doctors I saw that day and everyone told me it would go down, not to worry about it.


But I pressed on because I wanted her to open her eyes.. to see me and her dad. The next day we were hit with heart breaking news. "We didn't find any", is what they said to us. My heart fell to my stomach. My fiancΓ© broken like never before. In an instant it pulled us closer together. With my mom by my side, they helped me to be STRONG. I had no other choice. It felt like a dream.


My baby girl has a rare genetic disorder called Anophthalmia (born without eyes). Like what? Why me? Why her? But I soon realised what was best for her was me and what was best for me was her! Today I no longer have those questions.


God makes no mistakes. During ultrasounds she would cover her face or turn her head because she was meant to be here. I will treat my daughter as normal because she is normal. A healthy baby girl who has the advantage of not seeing the ugliness in the world the way I do. To meet and love someone for who they are, not what they see.


To surpass all limitations and expectations. Kensley will have to work a little harder but yes, I will see to it as her mother that NOTHING stands in her way. For now my eyes are hers and I will show my daughter nothing but love.

40 comments:

  1. This is heartbreaking....i love the mother's faith and strength

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  2. She's beautiful 😍😘😘😘😘

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    1. Look at those smiles

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  3. Of all impairments, I think being blind is the worst. But I know they are very intelligent, very sensitive and very deep. Nkiru Njoku daughter (Tinsel's screen writer) has the same condition. May God never give us loads that will be too heavy for us to carry, amen.

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  4. Awwwwwww
    Your eyes are hers... this broke me😒

    Be strong Darling. Remain strong.
    See her beautiful beautiful baby smile.
    And the unseeing eyes soo beautiful too😒

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  5. I felt pity for her when I read it yesterday...
    May God help her...

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    1. Beautiful baby! Even without the eyes

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  6. She and her husband are quite strong, especially to have kept that baby alive.Not easy raising normal,healthy kids not to talk of a blind baby.Dem really try.

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  7. It's a sweet bitter story! Some times, things we never expect happen to us.
    I wish her strength cos is not easy taking care of a child with a special need.

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  8. wao! my heart melts while reading this. the love of a mother for a child is so unexplainable, such unique, you can't just fathom. being a mother has helped me understand a little of how God loves us. may God grant you the strength to keep pushing To you give your daughter the best life she deserves. I can imagine your pain. so heartbreaking. keep being strong

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  9. Jesus Christ! I'm touched. Kensley is really beautiful. God bless the mother. She's so strong

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  10. wow.... this touched me. God knows the best ma. just take care of her.

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  11. This breaks my heart...And I feel for her but I guess God knows our strength and allows some things.....God please bless her with more courage and strength

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  12. Oh my God!God bless you pretty baby you shall be known for great things.Amen

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  13. God, please forgive me each time I don't appreciate what you have done for my family and I.

    I now understand why its usually said in all things give thanks,cos some people with more challenges are still thankful.

    God bless this beautiful girl and keep her parents alive to protect her from the evil and wickedness of this world. I'm so short of word right now.

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  14. When I first saw the picture on IG I thought it was Photoshop so I just scrolled past till I saw it again and read the write up. God bless the parents and give them the grace to bring up the child.

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  15. May good God give you strength
    Issaiah 35:5 must surely apply in your life!

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  16. OMG this is so touching. A very beautiful girl. God bless her

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  17. I don't mean to be sensitive. The world is beautiful as well as ugly. We choose the side we want to see. When I saw this story yesterday, I told God not to do this to me. If He does, it's euthanasia for me. I can't bring a child into the world to suffer. It's not fair. Not fair at all. The baby's condition made me shed tears so bad. She doesn't deserve this.

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  18. 😒😒😒 oh my....

    This broke me. Beautiful girl

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  19. Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars4 August 2017 at 12:40

    God can give her new eyes. He reverses the irreversible. Because He is God. Just desire it. And keep confessing.

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  20. This is heartbreaking .This is hard! it is well,A true definition of God knows best

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  21. LOVE..
    Pure, unconditional, unadulterated, satisfying.
    No scars to her beautiful.
    She was born to see the world differently,everything about that baby is BEAUTIFUL.

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  22. God will give u d grace to take care of ur baby girl in Jesus name Amen

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  23. I serve a God who makes a way where there is none. Yes! I trust so much in my God. Baby girl and mother, fear not. Remember the stories in the Bible? They are real. God will open those eyes! But importantly, God's will will be done in this angels life. 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

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  24. Oh God. My hands are shaking. But God tells a child to hold nkapi will surely give her water to wash hands. God will see you through.

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  25. This is huge......God is a miraculous God,He makes A WAY WHERE THERE SEEMS TO BE NO WAY, call on him and believe am sure He will turn Kensley's story around. It will end in praise IJN. Ma'am may God renew your strength and bless you with all that you desire for pretty Kensley. Lahbee

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  26. Our family is going through the same phase of life but ours is deafness a healthy boy of 1 who could talk suddenly took ill of an unexplained sickness and could not talk till date he is 3 now I long to talk to him and listen to innocent questions but to no avail we cry day and night and prayed but it's the same God knows best we will enroll him in a deaf school., but I believe the God we serve will someday surprise us because he has never stopped been God and he wasn't born like that

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    1. Start teaching him how to communicate via Sign Language. Your entire family needs to learn that too.

      This woman already got Braille materials for her baby...They are ready for the future.
      I wish you all the best. And I know God will definitely do it.

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    2. God is your strength. Continue to live your child unconditionally

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    3. God is your strength

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  27. I saw this yesterday I even dreamt abt the baby I was just so worried then I remembered there is a God in heaven and there is nothing I repeat nothing he can not do this baby won't be blind forever it just a matter of months now she will see.

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  28. Miracles still happen, God will do that which only him can.
    I like the mum's disposition towards this
    it's a waste of time to sit and brood over what you can't change when you can change your mind and perception that a seemingly heavy burden becomes light and almost none existence

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  29. What a beauty, she is destined for great things. God bless you and your whole family

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  30. This broke my heart. God that has given this beautiful daughter to you, will give you the wisdom and strength to be all that she needs to have fulfilled life.

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  31. God will direct her WAYS.
    Beautiful girl your miracle is on the way.

    Woman you are Strong!
    Hang in there. God still answers.

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