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Monday, February 17, 2020

Man Sends Wife Packing 2 Years After She Was Raped By 4 Thieves In His Presence

This is the kind of story nobody wants to be theirs.............
This is horrible.............














Nobody should curse out the man...They both needed help when this happened to be able to understand and deal with this but they didn't get any support and he became bitter.....
If only they had gotten help
What a pity!

69 comments:

  1. he is a stupid man , May Fatima find healing n peace, rather than show her love n understanding knowing she is passing thru hell n what about d trauma, May God never hv mercy on him

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    1. Its easy to rain curses on the man, cus you ignorantly assume the wife was the only victim that unfaithful night. The man must have been "psychologically & emotionally raped" also, the pedestal he placed his wife on has been brutally shattered right infront of his eyes by 4 heavily erect phalluses, thats a serious blow to any mans mind, leaving severe psychological trauma that'd last a lifetime, even Dr.Phil can hardly save that marriage.

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    2. He even struggled with the mental torture for 2years before the base couldnt hold and the marriage crashed like a deck of cards, dont be too quick to insult the man.

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    3. His wife was raped so he tortured her some more. Good man!

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    4. Macbeth, there is a shift that has to happen when we assess men’s responses to issues. If we are not elevating the ego of men as very delicate and not to be tampered with, we are excusing men’s penises as not being able to think rationally so it does what it wants!
      Can we just accept that men’s misplaced sense of ‘deity’ leads them to do stupid things at times, and the society they are living in permits and excuses them? Whatever you think the man felt that night, step back and consider what the lady felt!
      Don’t ever accommodate bullshit!!!

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    5. Wehdone Macbeth. He struggled so much with the trauma that he beat his wife who was already the victim traumatized right in his presense and drove her away, meaning he blamed her for her ordeal. You guys are funny. Of course it would not be easy for any man to face that, but his reaction shows the stuff he is made of. So no, I'm not cutting him any slack.

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    6. Don't be so quick to pass judgement on the man oh. Its not easy to see your with fe being raped and you not being able do anything about it. The fact as gleaned from the divorce case filed by the wife has it that the armed robbers told the woman she was being raped because her husband was messing with the wife another rival politician,a story the man denied vehemently in court. The man was beaten black and blue by the robbers and forced to watch the wif being raped. The sheer helplessness of the man on that day. The wife said the man changed towards her thereafter,refused to sleep with her,give her money for her kids upkeep and was mean to her. The man said it was the woman that stopped sleeping with him and blamed him for the rape based on what the robbers told her. You can Imagine the psychological state of both parties and the effect it would have had on their marriage. Guilt,blame-games,anger,grief etc and I bet they didn't go through any counselling. probably tried to hide what happened from other. I just pray they can both weather this storm and heal,even if not as husband and wife...as parents for their kids. It is well oh.

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    7. He should have divorced her right after the rape than adding to her hurt and humiliation!! You think the woman didn't also go through mental rape? The Man is very stupid!! Why didn't he stand up to defend his wife since he's such a Man?? He had no excuse adding to her pain by beating her........



      Rubbish something!!!

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    8. 14.56, so it was even because of the man’s indiscretions, that the woman was raped!

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    9. Useless man with zero conscience. This one was going to leave anyway and got the perfect excuse he had been waiting for.It is one thing to stop sleeping with her, to be traumatized but why would he stop providing for his wife and children? Wicked man.

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    10. He is also a weakling for beating her.

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    11. Thank you mystic. The wife was tortured so he decided to torture her some more. The way women have turned the male who into a mini-god. If she had left him for his philandering, you would have said it is for better for worse. Now that he left her for suffering the consequences of his unfaithfulness to her, she should kneel and worship his ego.

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    12. Your are irreparably stupid. If you don't have a meaningful thing to say, just shut up! In spit of the advise from Stella, you still have to make this mumu comment. Rape is a big emotional trauma for both parties, the result of which can be anything from stigma, abuse, divorce and even suicide.
      Like Stella said, they didn't get the deserved help and that is the main crux and not your stupid, very stupid, very very stupid judgmental comment.

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  2. I really do not have the right words to say. I feel for the woman

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    1. Stella i will insult him, he is a wicked soul, he would have simply sent her packing, why beat her? Why subject her to worse?

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  3. I armed robbers rape your wife, shouldn't you be the one to first encourage her and the both of you will seek help?
    Rape is wickedness. It was not the woman's fault.
    We don't know the details but the man that loves a wife that respects him won't chase her away when she needs him most.
    Except it was his opportunity to remove a nagging and overbearing wife which is common among wives or if the woman was "enjoying it". I say this because there has been a case where such a lady while quarreling with the man told him that the armed robbers did it better than he does. What women can say with their mouth eh?
    😮😮

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    1. Yea, there was one I read on this blog that happened along Benin Lagos expressway.
      The woman that never had orgasm throughout her marriage moaned and orgasmed
      thrice while three armed robbers took their turns right before the husband. The marriage ended just there.
      Why don't the robbers take monies (since the authorities aren't catching them) and leave the women alone?
      Evil men.

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    2. Still doesn't justify beating her..

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  4. Stella, you're so humane!
    I know some people would just cuss out the man, without understanding the psychological state they have been put into...
    How I wished they got helped on time

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  5. Nobody should cuss out the man??
    The woman was the victim here that have to live with this traumatic experience...
    Too bad that the man that promised her "for better and for worse" could not help her to get out of the phase..

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    1. Marriage is a scam that’s why

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    2. @12:20
      And you are always looking for "scammers". And when they aren't forthcoming, you write chronicles to
      lament that you are "not getting any younger and there are no scammers to scam you?"

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    3. Who adheres to "For better & For worse" in this age? Even churches no longer include it in the wedding vows, cus theyre aware of the implications

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  6. Stella, please stop making excuses for the man. What about the innocent woman who was raped?! Not only does she have to live with the trauma, she also would lose out financially especially if her husband was responsible for her upkeep. What about future prospects for marriage especially as the news is public.

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  7. Women always losing out in everything. She's the one who was raped yet she's the one who was constantly beaten by the husband who should have been her biggest support and thrown out of her matrimonial home.

    And Stella is telling us not to curse out the man. Na wa o

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    1. And they came because he was messing with someone's wife? Hmmmm women have suffered.

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  8. My marriage didn't survive too. Sadly it was my then husband that opened the door for them. It's been years but I still can't stand sex. I've re-married and all but sex has been an uphill task. The only time I let go is when I drink almost to stupor. Rape by armed robbers??? The worst thing!

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    1. May God heal you body and soul in Jesus name Amen

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    2. 12:34 I pray God heal you from the trauma.

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    3. Please seek therapy. This isn't something that will go away on its own. Because the next stop will be alcoholicism and that is devastating as well. What happened wasn't your fault in any way. I speak healing on you and yours.

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    4. May you find healing in Jesus name. Please you have to let go for your own sake. Seek help please. Hugs to you as you consciously take the right steps towards healing. Read books too. They can help. especially Joyce Meyers books. She was raped for years by her own father.

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    5. I am so sorry this happened to you.

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  9. But he deserves to be cursed, what if she commits suicide as a result of this. I feel for the woman, raped and rejected by her husband. This is too much.

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    1. On a scale the woman has doubly suffered compared to the man. She faced trauma from the thieves, then trauma from her husband. May God save her.

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  10. The man should also be raped to know how it feels. Radarada

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  11. horrible. this thing called male ego ehn., it's a very strong force. not even men can understand the strong hold it has on their decisions. just pray you marry someone that loves u so much that he can learn to let go of ego for that love

    this man's ego was hurt and he couldn't stand to see men violating what he used to enjoy. it's sad really.

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  12. Nigerian men and insensitive as ever

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  13. Stella what do you mean by no one should cuss the man. Mtcheww! She needs help more.

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  14. Tomorrow now if the woman commit suicide due to depression,they will start calling devil.What do you gain by putting someone that is down already in a more hurtful situation. The husband is so wrong in everything. He can't stand it,then is it the raped wife that can?.May God help this woman at this critical situation she finds herself.

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    1. Amen. The things women overlook men can't even smell it.

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  15. What if the robbers were gay n took turns on him? Would she divorce him? She wouldn't.

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    1. Then he would have remained married expecting the wife to sympathise and nurse him to health. Which she likely would have done, covering his ass, making sure no one knew such happened.

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  16. Foolish man,for better or for worse
    Clap for yourself sir,both of you should gone and gotten help or agree on separation not you sending her packing...nonsense.

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  17. No Stella, he deserves to be cursed out🙄 he's a wicked and an insensitive piece of shit. Did he by any chance consider the trauma his wife has to pass through these past years, or he thinks she enjoyed the rape? What happened to standing by his wife through thick and thin, rather than subjecting her to more torture by beating and eventually disgracing her out of his house? It's even possible she must have chosen to go through the rape instead of the husband to be killed. Writing that he shouldn't be cursed out is uncalled for mbok.

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  18. Hope he also punishes himself for failing to protect his wife from the arm robbers?

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    1. He no even reason am like that.

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  19. Stella biko he is wicked, no sympathy at all. I pray if he remarries his new wife make a cuckold of him. Idiot!

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  20. For me the problem is not even that he ' sent her packing', its that he was beating her for 2 years after she was raped. Just imagine how terrible she would have felt. It is well with her. May God take control

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  21. They are both victims of the rape but the woman moreso because her abuse was physical, sexual, psychological and God knows the other levels. I can't imagine how emasculating and distressing it would be to watch as four men take turns with your wife while you, the man of the house and head of the family, watch on helplessly. You can never be certain of your reaction until you find yourself in the exact situation, God forbid.

    He might be sending her away out of shame and guilt. It may also be that each time he wants to be intimate with his wife, he has flashbacks of the horrific assault. The poor lady, on the other hand, may not want any form of intimacy. It's so sad because Nigeria is not a country where victims of sexual violence get the treatment and help they need. They are left to deal with the trauma the best way they can, which is hardly adequate.

    Stellz, insulting the man would be unnecessarily judgemental and counterproductive. Isn't it better he lets her go than to keep her trapped in a loveless and abusive marriage just to keep up appearances? True, we expect our partners to stand by us and be the pillar when our lives are falling apart but that isn't always the case. Maybe the marriage wasn't even solid in the first place. This is truly demoralising. I honestly pray both parties find peace at the end of this misfortune. I hope the lady isn't driven deeper into depression by this divorce. OMG! What a sad sad story! May God heal their broken hearts.

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  22. This is very unfair to the woman. She sacrifices herself for both of them to live. what if she refuses and the robbers killed him.The man is a follow come ingrate.

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  23. Pls,if the woman is reading this,she should not bother herself. The man has only shown how stupid and unreliable he his.He his the type that will lace his wife with magun and be sleeping around.Coronavirous fire him.

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  24. What if some members of the arm robbers were to be female and they compel the man to sleep with them will his wife divorce him? This is inhumane on the man part. I can imagine the kind of psychological torture he has be melting on that poor Woman since 2 years ago.

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    1. Or even gay and rape the man.. Will the wife divorce him? Never. She will be expected to understand and do long suffering with him. Mtschew

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  25. This story just reminded me of how I was raped by 2 armed robbers in my apartment back then when I was in the uni......words are not enough to express the hurt and trauma I went through.

    I was struggling on how to cope and my then boyfriend sat me down and begged me to tell him all that happened during the robbery. I broke into tears, he comforted me and assured me that he will be with me no matter what. I opened up to him about the rape, he talked to me, showed me care more than the way he used to. He practically helped me overcome the trauma. He is the only one I told about the unfortunate incident. None of my family members knows till today.

    I thank God I had him in my life at that time. I'm just wondering what I would have turned into. Genotype didn't let us get married.

    But I hold him dear to my heart for the sacrifices he made to see me through that traumatic phase.

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    1. I'm so sorry about what happened to you. I pray God heals your mind. Amen

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  26. stella, no no. Already on the defensive; for the man. The question is, if true, why subject to physical assault? it clearly shows the type of man he is. what a shameless fellow. rape or no rape

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  27. So if four men had anally raped the man and forced him to perform sex act on them in the wife's presence would it be right for her to leave him? That's why I don't get bent out of shape when men get raped by other men because until they feel the violation themselves they do not understand what women go through.

    If this man could not face his wife anymore then he is the one who should have left the home and go elsewhere. Why should she be made homeless because of his internal issues.

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  28. Please armed robbers I dey beg Una,because I know some of you read this blog don't ever rape or molest women ever again,face men,the head of the family. Yes I said it.

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  29. That man is the lowest of the low. He even beat her up for 2 years on top of it all. To think his infidelity and adultery caused the rape in the first place. If I were the wife I will organise for men to rape the bastard anally. Then he will learn a big lesson.

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  30. Stella should we rather applaud him for subjecting his wife to more emotional trauma? That man is callous and insensitive, he failed as a man to protect his wife and instead of seeking help for the wife and himself he resorted to beating and disgracing her. I pray the next woman he marries become a thorn and his karma. Wicked man

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