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Wednesday, June 03, 2020

Reality Star Khafi Says She Was Raped And Explains Why She Did Not Report The Crime...

Oh Dear,Khafi was also Violated!

I still dont get why some men have to force it......








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    1. This her own rape get as e be sha. Side eyes to the gist

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    2. Anon 09:29, your comment is exactly why rape victims don't tell anybody and why they feel dirty and ashamed. Hope it never happens to you.

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    3. Mine raped me during my nysc days and next thing I knew I was pregnant. The next 30 days were the hardest of my life, cos I kept contemplating if I should abort the Baby or not. Somehow I found out I was bonding with my unborn baby, I would cry and just wished the circumstances it came to be conceived were different.

      Finally I made the decision to remove it because I couldn't bear to have anything to do with the idiot stupid boy for life. Still shedding tears as I type, I feel more pain about the baby than the rape itself. Always had this feeling it would have been a boy!

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    4. 09:29, exactly what we expect from people like you. If you can't empathise with or feel sympathy for, please be quiet.

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    5. Me too. The idiot disvirgined me. It happened long time ago before GSM but still very fresh in my memory. I was 19-20 yrs. I went to look for my friend who was living with her sis in his brother's house (does that make sense?). My friend wasn't at home, next thing, this he goat dragged me as I turned to leave and forced his way through me. So sad I couldn't tell anyone. It still hurts till today. I'm sure I will stone him if our paths ever cross again

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    6. Anon 9:29' people like you make it harder for rape victims.

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    7. Anon 9:29, is the story supposed to be interesting? Statements like yours are why most rape victims don't speak up.
      Anons 9:56 and 10:24, so sorry you went through that. I hope they pay for their crimes, no matter how long it takes.

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    8. Chaii, healing to each and every one of you, so sorry about what you Queens had to go through, you guys will be fine trust me❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹.

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    9. 9:56 and 10:24,

      GOD bless you both.

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  2. Waooooooo this is serious 😳😳😳😳😳

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  3. Wow....this rape issue is worrisome.

    Those rapists are beasts from the pit of hell. I wish there will be a death sentence for them.

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  4. But I thought she is a virgin? Sorry about that Khafi, this rape of a thing is just tiring. God help us.

    It's getting too much.

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    1. Anonymous Personified3 June 2020 at 09:10

      She never said she is a virgin but was celibate for about 8 years before the BBN show.

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    2. That means, I'm not wrong then. I was wondering she said something like she is a virgin or so.

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    3. U pple v come again ! Wats wrong with yal! First so u think virgins r protected or wat? Second she boldly stated during bbn that there was a time she was addicted to sex.

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    4. She said celibate not a virgin.

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    5. Thanks Anonymous Personified. I was wrong then.

      @Unusual Amy. Calm down, I only asked a simple question.

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    6. Sonia, it's very okay to ask questions. No one, knows it all. But when your line of questioning is unreasonable, then it throws suspicion on your motive.

      I am sure that if she had said she was a Virgin, she will not have come out to say she was raped. Though, you can be raped anally, yet remain a virgin.

      Having said this, Khafi said she was celibate. You may wish to check the meaning for further clarification. And let's not always rush to comment.

      Thank you.

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    7. Sonia, there is nothing "simple" about inferring that a person is a
      Liar. We talk and write so loosely in this part of the world because no one is holding us responsible for the lives we ruin. Shame on you.

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    8. Anon 10:29 and Anon: 10:38. Make una no vex pleaseπŸ™. I thought she said during the show, she was a virgin. And that was why, I was surprised to see her post talking about rape.

      Rape is a very sensitive issue and I don't have any motive or whatsoever to call her a liar or something. Let peace reign pleaseπŸ™

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    9. Anon 10:29 and Anon: 10:38. Make una no vex pleaseπŸ™. I thought she said during the show, she was a virgin. And that was why, I was surprised to see her post talking about rape.

      Rape is a very sensitive issue and I don't have any motive or whatsoever to call her a liar or something. Let peace reign pleaseπŸ™

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  5. Eeyah. It's sad. It's well with you Kaffy.

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  6. If we take count of females that have been violated one way or the other ehnnn, the number will give heart attack 😣πŸ˜₯

    Abuse is soo taken for granted, that some guys think that it's a passing rite.
    So πŸ˜”

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    1. If you even take account of how many times a person is raped. you say no, the force themselves on you using all force then aplogise and pretend to make you feel you are in a proper relationship.

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    2. Rape happens everyday o.

      Young guys are being raped and abused too. The day I stumbled on a post on Facebook. Jesus!

      See men telling their truth. I was so shocked cause I had no idea that these kind of stuff happens to boy child too.

      The approach of people towards rape, how they blame the victim made it what it is in our world today. People are always afraid of talking because of stigmatization and blames which could even lead to depression.

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  7. Rape! I was almost raped too while in the university years back. I will never ever forget the experience. The man changed,his eyes became red and he looked very changed and wicked immediately. Infact,na my God saved me. I think theres a spirit behind rape!

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    1. This is serious o ooo. How did you escape?

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    2. Exactly there is a spirit behinf it ...

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    3. I agree with you totally. In my Uni days too. This guy was my friend. Or so I thought. Like play like play, he changed and was forcing himself on me even though I kept shouting for him to stop. He pinned me down and the energy in him was like that of eight men. He transformed right in my face. Every vein on his forehead was standing. He didn't listen to me anymore. Thankfully, an admirer of mine who was stalking me knocked on door. He said he just had a gut feeling to follow me when he saw me follow him to his house. That was my saving Grace. Two to three minutes later would have been too late. I felt my life, my virginity, flash before my eyes. I was scared. Infact, humbled, oppressed. I was shaken. Shocked at his transformation from my friend to an animal. In just about five minutes. Rather than be bold and stand up to him, I felt weak, powerless, molested, used, oppresed, even though I still had my full clothes intact. All I wanted was to get away as quickly as possible. I fled. What I'm saying is, he got away with that. That's how he would have gotten away with the actual rape too and I would be to scared to call him out or report him. Not especially in Nigeria where the victim would still be victimized.

      Emmanuel Iseseghe, that's how you would have broken me too if someone had not knocked persistently cos he ignored it at first. When a woman says no, she means NO.

      Lesson learnt though:
      * I was lucky
      *Not every girl would be as lucky
      *Therefore, girls, please stay away from any situation or circumstance that might predispose you to rape.
      * Don't trust any man
      *Don't lead them on, then say no. Although, here in the abroad, even if a lady pulls her own panties and then says no... Infact, even if you were about to come and she stays STOP... Hmmn... I don't need to finish that statement. But back home in Nigeria, you ladies need to be extra careful. Don't lead men on and then turn back. Some of them are animalistic. I remember I may have led him on a tiny bit by following him to his house but C'mooooon!!! So eff what?! I shouted NO. I refused. I pleaded. I fought. This was in broad daylight, my people. But apparently he had put the sound system on very high volume knowing full well, his plans. Some men cannot control themselves. Ladies, use your head.
      * I thank God I wasn't and have never been raped. He would have done it if not for that 'God-timed' knock. How would I feel reading this post now?

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  8. U would never understand unless u hve been a victim of Rape. Most times I breakdown & feel very emotional wen I come across news abt Rape. My heart goes out to every victim of Rape both Male /Female ♥️♥️♥️.

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    1. I pray they get better because it's not a good experience at all

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  9. Khafi sorry about the pain you must have gone through,no one deserves to be raped.

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  10. Stop shaming victims of rape
    Stop enabling rapists
    Stop giving silly excuses like, "she was provocatively dressed" a woman has a right to dress what so ever way she wants it's her body so it's not your business
    Stop using, "I was drunk" as an excuse, ni**y you've always been a rapist and always wanted to rape her
    Stop asking silly questions like, "Why was she outside that late" ni**y you stay out late and women do not robb, rape or kill you so stop using that too as a reason to rape women.
    There is absolutely no reason why any woman should be raped, let women live and breath without fear bikonu.

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    1. Exactly what I'm talking about Chisom. Stop shaming victims, stop giving silly excuses.

      How can someone say that any victim of rape wasn't a decent person. I saw this stupid post on Facebook and it was coming from a family man o.

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    2. @Chisom, exactly, shaming and blaming them. What about the lil girls that get raped? Do they dress seductively? Do they follow boys to their houses. When she says stop, STOP. There's no excuse for rape. No means No. Any rapist caught should be castrated.

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    3. @Jessi,Sonia and Candy, exactly my sisters✌️✌️❤️.

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  11. He raped you and you blamed it on alcohol???

    But it didn’t happened where you live sha because I know they will never let go of a rapist if you had reported.

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    1. Alot of people blame it on alcohol

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    2. Don't mind the lieing rapists, of all the things to do in a state of drunkenness, it's RAPE that crossed your mind?? How would that be possible if you've not been a rapist or targeting to rape her all the while?? Bloody rapists everywhere.

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    3. Stop blaming the victim they have gone through enough already without people like you making insensitive comments about what they should have done, what they shouldn't have done and when they should or shouldn't have done it.

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    4. Aproko Queen,

      Please take a minute to read her post and other posts like this before you comment next time.

      Did you read through at all?

      For victims, anything and everything becomes a way for them to process the intrusion.

      Especially if it's someone known to them.

      I am pleading with everyone, if we have nothing pleasant to say to these victims, let's be quiet. It's hard enough as it is. Let's not make it worse.

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  12. Control your dick or cut it off

    real men will never hurt a woman not to think of forcing himself on her no matter what, real men seek consent and take NO for an answer.

    To every lady who has passed through one ordeal or the other and can’t say anything but each time a post or comment is made about any rape case, you are traumatized in a way or the other, am sending you light and love and pray you get healing from a pain you don’t want to ever remember or think aboutπŸ˜˜πŸ™πŸΎ

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    1. The Original ShugarGirl3 June 2020 at 09:56

      Thank you Isaac for standing up for ladies especially the victims of rape.

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    2. I feel such men are game less, coz there are many babes looking for sex and all. Why force ur self, are u woe-less, or what. I'm tired

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  13. 17years and the nightmares is still there

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    1. It's well dear,may God heal you of every hurt it has caused youπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™ sending you strength,love πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜

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    2. So sorry dear, indeed you are a supermom.😘😘😘

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    3. Super Mom, GOD bless you.

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  14. Lord have mercy!! This is sad☹️☹️

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  15. So sorry dear, it most have been difficult, sending you lots of πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€— n😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

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  16. The things women go through, it's really sad.

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  17. Its well..I was to but wont go into details,its really truamatizing,takes years for one to heal from it,i just thank God for where i am now emotionally..#saynotorape

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    1. So sorry mummy A, may God continue to grant you peace.

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    2. It is well sorry mummy A

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    3. Mummy, GOD bless you.

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    4. I am so sorry about that experience. You will continue to heal from it. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  18. I'm tired of seeing this rape issue trending, it brings back sad memories tbh.
    Looking at everyone posting about it this past few days is just doleful to say the least.

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  19. Until a very scary law like death by hanging as punishment for rapists is created, Raping will continue. This ungodly act has been on for ages but no serious action taken. Once the rapists are shown no mercy, these cases will reduce drastically.

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  20. Alot of women have been raped,but the fear,blame and shame wont let them speak out.. How sad

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  21. I was almost raped 10yrs ago by a married man where I went for a job interview.This man almost killed me so that I won't expose him..how I escaped is still a misery to me.The trauma you face afterwards can put u in a really bad shape am talking from experience.

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    1. The Original ShugarGirl3 June 2020 at 09:58

      The Original ShugarGirl June 2020 at 13:35
      I had a near rape experience, it was traumatic.
      I wished the person death. I wanted to kill him myself, if I knew I knew how to.
      I hated myself.
      I felt depressed and unclean.
      I could not talk to anyone for so long.
      I couldn't eat.
      I couldn't sleep.
      It was someone I knew, he played the guitar on campus fellowship services for a particular Pentecostal church.
      It was hard, I attacked him one the day I saw him close to hall1 and he was shocked.

      God saved me that day after I said a brief prayer. That I believe is the only reason he failed at his attempt.

      Girls never visit a guy in his apartment alone, never. Trust no man.
      The effects of what might happen/go wrong are better imagined.
      You don't want to be there because it might be too late to turn back the hand of time.

      #SayNoToRape

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    2. My goodness na wa o

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  22. Ooh dear Khafi sorry for what you went through in the arms of that rapist.
    #saynotorape #saynotobyforcesex #mynoisno

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  23. Mine was close to it... But God saved meπŸ™
    I ran for my dear life...
    Only for the heediot to call and start claiming right... Because I told him he owed me an apology for trying to force himself on me... Uncle refused oh.
    Was now telling me to explain how he molested me😢😢😢
    I just cut him off immediately.
    Couldn't tell anyone except my bae because she's the only one who would listen to me without passing judgement...
    All the same I'm grateful to GodπŸ™
    Because I keep telling myself what if he had raped me, what would I have told my parents?
    It is well oh πŸ™
    No one deserves to be forced to do something against their wish😩

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    1. Am sorry dear pls forgive him. Men need to do better

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  24. I was violated by a relative when my brothers and I were taken to the village to stay with my uncle in the early '80s. This is someone on his sick bed (he later died).
    Oh I was so young (can't remember my age but I was in lower primary class in school). I didn't know what he was doing but I knew it wasn't right. That act really messed up my life sexually and I always curse him in my heart anytime I remember.

    This is first time I'm letting it out after so many years. I pray I find closure.

    #saynotorape
    #justiceforuwa
    #justicefortina

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    1. AnneK, GOD bless you.

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    2. I remember sec school, my guardians old father, if not for God , and I was barely 10. She doesn't know why I stopped her from being my guardian.

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    3. I am so sorry 😭😿

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  25. 15 years and still haven't healed. That's one pain one will have to learn to live with.

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  26. I almost got rape by my sister's husband when I was young around age 13... Thank God he didn't succeed what would he have said to me and till date I didn't inform my sister

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    1. Aww sorry u need to find courage and tell your mum or any respected adult. He may still be doing more harm to other ladies. May God give you strength

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  27. I am using this medium to tell the ladies abt. SELF DEFENCE. Learn more on Self Defence. IF you start seeing/downloading wrestling scene, commence it right now. Don't let anyone destroy your future/life. One of MILLION things you CAN DO in the process:
    Seem to cooperate with them(it lowers their guards). Fake it. Let them LIE YOU DOWN stresslessly. Focus and sharpen your mind on hurrying to HIT HIM ON HIS GROIN. This time with(all the strength, power, energy) you HAVE IN YOU. This would create a scene to be sorted out first. FIND/SENSE all means to abscond. Throw any FOUND OBJECT you SEE to DISTANCE THEIR APPROACH. Learn more on SELF DEFENCE. God bless.

    #Covenant

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    1. Wat if they ain't one nko? For example, if them b 3 with knife n threatened to kill u if u move or say anything even after ,wat would u do?
      Even if u go to the police dey won't answer u unless u come from a rich family.
      So my sister e no easy oo n its a thing u will never forget wen u fall victim of rape

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  28. Few weeks ago, a little girl of maybe 10 was raped in my area.
    And I saw people protecting the rapist.some said the little girl enjoyed it that was why she didn't scream. Some said what took the little girl to the guys house, they all stay in the same compound. Others said if he raped her, how come she could walk properly.
    I almost wept as a good number of people saying this were women. As a matter of fact, one of the women said one other neighbor stole something and they let him go, hence they should let this one go too.
    As I speak, that guy is still in that compound, roaming free with loads of other young girls staying there

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    1. Find a way to send thugs to deal with him.

      A lot are covering for rapists but with social media I think things will change

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    2. Women enabling, defending and protecting men in their crimes is a major reason why men confidently commit some certain crimes especially rape.

      There have been stories of mothers blaming their daughters and protecting their husbands and boyfriends knowing fully well that their husband and boyfriend is molesting or raping their daughters and they turn a blind eye to it.

      A man will hardly support his wife abusing his children but why women support and protect men who abuse their children beats me.

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    3. Most people shaming the victims are women,and this is sad. I still stand by this, any rapist caught should be castrated, others will learn.

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    4. Tufia to d pple in dat compound, poor girl

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    5. 😱😱😞😞

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  30. Buh dis khafi story get as e be, can a single guy without being armed rape someone? What happened to ur mouth , did u even try screaming... Na I wan do I no wan do be this... Not rape biko

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    1. People like you are the reasons alot of victims do not speak up. Pray never to be in that situation. #shame

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    2. Wow! You're so dense to think it's only armed men that can rape a woman. Your brain is so little.

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    3. Chinwe, as a fellow woman you say this. Most rapist do not need to have a weapon with them before they can overpower a woman.

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    4. "can a single guy without being armed rape someone?" just see the rubbish you typed up there. I have no words for you because what I really want to say to you will not be approved.

      Then you went ahead to finish it with "What happened to ur mouth , did u even try screaming... Na I wan do I no wan do be this... Not rape biko"

      Are you a woman or an animal?

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    5. Have you been in this situation before, if not just shut it

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    6. You are a fool. An ordinary man is stronger than an average woman ya fokwa. That's how my friend boasted while we were in school till it almost happened to her... But for the rapist neighbour she for hear am.

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    7. Chinwe, I'm sorry darling but you are a disgrace to that name "Chinwe" can a single man rape a girl without weapon you ask?? I pray you don't fall a victim, I will also beg that you change your circle of friends as you sound timid as f**k. I know I sound so rude to you but you don't want to imagine the trauma and annoyance you just caused any rape victim that will read that disgusting comment of yours.

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    8. Thats just my own opinion and u all r free to think wot ever d hell U want... If I haven't seen cases like this then I won't say it

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    9. This CHINWE eee, I don't insult people but I'll make an exception. Your iberibe is on another level. Imagine the nonsense you opened your gutter mouth to spout and also claiming right about it.

      I had a near rape experience and it was only God that saved me. I know the trauma I passed through even though the guy didn't succeed, not to talk of a person that experienced the rape itself.

      I won't wish for you to experience it, to know how it feels cos you may just not survive it. My only prayer is for you to open your eyes and ask God for forgiveness for this nonsense you said.

      Stella, please please post. This just messed up my day.

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    10. Chinwe please kindly apologise. Yes! you are entitled to your opinion but only those that aren't bereft of common sense.

      "When someone is wrong and get called out yet they still prove adamant", I forgot to add this to one of the traits that irritates me when stella asked yesterday. I know a lot of people on this blog do this all the time when they say something wrong and they go like" I said what I said, deal with it, my opinion", and all that childish display of wokeness. Please don't be like them. You should apologise.

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    11. Chinwe, check your brain, something is missing.

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    12. What an unfortunate way to waste a brain.

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    13. Congrats! Attention seeker oshi

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  31. So sorry to all who have gone through that.

    May God Almighty heal you all from the pains knowing we have animals who parade as men in our midst.

    Why people don't report is because of how they will be shamed. You go to station to report, police will blame you.

    It is well.

    Ladies please be carrying pepper spray in your bags, you might need it some day

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    1. Thanks my darling.πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  32. I have had near rape experience three times but God always saved me.

    I noticed they're all d same like red eyed and violent when about to carry out the evil.

    I ws also molested by a mature guy neighbor my mum sent me to deliver a message to when i ws little, but thank God he didn't penetrate me.

    Men with sick mind are everywhere.Pls mothers be free with your children and be vigilant.

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  33. So sorry khafi, a lot of people has gone through this be it Male or female, mine was even those around me then. Thank God for his grace. Parents we need to be careful of those around our children, be it their aunt,uncle or friends, a lot is happening.

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  34. I can totally relate to your story khafi

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  35. Rape victims do not speak up for reasons best known to them. Mostly because of "who will believe me". As a kid in primary school, i think primary 4, i was sexually molested by my step dads bro. There was no penetration, but he always rubbed himself till fluid came (back then, i didn't know what that was). He also asked me to rub his dick. This went on for years. I hated it, hated him more, but i could not tell anyone, i was a child. My saving grace was he stopped coming around. I only opened up about this for the 1st time to my then boyfriend, his response was "for you not to report it, it means you were enjoying it", dude, how was i enjoying it, I WAD A CHILD. That was the end of that relationship, and me talking about it.

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    1. Don't worry my twin. God Almighty will give you your divine husband who will carry your matter ike gala seller.

      Good you left him. He is a buffoon

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    2. Amen my darling twinny. 😘😘😘😘

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    3. Amen my darling twinny. 😘😘😘😘

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    4. An understanding man will find you. It was not ur fault! ❤

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  36. So when I first met my wife, she was always scared of me...always avoiding me. I tried asking her out and she always ran.

    After 2 years of pursuit, somehow she gave me a chance at being friends. And that was how I got to know she lost her virginity to another "friend" who she cried and pleaded with to stop. But he didn't.

    Listening to her tell me her story amidst tears, I bled in my heart and still do whenever I remember that story.

    I have made it a point of duty not to insist when she says no, lest I remind her of who she's forgotten.

    Till now, I wish I could see that beast and hurt him like he did her.

    I wish she never had to experience that

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    1. 5 years and 2 children after, that story is still fresh in my mind

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    2. Thank you for stand by her. Na Man you beπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

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    3. Hmm..this post brought back bad memories to me, something I never shared with anybody.
      The woman I'm staying with right now saw me in the village when she came to visit her pple (I shared my story with u all some months back) she saw me and decided to adopt me..God bless this kind woman for me.so she went back to her base after promising to make arrangement for her cousin to bring me.The D day came, I and d cousin left d Villa,I was so happy to leave.instead of traveling straight,this guy said we'll stop at his friends place cos he wants to pick up something not knowing that he wanted to rape me. I started suspecting his moves wen he suddenly begin to talk to me nicely.we got to d said friends place,b4 I knew what was happening friend disappeared.he locked d door and start to undress,I became scared.he said I should cooperate cos he's doing me a big favor.tears started flowing from my eyes.when he pounced on me I shouted for help lucky for me d friend gf came.she started shouting thinking it was her bf with another girl.hmmm my God was with me.
      Throughout our journey I didn't talk to me.when we reached he was begging me not to tell the woman.Even now whenever he visits I stay far from him.

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    4. Please you all are free to lay curses on them.

      Do your midnight prayers and call their names and say whatever you have to say to them, it will surely be done.

      God Almighty has given us authority to use.n

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    5. Yes, i support laying curses on them, the wicked must not go unpunished.

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    6. Thanks @SUCRE. It's not easy. When you have to face the reality of being acting like a person you don't want to be.

      It's not easy walking on egg shells

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    7. Thanks @SUCRE. It's not easy. When you have to face the reality of being acting like a person you don't want to be.

      It's not easy walking on egg shells

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    8. You are a good man! God bless you!

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  37. Khafi I pray you find closure

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  38. I am 37 and I still can't get over the experience I had when I was much younger in my early teens. My father molested and abused me sexually for years and I was so afraid to speak up and also owing to the fact that he threatened to kill me if I told anyone. I went through hell over and over again. Gosh.... Eventually my mom found out and all hell broke loose on me of course. My mom blamed me for tying to seduce her husband, called me all sorts of names, said I was a husband snatcher who went to seduce my father and trying to break her home. I was maltreated and beaten severely, my siblings too took it out on me and stuck to my mother's sides,my mom went ahead to tell all who cared to listen that I was a prostitute and my aim in life was just to jump from one man to another and live a loose life, she even cursed me.... And for goodness sakes I was only a child who knew nothing. How about when my father's siblings heard about what he had done? They turned a blind eye to him and all faced/attacked me. My aunt took it upon herself to go tell all my friends that was a bad girl who was seducing and sleeping with her father. Everyone avoided me. Meanwhile NO ONE attacked my father. I began to hate myself and ask God why he thought it right to bring me into this world through such family. I tried several time to commit suicide but it never worked. Even though I have experienced several molestations after that, I can't still speak up for fear of being blamed.

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    1. So sorry poster. That's the world's we live in.

      Yoir mumu who was supposed to protect you from that beast of a father turned around to scorn and blame you. SMH

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    2. Jesus 😱. This broke my heart and made me teary. Tight Hugs to you dear😘 and may God heal you completely.

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    3. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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    4. You spoke up now. God kept you for a reason. Use it well. As for your mum aand step father, they will be put to shame.

      Tell God Almighty what you have to say and how you want your case to be solved so that shame will be on all who never believed in yous

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    5. Anon 12:05. Jesus Christ of Nazareth, pls save me. Did u say ur Dad? And u went thru all that and didn't turn out terribly? Am so sorry, what can we say when ppl who are supposed to protect u now turn against u? Only God can fathom how this life can be. Pls receive healing and peace ijn.

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    6. Anon 12:05, such a very sad experience. I pray that God Almighty heal you completely. If you can look for someone to talk to, it helps.

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    7. So sorry about that love. It's sad that no one stood up for you, not even your mum who was supposed to protect you. You were a child, what could you have possibly known about seduction? πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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    8. E hugs to you, your folks are evil one day you will look your mon in the eye and curse her,for now just negodu

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    9. Oh my God, I am so sorry, may God fill your heart with peace and help you,hmmmmm don't want to talk now, will send Stella my story.

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    10. Oh my God, I am so sorry, may God fill your heart with peace and help you,hmmmmm don't want to talk now, will send Stella my story.

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    11. I'm crying but i pray God to restore all you have lost .You went through so much and as someone who also survived rape i understand you ...but when it happens by the very person who was suppose to protect you then its terrible ..just cry out to God and tell someone whom you trust about it please

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    12. Cut them all off! God will restore to you all the lost years ❤

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  39. Mine happened on 31st of December 2016...I just came out of a 6years relationship with serious heartbreak wen I met him...I told him I just want to be friends cos I was still scared from the breakup which he agreed mind u we don't stay in the same state met him wen I traveled home...fast forward to Dec 2016 told him I was coming home to celebrate the new year in delta and he said he would be around...before then we always communicate and I told myself DAT January 1st I would give him a chance cos I was already liking him...got to my state on 30th of Dec he even picked me up from the park dropped me off at my house which is not the first time he has been to my house..Dec 31st he invited me to know his new place which is very close to my house...from playful talks the next thing he wanted something else which I politely told him NO the next thing he pinned me to his bed tried to drag my leggings down in the process tore it and forced himself on me tried stopping him but he was more stronger than I was...after he was done I picked up myself had to scream for him to open the door cos he locked it nd hide the key...he ruined my crossover night for night and from that day I have not been sexually active cos wenever I meet a guy I don't even let them shake me cos DAT feeling always come back to me...my friends have even ask me to go see a pshycologist cos it is really affecting me from moving on with any relationship...

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    1. Take your friends advice. Go for therapy. The shame is with him and not you! You deserve happiness! You must live your life! He is out there living his so why shouldn't you! You deserve to live life to the fullest! It was not your fault!

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  40. hmmmmm..

    Memories I wouldn't want to be reminded of.

    I have been lucky more than once, right now I am grateful to God.

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  41. Sorry khafi. May God heal you completely!

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  42. I was fingered at age 4 alongside my friend by a man in his 40s. I have been raped many times as an adult by colleagues, a boyfriend and "friends".I was once almost raped at gunpoint. My mind has gone numb on the matter. I can't even feel a thing with all these rape news this week.

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