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Saturday, October 01, 2022

Big Brother Star Sheggz Alleged Ex Opens A Can Of Worms On The Abuse She Suffered With Him + Mentions Bella

This is really dirty and all i can say is that someone should show Bella this when she comes out of Big brothers house on Sunday!










In a series of tweets, the lady identified as Beauty by Bemi said;


"I’ve kept quiet all this while because I thought this will all just die down.
I’ve moved on with my life; I’m at peace and in a better place mentally.

However, one thing I will not allow is to have you people bully me or try to come for my bag.

You have called me all sorts of names; sent death threats and rained numerous curses on me. Over a situation that is true and 100% facts. I have nothing to do with the video resurfacing and the unwarranted harassment is still ongoing.

We dated on and off between 2019-2021. During the relationship he was mentally & verbally abusive, Narcissistic, very manipulative, overbearing and the list goes on. The video circulating was posted in November 2020 after my leg injury, when we had broken up.


If you have watched the video, not once did I mention that Segun pushed me down the stairs, I was running from him as he was chasing after me; from the fear of what he might to do me, I was scared and running fast, that’s when I missed a step and fell down 7 flights of stairs, this resulted in my leg getting broken.

We then unfortunately reconciled at the start of 2021 so I took the video down. If the video I made was all a lie, why would he get back with me?

When we got back together, things were good at the start before they turned bad again.


I was optimistic, thinking after everything that happened in the past that there was hope of him changing and things being different this time around. Yes, I still loved him (Naive and stupid I know lol).


He would talk down on me and make certain statements such as “you’ve ruined my life. Why would you make that video? You’re a witch…” dealing with this was horrible because here I was trying to leave all the negativity in the past and start afresh when I got back together with him but no, it was like he wanted revenge for me posting and speaking my truth.


We had to talk about the past and he would always bring up the video to the point I had to ask him “did you get back with me so I can clear your name? Are you expecting me to sit down and make another video because that is not happening?”


He knew what he was doing.
Segun is overly calculated and tactical. I’ll give him that.

The second relationship was not as bad as the first but was still very much toxic, I believe this was due to the guilt of my leg

We argued A LOT which became exhausting and draining. He was still verbally abusive, manipulative and insecure.
Always accused me of speaking to guys on my socials and he wanted me with him 24/7 and  anytime I reacted to things he would tell me he can’t marry me because of how I react to what he says lol.


I’m not saying I’m perfect because I’m definitely not.
But I 100% gave all I could to that relationship from hell. I was told I wasn’t patient enough, I was temperamental,


I was hood, I was disrespectful, I didn’t fit his criteria , lol so I started to look within myself and said okay let’s try things differently. I tried to be calmer during arguments but things always escalated because of him therefore I knew I wasn’t the problem.

To my friends who questioned me as to why I got back with him. I made everything seem perfect, defended him and tried to prove to them that I made the right choice by getting back with him and that he was not the same person he was in the first relationship.


He would do some sweet gestures here and there which made our relationship look “better” than the previous (bring me around his friends, buy me flowers, stay on the phone for hours idolising me to his friends) but all of this didn’t mean shit to me cause the abuse was still going on behind close doors, it was just well hidden. The friends that knew me well enough knew I wasn’t myself, I became timid and a whole different person -changing into his “ideal” woman.


He became possessive and overbearing and I had no breathing space. He was with me 24/7 unless he had to go for training for his fake football career.

I would ask for space as he basically moved in with me and he would turn around and compare our relationship to other people’s trying to gaslight me. He would tell me I don’t know what it means to be in a serious relationship and tell me "do other couples not live together "lol.


It was toxic.

I’m not going to go into details as to what transpired between us and what didn’t.

Everything Segun does is for his own selfish interest and I am thankful to be free from that relationship from hell you have no idea! I feel liberated.

Nothing or no one can bring me down.

I broke up with him officially in November 2021 and he was still trying different tactics to get back with me during his stay in Nigeria between December 2021 - March 2022.

He even went as far as to buying my mum a ticket to Dubai for her birthday in March, which I wish she hadn’t accepted.

When he realised that nothing was changing my mind about getting back with him, he said I didn’t appreciate him & his efforts lol, as things weren’t going his way.

Now let’s fast forward to BBNAIJA 2022

It was my birthday at the start of July 2022 and I went to Cancun to celebrate. When I got back, i stupidly sent him a message as I was in a vulnerable state, because I was still healing and still healing from the situation.

Segun later called me and kept apologising for everything and even tried to impose that we should get back together.

I said no way, that could never happen. Too much has happened for one, I was finding peace and no amount of begging can jeopardise that.

This is where it gets interesting. He goes ahead to tell me he’s going on BBN and that his family and friends told him not to tell me.

I was confused because I didn’t get it at the time. I proceeded to wished him good luck and told him to be himself. People are either going to love or hate you but regardless just be yourself. Those were my last words to him.


The next day he goes on BBN and in less than an hour of him being in the house, a reaction video to the video I made in 2020 starts circulating all over social media.

I was even getting annoyed for him, thinking can people just let this be and judge him based on the show and not this video, as we all deserve a second chance and we all make mistakes.

I then realised this was all a strategy, because how has he gone in the house and within an hour this video is EVERYWHERE and I’m being tagged left right centre and my phone is going off non-stop. Not even a day or 2 maybe even 3...But an hour? Come on.
I watched the show when it first started and I was disgusted and I couldn’t rate what I was seeing because it was clear to me he went on there to try change the narrative.


He was clearly given a script to go by hence why his family and friends must have told him not to tell me he was going on there lol (awon werey).


Segun has gone into the BBN house with no outside communication or phone, suddenly he knew a video about him linked to abuse would surface, how did he know that there could be a video circulating about him?

When he knew the original video has been taken down since 2021 when we got back together… because of course someone from his camp got it circulating again.


Also what does an abusive man look like? Since he said he “fits” the profile with tattoos and piercings.


Is he the first to have tattoos and piercings? lol boy bye.


I’ll tell you this too. EVERYTHING Segun was saying to Bella, is everything he’s also said to me. I don’t know if he has a book where he writes all these things but he has definitely mastered the art of love bombing and manipulating women. He says things a woman would want to hear. It was almost like I was watching myself through her based on everything he was saying to her.



All I’m gonna say is anyone who has common sense would be able to see segun live and direct for who he is, from watching the show, irrespective of my video.



Anyways, I don’t care for this situation any longer. Please with all due respect stop messaging me about it. I’m not going to reply. This is the one and only time I’ll be addressing anything regarding this. I’m done and I’ve been done. Good luck to him and his future"





70 comments:

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    1. I like her coming out to respond now that sheggs is outside the house. So sheggs can reply her immediately. Na Bella family sabi,if them want man like sheggs for big Bella.

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    2. Seeing how people were dragging her even before she spoke up triggered me and I am not even her, like I experienced slight PTSD just from the way people were praising him online for denying her and saying she dint mention his name and also gaslighting her by saying “that pretty lady” while denying knowing her.

      My dears, if you’ve haven’t been in an emotionally and mentally abusive relationship you will not understand, and even if you’ve been in one but haven’t recognized the toxicity then you won’t get it. They can mirror love so it does feel like love especially the nice things they do, which is all calculated in order to manipulate you.

      It takes a lot of self awareness to know you had been abused, most abusers do nice things and tell you while doing it so it registers in your head eg. “I am the best kind of guy or girl…who else will cook for you…I drove all the way to see you…” etc
      They do these things to get you running mad because you keep making excuses and blaming yourself for not being good enough.

      I believe everything this girl said, mental abuse is even worse cus there are no bruises to show for it and when you complain everyone hardly understands you, you seem mad.
      They are also the hardest to leave, you can be on and off that kind of relationship for years because they always keep coming back to see if they can still have you and every time you think you can change them.
      Please google the 9signs of a narcissist and compare them to the Shege in the house
      It is a disorder so no! One session of therapy won’t solve their problems, they also have to be willing to work on themselves.
      Narcissists can be both male or female

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    3. Men like him will one day end up with a lady who will buy a gun and defend herself, sadly with his narcissist history, self defence could land him 6fts below. He better change his ways..not all women can withstand abuse without revenge.

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    4. I believe Nigerians will be happy when they push this young man to depression and suicide. For 10 weeks straight this young man has been dragged. You will actually think he killed someone and now the ex is no longer even talking physical abuse. Its enough, i wish all parties involved healing. This is why you shld not get into relationship and be sleeping with just anyone casually. Seek the face of God before choosing for marriage.

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    5. Anon 14:46 in fact...my tired is tired. I dnt know if they want blood. Maybe he made mistakes. I pray all of this helps him learn. But are they trying to get him into depression or what? May the Lord intervene o

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  2. Oh Chim! Sheggz, you see your life? We're waiting for you to come and refute all these allegations heaped on your head. Bella, if you like, no borrow yourself sense.

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    1. It will be really difficult to shake this , cos his behavior in the house is more or less what she detailed up there. I sense his mother being a major enabler.

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  3. Bella dey trip for the "Oi, can I getta cuppa" accent! Eh ya! Bella wise up o! Cuz it won't be funny! And hope u know he doesn't know all the policemen in Ikoyi Sha?

    Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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    1. He is the knoweth of all ikoyi policemen 🤣🤣😀

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    2. Lmfao @ can I get a cuppa? 🤣🤣 The most unattractive accent to me and the people who know how these jand men truly are

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  4. Bella will come out to see all these facts and still dai dia!
    He purposely came into the house to counter the true narrative about him,because I don't understand how someone will come with a matching bracelet even before meeting his supposed love interest,he had the evil agenda from day1 and Bella fell woefully for it..damn😡

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  5. Tor...the guy is obviously manipulative,just like some Nigerian men.

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    1. Mascot fir Nigerian men. I'm actually praying that Bella marries him, let's get one more narcissistic hoodrat off the street and save our single sisters from toxicity.

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    2. Haaaa, Anon 12:38, you is wicked oo 😂

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  6. I pity bella, babe needs to end wateva she has going with this unrepentant abusive manipulator.

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  7. If Bella likes , let her continue with him. By the time he is through with her, she won't have any self-esteem left. Her confidence would have become zero.

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  8. Everyone should just be careful especially when they're in relationship, always keep receipts, always have evidence and lastly, know how to avoid trouble. Relationship no be by force. Protect your image and reputation at all cost, protect your future. Do things more for tomorrow than for today, live more for tomorrow than for today.

    I haven't seen the video but I believe the idea behind the record is to mislead people to think he broke her legs from beating her, then the idiot didn't bounce early when he noticed her toxic behaviour, he even made up again, what for mahn? I can never forgive anyone who'll make a video of us when we're having issues and upload for the world to see, I won't even find myself in such a situation in the first place. See how she just narrated the story painting the guy evil, insulting his friends and family, so a normal human being would just start verbally insulting you for no reason when he isn't mad,. He is also a fvck boy, what kind of man moves in with a woman biko? When we tell people to refund money spent even gift given from a lady, they'll say we're sexist, Una go learn the hard way. Telling you the reality of things in Nigeria as a country, this isn't Europe, forget all their gra gra forming 21st century, na lie, the other day on BEP, how many ladies agree that they can ask a guy out? You come even gather mind move in enter woman house dey live, and you were comfortable, how do you think she'll respect you?
    Women don't give for free in this clime, yes some men too, but men can sometimes give without expecting NADA, they do cos they're gentleman, providing and protecting the 'weaker' gender, women don't, they only give expecting a ROI, this is why the only people that 'chop' women money are their religious leaders (pastor, prophet, imam ,babalawo) and fraudsters.. this is because these people deceive them believe they'll get more from giving them. Know this and know peace.
    Now see his reputation in the mud..

    Fvck boy

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    1. 😀 chaiii Dante, you is really vexed.

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    2. Thank you for speaking my mind and the fact. If she really cares about Bella, she knows how to pass the message to her instead of publishing this article.

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    3. She did not do this for Bella
      She did this for herself
      She removed the video

      His team was the one that brought the video out
      You people cannot recognize manipulation

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    4. 13.06 CAP his team will never do such, that video has always hovered over him so he knew there was every possibility someone will find it again.

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    5. Thank you anon 13:06. She already retracted the video. And yet it resurfaced literally hours after he entered, he mentioned it in the house, he went into the house with matching bracelets. Na wa. If you cannot recognize blatant manipulation Dante , na wa ooo.
      Mind you, She didn’t drag him for living with her, she is dragging him for making her feel unserious or stupid for even suggesting they live apart. He literally shuts her down for having differing opinions to his.
      Reading is human but comprehension is really divine.
      Stella abeg post oo. I no insult anybody oo

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    6. Is it only when we come online to air our hurt and anger that we have closure?

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    7. Dante, please what are you saying? So, in all these that this lady said you are still putting the blame on her or what? Instead of you to call your nigga 'Sheggz' to come refute her claim. And what do you mean by "so a normal human being would just start verbally insulting you for no reason when he isn't mad"? Look at this man oo. I just pray make you jam agbako in human form because if you jam one, you can be sleeping peacefully on your own and they will abuse you in whichever way they dim fit. And you saying she is painting the guy "evil', that's the biggest lie, Sheggz is who she said he is cos we all watched him LIVE

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    8. Dear Dante, I sincerely pray from my heart that when you finally decide to settle down, you will marry a woman that has your exact personality. Amen!!!

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  9. That's if Bella will listen na. Big Sheggz indeed!

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    1. Her confidence is on the floor sha. I hope she picks herself up

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    2. Exactly, you'll be suprised how twisted some ladies can be. Some even enjoy the beating o. I know someone who blames the beating on him loving her 'too much' than she deserves. So na she dey still beg the man, after chopping beating. Team look what you made me do!

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  10. Oh Chim! Bella better run for your life, I hope her family is ready to help out cos this guy has brainwashed her

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    1. Good to see you here, Sis. I trust you're doing great. 🤗

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    2. How will the family help her? Have they finished helping Sandra brainwashed by flavour?

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    3. Lol@Varey B!

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    4. Hmmm???? ☹️

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  11. Wahala wear konkon shoe
    It was obvious on the show
    Not until Ebuka called him out did he changed for the show.He came in with a script,reason he was telling bella not to believe any story from the media abi ex when they come out.

    Bella's siblings will try cos baby girl is gone and deeply in love with the narcissistic. She is new to dating but Sandra wont allow this ship sail.

    Sheggz, I hope you change for good cos this is so dirty.

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  12. He would do to Bella twice what he did to @BeautybyBemi.

    I hope Bella's family will save their daughter.

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  13. Bella should come out Sunday and read this!

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  14. Them no de advise girls in "love".

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    1. Yessssoooooooo.
      It's very difficult. You would end being hated for the advice

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  15. Bella Bella Bella please borrow sense now o

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  16. People are wasting your time thinking Bella will leave sheggs🤣🤣 Bella is headgone,she keeps saying he treats me so well,he treats me like a queen,he makes breakfast for me,he is my partner,he is willing to learn 😂.

    Any thing you people say against sheggs,she will defend him by saying that’s his past and he is a changed person,he will learn and unlearn but in the real sense of it Sheggs has not realized that he has a problem and needs to work on himself,he doesn’t even realize he hurt his ex by his actions so is that kind of person going to learn and unlearn?
    Bella is in love tho, the guy has calculated and brainwashed her very well. It’s going to be hard!! For her to listen to naysayers,everybody that says otherwise will be seen as an enemy of their happiness and love,the Us against the world syndrome.
    The worst people are the shippers,very blind followers,with low self worth,their gifts and show of love might make convincing her most difficult. Maybe just maybe he is the best man she has ever met or dated, but big brothers house with cameras everywhere is different from the outside world.
    All the best to them.

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    1. God bless you
      I keep telling my friends she won’t leave him
      She will also try to prove to the world he has changed, and she will break herself in the process
      If you did not watch the show and all he did to bella, even always threatening her with marriage then you can talk
      But anyone who watched the show and makes excuses for segun, is the most unintelligent person in the world.


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    2. So are you all saying it is impossible for a man to change. If only alot of you know how horrible your fathers, husbands,brothers, uncles were at 23yrs. Im not even seeing cheating, series of abortion, drug use, heavy drinking, smoking in the accusations. Many men did worse in their relationships as a youth and they later changed to be responsible men. Its not too late for Sheggs to change. This will sober him.

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    3. Anon 14:07 Anyone that really wants to change for better,learn and unlearn has to realize that they have a problem first,that’s the first line of action,then they can start working towards being a better person to others and to themselves.They acknowledge that they are a work in progress,but sheggs is too arrogant to even want to realize he has a problem and needs to work on himself and change.Thats what I mean.I hope he changes tho,so he can be better and treat people better.

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    4. Please read my write up
      To change you have to even admit you have a problem
      He spoke to her before the house
      When did segun change, he met bella a week after( and started telling her he was inlove) he even told Bella this, that he had spoken to his ex just before… so what are you saying
      He came out and even denied knowing the girl
      So where is the change.
      A relationship cannot change a narcissist
      It’s a live long disorder, it can only be managed
      Y’all need to read a book or something.
      He needs plenty therapy, but needs to even accept he has an issue, how does he even accept when shippers do not give him that chance, they praise him and said the insults do not matter because he made her breakfast.
      The fact that many Nigerian men act that way doesn’t mean it should be accepted
      Keep refusing such relationships until they realize they are the problem and work to be better.
      Stop using “no one is perfect” to enable narcissists, it doesn’t make them want to be better.

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    5. @Push up no humanbeing is above change. Even hardened criminals do change, much less Sheggs. This guy did not rape or kill anyone. This calling out will move him to change for sure.

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  17. We all watched it naw. The guy is everything that his ex wrote there. You can't pretend for that long. If he had stayed for only 2 weeks in biggies house maybe he would have achieved his aim. But 2 months plus. No way. Your true self must show and his was so loud. Very manipulative and verbally abusive. Only him knows what life experience turned him into that person.

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    1. I like your last line.Narcissists are damaged with a history dating back to their childhood or a past trauma.It takes total submission to God personally with the determination to change. It has to start from the inside, for it to end on the outside.

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  18. Even after the call out she didn't see any bad side to sheegz....let's see how this ends with her

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  19. He just might love Bella for real. Who says a bad guy can't fall in love.
    This girl sef resemble stubborn person. You were being molested yet you went back to him.
    Kindly allow Bella learn in her own way. Maybe he never liked you the way he likes Bella.

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    1. Abionah...abeg no carry this one come

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    2. You are sharp my dear like a rubber knife.

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    3. He doesn't love her, she was his game plan in the house.

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  20. She may be right abt Sheggz but there are many loopholes in her story. First this is not the first video shes doing of an Ex for views, shes a content creator. Did one in 2016 of an abusive ex dat cheated. In d Sheggz video of 2019 she said he choked and hit her head on the wall, on running she missed her step on stairs and broke her leg. In this new tweet she left physical abuse out and went with Bbn narrative of verbal and mental abuse just like Bellas

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  21. CONTD In all this you this got back together with him even after the video. But i dont understand how your abuser still flew to Nigeria for xmas, bought ur mum plane ticket to dubai, you follow his mum and sister on social media and like their pics till date. Like his pic when he entered big brother house on first day on their page and you still spoke to him just before he entered the show. So when did things change, because you were on good terms. Could it be because he met someone else on the show and him begging you to reconcile was no longer possible.

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    1. *flew you to nigeria for xmas

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  22. CONT. Now im not excusing Sheggz abusive side, i saw how he treated Bella i believe he needs to work on himself greatly and see someone for help. The relationship is dead on arrival. But at the same time i dont feel his Ex is a saint either. She has manipulated what she saw on the show to her advantage. I dont believe in ruining someone this way to get your pound of flesh.

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  23. Okay we are still waiting for Bella to come out

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  24. Let Bella do the learning when she's out of the house...

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  25. Someone who went to school with him gisted me about his behaviour right when the BBN show started. His behaviour on the show turned out exactly as described. I totally believe the ex. The truth will always out and this is exactly what has happened. It is hard to hide your true character for a long period of time. His behaviour on BBN has vindicated the ex.

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  26. Sheggs is a scorpio and all of dem even the women are bad like bad very bad character.take cee c for eg

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    1. Can't stand scorpios, very vindictive, possessive, jealous, psychotic, unforgiving set of human beings.

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    2. Scorpions keh. Ahhh no oo we're the Sweetest please. We just don't tolerate Bull

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    3. Scorpios keh? We're the Sweetest please. We just don't tolerate Bull

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    4. Anon 16:12, I'm scorpion 🦂 and I am not all that you wrote up there....

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  27. So many saints in Nigeria on top this Shrggz matter. Saints and motivational speakers etc all. No one is above learning. And may God help us not to be with sone1 who records our wrongs to make YouTube content and waits for the time of our lifting to bring it up.
    By the way I thought part of the narrative is that the man is broke? Hoe come I'm sewing that he flew her mum to Dubai and flew her to Nigeria? Did he borrow money from the bank?
    It is well o. May the Lord help this young man

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  28. In all of this, is she a Saint? The only reason she is doing this pull him down stunt as far as I'm concerned is that she knows he isn't coming back to her after d show cos he has found some1 else. Lover of Bella giving advice that she didn't use when she kept going back to him.

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