Reality TV Star Uriel Drops A Critique of “Relationship Coaches”:And Tells Ladies What To Do...
She says that when you enter a relationship where the man has to buy you pad every month, insult is loading nearby....Do you agree with her? Anyway, read through!
I strongly agree with her As a lady, you should be able to afford your basics..anything your man gives you should be an addition ❗️over dependence on man or even anyone brings disrespect
Any lady that can't afford her basic needs doesn't have any business going into relationship period .it is not by force neither is it poverty alleviation programme
It may not be insults per say. This generation must be financially empowered whether in a relationship or not. Financial stability is another level of self esteem and worth. 🙄🙄🙄
Sorry but that’s your opinion, the men I dated that bought nothing for me were the most disrespectful. As a lady who is with a man you don’t need to ask for anything but weekly or monthly some men will either give you a little money as they can afford or buy some stuff for you, without you even asking.So also as most women do without being asked, cook with their money for their man,buy bedsheets, tissues etc that some men don’t even acknowledge or appreciate. That is why as a woman you should never be with a man that you need to ask for anything before he does it. It is not entitlement, it is a requirement and necessity that both parties play their roles.
Exactly! They give you even when you are not expecting anything from them. You don't need to ask, even when you are financially stable they still want to give . It's even the independent women that they disrespect the most.
She's spot on. Self-empowerment is maturity, too. If the generation of the mothers we have now were raised with such a mindset, we would have fewer abuses and marital captivities or entrapments.
A relationship built on pocket calculations will overdraft in respect; if you can't carry your own weight, don’t expect someone else to lift you without asking for space. Self-sufficiency on basics isn’t pride - it’s your emotional insurance against silent contempt.
The least someone must have before contemplating a healthy relationship is self-sufficiency in core needs. It helps sieve the chaff and standardly positions your voice to be heard - accords respect.
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Very true
ReplyDeleteYea, I agree.
ReplyDeleteIt all depend on the kind on man you are in relationships with, but how much is pad that you can't buy for yourself? Uriel I like your hair cut.
ReplyDeleteTrue!
ReplyDeleteI Agree ooo👍
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
I strongly agree with her
ReplyDeleteAs a lady, you should be able to afford your basics..anything your man gives you should be an addition ❗️over dependence on man or even anyone brings disrespect
Ummmmm 🤔
ReplyDeleteAny lady that can't afford her basic needs doesn't have any business going into relationship period .it is not by force neither is it poverty alleviation programme
ReplyDeleteNa your haircut dey enter my eyes, Omalicha.😍💙
ReplyDeleteUriel, you are super gorgeous! I love your hair ❤️
ReplyDeleteIt may not be insults per say. This generation must be financially empowered whether in a relationship or not. Financial stability is another level of self esteem and worth. 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteSorry but that’s your opinion, the men I dated that bought nothing for me were the most disrespectful. As a lady who is with a man you don’t need to ask for anything but weekly or monthly some men will either give you a little money as they can afford or buy some stuff for you, without you even asking.So also as most women do without being asked, cook with their money for their man,buy bedsheets, tissues etc that some men don’t even acknowledge or appreciate. That is why as a woman you should never be with a man that you need to ask for anything before he does it. It is not entitlement, it is a requirement and necessity that both parties play their roles.
ReplyDeleteExactly! They give you even when you are not expecting anything from them. You don't need to ask, even when you are financially stable they still want to give . It's even the independent women that they disrespect the most.
DeleteVery true 💯
ReplyDeleteShe's spot on. Self-empowerment is maturity, too. If the generation of the mothers we have now were raised with such a mindset, we would have fewer abuses and marital captivities or entrapments.
ReplyDeleteA relationship built on pocket calculations will overdraft in respect; if you can't carry your own weight, don’t expect someone else to lift you without asking for space. Self-sufficiency on basics isn’t pride - it’s your emotional insurance against silent contempt.
The least someone must have before contemplating a healthy relationship is self-sufficiency in core needs. It helps sieve the chaff and standardly positions your voice to be heard - accords respect.
Absolutely correct
ReplyDeletein summary, have your money as a lady
ReplyDeleteBe yourself
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