Wednesday In House News.

 Midweek hailings...

WEDNESDAY MEMO

I salute you all...

Someone told me recently that her 80 year old mother in law who is not diabetic is taking the Ozem**** injection to slim down and now looks like a bag of bones...LOL.....

I wish I could see her and ask her why she is stressing her body at this old age.....Na her type dem dey call old mama youngy for refusing to get old and dragging trends with the young ones.....

Is anyone taking ozem or monja here? Results?

Anyway, enjoy the rest of the day and stay on your lane oooooooooooo, e get why!

Here is Officially welcoming all the new IDs that i have been seeing and also officially WELCOMING BACK the old people in new IDs..Our forefathers dey call am ''Old wine in new bottle''..............LOL!...

Una doh!!!

Happy Woman crush Wednesday oh!

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
HMMMMMMM

My Aunty, a Yoruba woman, fell deeply in love with an Igbo man back in her university days. Their love was strong or so we all thought. She got pregnant, gave birth to a baby boy, and wedding plans began almost immediately.

But as time went on, their love story turned sour. The man’s mother began to interfere, insisting her son must not marry a Yoruba woman because of cultural differences.
Her voice prevailed.

He walked away from my aunty and their child, and went on to marry someone from his tribe, leaving my aunty heartbroken and alone with a baby.
Fast forward to 17 years later, that baby boy is now a grown young man. He has graduated from secondary school but can’t further his education because his mother can’t afford it. 

I asked one of our mutual relative about his father, turns out he hasn’t reached out in years.

It breaks my heart that that man denied his own son a father’s love because of tribal sentiments or maybe something I never knew.

So in all of 17 years she did not move herself forward? didn't do anything to change the narrative after he left? Then she is lazy.

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 ADVICE TO PARENTS WHO USE SWEAR WORDS ON THEIR KIDS

I have a strong aversion to crass, thuggish, vulgar and guttersnipe languages with passion.

Many parents utilize these words on their children when they are angry, pissed and frustrated, thereby making their children feel like burdens from hell not lifted to calvary.

You use curse words and profanity on your child, and when this child does not turn out well in the future, you begin to wonder why.

You become the weapon fashioned and designed against your child. Why?

Children will inevitably falter, but parental wisdom is also profitable to direct, correct and guide them. It is impossible to overestimate the impact that spoken words can have on these children. Words as debasing and abasing as that will have lasting damaging effects on the child.

When you see children that are not loved right at home, you will know.

I have heard some yoruba parents who would rather say..."ko ni da fun ota e (it will not be well with your enemy)" or "aye ota e ma baje ni (Your enemy's life will be destroyed.)" towards their children. Sounds better.

Avoid comparing your child or children to others or criticizing them harshly.

"How we treat the children in our lives is a measure of our humanity."

Children need to hear what will make them feel special over and over again. The way they are being treated, spoken to and cherished will end up moulding the way they see themselves and the world around them.

In my upbringing, I never encountered my parents using a word as simple as "stupid" or any other word such as that towards us their children or to any one else for that matter.

Parents are meant to pray and bless their children. Not curse or abuse them.

Parents should endeavor to bring every concern, dreams and desires about their children to God in fervent and persistent prayers instead of resorting to abashing.

Children are pure, full of trust, precious, priceless, very delicate, fragile, sensitive and emotional beings.

Please, I will implore that parents aggrandize and make them feel loved, needed, important, special, respected not honoured, believed in and then you will see that your child will be happier and healthier, lively and as a result, become capable of reaching his or her true potential in life.

By BV Godswill BACI from Spontaneous post on Wednesday

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SOME SISTERS ARE NOT MARRIAGEABLE...

Some women eh...God forbid!
Pay light bill.... My husband is not at home.
Pay water bill.... My husband is not at home.
Bring money for water.... "My husband is not at home".
Pay for vigilante.... "My husband is not at home".
Pay for waste management.... "My husband is not at home".
Child cries for biscuits.... “Wait for daddy to return”.
Even to fill cooking gas she is waiting for husband
No bathing soap ....”Let’s wait for daddy to return”
Change your déad security bulb.... "My husband travelled".

Security bulb!!! I mean security bulb o.... bulb, bulbuuu.
How much is bulb ? Is it not for your own safety? Habaaa!
We should wait for the man that travelled to Kafanchan to come and buy bulb for you?
What kind of woman is this?

If you are like this woman and you are here, please change ooooo
What did I say? CHANGE!
Is your husband not around to change you

It's a dīrty slàp on the face of any woman to be caught in the picture painted above.

If your husband has bought garri, you can buy groundnuts or sugar.
If he has bought beef, you can buy fish.
Relying solely on a man for everything in the family is totally wrong.

The Bible refers to you as a helper suitable for him.
You should be a burden bearer to him and not a burden.
Let the man feel some measure of relief because you're there supporting him.
Having a Godly, Healthy, and Blissful Marriage is possible!

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Sadly some women reading this are in this category and cannot even do anything to remove themselves cos they dont work and are housewives solely dependent o the man for everything....Change your Narrative if that description up there fits you.

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LOVE DOES NOT KNOW TIME

The number of years you spend with someone matters far less than the person you become through that connection.

Some relationships last decades but leave you unchanged, as if time moved but nothing within you did.
And then, in a single brief encounter, another soul can shake your world.
Its like an earthquake that shifts your perspective and redirects your path.

Your heart doesn’t measure anniversaries.
It doesn’t crave longevity, it craves meaning.
That deep, unmistakable feeling that wakes you up, fills you with something that your heart cant even begin to explain.

That’s where the magic truly begins.
That’s where transformation takes place.
The secret is .....

Stop trying to do love, and start choosing to be love.
When you’re truly connected, don’t just hug but become the embrace.
Don’t just kiss but become the kiss.

Let yourself dissolve until it feels as if you’ve disappeared and only love remains.
This state of being isn’t ordinary emotion but it’s a kind of meditation, a doorway into a deeper reality.
And when that doorway opens ... you become love .... and you finally meet eternity.

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If you are not a Romantic person, you will not understand this write up... 

Someone can be married and shockingly meets someone who shakes their World....

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