Monday In House News

 Hailings..........

MONDAY MEMO

I hope that we are all doing welll...

Today we have two beautiful Blog visitors covering in house news....

The columns Notorious for Jesus and teacher life will continue another day because nobody will have their time today......

I am doing just fine ................

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Awwwww  I like this Innocent ''Vargin'' look that can open all doors....

I like!!!

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BV Miss H wants you all to see how she represented the igbos on cultural day in her school...In the background it says '''Nurses week 2025...Doesnt she look so beautiful with the eyelashes? Her nails are so nice and really long for a nursing student oh......!

This our reigning blog sob story teller....

The one who said her mums face was slapped in a primary school where she worked and that sob story worked cos she and her alleged mum got almost 400k and the mum allegedly started a chicken farm with it...

Her sob stories which were all LIES FROM THE PIT of hell got me so hooked that she was wired 50k every month......

Even Sir Ugama sent her 50k .....

She is so beautiful and is almost a nurse at 19 years..

Please join me in celebrating blog viisitor Miss H.

I am confused though and wanna ask if you are a twin cos this miss H in the photo and the ones i have in the video lo

I know that BVs will tell you to change from your ways since I could not tell you cos your number has been off since my fake cousin was insisting i post it....

Miss H are you a twin ? or is one of you older than 19 years?I am asking cos of the accounts.....Why off your phone since?LOL

Are you an actress? cos you really really convinced me with your acting...

At the end of the day i am forced to conclude that you are a Muslim from the South and not from the North.......

I am waiting for Barr. Emma to contact me.......I will bring the other things i have against BV Miss H to court.....

I am expecting your mail....My Lawyer is waiting to reply so please include a phone number, an address and name of chamber....

The photo with the nurse uniform will be used as face of in house news again soon.

''Every dog has its day'' 

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----Once you begin to dislike someone, everything they do tends to annoy you.
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---A scorpion can hold its breath for up to 6 days.
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MUST READ
WHY MANY MEN ARE EMOTIONALLY UNDERDEVELOPED.

One reason many men are emotionally underdeveloped is that we were taught very early to hide weakness, but we were not taught how to grow in strength.
Those are not the same thing.

A boy cries and is told to stop. A boy is hurting and is told to man up. A boy is confused, afraid, embarrassed, disappointed, or overwhelmed, and instead of being guided, he is often mocked, dismissed, or pushed back into silence. So he learns something very quickly. He learns that vulnerability is dangerous, emotion is embarrassing, and weakness must be covered.

What he often does not learn is what to do with those emotions once they go underground.
He is told not to cry, but not taught how to process pain. He is told not to be soft, but not taught how to be strong. He is told not to look weak, but not taught how to become stable.

So many boys grow into men who know how to suppress, but do not know how to handle themselves well.
This is why some men can provide, speak boldly, and even look confident on the outside, yet still be deeply underdeveloped emotionally. They have learned control in the public sense, but not maturity in the inward sense. They know how to hide struggle, but not how to work through it. They know how to appear fine, but not how to be honest without feeling ashamed.

And that gap shows up everywhere.
It shows up in marriage when a man cannot communicate clearly without becoming defensive or shutting down. It shows up in anger because anger is the one emotion many men were allowed to express without shame. It shows up in pride because pride becomes a shield for insecurity. It shows up in silence because many men would rather withdraw than risk being seen in a weak moment. It shows up in poor emotional language because nobody really taught them how to name what is going on inside them beyond “I’m okay” or “I’m angry.”

The problem is not that men feel less. Many times, men feel deeply. The problem is that many have not been formed well enough to carry those feelings with maturity.

So instead of processing pain, they bury it.
Instead of expressing disappointment, they become harsh. Instead of admitting fear, they become controlling. Instead of confronting hurt, they become distant. And instead of learning how to heal, they build an identity around looking unshakeable.

That is not strength. It is emotional malnourishment wearing a masculine face.
Real strength is not pretending that nothing touches you. Real strength is being able to face what touches you without falling apart or making everybody else pay for it. It is being able to name pain without drowning in it. It is being able to receive correction without seeing it as humiliation. It is being able to speak honestly without feeling reduced, and being able to suffer without turning wicked.

But many men were never shown that path.

They were given a costume called toughness, but not the inner work that produces maturity. So they grow older with all the outward signs of manhood, but with very little emotional training underneath. Life then exposes the gap. Marriage exposes it. Fatherhood exposes it. Pressure exposes it. Leadership exposes it. Hardship exposes it.
And once exposed, some men still do not know what to do except hide more, harden more, or become louder.
This is why we need better formation for boys.
Not softness without discipline.
Not indulgence without structure.
But real formation.
Boys need room to be corrected without being shamed. They need room to speak without being mocked. They need to learn that feeling pain is not failure. They need to learn self-control, honesty, courage, and emotional responsibility together.
Because a man who only knows how to hide weakness may look tough for a while, but when life becomes heavy, his lack of inner development will eventually show.

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In fact some men need to read this to understand why they are he way hey are....

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IN DEFENCE OF MEN
Not every man is after your body in a relationship and this doesn't necessarily mean that he is born again/believer.
There are men who are not christians, but exercise self control for other reasons, personal or spiritual.
Also note that a christian and a true follower of Christ will exercise discipline and wait till marriage.
Your choice should not only be determined by celibacy only.
Some ritualist have no business with premarital sex or women they are not married to.
Even if he shares the same values and principle of no sex until marriage, know who and what drives him?
Is He a child of God? Is it the love of Christ that constraints him or some other things.
And if he is spitting fire and blasting tongues, can his eyes and hands not roam and undrez a woman he's not married to.
You need God in your marital choice so that you will not be shocked by the sons of men  e get why.
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