Friday Yaaay hailings......
FRIDAY MEMO
Dont forget to relax and enjoy.....
Last week i honestly forgot to post the Friday night gisting post but i wont forget...Some of you are advising me to rest the post cos it lost comments, well comments cannot be the same all year through...People must get tired of commenting or are affected by data or life happened to them....Even me i get tired of making posts too...My mindset does not give up at all...I appreciate the advice but i wont take it....The comments on the Friday night amebo post will slowly rise and drop whenever it wants....I do organic posts and love feedbacks but some feed backs are targeted to go South.....
The evil that men do lives after them indeed......This week and last week, i ran into several posts done by Late Femi magodo to run me down and get me arrested....Really really unbelievable stories that really made me laugh cos none of it is true......I remember that he also went to report me to the Authorities in Naija that i smuggles ladies into abroad for do asawo work....LOL
The posts are still there but hes gone...May his soul find rest......
Hmmmmm!!!!!
BV Nmasinachi how are you? Where are you? Your lines are no longer connected oh...hope you are OK???????
Just found out that so many BVs still read here but went anonymous for one reason or the other...I send a shout out to all of them, its good knowing even those who tried to pull me down are still here......Please send me a shout out too....
BV Rhoda rex is now a married woman and omg she looks so good and doing so well for herself.......Making money big time from the kind of work she does Online.....I am also sorry to let you all know that she lost her son three years ago to complications from a burst appendix...I am so sorry baby geh...The lord will double your Joy soon...welcome back to the comment section and good to know that you were here all these while...
Hugs to everyone.........I can be angry at you but hate doesnt live in my heart....
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xoxoxox like BV Ron...
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The Importance of Making People Happy
Making people happy is one of the most underrated yet powerful acts in today’s world.
A simple smile, a kind word, or a thoughtful gesture can shift someone’s entire mood and brighten a day that was already heavy.
Happiness is contagious, and when you give it, it spreads far beyond the moment.
In a world where many people carry silent battles, choosing kindness becomes more than a good habit ,it becomes a lifeline.
You may not know what someone is going through, but your warmth, empathy and positive energy can become the only light they see that day.
Making people happy does not mean you are weak or trying too hard.
It means you understand the value of humanity. It means you choose to lift instead of break, to encourage instead of discourage, and to add joy instead of stress.
Life is already tough for many. Be the person who makes it a little easier.
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
Many years ago, my aunty was married to one Ibadan man. It was her second marriage. The man was doing well financially until he married my aunty, after which everything started going downhill for him.
He began visiting spiritual centres for prayers, and that was where he was told that my aunty was an ogbanje and that his life had suddenly become difficult because he had married her.
Long story short, he divorced my aunty and remarried.
Almost immediately, things gradually started getting better for him. To this day, he is doing fantastically well financially and still takes care of the children from his marriage to my aunty. However, my aunty has refused to remarry because she believes she is a curse to every man.
It was only later that I heard from my father that her first marriage had ended for the same reason.
My aunty believes she is truly jazzed and has vowed never to go near another man or consider marriage again because she believes she has a bad fate.
Personally, I don't believe in these things. I think it was merely a coincidence and had nothing to do with her. However, those experiences have reshaped her mindset and made it difficult for her to forgive herself.
She now carries the burden of believing that she is cursed simply because someone told her so.
She is currently 54 years old and has remained unmarried.
Her first marriage was same thing? second marriage same thing? And you don't believe? Is it not better to know than to feign that you don't believe and cause more harm?You don't believe what exactly? that ogbanjes exist?...
Well is her case so bad that she cannot date?
Make she look for a man of God that can pray with her and not the one that test gbensh her.
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Men do you agree with this?
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DIFFERENT TYPES OF WOMEN
Not every woman is a Proverbs 31 woman and honestly, that’s okay.
Some women are Deborahs — called to lead, speak boldly and stand on the front lines.
Some are Ruths — loyal, humble and faithful even when nobody is watching.
Some are Esthers — positioned for influence, with courage rising when the moment calls for it.
Some are Marys — chosen to surrender and carry a purpose they didn’t fully understand.
Some are Hannahs — shaped by prayer, waiting, tears and a faith that refuses to die.
Some are Abigails — wise, discerning and brave enough to step in before things fall apart.
Some are Miriams — worshippers, leaders and women who know how to praise God after surviving battles.
Some are Rahabs — women with complicated pasts who prove that your beginning does not have to determine your ending.
Some are Naomis — women who have lost so much, yet somehow find the strength to begin again.
Some are Lydia’s — business-minded, resourceful women who use what they have to make room for others.
Some are Priscillas — women who teach, guide and build alongside others.
Some are Mary Magdalene’s — women whose lives were transformed by God and who carried their testimony boldly.
And then there are Jezebels — a reminder that influence without humility, power without accountability and manipulation can destroy everything around you.
The Bible didn’t give us only one type of woman.
It gave us leaders.
Warriors.Mothers.Worshippers.Entrepreneurs.Intercessors.Survivors.
Women who waited.Women who fought.Women who failed.
Women who were restored.
And women whose lives became warnings.
So stop expecting every woman to look the same, love the same, lead the same or walk the same path.
You don’t have to be another woman. You just have to become the woman God created YOU to be.
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CAN YOU`?????
--. Can you listen without interrupting? ...It's called respect.
--. Can you give without keeping score? ...It's called generosity.
-- Can you learn from failure without giving up? ...It's called resilience.
--. Can you admit you’re wrong without defending it? ...It's called humility.
--. Can you keep secrets you were trusted with? ...It's called loyalty.
--. Can you work when no one is watching? ...It's called dedication.
--. Can you choose faith over fear? ...It's called trust.
--. Can you show up consistently even when unrecognized? ...It's called commitment.
--. Can you help someone who can’t repay you? ...It's called compassion.
--. Can you rise after falling multiple times? ...It's called determination.
--. Can you stay true to your values under pressure? ...It's called conviction.
--. Can you celebrate others without envy? ...It's called contentment.
--. Can you mind your business in a noisy world? ...It's called focus.
--. Can you keep your promise even when it’s inconvenient? ...It's called reliability.
--. Can you stay kind to rude people? ...It's called self-mastery.
--. Can you be still and let things unfold? ...It's called faith.
--. Can you give without keeping score? ...It's called generosity.
-- Can you learn from failure without giving up? ...It's called resilience.
--. Can you admit you’re wrong without defending it? ...It's called humility.
--. Can you keep secrets you were trusted with? ...It's called loyalty.
--. Can you work when no one is watching? ...It's called dedication.
--. Can you choose faith over fear? ...It's called trust.
--. Can you show up consistently even when unrecognized? ...It's called commitment.
--. Can you help someone who can’t repay you? ...It's called compassion.
--. Can you rise after falling multiple times? ...It's called determination.
--. Can you stay true to your values under pressure? ...It's called conviction.
--. Can you celebrate others without envy? ...It's called contentment.
--. Can you mind your business in a noisy world? ...It's called focus.
--. Can you keep your promise even when it’s inconvenient? ...It's called reliability.
--. Can you stay kind to rude people? ...It's called self-mastery.
--. Can you be still and let things unfold? ...It's called faith.
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WEIRD FACTS
· 91% people skip the first slice of bread, just because it’s ugly.
· Daytime naps improve memory and cuts the risk of heart attacks.
· The more sexually attractive you find someone, the more difficult it becomes to lie to them!
· Memories get distorted over time. The average human has at least one false piece of memory.
· People are often more productive in blue rooms.
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TGIF! 🔥💥 Una good afternoon o. Wetin dey occur? There was a public holiday in Kogi state today to prepare for tomorrow's LG election(s). Most people weren't even aware of the development and unfortunately found out after they had gotten to their places of work.
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oluwa Burna take your flowers 🌼🌹, what a massive school project in Awuda River State, and thanks to VDM for delivering such projects and kudos to the little girl that cried out for help and Burna Boy responded.
ReplyDelete#250million well spent.
If na Government Project, them for say na #10Billion.
Anyways I they River State currently for the commissioning of the school project today.
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Ahoada you mean. I have been seeing the video but I haven't watched it.
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Ahoda abi Awuda?
DeleteYou don turn to Ajala the traveler 👍
That building was sub par and not up to N250 Million as claimed by VDM.
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DeleteAwuda, abi na Ahoada or Ahoda, I no just no the correct spelling.
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I laugh when people says the project isn't up to 250m. You can only criticize what you aren't into. Though, wasn't there and wasn't present when the project was going on but wait a bit....
DeleteA bedroom bungalow to be erected from foundation to roofing level which I helped someone with the analysis has a total of 70million. Tiles, roofing and plastering included. The amount was a set target because the person doesn't want to go above his plans. The analysis is just to manage oooo.
4000 blocks alone from the analysis I gave had taken 3.6m.. Have you considered the cement, the iron rod(16mm), the labourers, the tiles, to mention but few.
Building has gone beyond what we are arguing anyways.
Ire ooo
Which spelling you sabi before? 🤣
DeleteThat building? Lol abeg abeg
DeleteThe correct spelling is Ahoada. It's a local government in Rivers State. Divided into East and West.
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Pinky,
Delete70m for a bungalow? It must be a special kind of bungalow, maybe bulletproof. Why should I build a bungalow with 70m? Why exactly? Are you into building? I can give you quotations to show you can actually build a five-bedroom bungalow with less than 30-35 million naira. I can drop a quotation to prove all of this if you mind.
Do you know you don't have to buy rods since there's no decking, no column base in your foundation, etc? I'm into building as well, I know all of this. If you know my page and go through it, you will see buildings I have supervised and contracted. All I'm saying is that 70m is huge for a bungalow unless it's a special kind of bungalow, maybe with underground facilities.
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Oga it’s Ahoada.
DeleteAre u this slow?
The first question you would have asked is.. what kinda land are they building on?
DeleteThis place needs good reinforcement so as to protect it from cracking. Do you know how many bungalow having cracking issues?.How I wish this platforms allows pictures and video. Would have showed you the architectural drawings.
I worked with what was given in the architectural diagram. I'm not the engineer but just helped in the analysis. That's all.
Also, since there is no decking, this building is having over 10 column at strategic places. If you had asked the kinda land , then you will understand better.
DeleteSo, my brother, you can have a bungalow worth of 100million depending on the ratio of your coarse mixture, sand plus cement ratio. I don't expect us to argue on this at all
Again, the specification of tiles projected for the building will take nothing less than 10 to 12million. The person is planning to import those tiles.
DeleteYou see why asking questions is very important.
You can build a bungalow with 12million if you like and another person can build with 100million but don't forget that, quality matters.
For blinding, I always advice, 4 bucket of sand and 7/8bicket of granite for one bag of cement. .
I think I have answered some difficult things here sir.
Ire ooo
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DeleteI'm glad to be here. Thank God for life.
ReplyDeleteWelcome back, Rhoda Rex. May the Lord perfect your heart and increase your joy and blessings in Jesus' name.
Amen 🙏
DeleteAmen. Thank you!
DeleteWelcome back how?
DeleteDidn't you read well?
They said she has always been here, she was here all this while.
Good afternoon SDK and BVs. Happy weekend. 💃💃💃
ReplyDeleteHappy weekend darlyn 🥰
DeleteHappy weekend beautiful BB 🥰
DeleteGood to have you back Rhoda Rex. May God give you double for your loss.
ReplyDeleteHello everyone, hope you're enjoying the scorching sun, e fit roast corn.
Better than the everyday rain 🌧️
DeleteThank you! :)
DeleteI love making people happy i derive fullfiment from making people happy there's an inexplicable joy i experience knowing I'm the source kr a person's happiness.
ReplyDeleteYessssssss 💯
DeleteSame here ❤️ 😍 💖
DeleteYou are absolutely right, sis. ❤️ There is a special kind of joy that fills your heart when you see that your presence and kindness have brought happiness into someone else’s life. 🥰❤️
DeleteYes my people !!!!
DeleteMmmmh I'd consult Stella.
When people know what they're doing will hurt you and they did it anyway, let that be the closure you need to move on.
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Day 4 into trying to finish this ‘oversabi aunty’ and I’m here wondering when it would be something worthy of going to the cinemas for
ReplyDeleteI didn't even bother there are some movies I would never watch
DeleteTotal waste of time. Not worth it.
DeleteIt is very BORING 😑
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ReplyDeleteWomen are God’s beautiful creations. Strong, courageous, loving, prayerful and resilient. Some lead, some nurture, some fight silent battles and some inspire others through their testimonies.
Dear woman, you are beautiful, you are valuable and you are worthy of celebration! Never stop being the amazing woman God created you to be. 🙏
GOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY 🌹
Good afternoon BIG MAMA♥️,
DeleteWishing you a pleasant weekend and God's continual blessings in your home and family.
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DeleteAmen 🙌
DeleteHello people
ReplyDeleteHow the go dey go..
Keni nice day 👌
Since we enter this month na so so sick sick we dey do for my house, Lord please restore our health 🙏
ReplyDeleteAmen
DeleteAmen.
DeleteGood Afternoon Beautiful People ❤️
ReplyDeleteThank you all for the Anniversary prayers🙏
God bless you All🙏
Big Mama happy wedding anniversary, I wish you and your family more years of happiness with celebrations.
ReplyDeleteBv Rhoda Rex welcome, it’s nice to read you are back, trust you are good? may God continually bless and strengthen you.
Good afternoon everyone & happy weekend
Issac Baba! Thank you :)
DeleteThank you so much Issac m🙏
DeleteNFJ
ReplyDeleteI think you have to learn from your own write up. It's very important and you need not fake or pretend not to believe this. Personally, I do tell my friends when I was a bachelor and also to those who were single like me and my married friends that, whenever you are dating lady, you should be watchful and careful enough to know the changes that happens to you, else, if you ignore and proceed, then you will find it hard to reverse anything.
Once you start dating and things changed from good to bad for short period and picks up again, them such person is good. If your situation changes from good to better, bros, be happy and give God the glory but when things changes from good to worse and you tried correcting but things getting worse than ever, my brother, run oooo.
The above tells you that, dating a lady for a year or above(provided you are not playing her) is good. This period will help you see so many things but our d!ck won't allow us. Same applicable to the women.
Ire oooo
I recently watched a movie on Lilian Afeg...'s YouTube featuring Blossom and Bisola. I didn't know Lilian was the lead actress until I saw the movie credits. What are these girls doing to their faces that is making them unrecognisable?
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DeleteI saw a picture of her recently and i couldn't recognize her and she wasn't bad before this time.
DeleteA Teacher is ...
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A Doctor ... 🧑🏻⚕️
A Super Man... 🦸🏻
A Preacher ... 🧙🏻
A Nurse🧑🏻⚕️
Passing thr' the nursery corridor, I saw My little friends singing and dancing to their rhymes . I had to join in the dance . See smile on their faces 😂😂
I love what I do... ❣️💯
It's Friday
ReplyDeleteHello Everybody ooooo
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I Greetlicious Everybody ooooo ❤️
Hello Iya Boys
Happy weekend Everyone!
ReplyDelete52-year-old American actress Hilary Swank recently announced that she's expecting her third child with husband, Philip Schneider.
Now, my question is:
Is it only in Nigeria that women are considered too old to conceive and give birth because of their biological clock? I’m genuinely confused because, in Western countries, we often hear about women in their fifties conceiving naturally and having babies. Why does it seem so different here?
I have seen a woman in her 60s give birth in Nigeria. Sometimes things like this can't be explained. It's all about the individual body system. Biological factors differ for each woman. While some go into early menopause, others might have delayed menopause.
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My sister in law that recently gave birth celebrated her 50th birthday this year, so it's possible, I just believe that our poor healthcare system is why the age ish is so pronounced.
DeleteGood afternoon my people!
ReplyDeleteHow are y'all doing?
Cough no gree me sleep last night ooo, nose block. Is not even upto two weeks I took malaria treatment 😔
Is well!
WE KEEP MOVING!!
Welcome back bv Rhoda Rex..may God give you double for your loss🙏
ReplyDeleteGood evening everyone 🌌
ReplyDeleteHope you guys had a successful day
The last memo is on point
Una Weldon oo🥰
You are welcome Thoda Rex..
ReplyDeleteMay God give you double for your loss 🙏🙏🤗
On transit 🙏🙏
Stella that Friday night post is one of the interesting posts here, don't give up on it.That the post is losing its fun vibes and comments,do you know why?you are the cause.Pardon me for being blunt.
ReplyDeleteWhen BVs were complaining that not enabling comments on time discouraged them from commenting, you didn't heed to their warning rather you came up with excuses.
Imagine a hot post that had almost 100 comments before has dropped to just a few comments.
Enabling comments on time makes it more fun and interactive.
Don't stop the post,many are looking forward to it.Some have gist and others are here to catch fun.,only say when they post comments ,they don't get to see it till the following day.
Now you know,buckle up and bring back the fun. .. Just saying.
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TGIF The write up about different type of women made me laugh.Happy weekend.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry about your son Rhoda. Welcome back.
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