tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post1190995155271030142..comments2024-03-28T15:00:10.436+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Iroko TV CEO Jason Njoku's Wife, Mary Sends Memo To Husbands....stella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-16816111479780356582021-01-27T23:29:24.854+01:002021-01-27T23:29:24.854+01:00NIB you are soooooo right.
It's a bit differe...NIB you are soooooo right.<br /><br />It's a bit different for me cos I read a professional course and the women in my class all tended to think like men.<br />To the glory of God I think we're all practising and almost all married too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-53223227686738946612021-01-27T12:48:40.159+01:002021-01-27T12:48:40.159+01:00thanks for this anonymous 8:38. its really helpful...thanks for this anonymous 8:38. its really helpfulgennynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-16149485936012154172021-01-27T08:38:24.823+01:002021-01-27T08:38:24.823+01:00In Nigeria of the last 30 or so years, there simpl...In Nigeria of the last 30 or so years, there simply were no jobs. Many of my friends didn’t set out to be housewives. They were forced into it by the massive youth unemployment and lack of opportunity. They had no alternative which doesn’t take away from the sacrifices she alluded to.<br /><br />My comment is that those of us who combine all roles deserve even more accolades especially here with little support system. Kids are raised to be independent. We left ours at home as 9 year olds with instructions not to pick the call unless it was dad or mum, they grew up as latchkey kids.we checked homework till 11pm. Raised kids while studying and passing all my exams and later working 14 hour days. My neighbors walk the dogs after the kids leave for school till the bus brings them back, my house cleaner says half the white women are drunk by 11am due to boredom, loneliness and laziness. They still hired cleaners and Kaplan tutors for their kids making their lives easy but empty. All mothers and wives deserve accolades especially those who combine the 3 roles successfully. Black women worldwide never really had the “stepford wife” luxury life. They raised white kids as maids during slavery and Jim Crow, while looking after their own. It’s good for a woman to have a career or business unless she can’t have one, kids grow so fast and leave home. What will you do with your life when they leave? As an older career mom and wife my advice is, make sure you are doing something even if it’s part time. I read the story of a Chief Financial Officer who made $200k and lost it last year. They are on food stamps. If his wife had a career the situation might have been better. Take the first few years off to raise kids and find something doing afterwards. No one knows tomorrow and men like the security of a helping wife, even if some don’t say so. <br /> Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-67489204509093276982021-01-27T08:35:39.800+01:002021-01-27T08:35:39.800+01:00When you marry rich man wey dey take care of all f...When you marry rich man wey dey take care of all financial needs, you go dey alright as full-time housewife. But some women who are married to irresponsible men have to combine both, providing for the family and doing housework. I did thus for years and my sister, no be moi moi. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-41762582733627098842021-01-27T05:28:06.220+01:002021-01-27T05:28:06.220+01:00It all boils down to having a good responsible hus...It all boils down to having a good responsible husband. If not na one chance to be housewife. Give up your job and then the husband starts having an affair and refuses to drop enough money in the house. You have to stay humble. That’s not funny. He who pays the piper dictates the tune. My kids come first. I work for the government. I take them to school, go to work, pick them from school, do their assignments for together, jist small, they eat, we do devotion and sleep. Lo and behold oga comes back and still wants my time too. We be machine. Staying at home is harder. So a woman’s call housewife or working is a lot of work. Being a housewife or working mother doesn’t guarantee well raised kids. Let’s just lead by example and pray to God to help us raise our children and we try our best.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-53643775866193959762021-01-27T03:40:27.173+01:002021-01-27T03:40:27.173+01:00Being a house wife harder than going out to make m...Being a house wife harder than going out to make money in which continent or world?? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-43613826517630619882021-01-26T23:18:00.042+01:002021-01-26T23:18:00.042+01:00I did it for 13 years for my children, not that I ...I did it for 13 years for my children, not that I liked it but this abroad ehn. It is well 🤷🏾♀️.<br />It wasn't easy I no go lie oooooo but i thank God I was able to do it.<br />I enjoyed walking my kids to school and walking then back home, it was a different bond. They had the opportunity to do activities outside school because I could take them. There were times when I was frustrated though 🤣😂😃 because you will cook, tidy, clean and clean and clean and before you know its time for school runs ago.<br />Thank GodAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-72752160975904759862021-01-26T20:56:02.094+01:002021-01-26T20:56:02.094+01:00Perxian shes right. Housewife is hardwork if you h...Perxian shes right. Housewife is hardwork if you have kids. I've also done both.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-45682850888177519642021-01-26T18:00:40.020+01:002021-01-26T18:00:40.020+01:00True! Don't know about the 1 million though..L...True! Don't know about the 1 million though..LolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-60559550233333233112021-01-26T17:58:52.227+01:002021-01-26T17:58:52.227+01:00NIB, not true. Generally, boys discuss making mone...NIB, not true. Generally, boys discuss making money then women. They don't discuss career especially at Uni stage. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-68637290810943963532021-01-26T16:06:26.888+01:002021-01-26T16:06:26.888+01:00wow,same with me but before marriage I got the tea...wow,same with me but before marriage I got the teaching job,but relocated before marriage,I later got employment with my state judiciary in my state and it's so liberal that I come at 9 am and close at 1 pm and after three years 2014-2017 I was appointed a magistrate,infact today is my 4th year on the bench and to tell you the truth there's no better period than this ,I plan by scheduling my cases on Monday,Tuesday and Thursday,I rest at home on Friday,on Wednesday I do my rulings,judgements and I read,meanwhile I have all the time for my kids because I am the head of my court,also I go to work with my child that is not of school age,my office is spacious and I put in a playmat and toys for her,with a baby matress for her to sleep on,the older ones close by 3 and by 2:30 I go home to be with them.You can get transfer of service to state judiciary since you work in a govt school.You are really a wonderful mum.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-41854853776737065482021-01-26T15:52:09.431+01:002021-01-26T15:52:09.431+01:00I think being a stay at home Mom is a great thing,...I think being a stay at home Mom is a great thing, what makes it unattractive is when the man doesn't give his wife enough for the home and for herself. Or when he is womanizing with slay queens and his wife gets low self esteem cos she doesn't have slay money, or he begins to compare her to other working women. I would think that when Mary was a housewife Jason may have been giving her a million a month thereabout. Otherwise, it isn't bad. NiBnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-28578873993318319452021-01-26T15:46:45.191+01:002021-01-26T15:46:45.191+01:00I agree that most women don't have career drea...I agree that most women don't have career dreams. While in Uni, all we discussed was boys. While boys discuss career and making money first, then women second. All the info and encouragement I got about going abroad was mostly from guys. Even in the abroad, male friends were so helpful. They seem to know how everything is done, career wise. Even investing info and all. God bless them all. This is not to fight or argue, but just to encourage young women to have career and money making discussions first, then discuss boys second. Men talk shouldn't be priority always wherever women are gathered. NiBnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-15807108682038266912021-01-26T14:43:36.544+01:002021-01-26T14:43:36.544+01:00Nice one anonymous 13:35. Keep enjoying your famil...Nice one anonymous 13:35. Keep enjoying your family/home like that.<br /><br />Thank you very much Prudent🤗💖<br /><br />Chisuma, you do have a pointMrs. A.E, God's Own🌸🌺🌻https://www.blogger.com/profile/01283734944040237546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-28990522566636445892021-01-26T14:28:55.353+01:002021-01-26T14:28:55.353+01:00Mary, so wise, so sensible...Well done for this po...Mary, so wise, so sensible...Well done for this post I love her.<br /><br />However what about those whose dream of becoming full time housewives? I don’t think it makes them lazy, let’s just respect everyone regardless, some women marry young and are still discovering themselves. They should still be respected, we are all on different journeys.<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-5328634283523648562021-01-26T14:28:33.685+01:002021-01-26T14:28:33.685+01:00Anonymous 13:35, please teach some of us how to in...Anonymous 13:35, please teach some of us how to invest na, I'm a stay at home mom, and i find it really fraustrating being broke all the timeJoyful wifenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-81289855692026451092021-01-26T14:24:42.591+01:002021-01-26T14:24:42.591+01:00Being a full time housewife doesn't really gua...Being a full time housewife doesn't really guarantee that the wife will take care of the children/home. Some women are just too nonchalant Chisumahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08958588140011939893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-1252908573416939562021-01-26T13:48:16.664+01:002021-01-26T13:48:16.664+01:00Congratulations. God will bless your new home. Congratulations. God will bless your new home. Prudent Tabithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12415165715701682437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-76854334346769948902021-01-26T13:45:13.995+01:002021-01-26T13:45:13.995+01:00Well said, Mary.
It's a very big job I must ...Well said, Mary. <br /><br />It's a very big job I must say.Cynthia Iyedehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17516723240632447166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-86119836239026351412021-01-26T13:35:59.719+01:002021-01-26T13:35:59.719+01:00im a full time house wife for many years after I q...im a full time house wife for many years after I quit by bank job ..and I say I dont regret it I have been able by Gods grace monitor my kids which is difficult when fully working ..my husband provides all we need and I save up some of it and use it to invest in stuff ..let me tell u people its not only when you wear suit to go out or open shop that you can be an income earner ,I stayed at home and became landlady and invested in other stuff which does not require me going out of my house every time ..Nigerians have a limited understanding of how this is possible ..bitcoin,and other type of contribution business abound everywhere ,I only go out occasionally to attend to it.soAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-7165200175301558962021-01-26T13:33:40.198+01:002021-01-26T13:33:40.198+01:00Mary Mary you deserve some accolade 💋💋💋💋💋Mary Mary you deserve some accolade 💋💋💋💋💋excited courtesyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00206713776636439046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-66780770111220852522021-01-26T13:20:34.283+01:002021-01-26T13:20:34.283+01:00Well said MaryWell said Mary****Bbjac****https://www.blogger.com/profile/08417813629621567941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-39120075557097207262021-01-26T13:11:29.359+01:002021-01-26T13:11:29.359+01:00Able pa, abeg im interested in the data giveawayAble pa, abeg im interested in the data giveawayBank alerthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16998680025862198809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-55544896718644252882021-01-26T13:04:59.804+01:002021-01-26T13:04:59.804+01:00Ahh, this one touched me, the sacrifices mother...Ahh, this one touched me, the sacrifices mother's make<br />You're a super mum💪💪Ryrygoldnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-68252232657833623472021-01-26T13:02:59.989+01:002021-01-26T13:02:59.989+01:00Very well said Mrs Iroko Tv🤩🤩Very well said Mrs Iroko Tv🤩🤩Ryrygoldnoreply@blogger.com