tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post1251949493262921497..comments2024-03-28T18:46:17.284+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...stella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger145125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-20552712188819857672020-09-05T12:25:20.117+02:002020-09-05T12:25:20.117+02:00God bless you. TS. It's a delicate situation. ...God bless you. TS. It's a delicate situation. I don't know why people are judging the poster harshly. Poster, pls take the advice above and may the Lord give you the heart and grace to love this child as yours. e-hugs dear.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-5224443151289229112020-09-05T12:20:43.282+02:002020-09-05T12:20:43.282+02:00I lived in the UK and I always wondered why my hou...I lived in the UK and I always wondered why my house had no locks too. Stop being so judgemental and cut the lady some slack. I don't know why we Nigerians always like to give off this "I can do it better than you" vibes. Poster,those UK houses can be rather tiny, but as a growing family you may have to opt for a bigger apartment so you and hubby can have some privacy and the poor little darling does not go blind ok?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-76273566363852125632020-09-05T10:29:06.863+02:002020-09-05T10:29:06.863+02:00The day you kick that innocent girl out all becaus...The day you kick that innocent girl out all because you want to knack well well and have your husband (her biological dad o) all to yourself, will be the beginning of the end of that marriage and that’s a fact. There’s no way any normal and sane man will love you 100 % if you don’t love his child the same way. I mean it’s common sense. You want a part of him out of your home yet you want to have your marriage. And you don’t want to be called a wicked and mean step mother??? Get the F outta here woman. I’m so so upset at you. Have compassion and love towards that child for God’s sake. She’s gone through a lot at such a tender age! If you love her dad, then you must absolutely love his child! And y’all better move out and get a two bedroom apartment so you don’t traumatize that child! Whenever she wakes up in the AM, call her to you, hug her, kiss her forehead. During the day, build her self esteem, positive affirmations(you both can write on flash cards), do fun activities with her like painting, apple picking, gardening/planting, baking/cooking, out door games, do fun things Together as a family, Sign her up to dance or music classes, let her know you care about her, ask questions if she’s not in a good mood, make her feel safe and make her feel loved. Encourage her dad to do the same. With time, you’ll create enough bond and you’ll be able to call her out whenever she misbehave. This is what you’ve signed up for when you say I do! Na wa for you sha o. You sound stone cold and lack that womanly sweetness and warmth. I may be wrong sha. Goodluck. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-78892903367226418982020-09-05T07:58:29.796+02:002020-09-05T07:58:29.796+02:00Amen 🙏🏼 to your prayers- Anonymous 16:39Amen 🙏🏼 to your prayers- Anonymous 16:39Omalichahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12891501326724374758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-79124924723942186772020-09-05T07:55:11.538+02:002020-09-05T07:55:11.538+02:00Amen 🙏🏼 Amen 🙏🏼 Omalichahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12891501326724374758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-59079235839988137522020-09-05T07:54:21.422+02:002020-09-05T07:54:21.422+02:00Amen 🙏🏼 Amen 🙏🏼 Omalichahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12891501326724374758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-15811213310483077112020-09-05T07:53:29.830+02:002020-09-05T07:53:29.830+02:00Amen 🙏🏼 Amen 🙏🏼 Omalichahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12891501326724374758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-39509522909227816552020-09-05T04:49:18.679+02:002020-09-05T04:49:18.679+02:00GBAM!!!!
WELL SAID!
As God will have it, I didn...GBAM!!!!<br />WELL SAID!<br />As God will have it, I didn't see your comment till I wrote mine up there about my three year old knocking on the door before coming in .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-70242456000206294662020-09-05T04:46:21.066+02:002020-09-05T04:46:21.066+02:00I'm really happy to see and read some wise com...I'm really happy to see and read some wise comments from intelligent people unlike the pretenders!<br />Thanks so much anon. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-13007901421641034032020-09-05T04:44:27.426+02:002020-09-05T04:44:27.426+02:00Thank you so much Lady T!
You're one in a mill...Thank you so much Lady T!<br />You're one in a million and I wish to be your friend. I love wise diplomatic women and you are one of them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-46805704413938735622020-09-05T04:36:14.468+02:002020-09-05T04:36:14.468+02:00Thank you so much anon 16.05!
You're the only ...Thank you so much anon 16.05!<br />You're the only sensible person here who doesn't pretend and your comment is so on point!<br />You see all those pretenders up and down here, take it from me, they could've blinded the girl a long time ago.<br />Like Stella said, sit that child down after making her your friend and find out how bad she have been exposed to adult life. I'm talking from experience because a neighbor's 9 years old that was abused when I was in Nigeria was doing same thing with her parents, my uncle and the neighbors till she was caught, beaten and she opened up. Please talk to that child and take her as yours because she is at that age when you can replace her mother's love but only"IF" her mother is really "DEAD" & NOT DIVORCED OR SEPARATED. <br />Whatever the case is, you signed up for it so handle it with love and please don't separate that child from her dad because that alone will make you a wicked stepmother before God and man!<br />Get that door fixed! Yes, I said it, she is peeping at you guys while making out FULLSTOP and I said so!<br />My three year old knows she is suppose to knock on any closed door when mom and dad or anyone is behind it and wait till she's invited not to talk of a eight year old.. Why did she run the day you caught her peeping one on one?<br />Please help that poor child,she has been exposed in one way or the other. You will be surprised if you treat her with so much love and let her open up to you why she peeped.<br />May God see you through and show you the right answers and steps to make. Forget all those running their mouth, they just want to sound like mother Theresa but ending up sounding dumb!<br />Follow Stella's advice and help the poor girl. I REPEAT, DON'T EVER THINK OF SEPARATING HER FROM HER DAD. BIKO,PLEASE!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-23770650290301722292020-09-05T03:38:12.038+02:002020-09-05T03:38:12.038+02:00You're very right @Kay. My son will be 8 in Fe...You're very right @Kay. My son will be 8 in February and he still loves to "relax" between mum and dad. He still loves to get hugs every morning and night. The child just needs that warmth of a mother's love. <br />@poster that baby needs you. She's giving you green light, showing you she's ready to accept you to fill that void but your selfish mind is worried about making out. please go to a hardware store,we got locks for our bedrooms and bathrooms after we bought our home so you are right about no having locks... But please don't lock her out. She needs you.<br />Love her and she will be an amazing big sis to your own kids when u have them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-1593953264417717852020-09-05T00:48:09.402+02:002020-09-05T00:48:09.402+02:00Oh God,may another not train my kids.thid chronicl...Oh God,may another not train my kids.thid chronicle just made me cry.<br />My second daughter loved to peep and I love her unconditionally.<br />Poster ,you are wicked.Tenth.https://www.blogger.com/profile/01052494190307406147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-71756767449009351652020-09-04T23:37:02.097+02:002020-09-04T23:37:02.097+02:00Words of wisdom from Lady T, @ poster read and ass...Words of wisdom from Lady T, @ poster read and assimilate, the Lord will help you. The fact that you didn't carry her in your womb does not mean you cannot love her like your own. <br /><br />That little girl is your daughter, you are her mother, no competition, stop trying to get rid of her. She has lost her mother and you want her to lose her father as well? <br /><br />She is a part of you now, stop seeing her as an obstacle, she belongs in that house, It is her home, she has a right to live with her father. You shouldn't even agree If your husband decides to ship her away. <br /><br /><br />All the best.<br />Ms Abroadianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11796153124282895878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-89463661844619644662020-09-04T23:01:53.945+02:002020-09-04T23:01:53.945+02:00DONT you have a room??? Why making out in living r...DONT you have a room??? Why making out in living room? Nothing weird in what shes doin abeg...shes just lookn for attention when she wakes up.BEDS AND ROSEShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04219214023574183692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-1952243875298213322020-09-04T22:24:39.608+02:002020-09-04T22:24:39.608+02:00@ Twins Squared, Amen and thank you.
@Chocolat, Am...@ Twins Squared, Amen and thank you.<br />@Chocolat, Amen. Thank you. Lady T/worth more than a thousand dollarshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16713647271752484855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-21038349681957564722020-09-04T22:22:29.222+02:002020-09-04T22:22:29.222+02:00Amen. Thank you. Amen. Thank you. Lady T/worth more than a thousand dollarshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16713647271752484855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-91511025592277187182020-09-04T22:17:08.242+02:002020-09-04T22:17:08.242+02:00I guess she is afraid ,see me as I old afraid stil...I guess she is afraid ,see me as I old afraid still dey catch me dats why I nevr rented my own apartment wen I was single.infact I didn't mind doing house girl for my elder sis just to stay with her even with better money for my account.Uptill now I can't sleep in my flat once hubby travels .I jappa straight to my mumsy place cos I cannot wake up at night after dreaming bad dreams fear go swallow me.<br /><br />Pls just let her be check up on her and ask her things,I guess she will open up to u.probably why looking for u guys she bumps into u and ur hubby doing d do.pls make her get close to u.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-64029092190457860132020-09-04T21:46:19.363+02:002020-09-04T21:46:19.363+02:00God bless you Lady T.
May God grant you all your ...God bless you Lady T.<br /><br />May God grant you all your heart desires AMEN .Lily Ambrosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02620014299030230348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-50846395531554835092020-09-04T21:38:51.494+02:002020-09-04T21:38:51.494+02:00Please for those saying the little girl should lea...Please for those saying the little girl should learn how to knock,for Christ sake that girl ought to be anywhere you both are except when you making out.She is just a kid,so it is not even advisable to leave her alone in a place while you and her father are in another place in that house, haba naw.<br /><br />Please and please endeavour to give that girl the motherly/parental care she needs and sometimes carry her and allow her to cuddle you as her own mother. Wtf is this distancing you tryna do with that little kid.<br /><br /><br />Dont execute that your plan on that kid so you can receive your full blessings from God.<br /><br />God bless you as you take every part of that girl as yours. Lily Ambrosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02620014299030230348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-4179666236317191862020-09-04T21:36:04.885+02:002020-09-04T21:36:04.885+02:00Lady T God Bless you real good , you're a wond...Lady T God Bless you real good , you're a wonderful woman , it is evident in your comments .<br /> I never skip your comments God Bless you richly for this beautiful advice as someone who's in the same situation, <br /> I'm hoping the poster would read through and pick the comments that would better her relationship with her daughter. Chocolát Noir https://www.blogger.com/profile/08616640331598469605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-59952929963374102862020-09-04T21:35:04.468+02:002020-09-04T21:35:04.468+02:00Please poster bring her closer to you as she's...Please poster bring her closer to you as she's still very much young,how much love you show her will help fast in the bonding of you both and am sure the dad will be so happy to see you both bonding together as the two most important people in his life.Mummy boyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06825506192624897749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-30109140052660117622020-09-04T21:01:22.428+02:002020-09-04T21:01:22.428+02:00God bless you Troy for not being biased God bless you Troy for not being biased Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02506270581659246907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-87106412054568089892020-09-04T21:01:01.518+02:002020-09-04T21:01:01.518+02:00It's natural. An eight year old is curious and...It's natural. An eight year old is curious and if she is not then you should be worried. Then it's up to you and her dad to feed that curiosity with healthy things not making out in the open and expecting her not to watch.<br /><br />Poor girl. You and her dad Are abusing that girl and it's so unhealthy. The problem is not the child. The problem is you and her dad. Get a handyman to fix locks so you can have privacy and you need to have a cleansing talk with that little girl so to disabuse her mind with the rubbish both of you have filled he mind with. Give her sex education and let her know such acts is strictly for adults.Ms Saphire®https://www.blogger.com/profile/10444512110488257360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-56768622125041732232020-09-04T20:58:30.384+02:002020-09-04T20:58:30.384+02:00👌👌👌👍😍👌👌👌👍😍Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02506270581659246907noreply@blogger.com