tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post1863923084102397689..comments2024-03-28T21:30:02.462+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicles Of Blog Visitor Narrative....stella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger86125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-29138697010534604102021-04-15T13:54:44.513+02:002021-04-15T13:54:44.513+02:00The only thing I want to ask this poster is, after...The only thing I want to ask this poster is, after you kill him, what next? Would you be happy? Would you finally become that doctor? Would the lost years be given back to you? Would your mental health be better? If the answer to all these questions is yes, then do and kill him. If it's no, it's not worth it. You are already a prisoner to yourself. I can never say I understand how you feel, or the help you went through, but I want you to know you can still have it all if only you let yourself heal. I wish you could save a bit, move away and start from the bottom somewhere else if possible with a new identity. Don't wait for his karma, work on your life.Anonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09016559355939122402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-16300209615240624442021-04-09T20:36:48.604+02:002021-04-09T20:36:48.604+02:00The best revenge is to be successful. I hope you h...The best revenge is to be successful. I hope you hit him where it hurts the most when that time comes. Fabulous onyxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11571973958956670232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-41100639333281597632021-04-09T16:06:36.605+02:002021-04-09T16:06:36.605+02:00Can you stop goading her seriously, she's with... Can you stop goading her seriously, she's with someone over there and you are where you are and yet you said she can't do shit, will you be able to stop her when she makes her move. People like you can be ignorant and arrogant at timesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-52953674421876516942021-04-09T11:20:27.836+02:002021-04-09T11:20:27.836+02:00Haaaa. Sorry, but you sound crazy, sister. Have yo...Haaaa. Sorry, but you sound crazy, sister. Have you been playing close attention to your mental health? All doesn't seem to be well.<br />Try and move on from the pain. You've dwelt so much on the hurt that it has ruined your mind.<br />The world does not revolve around you. People will talk but whatever they say is not your business. You can't control what people said or did not say, but you can guard your mind! Nobody will do this work for you!<br />Pls seek professional help and take your drugs, if any.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-54367001425385372492021-04-09T07:38:36.223+02:002021-04-09T07:38:36.223+02:00Fucking stupid narcissist. With all that is happen...Fucking stupid narcissist. With all that is happening in the world today, you think anyone is interested in a rumor about you that happened years ago? Please wake up and smell the coffee. Abroad that even your neighbors don't give two cents about you, is what you are yapping up and down about? YOUR DESTINY LIES IN YOUR HANDS. Use it as you wish. Playing "God" with someone's life when you can't even get your shit together. For someone who waited so long for "revenge", you would think small sense will fall on you at least, but no. Your ancestors are still using your head to play drums at the market square. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-47459642909125177322021-04-09T07:33:24.918+02:002021-04-09T07:33:24.918+02:00Thanks anon 21:21. I am not the poster but what yo...Thanks anon 21:21. I am not the poster but what you said has touched me too. My case is different in details and yet the same with yours and poster, in that to move on is so difficult and one is weighed down by negative emotions and lack of progress. However it is exactly to free us to move on and become or grow into our purpose that God's Word tells us to leave vengeance to Him. It is the most difficult thing on earth to forgive the most vicious and malicious of wrongs done to us. But it is what we must do to positively become. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-66040053104557251572021-04-09T03:21:14.276+02:002021-04-09T03:21:14.276+02:00Please, you guys should stop dismissing this girl&...Please, you guys should stop dismissing this girl's pain. I'm saying this because I know a girl that died because of stupid lie like this. I'm a Nigerian and this happens in the eastern part . This was how she was accused with baseless lie and it was among church people like this. She couldn't prove her innocence to them judgemental church people and family. She went into depression and stop eating. The truth later came out but it was already late as nothing could bring her back. On christmas morning like that, baby girl left this wicked world. I remember clearly when the big church bell rang to announce her death.If you are from ubahah umunze, maybe you will remember this babe. I don't want to mention her name.the thing pain me then reach bone.Do not dismiss false accusation. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-64486773555036865302021-04-09T03:09:47.802+02:002021-04-09T03:09:47.802+02:00I thought you lot said there is no karma, why don&...I thought you lot said there is no karma, why don't you all leave her to be his karma? Left for me, that man deserves death. He destroyed this girl's life, his own should be destroyed. Since we collectively agreed here that there is no karma. Let this girl get her revenge instead of waiting for that which do not exist according to bvs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-92166606002594055502021-04-09T02:46:36.536+02:002021-04-09T02:46:36.536+02:00Well, in case you come back to read again, what I ...Well, in case you come back to read again, what I am saying is, the finality you placed on the quality of life you can never have is unfounded over the impression you think people have of you. You are the only one who have said you can never become a doctor again or get married. Only you! As if life is not challenging enough for people to decide it's your gossip they wmy to invest so much in. Wake up girl, the world does not revolve around you. You need help! I can see the extent of negative energy in you, the anger, the hate...Kai! Get psychological help asap. Ms Saphire®https://www.blogger.com/profile/10444512110488257360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-24947242278473361792021-04-09T02:41:30.106+02:002021-04-09T02:41:30.106+02:00@snon 22.21...someone ks saying her life got ruine...@snon 22.21...someone ks saying her life got ruined, she can't go for her dreams no funds, she is seen a certain way which she has difficulty getting past, she is constantly judged and this affected her mentally...what other answer do you need? Is that not ruin? Yall lack empathy though.<br />Being empathic doesn't mean you advise her to harm any one but do not write of her complains like everyone has gone through and she should...you have never been in her shoes and thus doesn't know what it feels like.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-62791575950911364672021-04-09T02:20:03.546+02:002021-04-09T02:20:03.546+02:00Poster it is painful
If you let him go, you will ...Poster it is painful<br /><br />If you let him go, you will be free!<br /><br />You can get back on track<br /><br />What if you concentrate on yourself and you actually start to get your life together<br /><br />Wouldn't that be great!Jet lihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17291507452349893969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-53998807859729790412021-04-09T01:32:00.243+02:002021-04-09T01:32:00.243+02:00No need to curse the anons, you need to get a grip...No need to curse the anons, you need to get a grip.<br /><br />How long we you continue to wallow in self pity and be miserable? <br /><br />You are an adult now, take charge of your life. People do menial jobs to fund their education. <br /><br />There are people who have no family or friends and survive in this cruel world.<br /><br />Abort this revenge mission and go and make something out of your life, you are just 27.<br />You are not a failure, your life is not over, love will find you if you get rid of the bitterness and hurt.<br /><br />All the best.Ms Abroadianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11796153124282895878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-57984753888364132502021-04-08T23:14:25.643+02:002021-04-08T23:14:25.643+02:00Poster, please listen to this....
Anon 18:57 well...Poster, please listen to this....<br /><br />Anon 18:57 well put... Hey I am afraid, poster please don't do it, put your dreams and aspirations first, this revenge with no money will kill you, make money, be successful, sue the bastard....<br /><br />Love and light..... <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-10358572277560296592021-04-08T22:25:56.972+02:002021-04-08T22:25:56.972+02:00Hello Dearest Stella please post my comment
Poste...Hello Dearest Stella please post my comment<br /><br />Poster, why... why so naive... you want to go to jail after killing him, why not just forget about killing him get him and his f**ked up church outed and prosecuted, and still LIVE YOUR LIFE... you were a minor, aiding anything like that in the abroad, na jail....<br /><br />Your obsession with killing him is troubling, madam you are not an "omo ita" as the yorubas will say that would have gotten a cash transfer from him as evidence and then outed him anyway (please get several cash transfers and still don't sleep with him if you want to go this route, before he says he was helping you)... to hell with him and his stupid church folk, they presented as christians, but they are not, why bring yourself down, when the entire church can go down and you'll be SITTING PRETTY on your millions in damages from suing the church..... think am o<br /><br />This one has entered something else, he did that to you.....<br /><br />Guess what, he doesn't care and he has no clue how to be better, he's a sick bastard using christianity as a cover...... stop trying to reason with him....<br /><br />Forget about him, block him after getting evidence, channel this into something else, what's the difference between a pedophile and a murderer??? Don't sink to his level, please.....<br /><br />Sis please, na beg I dey beg, just try to get the mental health benefits, tuition and job training, start working on your education and GED, speak to a professional counselor and get the ball rolling... you have my permission to block all toxic people on all platforms and channels, be rude to them sef... aah what is it, do they want to kill you, aah...<br /><br />Please move on and start your life over, he's a taker and an undercover criminal, the devil is real, na the agent you see so.... you sef you full ground for them, set him up and get him jailed.... just him though, don't commit a crime.<br /><br />Jail is not fun o, black lives matter my sister, those police officers and prison security are not monitored, they will show you pepper and you may have to trade your o so precious virginity for something in jail if someone doesn't trade it for you to benefit themselves, if you don't get r*ped that is... yes, women r*pe women...<br /><br />Please, please, I'm begging you, do something else, move your life forward and start over, channel this energy into getting your life better.......<br /><br />If you kill due to depression you're going down dearie, no special treatment, na die or max security prison be that, not all this Orange Is The New Black glamorous sturves....<br /><br />A word is enough.... thanks Stella and Poster<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-66503835968760737822021-04-08T22:21:45.709+02:002021-04-08T22:21:45.709+02:00How did this ruin your life? Many people told lies...How did this ruin your life? Many people told lies about others too and they are still making waves! How did this ruin your life? Even teenagers who got pregnant have a life ! So what’s your excuse? I am not begging u! If u kill him u go to jail, I think u have serious mental health problems and u need help, just because person lie say u de toast am and ur life got ruined? All the branches of the church known to ur story after how many years? U need help irrespective of the fact that the man is an arsehole Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-34259852500575875612021-04-08T22:14:34.278+02:002021-04-08T22:14:34.278+02:00I tiya ooo, many of us have been accused of worst ...I tiya ooo, many of us have been accused of worst and people who knew still talk but we no die! We still move on! Are u saying the other benches church members still remember ur story and u can’t live ur life again because of what people will say? Yea the man wronged u so why are u not moving on? It happened as a child and na u de bear the consequences? A bit strange ! And till now after years people are still talking about u???! Unbelievable! Even Davido and Chioma news of two weeks ago , we don forget amAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-25788307071285741082021-04-08T22:08:32.495+02:002021-04-08T22:08:32.495+02:00Wow!!!Wow!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-12155444696529077012021-04-08T21:37:31.318+02:002021-04-08T21:37:31.318+02:00So that? So all the other advice given are not goo...So that? So all the other advice given are not good enough abi Ronalda will cure her? MtcheeeewAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-37126705671415835822021-04-08T21:21:34.491+02:002021-04-08T21:21:34.491+02:00Forgiveness is one of the hardest thing to do, tha...Forgiveness is one of the hardest thing to do, that's why they say to forgive is Divine. <br /><br />Dear Poster, I understand how you feel, I get you! <br />I was falsely accused of witchcraft for years by the very people sponsoring my education. I was emotionally and psychologically abused. I was stigmatized, my self-esteem was in the gutters, I was shattered to the point that I thought I was going mad. Anger, Bitterness, Malice, Unforgiveness, Hatred, Resentment were all I felt for over 18 years. I was and still a virgin but they accused me of waywardness. I tried to take my life a few times.<br /><br /> I tried on my own to forgive them I couldn't, I kept rehearsing the pains and hurts over and over. These negative emotions kept me stagnant and poor, I couldn't make headway with my life, I was stuck in a vicious circle of poverty, lack and want. No job, no business, no relationship, no money, no child. I was locked up in my own prison while these people went on to become prosperous and happily married.<br /><br />I cried out to God on my 39th birthday for a change, the mercy of God prevailed for me. I deliberately called their names and pronounced forgiveness to them and blessed them, it was tough and painful. Sometimes, I go back to cursing them, but with time and help, I could bless and forgive them. The Good Lord helped me. The weight of Unforgiveness, Malice, Anger, Resentment, Bitterness, Hatred was lifted, not at once but gradually. They no longer live rentfree in my head.<br /><br />Dear poster, I know your pain, I understand your pain. I've been there. It's hard to just forgive. It's not humanly possible. But you deserve the very best that life has to offer. You are blessed and highly favoured by God, that's why the devil used that man and those religious people to try to destroy you. You are a Bacon of hope to your generation. Let God use your pain and story to help others. You went through all these for a reason. Don't let your pain go to waste. God can use it to your greatest good if you will hand it over to Him.<br />Dear Poster, please and please, my heart goes out to you, may God comfort and change your story. Please my love, let go of this decision to kill him, let God do it. <br /><br />I am praying for you. I love you and wish you the very best that life has to offer.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-36581708754375155532021-04-08T21:09:36.851+02:002021-04-08T21:09:36.851+02:00@ Ceaser, are you for real? Hmm..@ Ceaser, are you for real? Hmm..Ms. Tutunoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-44128032880444481902021-04-08T21:04:12.379+02:002021-04-08T21:04:12.379+02:00Oh Please Poster, cut the pathetic chase already, ...Oh Please Poster, cut the pathetic chase already, so it if you want to! Your plan are NOTHING but stupid and useless! You keep saying church this members that, you are like those pathetic church goers that give their entire beings to humans in the name of church and pastor. So what he lied that you were a prostitute, so what? did you become one? The best revenge would have been you being the DOCTOR and the icing on the cake would have been you marrying and making it public that you married a virgin! I still believe you developed mental illness at a very early age because you had no help not even from your parents. You are sick and the earlier you accept it, the better for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-91850911927112911122021-04-08T21:03:23.499+02:002021-04-08T21:03:23.499+02:00Poster, I understand how you feel... sorry <3
...Poster, I understand how you feel... sorry <3<br /><br />I won't ask you to forgive him till you are ready, don't.... it will kill you now... let the anger drive you to better yourself and fight for a better future.<br /><br />If you are abroad and you have mental health issues they will prioritize you for school funding and training, take it, take the opportunity and get something to work with for now, even a one year diploma, then you can work and focus on getting a degree, even if it's not in medicine...<br /><br />My second point is, why are you still in touch with the guy???? Block him on all platforms, tell the people in your shelter that he's stalking you and you don't want him to visit you, file charges if you must if he keep's trying to see you and talk to you, you may need the filed police charges for the record for later, na abroad we dey... <br /><br />Don't give him time, he's a sick user who will never repent, just focus on you...<br /><br />My sister why are you still around those stupid church folks who constantly judge you... why...? Please find another church.... you strike me as someone who takes faith seriously so get out of that toxic environment... don't tell anyone what's going on till you trust them or don't tell them at all... or don't go to church at all for now if you are not up to it, you need to rid yourself of toxic people.... and of course toxic environments...<br /><br />As a bonus, please seek a professional counselor, not church counselor ooo... you need to talk to someone about how you feel, and please stay on that medication no matter what... you're beginning to process information like you're obsessed, don't let him do that to you too...<br /><br />Finally, get proof, get some sort of recording if you can and file charges with the police and forget about it. This isn't absolutely necessary, but I believe it will give you some closure. I feel your parents failed you by forcing you to forgive someone who hurt you so deeply, that's Africans for you sometimes. Learn from this and let go of the pain gradually in your own time, I won't tell you to forgive or let it go yet... but babe you need to channel your pain into something else.....<br /><br />Sending love and light.... <3<br /><br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-22907572377851429552021-04-08T20:52:43.063+02:002021-04-08T20:52:43.063+02:00You are weak and can't do him shit! Your hate ...You are weak and can't do him shit! Your hate has eaten away every strength to help your own self and you think it's easy to ruin another human being who is mentally healthier than you are? <br /><br />If you want to deal with him, start by being so successful beyond his imagination. Grow and climb so high and acquire the right platform to humiliate him.Ms Saphire®https://www.blogger.com/profile/10444512110488257360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-78614953445753591152021-04-08T20:45:59.550+02:002021-04-08T20:45:59.550+02:00Forgiveness is one of the hardest thing to do, tha...Forgiveness is one of the hardest thing to do, that's why they say to forgive is Divine. <br /><br />Dear Poster, I understand how you feel, I get you! <br />I was falsely accused of witchcraft for years by the very people sponsoring my education. I was emotionally and psychologically abused. I was stigmatized, my self-esteem was in the gutters, I was shattered to the point that I thought I was going mad. Anger, Bitterness, Malice, Unforgiveness, Hatred, Resentment were all I felt for over 18 years. I was and still a virgin but they accused me of waywardness. I tried to take my life a few times.<br /><br /> I tried on my own to forgive them I couldn't, I kept rehearsing the pains and hurts over and over. These negative emotions kept me stagnant and poor, I couldn't make headway with my life, I was stuck in a vicious circle of poverty, lack and want. No job, no business, no relationship, no money, no child. I was locked up in my own prison while these people went on to become prosperous and happily married.<br /><br />I cried out to God on my 39th birthday for a change, the mercy of God prevailed for me. I deliberately called their names and pronounced forgiveness to them and blessed them, it was tough and painful. Sometimes, I go back to cursing them, but with time and help, I could bless and forgive them. The Good Lord helped me. The weight of Unforgiveness, Malice, Anger, Resentment, Bitterness, Hatred was lifted, not at once but gradually. They no longer live rentfree in my head.<br /><br />Dear poster, I know your pain, I understand your pain. I've been there. It's hard to just forgive. It's not humanly possible. But you deserve the very best that life has to offer. You are blessed and highly favoured by God, that's why the devil used that man and those religious people to try to destroy you. You are a Bacon of hope to your generation. Let God use your pain and story to help others. You went through all these for a reason. Don't let your pain go to waste. God can use it to your greatest good if you will hand it over to Him.<br />Dear Poster, please and please, my heart goes out to you, may God comfort and change your story. Please my love, let go of this decision to kill him, let God do it. <br /><br />I am praying for you. I love you and wish you the very best that life has to offer.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-28707220493304907732021-04-08T20:21:41.210+02:002021-04-08T20:21:41.210+02:00Poster, may God heal your heart. I can never know ...Poster, may God heal your heart. I can never know how you feel but can only imagine the pain. False allegations are pure evil and have destroyed many people including you but not forever as you can reclaim your life back from this evil man.<br /><br />You have lost so much and this would have also damaged you mentally. You have to embrace your own mental well-being. The revenge will destroy you, in fact the planning is destroying you now and is holding you back, not just what that evil man did. Remove his evil act and your losses from your daily thoughts.<br /><br />YOU MATTER! Please forgive yourself because you certainly blame yourself as all victims do. You did nothing wrong but you must start believing it before you can move on. You can’t fight the devil alone, you need God because this man is the devil in human form. Focus on yourself in a positive way. Say nice things to yourself constantly, play music, dance and smile. Don’t take your life for granted no matter what has been lost. <br /><br />You can still make it in life but you have to make a plan. It won’t be easy but you have to replace the overwhelming feeling of revenge with an overwhelming feeling of achieving your goals.<br /><br />Every single day, practice making yourself a priority and plan for the future. Just researching your options will give you a mental boost. Be kind to yourself. Please 🙏🏾Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com