tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post3761841131720886118..comments2024-03-28T23:56:15.295+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...stella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger61125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-14980739386214627162021-11-01T09:48:21.416+01:002021-11-01T09:48:21.416+01:00Babyboo help me and ask them oo, hypocrites everyw...Babyboo help me and ask them oo, hypocrites everywhere. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-29765425098631299682021-11-01T06:51:03.388+01:002021-11-01T06:51:03.388+01:00I taught my kids to start doing their own dishes r...I taught my kids to start doing their own dishes room tidy hoovering taking bin out from age 7 they’re now pros. They’re so tidy even outside. Don’t let the use of house help ruin our kids na una sabi btw I live abroad Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-84504222824273764392021-11-01T06:42:32.972+01:002021-11-01T06:42:32.972+01:00Madam keep quiet. Stop bulling her stop raising yo...Madam keep quiet. Stop bulling her stop raising your voice. You should be happy she cried. Some will just keep quiet carry piss put for your food. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-57833651779977495222021-11-01T04:34:31.956+01:002021-11-01T04:34:31.956+01:00I am not wicked to her in any way Pls. I am not wicked to her in any way Pls. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-67315343262058499362021-11-01T04:33:16.703+01:002021-11-01T04:33:16.703+01:00Thank you I will see to that
Poster Thank you I will see to that <br /><br />Poster Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-13929376400617471882021-11-01T03:39:52.120+01:002021-11-01T03:39:52.120+01:00Thank you from anon. She washes and sweeps. The ma...Thank you from anon. She washes and sweeps. The madam probably has a washing machine, cooks her food herself and still goes out to hustle for money every day. Who should be more stressed? The work most of them do are regular children chores.Babyboohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10555103939323442458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-31406615261794670712021-11-01T03:35:42.682+01:002021-11-01T03:35:42.682+01:00Everybody be oyibo for this blog. So your parents ...Everybody be oyibo for this blog. So your parents didn't shout or flog you growing up? Story. Most of them want to be treated better than your kids. How please?Babyboohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10555103939323442458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-75980396401737479012021-10-31T22:56:56.245+01:002021-10-31T22:56:56.245+01:00The way you wrote your chronicle make you sound li...The way you wrote your chronicle make you sound like a horrible person. "Work plenty on her matter" "she has been serving me well" "she cries anytime she is rebuked". Please search yourself and see if you are the reason for her distress. Our words say more about us than we think. Peace.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-8565660369152285902021-10-31T21:20:05.897+01:002021-10-31T21:20:05.897+01:00I was just wondering when raising one voice become...I was just wondering when raising one voice becomes a crime which is even better than beating. Yemi7uphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05885551880431466711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-37522909550250523402021-10-31T21:04:22.804+01:002021-10-31T21:04:22.804+01:00I learnt how to bark like a mad woman like my mum ...I learnt how to bark like a mad woman like my mum smh some parents destroyed their kids life with bad habits now my voice is hoarse like an Igbo smoking thug God help me . My poor daughter too is learning it and rubbish goes onAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-52916152151774243252021-10-31T20:44:33.375+01:002021-10-31T20:44:33.375+01:00The way we form saint on this blog scares me.........The way we form saint on this blog scares me.......is more like there should be no more correction on this earthAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-53830995190094642872021-10-31T20:00:05.433+01:002021-10-31T20:00:05.433+01:00She how she’s down playing ‘raised voice”. madam y...She how she’s down playing ‘raised voice”. madam you shout at her point blank! She’s a grown adult and treat her as such for Gods sake! Hell it’s disrespectful shouting and correcting her in that manner in front of your kids. She’s probably going through ptsd or depressed like others have mentioned. Sit her down and ask her why she cries whenever you correct her. I bet you if you correct her in a firm and assertive way but with love, and ask her what’s really going on, she’ll open up to you. Always shouting shouting shouting habaaaa. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-56039676547153564762021-10-31T19:58:36.457+01:002021-10-31T19:58:36.457+01:00This poster is funny in a way. Imagine identifying...This poster is funny in a way. Imagine identifying the problem, and yet asking further question.<br /><br />Please, isolate raising your voice and reprimand her calmly. People tend to understand correction better when it explained. Going forward, try control your emotions when correcting her - restain your flares by biting your lips next time.Ebony Ogehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13183148341101228744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-70653324747906725402021-10-31T19:52:49.401+01:002021-10-31T19:52:49.401+01:00Anon 17:37 kisses to you. See the yeye person up t...Anon 17:37 kisses to you. See the yeye person up there saying it’s normal to yell. No wonder why we have a lot of childhood trauma. Yelling, beating kids mercilessly did not solve and will never solve any issues!!!! I still struggle and suffer ptsd from how my dad beat me like I wasn’t his daughter growi mg up. It is not healthy!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-5693517140065962372021-10-31T19:29:58.029+01:002021-10-31T19:29:58.029+01:00People are different and react in various ways.
T...People are different and react in various ways.<br /><br />There are ways to bring out the best in her and not by shouting.<br />All the bestRichie Richhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09843065868127631134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-18996558738757078962021-10-31T18:53:30.314+01:002021-10-31T18:53:30.314+01:00@17:37
👍👍👍👍👍👍🥂@17:37<br />👍👍👍👍👍👍🥂Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-51551380213035047062021-10-31T18:38:23.250+01:002021-10-31T18:38:23.250+01:00Talk to her like a big sister..reduce the shouting...Talk to her like a big sister..reduce the shouting****Bbjac****https://www.blogger.com/profile/08417813629621567941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-24249539425285839472021-10-31T18:34:38.368+01:002021-10-31T18:34:38.368+01:00All of you that cannot address issues without shou...All of you that cannot address issues without shouting have mental health issues. Take it or leave it. That's why people who grew up around you have self esteem problems.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-5053518204662411332021-10-31T18:30:09.136+01:002021-10-31T18:30:09.136+01:00Madam I think you are the one who has alot to lear...Madam I think you are the one who has alot to learn from her. For your mind to have become conditioned that correction must be violent or in anger with raised voice, then you should pray your children learn from her and never accept violence as an ok way of teaching and learning. She is impressive and has a healthy sence of dignity in spite of her rural upbringing.<br />You only have more money than her family but they are richer than you.Ms Saphire®https://www.blogger.com/profile/10444512110488257360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-90743935992244729922021-10-31T18:23:22.488+01:002021-10-31T18:23:22.488+01:00Hold her husband tight? What has that got to do wi...Hold her husband tight? What has that got to do with the post?<br />By the way some men are well discipline. <br /><br />Don't come and put sand in someone's garri.SOMETHING-LIGHThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01818011583090708371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-91165395846032617652021-10-31T18:21:07.258+01:002021-10-31T18:21:07.258+01:00Some of them even fight like touts here, imagine w...Some of them even fight like touts here, imagine what they're like offline, but they will be writing saintly advice online steady steady 😀😀Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-14907810650113619272021-10-31T18:19:25.820+01:002021-10-31T18:19:25.820+01:00Natasha, Natasha!!!Natasha, Natasha!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-50234089787822685172021-10-31T18:08:32.547+01:002021-10-31T18:08:32.547+01:00Since you've understood that about her,try usi...Since you've understood that about her,try using a different approach like using a firm,normal voice to reprimand her after previous corrections.She's obviously emotional about leaving home,and the problem that made her leave in the first place may be overwhelming her too,take it easy,with time,things will normalize.Babybooskyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16604321848378348645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-87686996388748010842021-10-31T17:47:11.186+01:002021-10-31T17:47:11.186+01:00You need to let her know that u raising your voice...You need to let her know that u raising your voice at her doesn't mean u hate her.make her to understand u rebuking her means u love her. Let her get ready for more life experience. Hmm! a 23yrs old female maid. I am sure her body organs will have develop to a ripe stage. U better hold your husband tight so that we won't hearing stories that touch the heart. Hmm! there shall be no loss of husband. Natashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05944986694019534884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-90984359981168994852021-10-31T17:41:20.973+01:002021-10-31T17:41:20.973+01:00Both of you need therapy. You have no idea the tra...Both of you need therapy. You have no idea the trauma you have been put through but will pass it on to your children as 'normal'.<br /><br />Why should your HOD at the university shout at you? Why? <br />Why should your 'office employer ' or colleagues shout at you? In an office Mon Dieu.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com