tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post386549904870654095..comments2024-03-19T05:33:00.080+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...stella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger88125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-37380113125561945962021-12-19T17:12:52.415+01:002021-12-19T17:12:52.415+01:00I’m sure she’s seen warning signs but her own low ...I’m sure she’s seen warning signs but her own low self esteem won’t allow her reason properly Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-27027869184144424512021-12-19T17:10:28.996+01:002021-12-19T17:10:28.996+01:00There’s no way in hell I’ll communicate with her o...There’s no way in hell I’ll communicate with her on a neutral level after she’s hurt me that much. I must express my mind ni and move on after then. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-59758421213610273922021-12-19T16:59:53.205+01:002021-12-19T16:59:53.205+01:00Why would you wave it aside when you said you were...Why would you wave it aside when you said you were shocked. She was wrong on all levels. Nigerians and not expressing their minds sha. So annoyingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-25473875718152880102021-12-19T13:16:21.299+01:002021-12-19T13:16:21.299+01:00No be malaria.. Hahaha
If she calls you, casual a...No be malaria.. Hahaha<br /><br />If she calls you, casual answer then move on, you can't please everyone. Don't waste your credit to even call her. Mao Akuh (Oriflame)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13700514188857440402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-15194607312509502122021-12-19T11:33:01.735+01:002021-12-19T11:33:01.735+01:00AyayaAyayaPearl Sandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08859307668185646812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-1086634837505020822021-12-19T11:23:22.210+01:002021-12-19T11:23:22.210+01:00Absolutely Absolutely Pearl Sandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08859307668185646812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-37313387476382101252021-12-19T10:58:26.916+01:002021-12-19T10:58:26.916+01:00🤣🤣Pearl Sandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08859307668185646812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-31678260328034813192021-12-19T10:57:47.014+01:002021-12-19T10:57:47.014+01:00Ms. Sapphire, I support your advice Ms. Sapphire, I support your advice Pearl Sandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08859307668185646812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-36177145144014096032021-12-19T10:23:15.855+01:002021-12-19T10:23:15.855+01:00Even family can shock you
If you know what I disco...Even family can shock you<br />If you know what I discovered some years after the deeds were done, however the calmness I take receive the information na divine<br /><br />Forget human beings<br /><br />Hold GOD<br />Don't assume, let them show you who they are and walk accordingly<br /><br />Family means nothing if conscience and heart no deyJet lihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17291507452349893969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-56833388776493408692021-12-19T09:25:05.156+01:002021-12-19T09:25:05.156+01:00She was ur best friend, u were not her best friend...She was ur best friend, u were not her best friend. Follow Stella’s advice and waka. Kpele. I know how u feelAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-44802302450648926862021-12-19T09:08:34.701+01:002021-12-19T09:08:34.701+01:00I get what you mean and while I would not go so fa...I get what you mean and while I would not go so far as to say this person was a best friend,we were friends (or so I thought). We work in the same organisation and see each other practically everyday. I was more experienced in the TTC journey cos I had been through a lot already when we met while she was more or less a novice. I shared so much information,experience with her and tried to encourage her as much as I can cos she was always depressed about her situation. Just the one time she could have been reciprocated with reasonable information for me,she withheld it. <br /><br />But it's okay. Me I don't take things to heart and realise that human beings will and can be funny at times. At least,now I know who she is. So it's to keep it moving. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-60406663081857422962021-12-19T04:53:46.432+01:002021-12-19T04:53:46.432+01:00ANG will never use the word bitches never. ANG will never use the word bitches never. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-60314022602938667592021-12-18T21:24:34.646+01:002021-12-18T21:24:34.646+01:00Nah, she won't experience worse cos she's ...Nah, she won't experience worse cos she's not dense. Abi dem tie your waist to them wey you nor fit cut them off, instead of enduring their BS? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-86747578335883781922021-12-18T21:23:56.162+01:002021-12-18T21:23:56.162+01:00This was posted days ago on IHN abi SP and someone...This was posted days ago on IHN abi SP and someone said this poster was overeating. Quote 'she does not owe you anything. I am sure the person who left this comment is just like the posters friend. When stella will bring up a post on friendships you will then see 'I have no friends! I am my own best friend!'. How will you have friends when you are just a shitty person like this posters 'friend'.<br />Like I said then, block her everywhere and move.Binihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14816870665401563025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-33636756482013606422021-12-18T21:22:59.924+01:002021-12-18T21:22:59.924+01:00Friends that behave like that are always jealous a...Friends that behave like that are always jealous and envious of their friends.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-32179537413616254792021-12-18T21:22:49.253+01:002021-12-18T21:22:49.253+01:00They were bad friends, yet you were wacking free f...They were bad friends, yet you were wacking free food from them before you ported.<br />At least they did something good for you na, for you to have stuck with them b4 you travelled. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-4171231973907267262021-12-18T21:20:58.006+01:002021-12-18T21:20:58.006+01:00You ghosted them but turned monitoring spirit.
Mu...You ghosted them but turned monitoring spirit. <br />Must be nice 🙄Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-79414622658407425782021-12-18T21:19:48.009+01:002021-12-18T21:19:48.009+01:00Omo! The way you're abusing somebody shows you...Omo! The way you're abusing somebody shows you're equally as bad as those your friends.<br />Besides,if they were as bad as you're trying to paint them, why didn't you cut them off long before you traveled? Oh, I know, you probably needed them to perfect your japa plans. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-48437997503851909952021-12-18T21:17:34.061+01:002021-12-18T21:17:34.061+01:00I could have written this story. Just that in my c...I could have written this story. Just that in my case she got married and we weren't that close anymore but cordial and always checking up on each other. Fast forward to 2018, I wanted to start processing Canadian PR and I told all my friends but since we were not that close anymore and she's married with children, I just advised her to discuss it with her husband that it might be good for her family. The way she cut me off ends, na something. 2019, she messaged me she was relocating to Canada with her family. Next thing she said I didn't tell her about my relocation, thank God for WhatsApp, I just sent her a screen grab and everything made sense. Apparently when I was giving her the friendly advice, she was already processing and submitted 2 days after I told her meanwhile, I hadn't even written ielts nor entered pool. Poster, I know how annoying it is but in life, you need to take somethings with a pinch of salt.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-85623953759398428512021-12-18T21:16:20.921+01:002021-12-18T21:16:20.921+01:00Nor vex. I don't think she hates you. Most Nig...Nor vex. I don't think she hates you. Most Nigerian pregnant women will rather be seen pregnant than to open their mouth and announce it. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-77917632635791891882021-12-18T21:14:00.903+01:002021-12-18T21:14:00.903+01:00Lolll yours is even good.
My so called university...Lolll yours is even good. <br />My so called university friend got married and moved to Australia without saying a WORD.<br />Not one word.<br />One day I still said let me even send a Greetings message to her on Facebook when I found her page.<br /><br />My people 9 YEARS LATER Aunty responded to the greeting, talmabout she didnt know how she missed that comment. <br /><br />Mind you she has never reached out to me in any way since then.<br /><br />I guess my usefulness expired immediately we graduated.<br /><br />I dey my lane now, I don't keep friends.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-70079444989502235732021-12-18T21:12:47.008+01:002021-12-18T21:12:47.008+01:00Saphire, ang said she's an American citizen. I...Saphire, ang said she's an American citizen. I doubt if she needs to process papers to japaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-74435446448165573302021-12-18T21:11:51.422+01:002021-12-18T21:11:51.422+01:00Ah...They were terrible indeed and you hung out wi...Ah...They were terrible indeed and you hung out with them till the day you left. You better take a close look at yourself. We are here giving you advice to change your criminal ways and you are boiling. <br />May I continue to have friends like me. May you continue to meet friends that are like you. Amen.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-43565953163692645142021-12-18T20:41:12.557+01:002021-12-18T20:41:12.557+01:00You can't teach other people how to behave,we ...You can't teach other people how to behave,we are all different people,I have experienced lots of bad friends in different forms,but guess what I still roll with them when they come back to me,I let it slide but I set boundaries and be Your attitude towards her would be different definitely and she would notice so please let her know the reason for it.<br />*****************************************<br />Now let me tell just one of all the bad experiences similar to this that I've had with people I call my bosom friends,She reads this blog,she may read this,My friend was single and searching and always in a sad mood crying,lamenting about her life,I decided to introduce her to my husband's friend,I basically like told the guy I wanted him to be serious not just fling,and I would always talk to him behind my friend's back to behave himself and not put me to shame,the guy listens to me despite that my husband was against me introducing them,I couldn't be bothered,lo and behold,my friend got pregnant that same month they met,she called me crying to tell me the result of her pregnancy test,I was the one that called my husband's friend,sat him down,begged him that my friend is pregnant and he should please marry her,the guy refused at first that how can he meet a girl and she gets pregnant this quick and that my request was too much for him,I continued to beg on my friend's behalf,even went to his Mum to speak to her about it,the guy later accepted after so much persuation,Then her calls reduced,one day one of our mutual friend called me from Nigeria to tell me that my friend was getting married,me soji babe,I pretended as if I knew already,this our mutual friend even asked me if I knew who she was marrying since we live abroad together,in my head I was doing makosa dance in reverse,like seriously!!! So this babe is getting married,and I that orchestraed the whole thing didn't even know about it,it is someone far away in Nigeria that is telling me that she invited them to go with her for her traditional wedding at her inlaws place in Naija,the wedding was in Nigeria and abroad,I asked my husband if his friend told him he was getting married,my husband said No,I felt very bad that she could deprive me of sharing that joy with her but I let it slide,then she had her baby,I heard from our mutual friend again,I sent her a congratulatory message,she didn't reply,didn't call me till it was a day to the naming ceremony,she sent the address of the hall she was having the party with a message saying come if you want,I showed the message to my husband,he said we shouldn't go,I refused I told him we must go to that naming ceremony,we went oo,infact na me dance pass that day������,then kept a distance again and I let her be,she got pregnant and had another baby,I travelled to another country at the time of the naming so I didn't get to attend,Her husband too stayed away from my husband,but one day the guy came to our house and started begging myself and my husband that he knows he has wronged us,he called his mom on the phone to help him beg us,that his wife was behind his behaviour,he said she was the one that told him not to tell us they were getting married,said my friend was always comparing us fighting him always cursing him that he is stupid,can't he be like my husband,he said my friend even forced him to go get a mortgage he couldn't afford just because he wanted him to be like my husband,he said she would tell people that I jazzed my husband that they should help and deliver their friend(my husband)from me,she would say alot of bad things about me,his mother even confirmed all,I said to the guy that I don't wanna know,after all you did stayed away from us when she told you to,I confronted her and she denied it all,but I still let it all slide and I am still friends with her,but she got no place in my heart no more,just fun friend kind of things.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-39065902333096105292021-12-18T20:31:33.371+01:002021-12-18T20:31:33.371+01:00Exactly, na so one of my so called friends lied to...Exactly, na so one of my so called friends lied to me she was going to school, but she actually moved abroad to be with her husband (she had a low key bride price payment a few weeks before travelling, kept that one secret too of course).<br />I didn't even stress it, I moved on from that moment. I just take it that you don't see me in the same light I see you. I don't like confrontations, I'm more of 'pick unspoken cues and act on it'. Dainty Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16302169793849074927noreply@blogger.com