tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post4556323304292646225..comments2024-03-28T10:29:59.929+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Courtship Questionsstella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger52125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-46787225890333057072017-09-02T11:08:03.652+02:002017-09-02T11:08:03.652+02:00Because some families have wickedness running in t...Because some families have wickedness running in their lineage. Also don't have the fear of God when relating with others. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-19308824930646508292017-09-02T10:47:47.127+02:002017-09-02T10:47:47.127+02:00I think during courtship u should also look at his...I think during courtship u should also look at his or her family values for marriage. Do love exist in the family. Because the family where a partner grew up play an important role in ones life in future. It is important to know that is a family that live themselves and also love and live peacefully with others. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16547481415585249791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-27830160839069209182017-09-02T07:23:02.523+02:002017-09-02T07:23:02.523+02:00Anonymous she stating the obvious,this money mata ...Anonymous she stating the obvious,this money mata causes a lot of issues cos couples assume they understand each other with money matter till after marriage.<br />@Pastors daughter,money matter no be black and white o,all u can do is decide if its joint/separate accounts!TheLagosShopper(Everything sold in lagos markets/popular UK brands!https://www.blogger.com/profile/09465151835503776084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-57956928044420334722017-09-01T23:27:03.126+02:002017-09-01T23:27:03.126+02:00Sherikoko, u are the one making a fool of yourself...Sherikoko, u are the one making a fool of yourself. Telling me he senses my desperation is telling me the truth??? Are u both stupid??? Where have I hinted that I've acted desperate. Do u think I don't have sense or don't know how to handle a relationship Eka Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15418885778334503843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-34022795061226787172017-09-01T21:57:38.145+02:002017-09-01T21:57:38.145+02:00I've learnt a lot tonight....good nightI've learnt a lot tonight....good nightqueen hadassahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04797802617925834843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-12285890951905871222017-09-01T21:26:55.453+02:002017-09-01T21:26:55.453+02:00If you've built true friendship with the perso...If you've built true friendship with the person, there is nothing you two shouldn't be able to talk about, no need to put pressure on him, just ask what his plans are, when he's looking to get married, you can even chip in when you'll like to get married, as long as you two are in a good place in your relationship, and you feel marriage plans should start coming, ask him directly, and know your stand, I can discuss ANYTHING with my husband.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-14520310979102007162017-09-01T21:17:32.843+02:002017-09-01T21:17:32.843+02:00So because he told u the truth he's stupid. U ...So because he told u the truth he's stupid. U just made a fool of ursef.SheriKokohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00728160066117674366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-77163585552637624572017-09-01T20:52:48.006+02:002017-09-01T20:52:48.006+02:00I'm here to learn. Ask if your house would be ...I'm here to learn. Ask if your house would be pilgrimage destination for all family members. Are you comfortable sharing your space with other people apart from your wife/husband? What's the maximum duration relations can stay. Very importantAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07657785438303238897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-44031196272765520892017-09-01T20:38:15.202+02:002017-09-01T20:38:15.202+02:00May and Doppel 👍👍May and Doppel 👍👍SWAG LAFRESH https://www.blogger.com/profile/12942171619363816293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-74862249832261981102017-09-01T20:35:46.342+02:002017-09-01T20:35:46.342+02:00Read Pl's commentRead Pl's commentSWAG LAFRESH https://www.blogger.com/profile/12942171619363816293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-88402355216936605832017-09-01T18:28:12.863+02:002017-09-01T18:28:12.863+02:00I believe people in courtship should discuss their...I believe people in courtship should discuss their sex life and preferences<br />They need to discuss how the finances is or intend to be like how much house keeping allowance the man would be willing to give the woman<br />They need to discuss any health issues<br />They need to discuss the norm in each family<br />They need to discuss their religious beliefs and personal principles<br />They sure need to discuss the number of children they would want<br />And above all start praying together not only gbenching. If you're afraid or shy to pray with someone you're dating something is seriously wrong...sholetogahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14950903231408113900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-17140826544965940832017-09-01T18:26:37.763+02:002017-09-01T18:26:37.763+02:00PL The Great, on point! Leave the guy freaking alo...PL The Great, on point! Leave the guy freaking alone, before you look desperate. <br />Another way is to keep open doors for other boos. If he sees you are being hunted, he will want to hurry. Even though the others are not serious, let it be like they are hunting towards marriage.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17227928885694783954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-3033968088729562752017-09-01T18:21:03.171+02:002017-09-01T18:21:03.171+02:00Eka I like you a lot. Don't be desperate plea...Eka I like you a lot. Don't be desperate please. Again ladies also check yourselves! Are you sure you don't stink down there? Take this info to the bank.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-57559969522499430072017-09-01T18:03:49.321+02:002017-09-01T18:03:49.321+02:00Eka joy, why not start a conversation with him? Tr...Eka joy, why not start a conversation with him? Try this: take a trip down memory lane and tell him of all the things you wanted to have achieved before getting married and ask him what were his dreams for marriage. It'll let you know where his head is at. Secondly, don't be afraid to let him know you'd like commitment and you are willing to take a walk if you don't get it. You have to put the fear of God into these men sometimes. It worked for me.iuleha virologistnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-35412024274991550182017-09-01T18:03:10.373+02:002017-09-01T18:03:10.373+02:00Eka JOy: If you are sure he is the one and he is f...Eka JOy: If you are sure he is the one and he is foot-dragging, jazz him. Otumokpo his behind that before he knows it, you have 4 kids already. Tie him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-17835347941342631382017-09-01T17:50:46.361+02:002017-09-01T17:50:46.361+02:00Correct!Correct!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-11591507486759870642017-09-01T17:05:20.372+02:002017-09-01T17:05:20.372+02:00Anon 16:19...thank you for your comment. She is ti...Anon 16:19...thank you for your comment. She is time bomb waiting to explode in a man's house. Woman with low self esteem that feels a man is her ATM card.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-13008706202818975772017-09-01T17:01:57.169+02:002017-09-01T17:01:57.169+02:00You are a gold digger who thinks marriage is a mon...You are a gold digger who thinks marriage is a money making venture. Take it from me who is almost 20years in the marriage business you will end up with a dubious man with the kind of attitude you have.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-28269314492353149482017-09-01T16:35:53.728+02:002017-09-01T16:35:53.728+02:00It's necessary to talk about church especially...It's necessary to talk about church especially if you attend different churches.Where would you both reside (if you live in different states).How both finances would be controlled and used,what contributions do we make every month and what do we save.How many of our family members are allowed to stay with us and for how long. Who decides names for our children.How do we raise our children (most times couples have conflict of interest when it comes to this,cause many atimes they tend to want to raise their kids up the way they were raised). Everything about the past,present and future should be talked about,dreams and aspirations shouldn't be left out. What responsibility does he have (if he is the eldest child or from a poor background. Do you have a child. And every other thing Doppel mentioned up there.Maynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-1047930486293199942017-09-01T16:19:04.843+02:002017-09-01T16:19:04.843+02:00Definitely make a horrid wife, this kind of person...Definitely make a horrid wife, this kind of person that if the husband runs into financial difficulties the man will commit suicide because of your bad mentality.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-47515563296924388892017-09-01T15:57:33.515+02:002017-09-01T15:57:33.515+02:00Wow for the first time you make sense Wow for the first time you make sense OGABOSShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05420432776645415703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-17313898057503550802017-09-01T15:55:26.810+02:002017-09-01T15:55:26.810+02:00You will make a terrible wife You will make a terrible wife OGABOSShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05420432776645415703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-4429392328280134362017-09-01T15:45:36.336+02:002017-09-01T15:45:36.336+02:00Yes, I've been called many names on this blog ...Yes, I've been called many names on this blog including "anonymous copy and paste".<br />This topics are never stale. I've been on this blog for years and I have observed that<br />courtships do not exist but "sexship". Girls just meet a guy and "give him sex to keep him" and write chronicles.<br />Let me copy and paste it again: My experience:<br />Discussion topics for courtship<br /><br /><br />I married my husband after 4 years of courtship without sex; we just did not go there. There were a lot to discuss;<br /><br />1. Our careers; levels and who goes first for this and that degrees<br />2. Our finances; joint account with either to sign/taking care of our respective parents/ which relatives to admit and take up responsibility and which not to etc.<br />3. Our kids/ number (gender matters interference or not), discipline (he knew how to do it; my weakest point), schooling/fees etc.<br />4. Scriptures/prayers/fasting (fixed and did it together): Church denominational issues trashed; we should attend any but together etc. <br />5. Wedding; non denominational (had to bring the two families together), low key (invest the money instead of lavishing it in a day on frivolities)/ attires (no need buying an exorbitant wedding dress from UK and having it as a liability afterwards), we still reap the dividends from the savings from our wedding.<br /><br />Really, we discussed a lot and we keep on discussing. We rarely had enough time each time we went out on a date. We do not remember sex and we really did not want to do it and appear hypocritical to ourselves and all. More than ten years of marital journey and with kids; I've got peace, lots of love and trust. If you tell me that you tell me that my husband was with a lady, I will laugh you to scorn. Is it not the same man who for 4 years was with me in the most secure and secluded of places and never attempted to undress me? The trust is mutual and we enjoy a very beautiful sex life. Marriage is beautiful if you plan it with God and stay resolved.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-5158253935270934552017-09-01T14:54:21.503+02:002017-09-01T14:54:21.503+02:00It's very important to know who you are a in a...It's very important to know who you are a in a relationship with in 'totoh'😀<br />I dated a guy for three years without knowing him well. I was blinded by money and other gifts I didn't ask the necessary questions. One thing I notice people take for granted is their spouse's religious beliefs/stand.<br />If your husband sow ur only car to his pastor as a seed will you be cool with it? <br />If he gives his last card or your daughter school fees as seed are you gonna be okay?<br />Do u guys have to agree in what u give to God? <br />I dated someone who even though his mum and siblings are suffering in the village, he was in d city sowing everything he owns. <br />Note: I'm not saying its a bad thing to sow seeds o, but will u be cool with it if u find ur self in the above mentioned situation? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-83810060150382395012017-09-01T14:50:57.707+02:002017-09-01T14:50:57.707+02:00Sex MUST be spontaneous naSex MUST be spontaneous naShooter Gyalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08491293750612015968noreply@blogger.com