tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post5685158134345807519..comments2024-03-29T04:59:43.105+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....stella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger94125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-24523344019276986372021-02-23T14:16:01.028+01:002021-02-23T14:16:01.028+01:00So her hubby is cheating cos she doesn't have ...So her hubby is cheating cos she doesn't have Christ? Poster no mind am and don't go to any war room just get a private investigator if you can afford 1. You can search Google for those in Nigeria that's if you live in naija and the thing is that they can work from any state so don't go looking for one in your state only. Or you get a spy app that can record his phone calls since you have access to his phone. Private investigators know all these tools and will help you that's why I recommend them. On the other hand I think you are just being paranoid due to previous experience like your sister's but clear your doubts with evidence first. Do not react without evidence. I repeat do not react without evidence. Because yours is a clear case of ParanoiaAjay Printing Serviceshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03519824353791847887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-18255845320187502002021-02-23T11:43:56.898+01:002021-02-23T11:43:56.898+01:00Some people choose to leave and be happy than to s...Some people choose to leave and be happy than to stay in marriage and be miserable. My dear, enjoy your misery.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-57855062522367660382021-02-23T11:07:44.130+01:002021-02-23T11:07:44.130+01:00Speak to your husband ,let him know that you are a...Speak to your husband ,let him know that you are aware of everything he is doing,please don't keep quiet,and also report the cheating woman to her husband,let her husband know that his wife is sleeping with your husband start from here first before thinking of the next action to take.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-10685020026020336302021-02-23T01:36:10.531+01:002021-02-23T01:36:10.531+01:00And if she leaves, Who then Destroys the Marriage?...And if she leaves, Who then Destroys the Marriage? The Cheating Husband, Betrayed Wife, or the Other Woman?ROCKSTARnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-71510863094739591542021-02-23T01:33:21.555+01:002021-02-23T01:33:21.555+01:00So SAD about the HIV story and the lies. That'...So SAD about the HIV story and the lies. That's CRIMINAL and a solid ground for divorce and jail time? Why is she still in the marriage if I may ask?<br />My point in all of this is that poster should calm down and STOP being paranoid so that she can think realistically.<br />You see, it's hard for men at a certain point in their lives to stay true. It just is. But I don’t think it’s wise for her to let her marriage to collapse under the unbearable weight of what is normally an otherwise inconsequential extra-marital affair.<br />My take is that she should evaluate her situation realistically. As she reorganizes her life, the feeling that she’s actively doing something for herself rather than snooping around her husband’s phone will go a long way. It’s sad she married a man who doesn’t respect her, but she can turn things around for good and if divorce is what she wants, she can also get her facts right, CONFRONT her husband and leave the other woman out of it.<br />ROCKSTARnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-17581418793477261142021-02-22T22:59:02.261+01:002021-02-22T22:59:02.261+01:00because you choose to stay doesn't mean that c...because you choose to stay doesn't mean that choosing to leave is a bad idea. Staying btw does not = working things out. it just means staying. it's your choice and your life but let's not pretend like there's anything wise or noble in it when it's literally the most convenient thing to do as a woman in Nigerian societyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-41460210531001339932021-02-22T22:53:39.939+01:002021-02-22T22:53:39.939+01:00@darajah how do you know the irresponsible cheatin...@darajah how do you know the irresponsible cheating man is not in love with the mistress? it's only in nollywood that these men eventually get over the girlfriend. he may stay with this one, or worse, have many others. if you disgrace the woman, but dont disgrace the cheating husband, what;s the point. do you think the woman outside also does not have nude pictures of the husband and even of his innocent wife? Some men share nude pictures and videos of their wives with others. Tread carefully. you people have so much vim for the mistresses but NONE for the husbands yet you wonder why they keep cheatingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-2450915411292361242021-02-22T21:50:04.510+01:002021-02-22T21:50:04.510+01:00Madam this is marriage, personally I won't lea...Madam this is marriage, personally I won't leave my marriage, I can only work it out but leave mbanu, I know people will come for my head but this is my opinion.<br />Before I got married I made up my mind that even if I see my husband ontop of another woman, I ain't going nowhere.<br />Many people that will advice you to leave will never leave because of this please and please reconsiderSweetnesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02474375175860453252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-68939220450365751642021-02-22T21:45:39.722+01:002021-02-22T21:45:39.722+01:00I had an ex like u that kept 2 phones claiming one...I had an ex like u that kept 2 phones claiming one was for business, sneaking to make calls . i happened to borrow his phone and messages popped in several times from girls. After we broke up he was reporting me 2 people that I was snooping on his phone when he was the one that made me suspicious to do so. This guy started acting funny until he forced me to breakup and then blamed all on me. After turning down various financially stable suitors, sake of say i want to be faithful to one yeye golddigging leech of a bf, spending money on a guy that was spending money on other women and never on me, he was still doing somehow again denying and acting innocent u can imagine I was so angry. I cursed him that all his life it is only runs girl and olosho he will keep meeting and keep toasting as gf. Honestly that curse followed him o and to this day it is runs girls that use clitocurency to pay for trips abroad that he keeps meeting. His eye no dey rest when he sees girls that travel a lot on ig, n he will toast them hoping to cash out, i guess. Yet they keep ending up being women that rely on men for money. The thing sweet me ehn. I am now happily marriedAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-47914311661449580672021-02-22T21:43:32.860+01:002021-02-22T21:43:32.860+01:00So if it so happens that someone rapes you,who wil...So if it so happens that someone rapes you,who will then die?<br />Odiegwu🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️Darajahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14351601230394047498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-57084635169278517282021-02-22T21:34:43.199+01:002021-02-22T21:34:43.199+01:00And after you must have confronted him,what next? ...And after you must have confronted him,what next? There's no point please. As it is,your husband is obviously infatuated (not in love) with her and he will only look for ways to hide his acts,that's if he still respects you at all.<br /><br />What I would have done in this instance,since she has decided to break my home,I will do same to hers. Find a way to make her husband know.<br />Get munched evidence and find a way to her church,meet her pastor and show him. Go to their women's group. Share it on their WhatsApp platform. Na all of us go chop the shame na.<br />I hate women making other women to cry.<br /><br />Do this only if you are sure you are done with the marriage.Darajahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14351601230394047498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-87604397998126039142021-02-22T21:29:50.915+01:002021-02-22T21:29:50.915+01:00men are not wired to think of anyone besides thems...men are not wired to think of anyone besides themselves. Except maybe when they fall in love and cherish a woman and even then some comma go still dey. Women were made to be nurturers and more empathic ... That's why they say marry a man who loves you more and provide major finances in the home so that things can balance out. I get confused when people claim that a marriage can be ever be 50/50 when a woman's work is literally never done. After a man comes home from work he can decide to kick up his feet , grab a beer and fall asleep. But a woman still has to tend to kids, make sure everyone is ok, cook, clean, participate in gbenshing sessions. lol. Men are not wired to multitask that way or even start caring to consider if all is well with all areas of the home the way a woman is. So better to find the one that cherishes you. half the work is done already for u as a womanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-37879869716013621612021-02-22T21:19:40.471+01:002021-02-22T21:19:40.471+01:00men are selfish in general. a lady has to be very ...men are selfish in general. a lady has to be very wise and love herself first. self love will automatically prevent some nonsense. m<br /><br />many of the advice men give is to benefit them alone. Like telling women to pay for dates and shoot their shot and act in certain ways knowing fully well that those are the women they will take advantage of and use while they cherish a woman that knows her worthAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-4856671517900580022021-02-22T19:57:51.571+01:002021-02-22T19:57:51.571+01:00It is well with you poster...It is well with you poster...Tuntunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15267965177596755930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-6232186739289478422021-02-22T19:55:00.872+01:002021-02-22T19:55:00.872+01:00Her sis got HIV from a cheating or careless partne...Her sis got HIV from a cheating or careless partner oya go read againLillysimplehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18387657662967146650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-20985190274629598992021-02-22T19:50:36.996+01:002021-02-22T19:50:36.996+01:00Hmmmmm.... A high percentage of nigerian marriages...Hmmmmm.... A high percentage of nigerian marriages are like this. The temptation to cheat in marriage no be here and the easiest and most undercover means is with a fellow married person. Poster, it hurts I know but just know your marriage can never remain the same again. It's either you call both of them out, scatter everything, divorce him, fight them, etc. What if you do this and he tells you it is over, are you ready for that? Whatever step you take wouldn't be easy and you need to be ready . You may end up staying , he begs you , you forgive, he continues and you end up doing the same thing he is doing or end up a shadow of yourself. Don't listen to any "advice" ( na dem go still talk) just take a decision and stand by it. <br />After all you know your deal breaker and na you dey the marriage.In all things, pray and ask for guidance from God. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-35039193557281055962021-02-22T19:50:02.237+01:002021-02-22T19:50:02.237+01:00? So religious women don’t have cheating husbands ...? So religious women don’t have cheating husbands ? The woman will pray about her home and build it while the husband does what? Women might as well get married to themselves or dead people Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-48564680498046544302021-02-22T19:50:01.427+01:002021-02-22T19:50:01.427+01:00Madam sorryMadam sorryLillysimplehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18387657662967146650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-77141923860684439782021-02-22T19:47:50.461+01:002021-02-22T19:47:50.461+01:00@pwetie which man do you know that was cheating an...@pwetie which man do you know that was cheating and his brain was reset ? Please you cannot force a grown man that CHOSE to cheat to stop cheating. Even prayer has not done that. If there was such a prayer or action no married man would be cheating yet the ones in Nigeria with wise and prayerful wives cheat till their 80sAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-165882380465725252021-02-22T19:45:15.207+01:002021-02-22T19:45:15.207+01:00What a DUMB thing to say about a sperm discharge o...What a DUMB thing to say about a sperm discharge on your husband's boxers...wow. You think Men don't discharge while sleeping, or masturbate?ROCKSTARnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-3584718766474964802021-02-22T19:37:26.194+01:002021-02-22T19:37:26.194+01:00Amen to that fertility prayer Anon🤗🤗Amen to that fertility prayer Anon🤗🤗Menoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-33550123964136777712021-02-22T19:33:30.437+01:002021-02-22T19:33:30.437+01:00I can’t wait to read update.... it’s gonna be bloo...I can’t wait to read update.... it’s gonna be bloody...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-13960917655131212662021-02-22T19:28:37.897+01:002021-02-22T19:28:37.897+01:00Anon dont mind them o. They call you bitter becaus...Anon dont mind them o. They call you bitter because you do not agree to be treated as less than. Na them sabi. It is wellFemiliciousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-29691980675761390852021-02-22T19:22:19.048+01:002021-02-22T19:22:19.048+01:00Na wa ooo. See advice. What women put up with is j...Na wa ooo. See advice. What women put up with is just crazy.Femiliciousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-4747472916719411222021-02-22T19:13:34.954+01:002021-02-22T19:13:34.954+01:00If you catch a man cheating confront him immediate...If you catch a man cheating confront him immediately<br />Once he knows you know and you didn't say anything about it will give them wings to flyPush upnoreply@blogger.com