tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post5789688442782670106..comments2024-03-19T02:39:25.876+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...stella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger101125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-2292414970247795452019-12-26T04:33:22.188+01:002019-12-26T04:33:22.188+01:00Please gist us your version.Please gist us your version.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-21749796021795785982019-12-25T17:10:49.195+01:002019-12-25T17:10:49.195+01:00Dear poster, I can almost understand how you feel ...Dear poster, I can almost understand how you feel I have experienced something. It's not easy but please run away from such a toxic man. I can't assure you everything will be fine but trust me you will heal with time I'm still healing, I'm sorry but this deeper life men are horrible! Don't go anywhere with your neighbor let God handle him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-4073621724292465392019-12-25T12:29:52.151+01:002019-12-25T12:29:52.151+01:00My dear, try to get 5m to 10m from him for a busin...My dear, try to get 5m to 10m from him for a business. And get occupied with something doing. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-8923612812523659452019-12-25T07:22:27.778+01:002019-12-25T07:22:27.778+01:00Let me make it 100th comments. ๐
Poster, you wil...Let me make it 100th comments. ๐<br /><br />Poster, you will be fine with time. If you truly cut off from him, then one day it will just be a memory from a distant past. Time they say heals most wounds.Prettiest Rosie https://www.blogger.com/profile/17471959815063644367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-38974149824043157242019-12-25T03:45:41.111+01:002019-12-25T03:45:41.111+01:00op you must be out of your fucking mind, if you th...op you must be out of your fucking mind, if you think you can be left alone to enjoy oil-company dick in this buhari period... legit wives, olosho, sidechicks go follow fuck that oily-prick with you because nigerian men are inveterate ashewo when they have small change fore pocket...<br /><br />that lady you caught with him was obviously a prostitute hence her non-aggressiveness to you.<br /><br />and stop telling your romantic partners you're an orphan before an opportunistic bastard somewhere uses you for rituals, when he's sure tou have no close relatives to ask after you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-52660582222752656122019-12-25T03:00:44.364+01:002019-12-25T03:00:44.364+01:00This guy is really on a mission, a dangerous one f...This guy is really on a mission, a dangerous one for that matter!He is seriously using u spiritually and gaining so much that's why he doesn't want to let go. He's not in love with you in the first place , neither is ur vee that sweet. He's there for the kill. He will keep having u for as long as he wants and u have no power over it. In ur mind, he lavishes his wealth on u but the ratio of the money u get compared to the one he makes from you is like 3:3m Go for deliverance cos he's taken a lot from u believe me. I wish u the best.Pretty menoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-3532704983929068492019-12-25T02:49:49.445+01:002019-12-25T02:49:49.445+01:00Zeezah did you yourself read? Hian! Zeezah did you yourself read? Hian! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-76754097668792343242019-12-25T02:47:50.054+01:002019-12-25T02:47:50.054+01:00Even you? Even you? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-84772958054082678972019-12-25T02:44:35.582+01:002019-12-25T02:44:35.582+01:00For some reason I don't pity this poster. She ...For some reason I don't pity this poster. She knew he was married and continued the relationship based on all she was getting and her supposed emotional investment. So tell me, what would make her leave him now? Poster search your conscience and do the needful. 2020 is around the corner. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-40982525461550671022019-12-25T02:05:10.838+01:002019-12-25T02:05:10.838+01:00This anon na the real slay mama ๐ lmao at compoun...This anon na the real slay mama ๐ lmao at compound fool ๐๐คฃ use your brain not your heart. Be wise if you can ๐คฃ๐คฃAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-71791208317047393372019-12-25T02:01:16.184+01:002019-12-25T02:01:16.184+01:00Anon15.32 best advice. Donโt loose all roundAnon15.32 best advice. Donโt loose all roundAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-23325466577516227752019-12-25T00:43:21.840+01:002019-12-25T00:43:21.840+01:00This is where you guys miss it. She has been decei...This is where you guys miss it. She has been deceievd by a master manipulator, not someone desperate to leave his family and wife her. The best she is going to get are SMSs, phone calls and portable gifts that he can take back since he has all the receipts. Did it skip his mind all the time they were together that she would like a big shop and huge wads of cash? Of course, he wont give her any of that because she would then be independent enough to assert herself, demand they get married or even confront his wife or leave him. If she goes back to him, he'll make sure she doesn't get away a second time NO MATTER WHAT. Shebi she still has the strength to send chronicle now. By the time he is done mentally caging her and defeating her spirit, she would be washing pant for his other mistresses while they prance around him naked. Every venture has the risk of loss after all, the man's wife is sharing her bed with at least two side chicks and there may be a number of step children and STIs in her future. The poster should take this setback as a silver lining and ghost him eternally without looking back. Her future is bright and love is always possible.<br /><br />Even if it means him getting her pregnant and denying paternity so he always has a say in her life- taking her in and out of court, her begging him to be responsible for the child and being seen by society as the woman who broke the home of an innocent Deeper Life parishioner whose husband was posted to Lagos, this man will do it. It was never love for him BUT CONTROL and such people never want to lose. The only joker you can play against a manipulator is to disconnect all your buttons by ghosting and blocking him now and forever. In wanting to outsmart narcissists, you give up yourself for indirect control. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-73406599592595482312019-12-24T22:39:41.330+01:002019-12-24T22:39:41.330+01:00I am so sorry for your experience poster but i thi...I am so sorry for your experience poster but i think with time, you will heal and this experience will give you wisdom that would be useful for the rest of your life. <br /><br />One valuable example of wisdom from this experience is that when someone tells you their partner, or best friend is a troublemaker,unattractive, occultic, stingy, etc, whatever they may say to paint this person bad, wonder also about the person that chose such a horrible fellow and is still choosing to stay with them. If his wife is such a hot mess, why is he hiding you instead pf divorcing her and moving on? Why was he still with her before meeting you and why is he still holding on so desperately to his married status? Are you also problematic, with poor fashion sense, a street fighter, troublesome and confrontational that he had to cheat on you? A cheat cheats because he/ she is a cheat, not because of the other person who is being cheated on. <br /><br />Another valuable lesson i picked from your sad experience is that we should be weary of people who want to be the one and all such that without them, it seems you cannot breathe- that is false security at the cost of your sovereignty as a person. He seems to be in the position to connect you to opportunities and jobs that would have led to money to buy all these appliances and take you to the next level (as he probably told the woman you met naked in his house) but he wont do that so you can be independent enough to ask questions or hurry him up on your marriage plans. I think this man's tactic is that you rely on him for everything- financially, emotionally and otherwise so it would be impossible to leave him. He is a skilled manipulator, controlling you and his wife so he has you both where he wants you. Don't ever think you can outsmart him. He is bombarding you with texts and calls now from the wife he is lying to so you can resume your victimhood- don't pick his calls or read his messages. Block him everywhere. If it means that one day, he will come and collect his fridge and microwave, open the door and let him pack his precious things- these manipulative liars don't easily take an L. When he starts badmouthing you about town for being this or that, you'll be able to say boldly that you didn't even make a fuss when you caught him pants down and the day he came to collect his fridge of life, you released it with the bread inside so he can eat it the appliance and feel OK. He won't take rejection well. When he starts his revenge drama, kill him with silence. No narcissist or manipulator can handle being ignored or muted. He'll even confess to his wife and somehow claim you are the one who made him cheat. Don't respond to any of them- the wife is nothing more than a submissive remote control for her husband- she will do anything for his attention and he'll be getting your attention through her. Your conscience is clear so ignore both of them. Even block any friends or neighbors who beg. <br /><br />Forgive yourself for holding on even after you knew he was married.Forgive yourself for falling in love with a liar, user, thief and time waster-you did not know better. PRAISE YOURSELF for having such a strong and reliable intuition that helped you discover his lies; the composure you showed while dealing with the other woman to the point of even apologizing for walking in on her naked and the strength to confront him, seek help/ advice and end the relationship. I wish you the very best of the years to come. True love will find you and that will be worth far more than the pain of this experience. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-73906782655162769062019-12-24T22:38:54.113+01:002019-12-24T22:38:54.113+01:00Ahhhh....This story sounds like my brother-in-law,...Ahhhh....This story sounds like my brother-in-law, the only difference is the location. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-69821757673268859502019-12-24T22:19:17.088+01:002019-12-24T22:19:17.088+01:00Sorry I am commenting late.
See, I need you to LI...Sorry I am commenting late.<br /><br />See, I need you to LISTEN to me. In this whole wide world, you are the most important, most precious and yes, the whole world should revolve around you. My advice to you is to be selfish for now and take a perfect care of YOU, which is the main koko. You don't brake off a relationship and begin to suffer the trauma and pain just like that. You breake a relationship and healfrom it while in that relationship. Don't do it abruptly. It can kill you o. Don't abruptly push him away. A low him beg you, pamper you, make your financial or material requests but make sure your mind and heart is focused on all his weaknesses and shortcomings. Focus on the things that will make him unattractive to you and give it time. By the time you are truly done, you will be so immune to him that even he will marvel.<br />You had no business going to burst him. You already know he is married, that is enough for you to start preparing yourself to take that walk with strength and dignity.<br />I feel you my dear. It's not easy. Accept him and weave your web slowly, sweetly focusing and having the very time of your life, you know how you set your mind when you want to use something once and for all? Yes. Use him in anyway you find satisfaction till you get a hang of it and discard him yourself.Ms Saphireยฎhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10444512110488257360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-9977824482395404332019-12-24T22:11:43.015+01:002019-12-24T22:11:43.015+01:00Poster u r not innocent too. You know he is marrie...Poster u r not innocent too. You know he is married and still expecting his visits Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-12866255786208469042019-12-24T22:10:12.708+01:002019-12-24T22:10:12.708+01:00Sorry I am commenting late.
See, I need you to LI...Sorry I am commenting late.<br /><br />See, I need you to LISTEN to me. In this whole wide world, you are the most important, most precious and yes, the whole world should revolve around you. My advice to you is to be selfish for now and take a perfect care of YOU, which is the main koko. You don't brake off a relationship and begin to suffer the trauma and pain just like that. You breake a relationship and healfrom it while in that relationship. Don't do it abruptly. It can kill you o. Don't abruptly push him away. A low him beg you, pamper you, make your financial or material requests but make sure your mind and heart is focused on all his weaknesses and shortcomings. Focus on the things that will make him unattractive to you and give it time. By the time you are truly done, you will be so immune to him that even he will marvel.<br />You had no business going to burst him. You already know he is married, that is enough for you to start preparing yourself to take that walk with strength and dignity.<br />I feel you my dear. It's not easy. Accept him and weave your web slowly, sweetly focusing and having the very time of your life, you know how you set your mind when you want to use something once and for all? Yes. Use him in anyway you find satisfaction till you get a hang of it and discard him yourself.Ms Saphireยฎhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10444512110488257360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-27962875557841335732019-12-24T21:38:40.077+01:002019-12-24T21:38:40.077+01:00@Anon 17:46, my thoughts exactly! I wasn't mov...@Anon 17:46, my thoughts exactly! I wasn't moved with the whole orphan thingyShooter Gyalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08491293750612015968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-79953050978577720842019-12-24T20:59:27.306+01:002019-12-24T20:59:27.306+01:00Poster pls go and check your HIV status, men like ...Poster pls go and check your HIV status, men like this manipulative and convincing are out to destroy ladiesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-61460742572701790452019-12-24T20:37:04.407+01:002019-12-24T20:37:04.407+01:00you this anonymous barking all around this post, w...you this anonymous barking all around this post, who forced you to marry a dog.. now just see how sensitive you are getting, well vent your frustrations out.. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-26881799896453671352019-12-24T20:35:13.577+01:002019-12-24T20:35:13.577+01:00He's a useless man. Block his number and stop ...He's a useless man. Block his number and stop letting him feed off your energy. <br />You will find true love when you have space for it, but now this man is taking up that spaceFriendnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-25774516421710903202019-12-24T20:27:25.352+01:002019-12-24T20:27:25.352+01:00Those two ewobis (annonymouses) up there. Osho gba...Those two ewobis (annonymouses) up there. Osho gbangbanAproko Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09996471598168134035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-46376143879992979002019-12-24T20:06:14.887+01:002019-12-24T20:06:14.887+01:00Spot on!!! Spot on!!! Sparkleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05776606780981710651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-91418952078059615192019-12-24T20:04:40.853+01:002019-12-24T20:04:40.853+01:00You echoed my heart and oh, very funny too ๐๐๐๏ฟฝ...You echoed my heart and oh, very funny too ๐๐๐๐Sparkleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05776606780981710651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-51625602112447143512019-12-24T19:50:08.832+01:002019-12-24T19:50:08.832+01:00You are just greedy. Stop playing the victim. Had ...You are just greedy. Stop playing the victim. Had it been the man was broke. I am sure u would have moved on with ur life. Although I blamed the man for deceiving you bcus u were naive. But immediately you discovered that he was married. U should have left. The truth is once I know a man is 41yrs, I will know he is either married or a dirvorcee. Between 30-35 yrs most Nigerian guys are married except for a few.Orphan engaging in fornication. I am not judging u had it been u have close ur kpekus before discovering it won't pain u.Natashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05944986694019534884noreply@blogger.com