tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post6746376136388387425..comments2024-03-19T04:37:32.030+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...stella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger46125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-80142353584118503372020-04-13T23:00:43.235+02:002020-04-13T23:00:43.235+02:00I agree. I didn't read anywhere he mentioned t...I agree. I didn't read anywhere he mentioned that he expressed his displeasure to his siblings. You are keeping grudges yet forming Christian. Yes it still hurts you or else you wouldn't have sent in this chronicle so why not tell him how much he hurt you. Is he a lion? Will he eat you? If he responds positively and apologizes or explains himself with remorse, you would have won back a brother, but if he insists on his stance, then you can make a decision to give him a wide berth. Either way, you'll be more at peace. We Nigerians are not very expressive people. Instead, we choose to keep malice or act passive aggressive to people when we are hurt which is what you did when you saw him and greeted him coldly. We can act all mature and 'christian' but our emotions will continue to betray us when we are around those people as long as we sweep issues under the carpet and refuse to address them. Drehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07483261337983245624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-81124513913064005542020-04-13T14:40:10.238+02:002020-04-13T14:40:10.238+02:00This is true life story. Same way my elder brother...This is true life story. Same way my elder brother, who connected me to his rich friend who gave me a job and was ready to uplift me, started back stabbing me, going diabolical to destroy the love his friend has for me. Although my wife advised me earlier to not tell my progress with my boss to him after series of awful dreams, but my love for family unity drove me into telling everything, including life changing promises my boss gave me and which were never fulfilled. <br /><br />Three days after, the same man who always sang my praises on how i have turned things around for good in his company with my super intelligence and was saving millions for him started calling me names publicly , getting irritated by my presence any time he sees me, especially at executive meetings. The situation became worse the day i told my brother what i was passing through and asked him to talk to my boss for me since i had done nothing to deserve castigations and humiliations except work my ass out from 8am to 11pm and the least 10pm daily for the 5 months period i worked for my former boss. Sanction upon sanctions trailed upfront deductions of my salaries to a point that i barely survived abuja cost of living let alone sending money to my wife and kids every month. Instead, my wife was sending me pocket money to survive. <br /><br />Each time i complained to my brother he supported his friend my boss and afterwards worsened my situation. IT was when I went deep in prayers that i got the shock of my life on how jealousy could drive a blood brother into ruining the life of his siblings, not minding i forgave him similar things he had done to my career in the past. I quickly resigned when my boss woke up one morning and told me he was demoting me from the senior manager position i occupied to an Ordinary officer level with an 80 percent salary demotion too, without any explanation, except regrets two days after i had left. But i was not going back there any more.<br /><br />since then i decided to shut my mouth and focus on my life. Ofcourse i forgave and learnt my lessons. <br /><br />The world is wicked but with God we shall triumph. <br /><br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /> <br /> <br />, Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-50749517204278622532020-04-13T07:57:38.344+02:002020-04-13T07:57:38.344+02:00We have heard stories of murder by siblings. Famil...We have heard stories of murder by siblings. Family is not by force. If it aint working, step away and chart your destinyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-47519760996055356922020-04-13T04:45:12.185+02:002020-04-13T04:45:12.185+02:00Do Nigerians have problem expressing their minds??...Do Nigerians have problem expressing their minds?? I noticed not once did poster actually mentioned he called to really express his mind to his brother so he can have complete closure and move on. Are you scared to discuss this pain and hurt with him? I donโt understand. Also your half sister, did you bring it up to her and let her know your side of the story? Yes you have forgiven your brother but it seems youโre still hurt. I believe in communication and thrashing things out abeg. Goodluck poster. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-16511215610420699942020-04-13T02:02:36.374+02:002020-04-13T02:02:36.374+02:00Story of my life, had a surgery, my elder brother ...Story of my life, had a surgery, my elder brother (very manipulative) call my brother and sisters not to assist me financially but with God on my side they all supported me except him, after some months my mum that has always be on his side, fell sick was admitted, he did the same thing to her called my siblings that my mum just wanted to waste money by been admitted in the hospital that non should assist her financially and like seriously they all avoided my mum's call, she was heartbroken couple with her health condition, I had to call them and explain to them how evil my elder brother is, that we should all assist her financially, na since then my mumsy eye clear.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-63063371262267052072020-04-13T00:49:38.033+02:002020-04-13T00:49:38.033+02:00Poster I love your command of English. Please avoi...Poster I love your command of English. Please avoid your brother seriously Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-22111338871513451532020-04-12T21:38:56.127+02:002020-04-12T21:38:56.127+02:00That is if you mean "ChristAin"
As for b...That is if you mean "ChristAin"<br />As for being a Christian, he says, take my yoke upon me and learn from me<br />and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.<br /><br />talk about a primary 2 pupil saying that high school is hard because she saw the algebra<br />they do. People are getting A in it. <br /><br />Foremost, you have to accept Jesus into your life, learn his Word and grow in him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-64067173830695128752020-04-12T21:15:01.402+02:002020-04-12T21:15:01.402+02:00The Bible says "...by their fruits yแบน shall k...The Bible says "...by their fruits yแบน shall know them." Matt 7:16<br /><br />Also,your mind isn't comfortable being around him. Please do the needful sir and stay far away from him else he will cause your downfall and destruction. Rubynnia https://www.blogger.com/profile/01770196109895719185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-19634101075622186582020-04-12T20:53:24.757+02:002020-04-12T20:53:24.757+02:00Never let your guard down, mind your business
Ke...Never let your guard down, mind your business <br /><br />Keep your affairs to yourself<br />Never expose your back to himJet lihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17291507452349893969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-66467665990624315612020-04-12T20:46:52.116+02:002020-04-12T20:46:52.116+02:00The enemies of a man( envious, malicious, unforgiv...The enemies of a man( envious, malicious, unforgiving, wicked, mean, resentful etc) are in his household<br /><br /><br />Can we all stop assuming that blood ties equals friendship?<br /><br />Thank youJet lihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17291507452349893969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-63855359213801316262020-04-12T19:40:50.542+02:002020-04-12T19:40:50.542+02:00Poster you try.just mind your business and stay on...Poster you try.just mind your business and stay on your lane****Bbjac****https://www.blogger.com/profile/08417813629621567941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-8799891875013767722020-04-12T19:19:43.092+02:002020-04-12T19:19:43.092+02:00I love that he is obviously well educated and poss...I love that he is obviously well educated and possibly well spoken. He will go far.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-54864242373791854672020-04-12T19:18:31.147+02:002020-04-12T19:18:31.147+02:00I agree with Don. Everyone is fighting their own d...I agree with Don. Everyone is fighting their own demons their own way. Poster just build your won family and pray very very hard against any generational curse. Ask God to help you break the cycle. Also be very thankful to God for giving you wisdom and insight. NEVER let your guard down with your brother. I know people say blood is thicker than water but the full saying is this : "Blood of the covenant is thicker than water of birth" Meaning your brothers or sisters in Christ (honest, true ones o) are more your brothers and sisters than your own biological family sometimes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-77799909042220472782020-04-12T18:37:42.039+02:002020-04-12T18:37:42.039+02:00Poster, good thing you forgave him. My advice is, ...Poster, good thing you forgave him. My advice is, move on because, you're right about not feeling safe around him. Have you ever asked yourself what your death would have meant to him? I strongly believe that your answer to why he treated you that way, lies in that question. It's quite obvious that, that brother of yours would be a happier person if you were dead. The Bible says wisdom is profitable to direct. It also says that your discretion will preserve you.<br /><br />You've forgiven him, that's enough now, stay away from him... Mama Miahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05708863714122605256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-42446615013558208582020-04-12T18:23:44.508+02:002020-04-12T18:23:44.508+02:00Stay away from him, trust me, God knows and unders...Stay away from him, trust me, God knows and understands that you have forgiven him but you are simply applying wisdom. I'm happy you have the right mindset about life. He is NOT holding the key to your life.<br /><br />May God bless you with a virtuous woman and build a beautiful family to fill the void. It is well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-13009840036228169392020-04-12T18:19:38.315+02:002020-04-12T18:19:38.315+02:00Damn! Life dey humble ppl shaDamn! Life dey humble ppl shaEnnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03773939034380953488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-72737508492087334702020-04-12T18:16:51.871+02:002020-04-12T18:16:51.871+02:00I really don't understand certain things. You ...I really don't understand certain things. You have intentions to help someone with money, job, clothes etc and very convinced about it. <br /><br />Knowing fully well that whatever you do to help someone is God that will reward you.<br /><br />Yet, someone from the blues will dissuade you not to help the person and you would gladly turn your back from helping.<br /><br />To me, you never want to help in the first place.<br /><br />Thank God you are fine now and you have forgiven him but be wise in dealing with him.GOLIBEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18004532556040012632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-72154026603105072192020-04-12T18:16:04.660+02:002020-04-12T18:16:04.660+02:00...Cain, who was of the evil one and murdered his ......Cain, who was of the evil one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his deeds were evil, and his brother's were righteous. 1John 3v12<br /><br />Poster, your brother is of the lineage of Cain though you are of the same parents. <br />Remember Absalom tried to kill his own father, King David for the throne. <br />You have forgiven your brother, now be wise and cut him off. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-61728564906026093362020-04-12T18:15:39.940+02:002020-04-12T18:15:39.940+02:00Betray**Betray**@rajabfoodrepublic(stone free ofada rice/sauce):08183958970https://www.blogger.com/profile/07033991893354036855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-58805833167546775812020-04-12T18:11:13.982+02:002020-04-12T18:11:13.982+02:00DON, I agree with you yet again - the fourth time....DON, I agree with you yet again - the fourth time. ๐๐<br /><br />Poster, take this advice. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-6884511389234244092020-04-12T18:03:38.998+02:002020-04-12T18:03:38.998+02:00๐๐๐๐Kamikazehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08303850391559639028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-1077871710991440962020-04-12T17:57:05.981+02:002020-04-12T17:57:05.981+02:00If I tell you my own.... You go cry for me... So c...If I tell you my own.... You go cry for me... So chill... Thank God you forgave him... Move on with your life, na only Waka come lifeIyaa Kosihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02582902255527265095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-6761137936137158282020-04-12T17:53:17.454+02:002020-04-12T17:53:17.454+02:00Nawa o.. This chronicle made me remember the adage...Nawa o.. This chronicle made me remember the adage that says "the ones you are blood related with could beray not to talk of friends" and this other one "being blood related doesn't mean automatic mercy/favour, it is only who God sends to you will show you favour"<br /><br /><br /> Hmmmm ๐ค.. It is well@rajabfoodrepublic(stone free ofada rice/sauce):08183958970https://www.blogger.com/profile/07033991893354036855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-58641508665602377292020-04-12T17:45:34.749+02:002020-04-12T17:45:34.749+02:00Poster yours was a small matter. I know how you fe...Poster yours was a small matter. I know how you feel cause I have been there. In 2007 I got admission overseas, paid for school fees and every other things. Visa came out, no money for flight. I have a rich elder brother who was building houses all over lagos, I reached out to see if he can assist me with flight ticket and pocket money. He said Why do you want to travel? "What you have in abroad is also in Nigeria".He refused to assist, visa expired and I lost the admission. I hated him but it's all in the past now. But today I am paying his kids school fees.Aussie Matehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07574845749029244041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-39247268521049935692020-04-12T17:36:53.631+02:002020-04-12T17:36:53.631+02:00Waooooooo Poster so sorry for your surgeries
E h...Waooooooo Poster so sorry for your surgeries <br /><br />E hugs ๐Lillysimplehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18387657662967146650noreply@blogger.com