tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post7345738635847680694..comments2024-03-28T19:45:23.723+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...stella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger135125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-83073678672540756862016-12-03T22:25:56.373+01:002016-12-03T22:25:56.373+01:00Uar gwegs and still has no sense to distinguish be...Uar gwegs and still has no sense to distinguish between childs play and courtshipIsholacookuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00540396435870634131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-83294078953287393502016-12-01T19:29:31.674+01:002016-12-01T19:29:31.674+01:00You are a gwegz and still not smart. Leave that on...You are a gwegz and still not smart. Leave that one chance person.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-6962412511377380972016-12-01T18:20:19.704+01:002016-12-01T18:20:19.704+01:00Don't worry you hear? In another 8yrs you too ...Don't worry you hear? In another 8yrs you too will write book olodo...stay there you hear?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-7516061165503456442016-12-01T17:35:19.195+01:002016-12-01T17:35:19.195+01:00Dear poster, i can totally relate with being blind...Dear poster, i can totally relate with being blindly in love with someone. The difference between me and you however is that i was behaving like this when i was 19yrs looking on 20yrs. <br />My university boo, we were all known around the hostel and church circle. Wanted to visit him over the weekend he was discouraging me which i find strange, considering that he would do anything to have me around. I then decided to visit him to drop-off a gift i bought him, lo and behold, his 'cousin sis' who knew we were dating was in his house tying his wrapper!<br />Was i heart-broken? Yes! I stayed on, ate the food, cried in the bathroom and left them together and went back to my house. I couldn't prepare for my exams, i cried day and night consoled by my only friend and roomie and my mum told me i looked sick and needed to be locked i a room and fed for 1 month to look good.<br />The last straw that broke the camel's back was that he came back from abroad , purportedly to see me and wanted me to travel from East to Lagos to meet him since his mum feared him travelling over security.<br />I reminded him he left this school just 1 year ago and that I can't come to Lagos because my parents would not approve of it, he ended the call on me (it was free midnight call), i called him back to confirm he dropped the call and he said 'Yes'.<br />That was the turning point! I never called him again, i was dying to, but i knew he can't stand up for me or he was still too dependent on his parents for us to maintain the relationship.<br /><br />My advice, tie your heart and force yourself to move on.<br />Amynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-46449479176215791652016-12-01T17:34:45.430+01:002016-12-01T17:34:45.430+01:00Dear poster, i can totally relate with being blind...Dear poster, i can totally relate with being blindly in love with someone. The difference between me and you however is that i was behaving like this when i was 19yrs looking on 20yrs. <br />My university boo, we were all known around the hostel and church circle. Wanted to visit him over the weekend he was discouraging me which i find strange, considering that he would do anything to have me around. I then decided to visit him to drop-off a gift i bought him, lo and behold, his 'cousin sis' who knew we were dating was in his house tying his wrapper!<br />Was i heart-broken? Yes! I stayed on, ate the food, cried in the bathroom and left them together and went back to my house. I couldn't prepare for my exams, i cried day and night consoled by my only friend and roomie and my mum told me i looked sick and needed to be locked i a room and fed for 1 month to look good.<br />The last straw that broke the camel's back was that he came back from abroad , purportedly to see me and wanted me to travel from East to Lagos to meet him since his mum feared him travelling over security.<br />I reminded him he left this school just 1 year ago and that I can't come to Lagos because my parents would not approve of it, he ended the call on me (it was free midnight call), i called him back to confirm he dropped the call and he said 'Yes'.<br />That was the turning point! I never called him again, i was dying to, but i knew he can't stand up for me or he was still too dependent on his parents for us to maintain the relationship.<br /><br />My advice, tie your heart and force yourself to move on.<br />Amynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-53522332045728110432016-12-01T15:28:14.542+01:002016-12-01T15:28:14.542+01:00To think a 40yr old woman wrote this is beyond me....To think a 40yr old woman wrote this is beyond me. Ahan aunty abeg park well. This boy has no interest in you at all he is just wasting your time and stringing you along for nothing msheeeeeew. I'm so pissed ahan at your age one foolish boy is playing on your intelligence oga o. Eh his brother took laptop, h and his mother were discussing imagine lies upon lies nonsense. Abeg move on and drop him like a bra covered with soldier 🐜. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-18607531655717503102016-12-01T13:01:59.091+01:002016-12-01T13:01:59.091+01:00JEEZ, WHY ARE WE WOMEN SO DUMB SOMETIMES? THIS GUY...JEEZ, WHY ARE WE WOMEN SO DUMB SOMETIMES? THIS GUY DOESNT LOVE YOU....PLS END THE RELATIONSHIP....<br /><br />ok i have stopped shouting now. when a guy loves you he shows it. while i do not support long distance relationships, when my hubby was dating me he use to call me like 5 times a day..he lived in one of the europian countries and we attended same church before he travelled out..he would sometimes spend like an hour on phone with me in the evenings when he called. if i had an issue he would call people in naija on my behalf to see how to sort things out. he would send money and presents even without me asking thru anyone travelling back to naija, send surprise birthday cakes thru someone etc...when he comes around i would go stay with him wherever he was. so if a guy is into you he will show it.if i guy loves you he would be the one to set the pace for marriage procedures.four years is so enough to know if you want to marry a girl or not...my only grouse with long distance relationships is that you don't really get to know each others true character traits to prepare for your life together...your dating experience should expose both of you to different situations so u know how you both deal with different people, situations etc...courtship is time to discuss every topic under the sun and what makes family life..if you are in long distance you both put up your best behavior for the period you see or call so that can never really tell you their true character...ladies please stop doing everything in a relationship. let the guy woo you and also show love, trust me when the challenges come it is some of those good times you remember that push you to work on your marriageAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-43073225334349309912016-12-01T12:36:54.939+01:002016-12-01T12:36:54.939+01:00Poster, seems like you work in a bank. next time d...Poster, seems like you work in a bank. next time dont ask for leave, just form fainting in the middle of morning devotion and u will see if your leave won't be approved.<br /><br />However, i would advice you find a plan B cos this your plan A no get weight.i dont like your bf, based on what you narrated.Scarletthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01314777020499527545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-48457908568113463542016-12-01T09:58:07.061+01:002016-12-01T09:58:07.061+01:00Poster, i agree with stella. You are just dating y...Poster, i agree with stella. You are just dating your self. That man is looking for reasons to end the relationship. The signs are too numerous please. Don't be a Toke!Babenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-46571569011851564742016-12-01T08:09:20.276+01:002016-12-01T08:09:20.276+01:00He didn't spend millions to come see you, he c...He didn't spend millions to come see you, he came to do other things and your are mistakenly the last on his todo list. My dear isn't it obvious that he isn't so into you?<br />Something is wrong somewhere<br />Grab your self esteem <br />So other things that will distract you from thinking of him.....it is damn hard and I've been there but you will push through.....wtfAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-18420120429294537462016-12-01T07:55:53.189+01:002016-12-01T07:55:53.189+01:00This poster is very annoying. He told you he dream...This poster is very annoying. He told you he dreamt of you both in good and bad times and you believe that bullshit. Did you dream along with him? What nonsense are you talking about? Can you listen to yourself.<br />He told you his mother does not like people from your place. Where you there when she said it?<br />He barely responds to your messages, doesn't have your time, lives far away from you, treats you like trash and you carried your hands and typed that you love and miss him.<br />You even believed the laptop story<br />Kai! This poster dey vex me. No wonder he treats you this way. Because you are mumu of the highest order. Yes, I called you mumu.<br />This is how one monkey treated my friend. He'll ask for account number, then he'll change it and say she didn't send complete account number. He'll say he sent things for her from london then when I go to pick them for her, story will enter. He'll give credit card details to shop online then when you type digits they will tell you wrong information. It was horrible. To think I introduced my friend to him. I've known him for years. This thing happened 3 years ago. As soon as we found out he was playing us, I deleted his number from my phone till date. No time for rubbish<br />Poster shey you call yourself a gwegz, so aunty gwegz delete your self from that mumushonshipbrownsugarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08200424310451032837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-48415365172101422412016-12-01T07:52:25.317+01:002016-12-01T07:52:25.317+01:00The poster is so annoyingThe poster is so annoyingbrownsugarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08200424310451032837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-57208267990392322312016-12-01T07:50:28.872+01:002016-12-01T07:50:28.872+01:00Boo's family ke? His family is not telling him...Boo's family ke? His family is not telling him anything. He's just fabricating storiesbrownsugarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08200424310451032837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-28219667683897554522016-12-01T07:46:28.401+01:002016-12-01T07:46:28.401+01:00This poster is very annoying. He told you he dream...This poster is very annoying. He told you he dreamt of you both in good and bad times and you believe that bullshit. Did you dream along with him? What nonsense are you talking about? Can you listen to yourself.<br />He told you his mother does not like people from your place. Where you there when she said it?<br />He barely responds to your messages, doesn't have your time, lives far away from you, treats you like trash and you carried your hands and typed that you love and miss him.<br />You even believed the laptop story<br />Kai! This poster dey vex me. No wonder he treats you this way. Because you are mumu of the highest order. Yes, I called you mumu.<br />This is how one monkey treated my friend. He'll ask for account number, then he'll change it and say she didn't send complete account number. He'll say he sent things for her from london then when I go to pick them for her, story will enter. He'll give credit card details to shop online then when you type digits they will tell you wrong information. It was horrible. To think I introduced my friend to him. I've known him for years. This thing happened 3 years ago. As soon as we found out he was playing us, I deleted his number from my phone till date. No time for rubbish<br />Poster shey you call yourself a gwegz, so aunty gwegz delete your self from that mumushonshipbrownsugarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08200424310451032837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-83634192429468286162016-12-01T06:40:57.914+01:002016-12-01T06:40:57.914+01:00Poster, this is year end and you should end that s...Poster, this is year end and you should end that situationship this year. Mourn it all you will in this your quarell window period and move on. <br /><br />Your supposed BF does seem to act fishy. He probably has another woman. Muster up courage and leave so you don't write a book. OKBye!Madeanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-65288001983190855292016-12-01T05:39:47.221+01:002016-12-01T05:39:47.221+01:00BV
1. Love yourself first as a person and you wil...BV <br />1. Love yourself first as a person and you will stop tolerating such abusive behavior <br />2.You are not his girlfriend even if he says you are. Don't pay attention to his words, pay attention to his actions and pay even more attention to his pattern of behavior. Go and read your chronicle... have you seen what is clear to everyone else?<br />3. He will not marry you. That's why he's told you about the alleged conversation with his mom. When you push for marriage it will come up again. <br /><br />Advice<br />1. Call him or email him and tell him that you don't think it's working out. I'd be surprised if he asked you not to break up.<br />2. Take time off and get to know yourself better and appreciate yourself.<br />3. Define what you want in a life partner and only pay attention to men who meet your criteria <br />Friendnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-78402830084301046452016-11-30T23:50:47.760+01:002016-11-30T23:50:47.760+01:00You are getting more boring by the day. Too dry jo...You are getting more boring by the day. Too dry jor. I didnt bother to finish reading Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-41043022647024896872016-11-30T22:26:28.639+01:002016-11-30T22:26:28.639+01:00No be small support pls ,as queen said dis everyda...No be small support pls ,as queen said dis everyday DONT PUT UR EGG IN ONE BASKET YET pple like you won't hear did dy tie ur umbilical cord with his Dick that u won't forget abt him cos u ar history as far as he is concern.Amacastelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13553010097277607629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-55601990552856104712016-11-30T21:50:07.605+01:002016-11-30T21:50:07.605+01:00Poster try as much as possible to move on 'cos...Poster try as much as possible to move on 'cos all you wrote about doesn't depict some one in lust how much more love. He doesn't care about you if he does you won't struggle so much for his attention. So kindly move onHummingBirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06119188922940619894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-38125481609081593132016-11-30T20:58:30.400+01:002016-11-30T20:58:30.400+01:00Thank you empress CHO! I love reading your comment...Thank you empress CHO! I love reading your comments honestly. Stupid idiotic poster. After 4 years of a stressful relationship that have destroyed her self esteem, she's still asking for what to do. Ode oshiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-33231168741181395712016-11-30T20:50:29.201+01:002016-11-30T20:50:29.201+01:00Olannaya I don't know how to get your no, woul...Olannaya I don't know how to get your no, would love to discuss with you. It's deep and am soooooo depressed. I smile when I see my children. Hubby refreshes this page per second per second so am just careful.your advice is very constructive.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-80901598988316437672016-11-30T20:41:56.530+01:002016-11-30T20:41:56.530+01:00Poster why do you allow just one prick to play wi...Poster why do you allow just one prick to play with your emotions and brain, at your age you still don't have sense, when will you then have sense? Read this book why men love bitches and see all your loop holes, you cannot lick a man's butt like that, move ahead with your sweet life and forget about this guy before you go gaga on the street. The guy is not into you, he has serious relationship, the signs are there but you have refuse to see them, pray and serve God a good man will soon locate you, do not call him to beg him, let him end up the relationship. excited courtesyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00206713776636439046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-39045835275874116572016-11-30T20:29:27.549+01:002016-11-30T20:29:27.549+01:00First of all you are not in a relationship, you ar...First of all you are not in a relationship, you are just in an unpleasant situation. It seems you are just in love with The idea of love itself.The man doesn't love you, he doesn't want you ma'am. If you have any self worth, cut him off. Meanwhile, stop saying you miss him. What do you miss? All this stress you have catalogued? HE.IS.NOT.WORTH.IT. No man is. You are still young, please move on, you WILL find your man. Stay positive.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-17850723598471594662016-11-30T20:00:07.372+01:002016-11-30T20:00:07.372+01:00You better move on You better move on kazzy priscanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-49520062963708282392016-11-30T19:35:16.606+01:002016-11-30T19:35:16.606+01:00Sweetheart move on already,Hz been discouraged by ...Sweetheart move on already,Hz been discouraged by his folks cos of your age,tribe or state. So pls move on. Leave him to sort himself out.You seem desperate but it won't take you anywhere cos this dude is just passing time with you trust me he has someone that has his 90% attention. Thats how they do. Once they begin to nag,complain about irrelevant tins then you should free then and use your head.stephanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10900549145186966899noreply@blogger.com