tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post7412658286524533550..comments2024-03-28T21:57:20.228+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicle Of A MARRIED MANstella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger37125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-1809988425093444202023-04-19T16:41:08.478+02:002023-04-19T16:41:08.478+02:00Tell them point blank that you will haunt anyone t...Tell them point blank that you will haunt anyone that subjects your wife and kids to any stress when you are gone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-45924243031296802982023-04-15T14:41:43.625+02:002023-04-15T14:41:43.625+02:00Oji amu eme ogo. Well done sirOji amu eme ogo. Well done sirAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-48487360812274083622023-04-15T05:41:11.186+02:002023-04-15T05:41:11.186+02:00You are my heroYou are my heroAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-88595936668810553592023-04-15T00:25:58.996+02:002023-04-15T00:25:58.996+02:00Bb u be kalabari? Bb u be kalabari? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-60123078329944973852023-04-15T00:25:14.048+02:002023-04-15T00:25:14.048+02:00When my dad died, they came with same sayings for ...When my dad died, they came with same sayings for my mum. But we the kids,we're all grown. We stood our ground and refused. A wk after burial we left the village. The villages could not say anything, cos my late father never liked such while alive. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-77501173728183037832023-04-14T22:53:29.044+02:002023-04-14T22:53:29.044+02:00I won't die first.my wives can go.thier wahala...I won't die first.my wives can go.thier wahala won kill me.i am àdding the fifth one this Dec.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-33802210213990620962023-04-14T22:37:24.406+02:002023-04-14T22:37:24.406+02:00In my place mourning is for 6 months In my place mourning is for 6 months The Most Complexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02520941694494734099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-86819778727563769342023-04-14T21:22:43.189+02:002023-04-14T21:22:43.189+02:00Things have evolved. My place, mourning period has...Things have evolved. My place, mourning period has been reduced to 3months.<br />You can choose to leave the village after a week or two depending on your living condition.<br />Cutting of hair is for both gender. Wearing of white is for both genders.<br />The children are not mandated to cut hair.<br /><br />OFFICIAL PRESTIGE https://www.blogger.com/profile/17016359263725517430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-79971927067179205412023-04-14T21:16:34.194+02:002023-04-14T21:16:34.194+02:00Who is still abiding by this hair cutting traditio...Who is still abiding by this hair cutting traditions excited courtesyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00206713776636439046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-52119300297924403202023-04-14T21:15:30.179+02:002023-04-14T21:15:30.179+02:00If there are no wicked people in the family. But i...If there are no wicked people in the family. But if there are spiritually wicked people, you need more than money.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-8666710554193617322023-04-14T18:59:35.311+02:002023-04-14T18:59:35.311+02:00Say it straight to them in your wife's and chi...Say it straight to them in your wife's and children presence oAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-79231868630474607602023-04-14T17:48:59.827+02:002023-04-14T17:48:59.827+02:00Hypocritical woman hating culture Hypocritical woman hating culture Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-76010851624964024452023-04-14T17:16:02.640+02:002023-04-14T17:16:02.640+02:00If you are rich, no matter your church, they won&#...If you are rich, no matter your church, they won't impose it on you. Money stops nonsenseMercy https://www.blogger.com/profile/18104416714215709512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-73915463837720826902023-04-14T17:14:59.808+02:002023-04-14T17:14:59.808+02:00The widow probably did not have a thriving job or ...The widow probably did not have a thriving job or business to go back to. Why would they make a woman remain indoors for six months?Mercy https://www.blogger.com/profile/18104416714215709512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-10265488932792230262023-04-14T17:13:58.826+02:002023-04-14T17:13:58.826+02:00Stella I support this. Use it as a topic on In hou...Stella I support this. Use it as a topic on In house gist.Mercy https://www.blogger.com/profile/18104416714215709512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-60460917895694514182023-04-14T17:09:46.699+02:002023-04-14T17:09:46.699+02:00Thank you Amicable. I have seen this play out seve...Thank you Amicable. I have seen this play out several timesMercy https://www.blogger.com/profile/18104416714215709512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-28682154161032076722023-04-14T16:49:03.144+02:002023-04-14T16:49:03.144+02:00To 14.21 its like you are foreign to naija matter...To 14.21 its like you are foreign to naija matters?<br /><br />Let me burst your bubble; Maybe the late husband's people can support the survivors of the deceased..!<br /><br />For example: Remember that the Ojukwu that we know, had a father who they say was extremely<br />wealthy so Tey ojukwu's fame riches was a playground compared to that of his dad.<br /><br />Some families can afford the living and education tuition expenses of their late' child spouse and children o. <br /><br />Abeg no dey underrate naija like that.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-57153283728696754872023-04-14T16:35:40.995+02:002023-04-14T16:35:40.995+02:00Some "custom" and "traditions"...Some "custom" and "traditions" are only imposed on the poor.Amicablehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09302168912437834200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-70721114738833286802023-04-14T15:58:55.640+02:002023-04-14T15:58:55.640+02:00Some torture most women go through
when mourning e...Some torture most women go through<br />when mourning eh, wicked traditions dey sha. Stella you may use this as a topic one day for poeple to share their experience.Trendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09563411383988977574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-50099426661366446052023-04-14T15:55:53.806+02:002023-04-14T15:55:53.806+02:00If she was based here and poor they will force her...If she was based here and poor they will force her to do their bidding. When my husband died I didn't have a choice I did everything I was ORDERED to do. <br /><br />Don't tell them stylishly TELL THEM STRAIGHT not to dehumanize you're wife. DARK DIARY POSTERhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10337150305706267039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-47508188013252013922023-04-14T15:35:49.614+02:002023-04-14T15:35:49.614+02:00Women are always at the receiving end of such barb...Women are always at the receiving end of such barbaric culture. A family friend loss her dad last year and her mum was forced to remain in the house for six months.ms teehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08671601804629377184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-11648048655382610302023-04-14T15:27:01.544+02:002023-04-14T15:27:01.544+02:00Help me ask o.Help me ask o.Justyswthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08788942934064876331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-47854314270420114112023-04-14T15:22:38.118+02:002023-04-14T15:22:38.118+02:00Different tribes with their own tradition. When my...Different tribes with their own tradition. When my dad died, my mum did not cut hair. We the children even made our hair self during burial.Justyswthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08788942934064876331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-88445048068667580742023-04-14T14:59:43.576+02:002023-04-14T14:59:43.576+02:00Thank you Stellicoco @ your red penThank you Stellicoco @ your red penAble Godhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02641001438550192647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-9120229245876754342023-04-14T14:50:14.208+02:002023-04-14T14:50:14.208+02:00It's tradition , but not compulsory.
When my ...It's tradition , but not compulsory. <br />When my father died in 2020 its only my mom that cut her hair. She mourned him for 6months, the first 2months she didn't go to market and visitations, only church. And she wore mostly white cloths, she mixed them with some black designed outfits too. <br />My mom hated the white outfits so much, like she said it announces you everywhere you go. <br />Bcos of that my mom avoided going out as much as she could, thankfully she retired from her goventment job that same year.<br />The rest of us didn't cut our hairs.<br />On the burial and outing service we tied gele.<br />I guess if my mom didn't cut her hair a lot of people would have wagged their tongues so much.<br />Normally my mom is the type that cuts her hair anytime she likes, she can wake up today and go to salon to cut her hair and the next month she starts making it, so it wasn't a big deal to her.<br />I believe mourning is from the heart, not an outward display.<br />So these village/family people should let people be.The Lifted https://www.blogger.com/profile/07399456895561861495noreply@blogger.com