tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post7837845297187562172..comments2024-03-28T12:53:01.027+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative -RIGHT OF REPLYstella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger214125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-29202700026242458812019-03-26T12:42:17.767+01:002019-03-26T12:42:17.767+01:00What did i just read. you are one of the reasons w...What did i just read. you are one of the reasons women don't go all out for their men these days. <br />Guy please go and listen to Pastor Paul Enenche's preaching on Tithing for 24th March 2019 service. probably the wool in your head will clear. please she is burdened enough for paying your debt. don't add to it.Veruniquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17325640406907816973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-13612779055655964192019-03-21T16:06:41.796+01:002019-03-21T16:06:41.796+01:00this man you need a konk on your head...was discus...this man you need a konk on your head...was discussing this with some people the other day about nigerian men who travel abroad and still be dominating their women like they do back home.we were discussing the nurses who get killed by their husbands cos they claim the women want to dominate them cos they are now in America. oga you have no right to her money. my husband and i pay tithes but from our individual income before we put money in the joint purse....take money from your personal savings for your pastors birthday not from joint account. you are truly a selfish man and i support your wife not contributing again...i think i was one of the people who felt she should be more tithe friendly in her own chronicles but with this one wey i read now, yes let each pay tithe from their income and contribute the same percentage to joint account no cheating...selfish guyBaby Okuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03850452084298231606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-25548073026030628022019-03-21T10:49:15.724+01:002019-03-21T10:49:15.724+01:00it's my first comment here cause of this chron...it's my first comment here cause of this chronicle. I know your was bruised, but I think your wife is right. you can't force your wife to give to God. Giving to God should rather be from your heart, and if you have to give to God should be from your own income not joint. Giving to your pastor doesn't mean giving to God, there are poor people in your locality;that is giving to God directly. Jesus identified himself more with the poor than with pastors,instead he rebuked the scribes,Pharisees,priest from taking from the poor. Giving to pastor or church is one of the many means of giving to God. I will like you to get understanding with your wife and draw her closer to know here major concerns. Thanks.Jimmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07734743173561862107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-21465367046085393802019-03-20T15:09:51.505+01:002019-03-20T15:09:51.505+01:00That is why some ladies dont marry fresh off the s...That is why some ladies dont marry fresh off the shore guys. Most of their thinking is wackoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-10428620741235115912019-03-20T14:48:10.222+01:002019-03-20T14:48:10.222+01:00you are a fool for this comment, a man that can...you are a fool for this comment, a man that can't pay his school fees so he will get good job is here, giving out money that's what we call living above your means, head of the house untop woman money can't you see you & this rply posters are ingrates, a woman choose to pay your school fees, to give you better future mba! You want to show the world that you have arrive while you are just a leach, why will be sending money home every month, do you think the lady don't have a family to send money to Abi, wicked men that use marriage to enslave & endangered someone's daughter, tueh ndi oshi!!! Amacastelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13553010097277607629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-40591906965055982722019-03-20T14:41:33.573+01:002019-03-20T14:41:33.573+01:00This is stupid. contribute $250 each for pastor bi...This is stupid. contribute $250 each for pastor biday? not even 100 dolls. Mr Man be sensible please, this woman has tried for you. I like her she no soft like me, i for still send ya mama money. Madam pls its like you guys will suspend that joint account.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-65089849827041797492019-03-20T14:40:19.932+01:002019-03-20T14:40:19.932+01:00Oga horseband did you really write this or someone...Oga horseband did you really write this or someone do that for you cos all I see is a very manipulative, selfish, dubious wicked man in you, <br />Madam NURSE pls STOSTOP THAT JOINT ACCOUNT with this user now, stop paying his bills let him be responsible for his debts then lemme see how he will have extra to throw around, this one don't deserve to earn higher than the wife oooo cos this is a Time bomb husband ,if he gets his papers, good job he will leave the marriage cos am sure he has a family probably a wife & kids back home in Nigeria hence his compulsory habit of sending money to Nigeria every month when he is still in debt now. Madam pls take Solomon 💊 1000mg tds 52\52 Cos this your man Na pure yahoo guy Amacastelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13553010097277607629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-92053843708045595992019-03-20T13:55:41.631+01:002019-03-20T13:55:41.631+01:00How much does she even earn, abeg make we hear wor...How much does she even earn, abeg make we hear word. If he had spent the money on a side chic we go understand. Those people that sit on the board of large institutions, are they spirits? He gives $250 for Pastor’s birthday you dey rant. The man is your head as that was the choice you made. If God blesses him tomorrow and he becomes a millionaire, you’re the one that’ll still enjoy. You can discuss these issues with love and respect but never challenge your husband’s decisions or else you’ll stifle his growth and he wouldn’t become the man that God has called him to be. For God’s sake this is how marriage is about. If you can’t submit to a man or love a woman as a husband please remain single. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-43407518876101264012019-03-20T13:13:45.866+01:002019-03-20T13:13:45.866+01:00Sir, I'm a Christian and a faithful tither but...Sir, I'm a Christian and a faithful tither but I'm disappointed. First of all you were not paying tithe and even if you claim to pay you are not even paying it well cos its 10% of your income not joint income. Salvation is a personal thing. Have you talked to her about the fact that Jesus loves her and died to save her? Does your life reflect that of a real Christian? Not all Christians pay tithe and you expect a non Christian to comply? Please ask for wisdom cos you lack it. if the tables were turned and she decides to take part of your money and give a juju priest, would you accept it? Its your type that make people make fun of xtians. Even the bible says in James 1 that he that lacks wisdom should ask. Pls if you want to pay tithe, do that from your income. There are many things i want to say but i don't want to be misunderstood. You can send me a mail Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14055562881180868021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-78414833884249362772019-03-20T13:03:33.103+01:002019-03-20T13:03:33.103+01:00Sir, I'm a Christian and a faithful tither but...Sir, I'm a Christian and a faithful tither but I'm disappointed. First of all you were not paying tithe and even if you claim to pay you are not even paying it well cos its 10% of your income not joint income. Salvation is a personal thing. Have you talked to her about the fact that Jesus loves her and died to save her? Does your life reflect that of a real Christian? Not all Christians pay tithe and you expect a non Christian to comply? Please ask for wisdom cos you lack it. if the tables were turned and she decides to take part of your money and give a juju priest, would you accept it? Its your type that make people make fun of xtians. Even the bible says in James 1 that he that lacks wisdom should ask. Pls if you want to pay tithe, do that from your income. There are many things i want to say but i don't want to be misunderstood. You can send me a mail Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14055562881180868021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-39057575605303603282019-03-20T12:48:48.530+01:002019-03-20T12:48:48.530+01:00Please can anybody connect me with the Poster'...Please can anybody connect me with the Poster's wife as i am willing to marry her if she can divorce her husband.I am very comfortable but base in Nigeria.I am not willing to relocate as i have a good career but i can be shuttling between Nigeria and Us.Since you no know the value of a good supporting wife abeg pass her to me.I hope you guys do not have kids together sha?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-11235206125619994052019-03-20T11:39:05.683+01:002019-03-20T11:39:05.683+01:00Oga you are a cheat. How can you be cheating God b...Oga you are a cheat. How can you be cheating God by paying 5% as tithe? Cunny man using someone's money to make up the 5%, that's FRAUD. <br />Madam stop contributing, save your money alone and contribute where necessary. Lazy Nigerian youth, you better man-up and take up your responsibilities. <br /><br />Small boy dey worry you. You need emotional maturity course. Mao Akuh (Oriflame)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13700514188857440402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-54025185722856367882019-03-20T10:55:56.973+01:002019-03-20T10:55:56.973+01:00Oga you dey mad ni!..how can you send 250 whatever...Oga you dey mad ni!..how can you send 250 whatever to pastor?..she is paying most of your bills and you are crying like a baby. Do you know the long hours she will stand coupled with swollen feet to make the money you are spending?..<br />Madam kick him out to go fed for himself and see if the so call pastor will house him.<br />Oga you are selfish oooo.GO AND GET AN Extra JOB(CAB man will do for a start or security).<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-5982362006774804162019-03-20T10:24:18.353+01:002019-03-20T10:24:18.353+01:00Let me perch here. Below is a follow-up to the ori...Let me perch here. Below is a follow-up to the original Poster's chronicle:<br />'Thanks for your input, we agreed to the joint account because of immigration purposes. They’ll need proof that our marriage is for real before they’ll give him his green card. You see, he was an international student before he dropped out because he couldn’t afford it no more, so I’ve been pulling in overtime to help pay up his debt so he can go back to school. Am I not being stupid to be doing overtime upon overtime to help pay up his debt while he gives his money elsewhere? He reported me to his mom already and she’s saying “I’m selfish” that I’m supposed to render all my salary to my husband as the head of the house, and I have to ask his permission before I use the money. I don’t believe I’m selfish, i only want good for him. That’s why I’m trying to get him back to college. How else can someone support their spouse’s wellbeing?'<br /><br />Madam Poster, this man and his mother are not good persons. They are agents of the devil sent to ruin your life. Do yourself a favor and ruuuuuuun from this union. <br />At Poster's husband may the judgment of the Lord be swift on you and your mother. As you have planned to make the life of this woman miserable so shall it be for you. Wicked lots (mother and son).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-25390278170797541622019-03-20T10:23:14.833+01:002019-03-20T10:23:14.833+01:00Ivannah, you not only hit the nail on the head, yo...Ivannah, you not only hit the nail on the head, your analysis left me reeling with laughter. Well said Sis! I can boldly say this right here is the first chronicle (of 2019) I've judiciously followed up on. I love everyone's input, most especially Ivannah's & Amebonawork. Ronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03999549393618172591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-8058213075020808672019-03-20T10:09:36.133+01:002019-03-20T10:09:36.133+01:00Ronalda, that you married a sensible man shouldn&#...Ronalda, that you married a sensible man shouldn't make you insensitive. I never thought I'd say this especially to someone I don't know, but go and thank God that He has made you find favour in the eyes of your husband. I'm married to a man that treats me like a queen. I expected to marry a good man, but even I have to admit I never considered it would be this good. There are some things I do for him, that I can't advise another woman to try with her husband cos I know not every man's head is correct. <br /><br />When you're with an amazing man, it's very tempting to assume that it's all your doing and every man is sane; you're in a bubble. And I feel like you practise corporate law, so your job isn't helping. I don't mean this as an insult. I say this cos corporate law and ADR, the clients tend to be sane. Greedy and arrogant, maybe. But generally sane - they want quick resolutions, they know they might meet again so they try not to burn all their bridges, they're not trying to be adversarial for the heck of it. There's a temptation for lawyers like you who also have a good home life, to assume that tea and biscuits at a glossy table in a high-rise building overlooking Canary Wharf, will calm everyone's nerves. Ronalda, people are crazy. There are cases I've seen that make me thank God I'm married to my husband. Like I do a praise-fest on my own. If every married man was sensible, the problem that created the post that sparked this right of reply, wouldn't exist. <br /><br />You're talking submission with a careless man that doesn't even know where he's going in life? A man that is so ignorantly and brazenly stupid, that he can hurt his wife? So that tomorrow, he will empty their whole account and claim he's a Christian, then the wife will sleep on the streets? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-51358074329945006532019-03-20T09:54:39.921+01:002019-03-20T09:54:39.921+01:00Oge what u did is wrong before taking that money u...Oge what u did is wrong before taking that money u should have inform her discuss it with her before given ur pastor for just birthday infact u need to beg her ask forgiveness.Isabel Philiphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16418017263096077756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-15015182422718872122019-03-20T09:16:32.892+01:002019-03-20T09:16:32.892+01:00Why mention names of churches, you just spoilt you...Why mention names of churches, you just spoilt your beautiful write up with that and justifying it by saying I mentally and spiritually checked the churches that are money focused when we all know that 90 percent of churches in Nigeria place emphasis on tithe and seed sowing...!you are not even different from the poster cos you and him have a whacked mentalityAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-28087928309929657602019-03-20T09:12:20.057+01:002019-03-20T09:12:20.057+01:00Honestly, some wives do have them. First, I tithe....Honestly, some wives do have them. First, I tithe. But, tithe is personal. So your summary statement that the tithe should be paid on the money in the joint acct is surprising unless both have decided to tithe. Next, I am shocked by the statement that you like to give to the church in these circumstances. Yes, by all means we have things we like to do. Does that mean we can do everything we like? No. Are you a child? You have not settled basic things but you are giving in to your desire to give and at your wife's expense without her concurrence? Are you listening to yourself? It is people like you that scare people out of joint account in marriage. Then you are shocked that she is annoyned? If she is talking because of the money she earns kuku leave her and go and earn your own. I can't even believe this drivel. I dislike folks like you. I know your type. A woman cannot earn higher money in peace instead of facing the crux of any argument money related or not you will always be quick to say it is because she earns more. So you manipulate her emotionally into agreeing to things she won't ordinarily do because she does not want to hear that unfair accusation. So she learns to live with her head bowed just for peace. My friend stop it! I am a man with 3 daughters no sons and men like you give men a bad name. You have a good woman. Handle her with care and show her love and she will do even what you have not asked for joyfully. After all by your own admission she offered to pay your debt without force. So you think she is a fool? You want to turn her to a meal ticket? Thank God she was raised by a figure like me who taught her to recognize bull shit and call it quick. If you like use your hand to spoil your good fortune. Mr. I like to give!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-89902962537563606312019-03-20T08:57:58.713+01:002019-03-20T08:57:58.713+01:00I'm 100% sure it was the man who initiated thi...I'm 100% sure it was the man who initiated this joint account stuff so he can have uncontrolled access to her money. He obviously married her for papers.The poster's wife better have sense now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-85016122948938273182019-03-20T08:17:59.764+01:002019-03-20T08:17:59.764+01:00What is that one up there yarning?? She is dominee...What is that one up there yarning?? She is domineering because she is airing her view?? Abusing his belief??? Shut up if you don't know what to say. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-3143607512519927372019-03-20T07:49:56.497+01:002019-03-20T07:49:56.497+01:00Very useless poor arrogant entitled spoilt lazy ir...Very useless poor arrogant entitled spoilt lazy irresponsible brainwashed goat.<br />God please do not let me enter the hand of this kind of human being in Jesus name! Amen <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-80079634355663667822019-03-20T07:30:20.583+01:002019-03-20T07:30:20.583+01:00I cant try joint account biko....I don't have ...I cant try joint account biko....I don't have time to babysit anyone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-9048710922277678552019-03-20T04:50:35.660+01:002019-03-20T04:50:35.660+01:00Cheiii see comments.
I didnt see ceaser,teejay,chi...Cheiii see comments.<br />I didnt see ceaser,teejay,chike and other men comment on this post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-40437957663454146182019-03-20T03:37:14.446+01:002019-03-20T03:37:14.446+01:00You are a scam!!! Not just a scam, YOU ARE A THIEF...You are a scam!!! Not just a scam, YOU ARE A THIEF! You want to be paying tithe for her because she earns better, but I put it to you that you ain't going to be paying the tithe, you going to be stealing the money. If you want to pay tithe, tithe from your income, not from some someone else's income.... anything outside of that is either foolishness or outright scam!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com