tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post7848407455839482818..comments2024-03-28T13:57:00.924+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Saturday In House Gists -Toxic Familystella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger60125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-51174610008751860742019-10-06T17:13:12.264+02:002019-10-06T17:13:12.264+02:00Anyo18:15 please give the man peace biko. I don...Anyo18:15 please give the man peace biko. I don't know where you are from but they just might be saying the truth. Show them you are different. Allow peace rein in your home, surprise your husband and be happy. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-61328631870569513932019-10-06T16:53:12.563+02:002019-10-06T16:53:12.563+02:00Lol,small world,I know this family,they are from a...Lol,small world,I know this family,they are from a town in central cross river state abi?,I am a cousin. The drama that went down last weekend was something else,some even fought their uncle less than 24hrs after their father's corpse was lowered,you should keep staying away,me that did ITK and traveled plus cooked,chopped several slaps for trying to stop a fight,my shoes are dusted, I no do again, the toxicity could choke an elephant.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-49076507987150884472019-10-06T09:25:57.243+02:002019-10-06T09:25:57.243+02:00Na waNa waJet lihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17291507452349893969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-64384065909092342512019-10-06T09:20:19.669+02:002019-10-06T09:20:19.669+02:00Family is who wishes you well and has your back fo...Family is who wishes you well and has your back for good<br /><br /><br />Being surrounded by people in ignorant, self destructive, manipulative user mode is terrible<br /><br />They are constantly at war with themselves and full of bile covered by a light veneer of human skin<br /><br />Poisonous people<br />It is so stressful being on guard always, alert , ignoring bullshit <br />Don't get me started on the disrespect and derision by empty lost and brittle , bitter people <br /><br />And a mother who is nice and wonderful to the world but thrives in the disunity of her children under divide and rule<br /><br /><br />Bitter people everywhere tufiakwaJet lihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17291507452349893969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-88719807231972055222019-10-06T09:10:03.139+02:002019-10-06T09:10:03.139+02:00Madam that is toxic oooMadam that is toxic oooJet lihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17291507452349893969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-55111428469285395742019-10-06T07:28:17.803+02:002019-10-06T07:28:17.803+02:00My in-laws are extremely toxic especially my husba...My in-laws are extremely toxic especially my husband's eldest sister. She doesn't want to back down. One thing I've learnt is don't start what you can't finish. Don't start to tolerate rubbish if you can't continue to tolerate it. They gossip and back bite too much and think because they always go to church they are better people. I've learnt to keep my distance from them. If I knew what I know now I definitely would not have married into that family. They are hypocrites Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-59501987058087464012019-10-06T07:26:35.824+02:002019-10-06T07:26:35.824+02:00Stay away from your so-called brother. And sorry t...Stay away from your so-called brother. And sorry to say but your mother is part of the problem. The way she cried to manipulate you, did she do that to him when you lost your baby? Or na on top your body, problem good abi? Better face your marriage and cut all ties with your brother and with everyone asking you to reconcile with him. Before they kill your enemy's husband, not your own. <br /><br />Family is NOT and has NOTHING to do with blood. <br /><br /><br />OA Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-59307915642642066842019-10-06T07:15:49.194+02:002019-10-06T07:15:49.194+02:00Ah, I saw this blog post yesterday and kept ignori...Ah, I saw this blog post yesterday and kept ignoring it. I hope to God that you see this comment on time. <br /><br />Please, do NOT touch anything by Rhonda Bryne. LoA (law of attraction), The Secret, etc. I repeat, do NOT touch them. The self-transformation, self-discovery bullsh*t Rhonda and proponents of The Secret and LoA promise is a verrrrry seductive path to enter the occult. <br /><br />Do NOT give up on the God that created even the things you can't see. There is no situation too great for God to deliver you from. But peradventure like the Hebrew boys (Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego), just in case God doesn't deliver you how and when you want, tell yourself that "whatever God cannot do for me, let it remain undone." What you're doing might work, but the price will be too heavy for you to pay. The devil has no free gift, he always collects more than you think he'll give you. And you will end up paying even the one you didn't agree with him. <br /><br />The only reason my husband and I are alive is the mercy of God. By the time we veered into this New Age crap (which is what LoA is), there was another covenant in place over us that had already been activated when we were both 13. So there were things that just couldn't penetrate, even when we tried. A superior covenant so strong, that even our mothers couldn't break it. Some of you think I'm preaching cos I'm trying to form holy. If you experience what my hubby and I have experienced, you will also be begging people not to enter some things. <br /><br />Anon 14:19, I'm not making light of your problems. Even genuine prophets see and hear in part. What you were told can mean a lot of things. You need to be sure exactly what you're dealing with, so you stop praying amiss. Go on a seven-day fast that you will break each day, oh! Every night of the fast, wake up at midnight and pray. What you're asking for is mercy and for God to show you the secret of your life. Nothing else, not husband, not job. Take note of your dreams and of things you're told in the daytime cos God is a revealer of secrets. You need the mercy of God cos due to things you don't know about yet, the devil has a legal right to attack you. And he's taking full advantage of it. Also, stop the pre-marital sex. Hold God tight. <br /><br /><br />OA Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-47236488344204314432019-10-06T06:53:13.618+02:002019-10-06T06:53:13.618+02:00Forgiving someone doesn't mean you have to hav...Forgiving someone doesn't mean you have to have them around you. Just forgive them in your heart and do whatever you can for them from a distance. If you know someone means you harm, stay away from them no matter the begging. A word us enough for the wise. Femiliciousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-21851623404558527982019-10-06T03:47:24.450+02:002019-10-06T03:47:24.450+02:00Ha. Me that cannot even eat the food cooked by my ...Ha. Me that cannot even eat the food cooked by my mother. I jump and pass.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-83811490826737488072019-10-06T03:46:47.650+02:002019-10-06T03:46:47.650+02:00Forgiveness is a sin in Nigeria. They come to beg ...Forgiveness is a sin in Nigeria. They come to beg for forgiveness but their goal is to have you lower your guard so that they can finish you off. Stay away from your known enemies.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-79866021209098633122019-10-06T02:02:33.203+02:002019-10-06T02:02:33.203+02:00Forget them..I have them 6.older women o..always l...Forget them..I have them 6.older women o..always looking for loopholes in my life..I just dey pepper dem as I dey go.went back to school,I dress well,make up,smile always. I no notice them.Be your best version and rub it in her faceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-69409428462445280832019-10-05T23:41:51.719+02:002019-10-05T23:41:51.719+02:00I have also got this attribute. I don't have t...I have also got this attribute. I don't have the time or heart for toxic friendsips. Though my hubby is the exact opposite, a big softie, all bark and no bite; it pains me to see people take advantage of him time and time again because he forgives easily.Wonder Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16895292976713964068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-89633117317952867562019-10-05T22:43:17.330+02:002019-10-05T22:43:17.330+02:00My dads extended family... the drama eh!! Both my ...My dads extended family... the drama eh!! Both my parents are from polygamous homes. Dad - 8 wives, his mum was the 7th; mum - 2 wives, her mum was the first.<br />My mums side they're so loving and peaceful and godly. Upholding and supporting each other. Them they respect my mama die!! They warn their children to respect my mums children at all cost. Shes the first. So we play our part as cousins and do well to support them everyway we can, cos they're younger.<br /><br />But my fathers side... they loved him more when he had money and mocked him when they thought we were done for. Some are his siblings from the same mum oh! What did my dad not do for these people? The ones from other mums are even worse. Successful people in various fields, but when they gather it must end in quarrel. Have you seen where someone sends hires assassins against their siblings? I have! 😂 Someone died 3 weeks ago and they buried him last week. Hmmm! The text my dad has been forwarding on to the family WhatsApp group ehn... you can tell it was a show-down. I no kuku respond cos I pleaded with him to send money and not go. Na lie! Baba took his new SUV and driver and landed there to chop insult on top money wey e spend. His tough luck!<br /><br />He is the Martin Luther King of the family. Dreaming that one day they will gather under the moonlight tree and tell sweet stories. Bleh! It hurts sha when I see my cousins checking me out on LinkedIn and I check them out too. We have a unique surname so we know ourselves and we are not doing badly oh. Beht we the children are just walking on eggshells, abeg.Chikito The Blog Sager with some fire 😜https://www.blogger.com/profile/17586823309481330937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-42148488022668321252019-10-05T21:56:38.639+02:002019-10-05T21:56:38.639+02:00Same thing happened to my dad when we were younger...Same thing happened to my dad when we were younger. We learnt from that experience and we keep to ourselves nowChikito The Blog Sager with some fire 😜https://www.blogger.com/profile/17586823309481330937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-30659720100768161252019-10-05T21:55:39.752+02:002019-10-05T21:55:39.752+02:00You did wellYou did wellChikito The Blog Sager with some fire 😜https://www.blogger.com/profile/17586823309481330937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-56349900461816524492019-10-05T21:53:59.450+02:002019-10-05T21:53:59.450+02:00Many families like that. Acting as one outside but...Many families like that. Acting as one outside but killing themselves inside Chikito The Blog Sager with some fire 😜https://www.blogger.com/profile/17586823309481330937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-63588168779791864382019-10-05T21:53:03.698+02:002019-10-05T21:53:03.698+02:00Great attribute you've got. It saves alot of d...Great attribute you've got. It saves alot of drama in lifeChikito The Blog Sager with some fire 😜https://www.blogger.com/profile/17586823309481330937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-83332290790843726812019-10-05T21:52:08.546+02:002019-10-05T21:52:08.546+02:00@Engraced no oh biko@Engraced no oh bikoChikito The Blog Sager with some fire 😜https://www.blogger.com/profile/17586823309481330937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-60060333942623636822019-10-05T21:42:17.099+02:002019-10-05T21:42:17.099+02:00How do they know u had a misunderstanding,ur hubby...How do they know u had a misunderstanding,ur hubby right ?<br />He should keep his home Tenth.https://www.blogger.com/profile/01052494190307406147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-21543927328153230412019-10-05T21:33:59.557+02:002019-10-05T21:33:59.557+02:00Forgiveness is for you not them. It sets you free....Forgiveness is for you not them. It sets you free. So your dad should forgive though it is not easy. Look at Joseph in the Bible. He forgave his brothers who plotted to kill him and sold him into slavery for no just cause because he realized God used them to fulfil His plans for Joseph's life. A part of the Lord's prayer says 'forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. Unforgiveness hinders your success, joy and prayers. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-40506568615598801102019-10-05T21:07:34.149+02:002019-10-05T21:07:34.149+02:00I grew up in a polygamus family it's crazyI grew up in a polygamus family it's crazy Benehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07862922972478379725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-81287117290129645022019-10-05T19:39:17.067+02:002019-10-05T19:39:17.067+02:00Don't believe the pastor. They can't see a...Don't believe the pastor. They can't see anything. Trust God only. He will see you through. Keep praying and keep hoping.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-6323250490984162332019-10-05T19:21:11.167+02:002019-10-05T19:21:11.167+02:00NAWA, what a family.u really need the strength of ...NAWA, what a family.u really need the strength of Samson and the wisdom of Solomon to handle such family.WOMANhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02983657069952887072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-6041582191609446982019-10-05T19:16:10.336+02:002019-10-05T19:16:10.336+02:00U have a good heart and u will carry your own chil...U have a good heart and u will carry your own child by the grace of God.but be wise.WOMANhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02983657069952887072noreply@blogger.com