tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post8185914832368352519..comments2024-03-28T13:42:38.980+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...stella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger81125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-8414697536427293682018-11-08T21:38:35.040+01:002018-11-08T21:38:35.040+01:00How your mom decided to carry your irresponsible b...How your mom decided to carry your irresponsible brother's load is my concern. by now she is supposed to be eating the fruit of her labor but she has added to the labor itself. If only they had abstained from premarital s**, all theses would have been avoided. Poster, you too ask yourself, how long will I continue to spend all my pocket for someone that does not deem it fit to stand up for his family. Also ask yourself how long can I endure staying at my in laws place, laboring for a man that has no job and spends the little he has drinking away with useless people. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-19287043518632852212018-11-07T13:17:49.167+01:002018-11-07T13:17:49.167+01:00your brother was and stil being spoilt by you guys...your brother was and stil being spoilt by you guys...the marriage started on a faulty note and cannot survive tillthey both retrace their steps positively.<br />1) sit both of them down and tell them the whole truth<br />2) your brother must go get any job to do as you will no longer provide food for his family<br />3) they need to move out and look for a house...if he doesnt agree, give him a deadline. if your mum insist and let him stay, you move out.<br />4) stop paying their bills...the kids are still young, if they dont go to school now heaven wont fall<br />5) stand by your mum to stop paying their bills and stop getting emotionally entangled with them. <br />6) strong your heart cos if you dont make these changes your brother wont changeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-50544708945182006192018-11-07T13:02:04.094+01:002018-11-07T13:02:04.094+01:00who will not have anger issues under such frustrat...who will not have anger issues under such frustrating circumstances? una go just dey type rubbish in the name of commentAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-90893727444867668752018-11-07T12:31:36.388+01:002018-11-07T12:31:36.388+01:00Anon 22:03, God bless you!! Poster, your brother i...Anon 22:03, God bless you!! Poster, your brother is the problem here. If he gets a job, stops drinking and hanging around riffraffs and starts contributing like a man towards his family; all the fights will stop. And you’re right in saying you guys are probably the reason things haven’t escalated past this because your efforts pacify his wife to a large extent but living with a lazy Ama useless man brings the worst out of youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-85196028434975615272018-11-07T11:59:03.047+01:002018-11-07T11:59:03.047+01:00Your brother needs a job to be financially capable...Your brother needs a job to be financially capable and responsible as a husband. seek the help of a professional marriage counsellor for them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-79068361020555913102018-11-07T09:24:36.824+01:002018-11-07T09:24:36.824+01:00I don't think the pregnancy was the mistake, t...I don't think the pregnancy was the mistake, the actual mistake was going forward to do traditional wedding after seeing that they had unsettled fundamental issues.ShugarGirlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-28633922404686182412018-11-07T09:18:38.229+01:002018-11-07T09:18:38.229+01:00The deed has been done already.
Let them consider...The deed has been done already.<br /><br />Let them consider possible separation first and maybe divorce if things don't get better after a stipulated time.(they should agree on this without emotions rather with clear heads)<br /><br />While they are apart, your bro must start working and fending for his kids and wife.<br /><br />Whether or not your bro must leave the family house to learn to be a man, get his own accommodation.<br /><br />Wife should go to a sane environment with the kids.<br /><br />Both of them must be warned never to add another pregnancy to what is already on ground.<br /><br />Your parents, you and your other siblings must learn to let go cuz that where the solution lies. With all good you intended see how things turned out, it means that they aren't doing it right. So do it differently please.ShugarGirlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-26837511859141224102018-11-07T01:50:43.562+01:002018-11-07T01:50:43.562+01:00LolzzzxxxxxzxLolzzzxxxxxzxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-85134552317238277972018-11-07T01:09:13.318+01:002018-11-07T01:09:13.318+01:00@20:29,it would come back and insult"IT"...@20:29,it would come back and insult"IT" own generation and past ancestors you mean?.<br /><br />Rottweiler ko, bulldog ni, mtshew.<br /><br />Where your own craze stop is where another person's own start,except Stella don't post most of the replies here to regulate her blog which is understandable. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-47816732960476827932018-11-07T00:36:10.319+01:002018-11-07T00:36:10.319+01:00There's a bible verse that says an ill bred ch...There's a bible verse that says an ill bred child will bring disgrace to his mother. That's what is happening here. Your brother is irresponsible but I am sorry I'll have to blame you and your parents more for enabling this rubbish to go on longer than it should. How can you people be feeding and housing a grown married man for goodness sake? Footing birthday bills and so on...How ridiculous! That BV that wrote she feels like slapping you all...I don't blame him/her. You people are not nice and accommodating. You people are foolish! Keep dealing with the consequences of your foolishness.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-7345116792048614902018-11-07T00:12:59.329+01:002018-11-07T00:12:59.329+01:00I dey tell you, their mom spoilt him, you all ar...I dey tell you, their mom spoilt him, you all are enabling him, stop enabling a grown ass man who lives in his mama's house with wife and kids. The lady needs to leave that environment,fustration has turned her to something else. Those two have no business getting married. Jemimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12984915189378126395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-86923569949035570222018-11-06T22:09:38.617+01:002018-11-06T22:09:38.617+01:00Exactly what my mil dies to her 43 years old son. ...Exactly what my mil dies to her 43 years old son. Dropped out of school and decided education was not for him.<br /><br />Ok what do you want to do? Today I want to do this, tomorrow I need funds for business, another day I want to travel out of the country.<br /><br />All his younger ones will gather money and give him , at the end of the day story. One even sold his car.What did they not do? And when he demands money, he talks as if he gave you money to keep.<br /><br />They got tired and said enough is enough, go and sort yourself out.Their mom will cry and start blackmailing them with sickness, she will die, blood pressure,this and that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-60872369341467085052018-11-06T22:03:52.032+01:002018-11-06T22:03:52.032+01:00Poster the problem here is your brother.
He has p...Poster the problem here is your brother.<br /><br />He has pushed this woman beyond her limits with his irresponsible behavior.<br /><br />If not for the fact that Nigerian women and living with man/ marriage are like white rice and stew; she's better off away from your brother. <br /><br />What to do? Cut off support for your brother. Make the house hot for him. Let him stand up and stop being comfortable with you alls support.<br /><br />His woman is helping your family do what your family failed to do. You call her quarelsome cos she doesn't indulge his silliness?<br /><br />Living with an irresponsible man is a total nightmare I don't wish an enemy. Face your bro and leave the lady alone; she's reacting rightly to what is before her...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-52650960227787445752018-11-06T20:29:10.376+01:002018-11-06T20:29:10.376+01:00@16:27 and 16:59
That one is another Rottweiler ...@16:27 and 16:59 <br /><br />That one is another Rottweiler o. <br />It will soon come back and insult you and your generations. <br />Better face front.<br />It's not everybody's comment you respond to.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-33601672452123088552018-11-06T19:22:39.305+01:002018-11-06T19:22:39.305+01:00Really Really Manner less, can imagine the kind of...Really Really Manner less, can imagine the kind of irresponsible/disrespectful human we are breeding. <br /><br />You can advise the poster without being rude to her family especially her mother who can give birth to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-21832182119200280712018-11-06T19:10:10.674+01:002018-11-06T19:10:10.674+01:00Slap her and her mom? Is that how you slap your pa...Slap her and her mom? Is that how you slap your parents? You must be high. Very high. Poster, pls disregard that statement. Some people don't know how to stay quiet.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-33225655128294629432018-11-06T19:06:24.585+01:002018-11-06T19:06:24.585+01:00God bless you shooter gyalGod bless you shooter gyalLOLO IDEATO https://www.blogger.com/profile/15005100382934262413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-15153664523659498152018-11-06T18:25:53.411+01:002018-11-06T18:25:53.411+01:00Lol @ did they teach him to fuck?Lol @ did they teach him to fuck?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-7252369918110756162018-11-06T18:14:30.976+01:002018-11-06T18:14:30.976+01:00No sweet mum, you shut up.. Did she mention you in...No sweet mum, you shut up.. Did she mention you in her advice, I don't see any insult,but the oversabe in you makes you feel she has pride, rude and arrogant.. If you don't have any advice to give the poster, let people give their own advice without putting your rat mouth.. NonentityAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-26296059825473603962018-11-06T18:01:36.164+01:002018-11-06T18:01:36.164+01:00My first job I got at 22yrs. I found that job myse...My first job I got at 22yrs. I found that job myself in a school before NYSC. Pay was 50k and that was 10yrs ago as a receptionist.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-78683209595636992902018-11-06T17:58:38.528+01:002018-11-06T17:58:38.528+01:00Did they teach him for fuck? Why can't he lear...Did they teach him for fuck? Why can't he learn to find job himself ?<br />He's the posters senior bro. Did anyone help her to find her own job. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-7547429296407733482018-11-06T17:39:37.336+01:002018-11-06T17:39:37.336+01:00Sweet mum, Lolo said nothing but the truth! Insult...Sweet mum, Lolo said nothing but the truth! Insults are needed in chronicles like this..Shooter Gyalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08491293750612015968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-90519090165547965832018-11-06T17:30:42.664+01:002018-11-06T17:30:42.664+01:00@ reasonable doubt,ko ro gba lenu e, rabid dog. If...@ reasonable doubt,ko ro gba lenu e, rabid dog. If someone says they feel like slapping your mom or dad, hope you will be delighted? Alaileko!!! <br /><br />Are you sure you are not under a curse? Stella, people like these should be called to order, better to have few sane bvs than have a useless lot.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-83147698577811978952018-11-06T17:28:22.084+01:002018-11-06T17:28:22.084+01:00Parents, train up your child in the way they shoul...Parents, train up your child in the way they should go. As difficult and as painful as it sounds, your mum is reaping the fruits of how she raised your brother. <br />My MIL is the same thing, her 40 year old unmarried son will bring dirty clothes for her to wash claiming his hand is painting him. He will come when no one is around and she will steal foodstuff and hide for him. Once they hear my horn, she hides it at the backyard and come to open the front door until I caught her. Yeye dey smell people. @73yrs,she will be giving him money people dashed her for him to use and buy boxers. Everyday, he will come and greet his mum, walk long distance and start talking about people in the village. The moment I stopped stocking the house up with food, his brain reset. <br />For this Buhari period, I don't have the strength to work for another full grown man to eat. Very arrogant fool. He would even have mind to be dragging TV stations with me. Mtchewww. I await the day he will impregnate someone. Pin, I will not buy. Rubbish Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-60707189368225113962018-11-06T17:10:34.763+01:002018-11-06T17:10:34.763+01:00This is the only sensible comment. Both of them ar...This is the only sensible comment. Both of them are at fault. She knew the guy is lazy and no good yet she continued with the sham marriage. You and your mum should ignore them to sought themselves out, I ll suggest they separate for a while. You guys should stop feeding him. I bet you, he'll sit up.Becky naka (Beautiful home concept....your sure plug for industrial cleaning)https://www.blogger.com/profile/12239160930471161207noreply@blogger.com