tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post8757859940843216337..comments2024-03-29T16:44:57.702+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...stella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger39125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-81416402595881973452020-09-30T01:18:29.047+02:002020-09-30T01:18:29.047+02:00Poster please take it to God in prayer to direct a...Poster please take it to God in prayer to direct and put the right words in your mouth, after which you discuss it with him,after which you can start working on your transfer cos marriage is all about companionship first before anything else.Mummy boyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06825506192624897749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-81736257412207148992020-09-29T23:10:34.529+02:002020-09-29T23:10:34.529+02:00Poster go and examine why you are scared of approa...Poster go and examine why you are scared of approaching your fiance with what you have told us. Settle this ish before you tie the knot. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-79802920539773973082020-09-29T21:45:10.950+02:002020-09-29T21:45:10.950+02:00My friend that left her job to jump into marriage ...My friend that left her job to jump into marriage is still sleeping at home in Benin.<br /><br />Benin DRRRRYYYYYY die! I mean dry. No job. Highest teaching job is 30k! Except u hv plans for business. Why not encourage him to come base in Lagos. Abeg no resign oo. Except u won smell ur ass.<br /><br />Goodluck SEXY HIPShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11685458013316447606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-26108592831252875322020-09-29T19:30:09.490+02:002020-09-29T19:30:09.490+02:00I agree with you anon 17:44. Imagine afraid of dis...I agree with you anon 17:44. Imagine afraid of discussing what is important to her. This is a case of I must marry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-31603375647706881152020-09-29T19:26:42.401+02:002020-09-29T19:26:42.401+02:00Bring up this topic now so it wont cause problems ...Bring up this topic now so it wont cause problems in future. Also, there's nothing wrong in living in your parents' house, don't waste money on another apartment. When he comes, na hotel una go shag wella. Congratulations on your wedding!!!Sweet Aprokohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00879352935109791749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-9341406607039322382020-09-29T19:20:51.439+02:002020-09-29T19:20:51.439+02:00Don't resign your work.Don't resign your work. Mao Akuh (Oriflame)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13700514188857440402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-71095849451788121392020-09-29T18:55:50.074+02:002020-09-29T18:55:50.074+02:0015:47, thank you. Poster if he doesn't work wi...15:47, thank you. Poster if he doesn't work with an IOC then hold onto your jobShooter Gyalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08491293750612015968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-49508315307463392212020-09-29T18:54:48.364+02:002020-09-29T18:54:48.364+02:00This comment has been removed by the author.Shooter Gyalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08491293750612015968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-41221411439143704382020-09-29T18:52:58.258+02:002020-09-29T18:52:58.258+02:00Your last line 👌Your last line 👌Shooter Gyalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08491293750612015968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-33011605401158473442020-09-29T17:45:33.548+02:002020-09-29T17:45:33.548+02:00Keep quiet and stop projecting your life on her ab...Keep quiet and stop projecting your life on her abeg! Your man was always a cheat but you refused to see that part because you were desperate to marry. Allow her make her decisions as you people and your husbands are not the same. There are still many men that can be trusted. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-72908261260967925972020-09-29T17:44:56.136+02:002020-09-29T17:44:56.136+02:00I honestly think that is a red flag, you have been...I honestly think that is a red flag, you have been in a long distance relationship with someone and you are about to get married without discussing this, what then do you guys talk about when planning your future together , I hope you are not in a master/servant kinda relationship o, don’t get married to someone you can’t talk to because life always comes with issues and communication is key. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-59189625357367764602020-09-29T17:40:52.117+02:002020-09-29T17:40:52.117+02:00Exactly poster. The ideal thing is for you to be e...Exactly poster. The ideal thing is for you to be earning money before marriage but it doesn't always work out for everyone. Do not take every advice here directly. Just consider your man's personality and also what will work best for your situation. Living separately after marriage has also broken a lot of unions before they even begin. So these are all what you should consider and decide what is priority for you. Most importantly, take it to God in prayer. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-76795607715852012052020-09-29T17:34:17.666+02:002020-09-29T17:34:17.666+02:00So if transfer never comes she should live separat...So if transfer never comes she should live separately from her husband for how long? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-78237683132884145032020-09-29T16:31:12.940+02:002020-09-29T16:31:12.940+02:00Why do you find it difficult to communicate with y...Why do you find it difficult to communicate with your partner at this level? Communication is key in every relationship and you should be able to discuss this issue freely with him without holding back. Talk to him nicely ,work out a plan together. You can prayerfully work on your transfer to pull through before fixing a date for the wedding ,who knows ,it may come earlier than 6 months, or you stay in your parent's place after marriage but whatever your decisions together, don't leave your job o. It is well with you.Lady Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15586181637873637366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-26347105458939641842020-09-29T16:09:21.146+02:002020-09-29T16:09:21.146+02:00I will suggest you work on your transfer first bef...I will suggest you work on your transfer first before even talking about marriage. After you get married now,babies will be the next thing and that may affect your job. I suggest you prayerfully work on your transfer and put everything in God's hands. Tell your fiance about your decision when he is in a good mood. CheersTemmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00079462848164986055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-58130391945126133472020-09-29T16:08:32.547+02:002020-09-29T16:08:32.547+02:00You can lodge in an Airbnb accommodation, when he ...You can lodge in an Airbnb accommodation, when he comes to visit you. Airbnb is Cheaper than hotels and it is a home setting, with kitchen and living room.download the app you will see different houses and prices to choose from and in any location of your choice. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-66977740538002300952020-09-29T16:02:35.328+02:002020-09-29T16:02:35.328+02:00You're right about not all women who left thei...You're right about not all women who left their jobs before marriage regretted it. I left my job and relocated to a small state and my partner supported for years with out complain till I got a job. We are fine by God's grace.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-80270274619945035912020-09-29T15:59:17.319+02:002020-09-29T15:59:17.319+02:00 *deceived *in *deceived *in Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-47516971849119539072020-09-29T15:57:33.654+02:002020-09-29T15:57:33.654+02:00Dont be received. The best man narrative you paint...Dont be received. The best man narrative you painted here may just he a far cry. Men these days are not be trusted. Mine went from being the best man (who I would have sworn by my life that won't cheat) to a chronic cheat who can't take his eyes off women, even when I am there. Now i s this uncertainty worth sacrificing your job after? Dont quit! Rent a place after your wedding and continue with your job. If the transfer comes, congrats, else continue with the job. Leave only when you have a job waiting for you I'm his base Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-15094780016624115302020-09-29T15:50:02.761+02:002020-09-29T15:50:02.761+02:00I will advise you to wait for your transfer. If he...I will advise you to wait for your transfer. If he agrees whenever he comes visiting which might be a weekend staycation, you guys can lodge in an affordable hotel. In doing that you will avoid the incurred expenditure of renting and furnishing an apartment by staying with your parents till the transfer comes.Cute Isoko bae ❤https://www.blogger.com/profile/09824409922527943358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-30277532400636048332020-09-29T15:48:37.110+02:002020-09-29T15:48:37.110+02:00Poster is worried about how they will gbensh in he...Poster is worried about how they will gbensh in her mother's house.<br />I love you poster, *covers face*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-85424043312395435882020-09-29T15:48:17.243+02:002020-09-29T15:48:17.243+02:00It’s not a bad idea staying with ur parents. Whene...It’s not a bad idea staying with ur parents. Whenever he comes to see u, u can stay in a hotel for the few days. Discuss it with him. Good luck!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-23211433319655252692020-09-29T15:46:40.608+02:002020-09-29T15:46:40.608+02:00You can leave you job if he is bucksed, eg working...You can leave you job if he is bucksed, eg working in Mobil, but if it is this our 100k-300k jobs, dont leave your job oooo.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-59816196531688110912020-09-29T15:39:32.284+02:002020-09-29T15:39:32.284+02:00If you're certain he will support it then pres...If you're certain he will support it then present it and soon too. The how shouldn't be a problem provided you're not rude, condescending or entitled. Begin now that you're single to apply for a transfer so the waiting time can begin counting immediately. <br />Congratulations on your engagement. TROY IIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07551987996716644774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-19641800916808334562020-09-29T15:33:14.058+02:002020-09-29T15:33:14.058+02:00Speak to him about your tot, I can't see any p...Speak to him about your tot, I can't see any problem here. Its very important you keep your job too. #spotremover#Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com