tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post8901072517394395491..comments2024-03-28T23:23:37.198+01:00Comments on Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Saturday In House Gists - Good/Bad In Law Tales .....stella dimoko korkushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04701817813874851226noreply@blogger.comBlogger50125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-17724851081569528192021-06-13T11:14:00.981+02:002021-06-13T11:14:00.981+02:00I met my in-law to be two weeks back and I'm s...I met my in-law to be two weeks back and I'm still relieving the experience.<br /><br /><br />My boo is from IMO state and several people tried to discourage me but I wasn't a bit bothered as dude is SWEETNESS personified.<br /><br />We ain't married yet but if the first impression is anything to go by, I can say I am blessed.<br /><br />They were so so accommodating and since I left them, each time I call my mom-in- love to be, she doesn't fail to pray for planned marriage and tell me she loves me.<br /><br />The siblings are so caring and I can feel the love and unity in their family.<br /><br />Heavenly father, I prayed and fasted for peaceful and lovely in-law, give me the grace to sustain what we have now when the marriage is finally instituted.<br /><br />AmenNonihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15320732569581839827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-72566831331357914322021-06-13T03:52:22.305+02:002021-06-13T03:52:22.305+02:00100% true that ot works vice versa. I have wonderf...100% true that ot works vice versa. I have wonderful inlaws and I am also a wonderful person to them. My sis inlaws and brother inlaws also say our family is very open and lovingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-72129088882988948642021-06-13T03:09:34.960+02:002021-06-13T03:09:34.960+02:00I’m a woman. I’m bothered about the 2 commenters w...I’m a woman. I’m bothered about the 2 commenters who admitted their husbands do not love them but are staying because of “good in laws”. I am a child of God. It’s upside down if your husband does not love you but his relatives do. Get on your knees and pray to God to open your eyes and turn things in your favor. How can a young woman live with a man that does not love her? <br /><br />My parents in law are both dead, my mother in law is every woman’s dream. May God bless her soul. My FIL too did not disturb my life so May he Rest In Peace. You see my 3 sister in laws, with their Napoleon shirt women syndrome are a nightmare to any wife. They know it all though one was my junior in school. They are so stingy they won’t donate their urine if it could save a life, they will sell it. I can confidently say none of them has spent N500 on me in decades. They take, levy and have no conscience at all. My BIL is quiet, they probably push him around , my husband no send anybody. A family friend said BIL’s wife never looks happy and I told the person that said it that you cannot be among those wicked short ladies and be happy. Google Napoleon syndrome. Run from men and women with it! They know how to take and feel entitled to my own money. I pray they repent before it’s too late.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-27740341551200300472021-06-13T02:07:23.076+02:002021-06-13T02:07:23.076+02:00I am going through so much pain right now from my ...I am going through so much pain right now from my in laws. Please if you are out there reading this please pray for me. Where should I start. The first two years with my in laws were great. I thank God for blessings me with such good people. I started noticing my sister in law saying demeaning things about me or degrading me. I sat quiet and said this is not not her, it can't be, she is too good to act like this. She loves me. But all their acts were pretends. In short am in so much pain. My sister in law the other day "she will reap what she sow" I cried for many days. But it is well, God said I should forgive them and be patience. One thing I know is is you were struggling before marriage and after you got married God bless you abundantly not all in laws will be happy. I am planning to move abroad with my daughter.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-65419147192269623302021-06-13T00:13:34.510+02:002021-06-13T00:13:34.510+02:00True. My inlaws are from the north, though not Hau...True. My inlaws are from the north, though not Hausa by tribe but they all speak Hausa as with the case with most northerners. They are the best inlaws you could ever ask for. Although there is a language barrier between me and my mother-in-law, she still treats me like her daughter and always calls me often. Although hubby does not love me, his family is great.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-66345400228186572862021-06-12T23:54:41.658+02:002021-06-12T23:54:41.658+02:00Same here. My inlaws are wonderful people. My husb...Same here. My inlaws are wonderful people. My husband does not love me but I console myself with the fact that I have loving and caring inlaws.<br />Hubby married me because he wanted to settle down and I was doing very well for myself. It was a very long distance relationship so I couldn't have seen the signs. He told me what I wanted to hear over the phone and like a fool, I believed him. Discovered few days after the marriage that I was played. Well, he neither hits me nor abuses me verbally but he does not love me and it's very obvious, he doesn't even make an effort to. We have our issues, which are usually finance related but mostly, we live peacefully and respectfully.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-63415308142007691202021-06-12T22:58:11.212+02:002021-06-12T22:58:11.212+02:00That is what happens when women are advised to fac...That is what happens when women are advised to face their children, they put all their emotions onthem. When the children marry, the jealousy of sharing companionship starts. Women stop depositing your emotions on your kids, get a companion.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-52321494881935260182021-06-12T22:43:03.415+02:002021-06-12T22:43:03.415+02:00Hmmmmmm my parents in law, always supporting their...Hmmmmmm my parents in law, always supporting their spoilt child. He beat me up when I was 9 months peggy, in their presense o! His Mum told my dad that why wont her son beat me up when my mouth is too sharp??? I forgave and stayed. 2 years later, he beat me up again, this time in my father's house, in the presense of my Mum. I moved out of the house with my kids. My inlaws didnt dim it fit to call me for once, not until 4 months later their son dragged them to my parents house to beg. They ended up insulting my parents join, say does their daughter have 2 heads ni? Thank God I'm better off without them, they should go and look for a 2 headed lady for ther son to marry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-41199583009795369342021-06-12T21:41:14.438+02:002021-06-12T21:41:14.438+02:00In one bush in ogun state killing witches 🤣🤣🤣🤣...In one bush in ogun state killing witches 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Castlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11621712323747985302noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-47066009056229560822021-06-12T20:38:23.452+02:002021-06-12T20:38:23.452+02:00I have the best mother in law. HAJIYA u are the be...I have the best mother in law. HAJIYA u are the best.sooo much loveHaj. Salmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06125905275497825584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-78419942282789125732021-06-12T19:56:02.920+02:002021-06-12T19:56:02.920+02:00You are just looking for who will engage u this ev...You are just looking for who will engage u this evening abeg. I no get time Eka Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15418885778334503843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-62116675642247304902021-06-12T19:44:07.147+02:002021-06-12T19:44:07.147+02:00Only stories from women Bvs. Men where are you? Ar...Only stories from women Bvs. Men where are you? Are all your in-laws awol, angels, or you all are indifferent to in-laws? Are in-laws issues peculiar to women?<br /><br />Please let us learn from you guys.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-72612024473365264442021-06-12T19:20:57.659+02:002021-06-12T19:20:57.659+02:00You did not see the part when I said just continue...You did not see the part when I said just continue to thank your God. Stella post oo aunty too like fight and I get time today. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-17485338160229847482021-06-12T18:45:30.397+02:002021-06-12T18:45:30.397+02:00That's the part u will pick na. You didn't...That's the part u will pick na. You didn't see where I wrote that I play my part in making sure nothing goes wrongEka Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15418885778334503843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-82812288022775765192021-06-12T18:26:50.317+02:002021-06-12T18:26:50.317+02:00I strongly believe it is cos she is Hausa too. The...I strongly believe it is cos she is Hausa too. They are generally well behaved and respect others. I am Igbo by the way but I have lived among them and have friends. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-62823622893856099732021-06-12T18:02:24.935+02:002021-06-12T18:02:24.935+02:00I had always prayed to have good in laws as I woul...I had always prayed to have good in laws as I would treat them as I would treat my parents. Initially,we were good until I moved in with them because hubby cannot raise money for our accommodation.seriously the period after I had put to bed,made me know that Your MOTHER,is YOUR MOTHER..MY mother in law showed me her real colour. I was depressed. When hubby was misbehaving by keeping a girlfriend,they made sure they somehow blamed me. When I insisted I was going to leave,after hubby smashed my phone for telling on him,they started pity party that they would die because of hubby and I..lol. I thank God my mom is still alive ,I have a confidante in her. Now we all know our boundaries but my happiest day will be when we will pack out of this family house.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-20013157038707537262021-06-12T17:49:18.704+02:002021-06-12T17:49:18.704+02:00Eka for your mind na at last paragraph. Just conti...Eka for your mind na at last paragraph. Just continue to thank your God and don’t pray for trouble if not è go shock you. I come in peace. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-15366965192854011032021-06-12T17:46:38.780+02:002021-06-12T17:46:38.780+02:00I'm grateful for the in-laws that I have, I pr...I'm grateful for the in-laws that I have, I pray God continue to keep them in good health.Blessohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06368449017605745504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-79671559954133835122021-06-12T17:41:20.543+02:002021-06-12T17:41:20.543+02:00My (step) mother in-law ehn (hubby's biologica...My (step) mother in-law ehn (hubby's biological mum is late)... She got issues and is constantly on a high horse. I tried to be in her good books so many times but she just doesnt like me. So now, I don't send her again. No calls or trying for her to like me because she just won't. Maybe its because of my husband who is her step son. Not like my late MIL came in to destroy her home or anything. Late mil was actually the first wife but the marriage didn't work out. This woman ehn, but anyway God will keep blessing my husband and I and we will prove them wrong. I told my husband in tears once that if there was ever anything like a next life, I'd choose him but I won't choose his family. Yeah I know it makes no sense but I've been through a lot. It is well with us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-42533728573062035602021-06-12T17:39:30.464+02:002021-06-12T17:39:30.464+02:00No fight, no paddy paddy, we respect each others l...No fight, no paddy paddy, we respect each others lane****Bbjac****https://www.blogger.com/profile/08417813629621567941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-4395486057075799722021-06-12T17:36:24.834+02:002021-06-12T17:36:24.834+02:00My ex MIL, hmmm, Ejime may God help you retrace yo...My ex MIL, hmmm, Ejime may God help you retrace your steps before you depart this Earth. I remember less than a week after I got married, I was dancing in the living room, she said no be to dance o, do make you born. My heart broke but lil did I know that I had conceived my daughter already.<br />She is wife no3, she spent 8 years before she took in o. My ex FIL warned his son to send his mother back home since we just got married but he didn't heed to that advice. <br />She is hypertensive and diabetic and so we don't eat the same meal, I prepare hers separately, yet when preparing our meal, she will come to the kitchen and say that I am wasting her son's money, that he does not eat what I am preparing.<br />Since her husband didn't cater for her children, she became my ex husband's wife, sadly i found out too late, na so she go dey sing for my head. Tell her sons that she is starving, I don't want to give her food. Too long a story, too many bad memories with her but I am proud to say that I can narrate the past we had without any bitterness now. She has one daughter unfortunately, she is not mentally balanced, her daughter can never experience the marriage and in law thing. <br />I hope someday soon, I will narrate the story of my joni with her son without bitterness.<br />John is still a gold digger in UK. Bunch of users as sons Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-51365491474814238712021-06-12T16:26:22.944+02:002021-06-12T16:26:22.944+02:00Sorry dear. Just face your life as you are doing. ...Sorry dear. Just face your life as you are doing. Marriage is not the best thing in life. Life is what you want it to be. HAPPINESS is all that matters. Marriage has brought pain to many. Keep being happy!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-39940570028417408352021-06-12T16:18:33.396+02:002021-06-12T16:18:33.396+02:00@Ryrygold Wow, it's good to hear, testimonies ...@Ryrygold Wow, it's good to hear, testimonies like this shows it's not a Nigerian thing to be evil to daughter inlaws, but based on family. God will keep making u smile in that family. So many people are struggling in this area in marriage Paprikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06115353685173860041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-81609758940673441642021-06-12T16:18:31.608+02:002021-06-12T16:18:31.608+02:00Not married yet
But am thanking God for giving me ...Not married yet<br />But am thanking God for giving me peaceful inlaws <br />Cant wait to have a Mother In LoveLagos Mainland Girlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-352385313518803988.post-36786850507049974122021-06-12T16:16:34.932+02:002021-06-12T16:16:34.932+02:00My inlaws are one the things I'm grateful to G...My inlaws are one the things I'm grateful to God for. They are kind and very understanding. They respect themselves and respect everyone around them. My friends still believe it's because my mother in law is Hausa, but me I believe it's God answered prayers.<br />I love them so much, may God help the unmarried ones among my husband siblings find a good family like theirs.SimplyToniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13886325901177479451noreply@blogger.com