I'm a lady in my early twenties,I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for more than two years now.Though I'm not in a rush to get married but he wants it ASAP.
He is everything a girl wants in a man,responsible,cute,caring and all but the only problem is I think he is possessed.
He is out of the country most times but always seems to know everything going on with me here,I was a virgin till I met him and I think all started after we had sex.
Anytime I'm indisposed,he just calls me and say "Tola I know you are not feeling good,what's up with you and so on,the most annoying part is that anytime I'm with another guy that is when he calls and starts asking me if he can still trust me.
its like nothing I do is a secret to him again,just recently,I was with a guy and just as we were about to have sex,my boyfriend called and I was so distabilized,I just had to stop the whole thing.
Please blog visitors,how do I ask him how he knows these things?he even knows when I go to parties without telling him and i know he is not spying on me.
Am i safe with this guy? I have stylishly asked him once but he just smiled and didn't reply.I really need advice please,thanks''.
*Hian!...this one na executive one chance oooooh....I opt to take several seats on this one.
Lmfao*o girl run o
ReplyDeleteDer is one soft ware my guys uncle installs on his wife fone. D soft ware tracks her ever move. He bout it abroad. I guess he must ve bugd ur fone. Try n change fone.
DeleteA friend's bf did the same to her. All these yahoo boys that are good with IT. He bought her the phone n setup d software. Come n see gbege. She cry taya mesef beg taya. Lol!
DeletePoster you must be sick. Fooish cheating cheat. He's everyhing u need, u are not ready for marriage, u were abt having sex with anoda guy. U be ewu gambia. Wait till he dumps you, and have urself to blame.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you Anon 7:16 ! Since he's everything you need,why are you sleeping around?
DeleteWhat an irresponsible poster... I wlda loved to curse u like anon 7:16am, but no need. Ist deal with your irresponsibilities before coming here for advice... The nerve !!! Smh
DeleteThe poster na fucklicant jare!
DeleteAll of u condemning her for trying to av sex with someone else, didn't u read d part where she said he travels alot. Holier than thou
DeleteAnon 10:38 so if he travels frequently that gives her the ticket to dispense pussy to whom it may concern abi? I suggest u just shatap!
Delete@CEO u nid 2 close dat ur stinky dirty mouth... C who is talkin!!!! Tel mi u av nat cheat on ur gf, big fool. Pls stop commentin on dis blog cos u disguist me.bastard.
DeleteMay Amadioha strike u down @ CEO.
DeleteMay dt Amadioha divide u into 70 pieces for insulting CEO, dt d society is turning into a mess doesn't mean that their are no decent humans again. If u gat notn good to say GTFOH u malnourished brazilian fowl.
Delete@nancy I understand life has dealt u a very bad hand...the exact reason for ur bitterness..but I recommend u put ur pussy in ur brain and fuck what u think about me. I'm only responsible for what I post and not what u understand. Btw its "disgust" not 'disguist'. Thank me now.
DeletePundit u don chop? Just do ur lame ass a favour and crawl back to the shit-hole u crept out from
DeleteCEO Nacet blade. Very sharp beak. You too talk. You be man o
DeleteLol! Depends on how long u guys hv been 2geda tho..if its a new relationship den dere's fire on d mountain! Look deeper
ReplyDeleteMy dear poster...there's something called "intuition"...which has nothing to do with whether u are christian..muslim..hindu or whatever. The heart and mind works in such a way that when u are loyal and u treat someone with the sincerest part of ur soul...some revelations will come to u unsolicited. which I think is the case with your man. First your own guilty conscience is at play here because you are not loyal to him. And I rarely hear of girls who waited to be disvirgined by the one they love, only to later let their body lose to any guy...like u are doing now. makes me wonder.
DeleteAm not condemning u oo....but I hope that u will not send Stella any mail of woe later....to cry that uv been mishandled by the person who disvirgined u.. if u don't make restitution fast, danger lurks. Godspeed
Dear Poster, u should av had d sex first b4 u picked his call. Or next tym switch off ur phone so he won't disturb. Maybe ur boyfriend has secret spies dat are watching u. Or maybe he did a moblie tracker. Bt dere is sumtin fishy goin on. Pls just try and stay faithful to him. I think he really luvs and care about u. Dat kind of guy is rare.
ReplyDeleteMaybe he put one of those tracking apps on your phone, so he knows exactly where you are at all time, or he has set up cameras in your house and on your computer.
ReplyDeleteIt is normal he knows when u might be sick...of u know someone very well such things happen..I believe he also knows Abt ur period n feels you might be sick within or after the period...most are guess work ...n if he knows how you spend your day,the places you goto,the friends you keep then it is very easy to just call n guess what you are doing....he doesn't have a third eye...he might have a spy but don't conclude ...why would u even try having sex with someone else u think if he truly loves u he would not feel it...hahahahaha
ReplyDeleteAsawo kobokobo stop cheating on him
ReplyDeleteU are an idiot to say that
DeleteYou can correct someone without abusing the person.
DeleteAre you pure? Search yourself before casting that stone.
How she take be ashawo?..they aint married so she's free to hv fun wf someother person while d bf is away.
DeleteY u bin a bitch.ows that fun
DeleteCan't you be single and shag all the men you like?
ReplyDeleteThis one hard oo but poster,why do you always want to cheat when you have a good man?Women sef...well,I think its juju
ReplyDeleteY won't u tink is juju wen u used it on ur husband. Idiot.plsssss d babe is free 2 shag who xo eva she feels lyk fuckin, is her life. @CEO ur mates r busy in d office, u r here castigating d fyn gal,go get a life fool.
DeleteLOL!..The solution is for you to stop playing games..he is probably just psychic.
ReplyDeleteWhy r u fucking other guys when u have a bf? U have a problem not him. If u can't be faithful stay single. Cheaters Lways act like this, if ure innocent u won't think he's possessed. Ure the one who's possessed .
ReplyDeleteVirgin!!!! U neva cheat b4???? Gerrat make I c beta people joor.
DeleteCould it be he put a censor in ur body to watch what u do?well#thinking#!but as a typical african,this is my honest opinion:He belongs in some spiritual shit'
ReplyDeleteAnd now that u are like his property'(in proxy),hes using his mirror to monitor u,infact he's officially a monitoring spirit in ur life!lol
Pls stylishly breakup with him,we live in a strange world and anyone that say they say they don't believe in witchcraft is on a very long thing!
Lame response! Dense#
DeleteFuck off!
DeleteMy dense' response doesn't change The fact I am still more exposed than u,that I believe there's witchcraft is coming to terms with reality and not. Being pretentious like u!
Am sure the highest no of evil pple in ur village are from ur lineage,better go and get deliverance,so ur life can stop being stagnant!rubbish!
At first I had wanted to say that it is possible he has an ally in someone very close to you. But when it got to that part where you said he call whenever you re about to have sex, I decided to take several seats back like stellz. Maybe you should stop the cheating sef! E nor dey tire you?
ReplyDelete@FADERERA
And they'll say the need a caring FAITHFUL husband...but they're HOES...lmao!...u go hear am
ReplyDeleteNa ur mama go hear em
DeleteY pained if u r clean?
DeleteTola, you know he knows you posted this yea?
ReplyDeleteThe guy dey see fishion..hehehehe
ReplyDeleteOn a more serious note, you said the guy has every attribute a woman wants, then why are you still having sex with other guys, Or are they just flings ??
Even if dey r flings!!! Must she v flings? Most girls of dis day r J̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊t̲̥̅̊ useless n selfish!!!
DeleteOmo girl u foolish sha, girls. Are serzly lookn for husband material up and down and you're here opening that yo Yeye mouuth to. Say he's everything a woman wants, Mbok dimi o y r u nw cheating on him?! Are u not possessed?! U should seek help cos yo own is worse you even know what u want is in d 'shokoto' but u don't. Mind d bumpy ride 2 sokoto 2 look for it?! Word of advice; stay faithful to yo man b4 d vultures prey on him... and as for his third eye I don't think it's spiritual some people are actually very deep once dey have a connection with u, they tend to feel d events occurring around u am one of such. So u can use superglue and evostik on Ur pussy if dat doesn't work my sister abeg cement am pending when Ur bf returns... * I've said my own o *in stella's voice*
Deletewait. you get boyfriend and you wan straff another? tjo tjo tjo tjo. smh..... babe, na this kind mr. signs and wonders fit you.
ReplyDeletehigh fever
ReplyDeleteSoma Bobo where have u been?
DeleteSoma!!!
DeleteWow! Long time dude, actually misd u. Wlc back.
DeleteWho beg u make u come back?u done bone finish ba..oshisco
DeleteSoma!!!
DeleteSoma I miss u O°˚ welcome back niga
DeleteChai! Somadina na wa o! See as u just bone us for here wey we come dey fire prayer on top your head unto dat accident. Glad to know ure still alive and kicking. Welcome back
Delete@Somadina u don dey use difernt names 2 reply u comment,hahahha *smh* I av done dat b4 xo don't try 2 seek 4 notice.n remember 2 take ur drugs.lol
DeleteDear poster,I just feel u r been spied by ur bf but u don't know. My cousin has done that to me.hetld me that he can know my where about if he wishes but doubt him so we bet.if I'm eating in a restaurant he will call n said u r in a restaurant n eating now n many odas so what I'm saying is that he set spies for u to b monitoring u but if u truly love him don't cheat on him but if not why not tell him u r fed up n move on with ur life so that ur mind will be free.
ReplyDeleteO boy' #sigh.
ReplyDeleteStuffs like dis happen, I know of a man who planted voice recorders and secret Camers's all over his house house and in his car. He used dem 2 trail his wife who was not in anyway faithful 2 him and now they r divorced.....fact is possessive men go to any lenght. But then again sis, if u want 2 be wit this man 4ever, why don't u b faithful 2 him?? A man who will go as far as planting a bug on u or around u wants 2 trust u fully, so try and be faithful, and tell him tins b4 he finds out himself. If u do not want him, just call it off and take a long walk 4 ever.
U don't know wat he has been through and this monitoring will definantely not last 4ever.
I wish I knew him, I would asked wat he used so I can use it on my bf's phone...#rollseyes.
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ReplyDeletehi
ReplyDeleteU are really irritating galore. Must u always say hi before u comment ?! Dumb dick face!!!!!
DeleteAnon 10:59 she's got style..just deal wit it... Hehehehe.. See bitterness sha
DeleteCoincidence and telepathy abeg. Nothing else.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteds one get as ee be oo
Have you heard of ''MONITORING SPIRIT''
##i comment my reserve##
It is well with you,,all d same
@Galore
naaa...he is not possessed. he is really into you.
ReplyDeleteIt a gift. he senses when something is out of place with you, he may not be actually sure but that feeling comes up strong that he calls you.
I know so cos I am like that as well..and no! I am not possessed. I just don't discard my instinct cos I always regret.
bia Stella that pic up there is so scary. abeg change am jor!
Hehehe
DeleteI just love this lady
Please be my friend!
Yes, I'm like that too. It's not intentional, it just comes. My boyfriend stays in Naija n I usually sense when something is wrong. Like throughout ystday I was so uneasy, I asked him if something was wrong he said nothing only for his brother to call me very early this morning that they are on the way 2 the hospital cuz he's not feeling well. I'm like that wiv my mum and siblings too. Pls o, I'm not possessed.
DeleteLol me too I'm taking several seat too,but you dnt sound like you love this guy.aunty stella that your is scary
ReplyDeleteU are dating him n at same time tryin to v sex with another guy, u r shamelessly cheap. So ur problem is not only his monitoring but how to device a means to be openining ur pussy. Smh ,upon u mentioned he gat all d qualities, u still don't appreciate that as if u are perfect. Their is no perfect being on earth, if u gt 70% of wot u wnt, hold ur partner tight n stop acting like an immature kid.
ReplyDeleteBabe its either ur boyfriend get strong jazz or he is blessed with the ability to see (prophecy). Which ever it is I advise u investigate well to know which know. In btw, y cheat on a good man n why delay marriage if there's no issue? Pls honour your man and respect your body.
ReplyDeleteEKA
The guy who disvirgined me ws like dis too.I met him whn he ws serving and I ws in hundred level.@1st he didn't believe I ws a virgin cos I talk very wild.Bt last last whn we gt done he gt 2 knw.Afta then he became very possesive.I didn't ve any male frnds.He knew evrything hpnin in my life and I tout he ws a wizard.Until I discovered he ws d oga of Aye cult.I think they ve extra powers.Babe u ve 2 knw him 2 his anus.Dnt b carried away with the looks and his swt behaviou.He might b a devil in disguise.All d best dear
ReplyDeleteNa wa o..if u only got to have sex with him just last night...how can u then conclude that "he became possessive after sex"? Its been only a few hours nah! LoL
DeleteMonitoring Spirit things...hian!
ReplyDelete"just recently,I was with a guy and
ReplyDeletejust as we were about to have sex,my
boyfriend called and I was so
distabilized,I just had to stop the whole
thing."
Are you for real or you just being plain-stupid?
Ashewo oshi...soon they' be 'tappin into d anointin' wen dey see a wedding post. Ee ni ri oko gidi fe eyin ashewo buruku yi
DeleteAshewo oshi...soon they' be 'tappin into d anointin' wen dey see a wedding post. Ee ni ri oko gidi fe eyin ashewo buruku yi
DeleteHahahahaha..asin ehn u get am...na really tapping in2 d anoiting...like serz u were distabilized cos u didn't av d chance 2 cheat on ur bf with another guy? Who says that...*confused*
Delete@Bitchplis u acting lyk a saint, I kw ur type, na u b d ashawo,ezi.fuck out 4rm here joor.
Delete@Bitchplis u acting lyk a saint, I kw ur type, na u b d ashawo,ezi.fuck out 4rm here joor.
DeleteHe doesn't knw anytin trust me he only reads ur body language on d phone as in u re not smart enough for cheating so pls stop cheating. Hehehe! Cheating takes u nowhere baby it only destroys ur relationship.
ReplyDeleteI follow u take several seats o
ReplyDeleteSwerri, ur guy is occultic.kapish. Search urslf, can u put up wit dis kinda person who is an ominiscient over ur every move. Not dat i support u cheatin on him or anythin ltk dat bt girl, we all nid our privacy nd cld do wit a little space nd wit dis guy, honey, u aint eva gon hav any of dat. Codedly scam while u can. #myonecent
ReplyDeleteYou are right..I don't support her cheating on her bf but I find it strange that the guy knows her every move. What if he's using a diabolic means? Dear poster my advice is to do a background check on ur bf, then try to find out from him how he knows ur every move, if he loves you he will tell u d truth and if its by diabolic means, my dear RUN away from him. Although I can't be with a guy that knows my every move whether by diabolic means or not, without me telling him.
DeleteSwerri, ur guy is occultic.kapish. Search urslf, can u put up wit dis kinda person who is an ominiscient over ur every move. Not dat i support u cheatin on him or anythin ltk dat bt girl, we all nid our privacy nd cld do wit a little space nd wit dis guy, honey, u aint eva gon hav any of dat. Codedly scam while u can. #myonecent
ReplyDeleteSwerri, ur guy is occultic.kapish. Search urslf, can u put up wit dis kinda person who is an ominiscient over ur every move. Not dat i support u cheatin on him or anythin ltk dat bt girl, we all nid our privacy nd cld do wit a little space nd wit dis guy, honey, u aint eva gon hav any of dat. Codedly scam while u can. #myonecent
ReplyDeleteHe's ur medicine idiot girl. U have a confirmed boyfriend and u cheat on him. Now u r asking 4 advice on how to avoid his "ogbanje eyes". How can u say he's good but u still cheat. Smh
ReplyDeleteI'm in my early 20's too but I don't sound this dumb....he obviously asks people to watch you he doesn't have any super powers, my boyfriend does this too. If you are no longer interested in the relationship then let him know because when you're finally ready he might be long gone.
ReplyDeleteSmh...
ReplyDeleteSmh
ReplyDeleteStella dis one pass my power ooo .all o will say is run for ur dear life buh it will b difficult ooo.d problem we women av is tinx of d world,we allow dem control us. Y nt switch of ur phone atime.it is a wa
ReplyDeleteAh babe u dey play am ni? I'm nt trying to side him oo bt sometimes its jst instincts, I hv a frnd who always knw when her husband is cheating witout being der or spying him
ReplyDeleteI have the same problem.. i always know wen my boyfrnd is cheating
DeleteAnonymous 10:07 my dear, it's not a problem....its a gift. And u better appreciate it
DeleteHow about you start by not cheating or trying to cheat on your boyfriend!tueh!
ReplyDeleteDear poster, first of all, before I start with the guy. Baby, you shouldn't have lost your virginity to a guy that hasn't paid anything on your head. Sex itself is a covenant. It is deep and has spiritual implications. Plus the spiritual controls the physical. I'm not trying to scare you o, I just want you to understand. You are also cheating on the guy sef. Ah ko da oo. You deserve a better life dear. You do.
ReplyDeleteNow as for the guy, he is probably fetish or those occurences are mere coincidences. I think you should be careful and infact my advice is you should think about letting the guy go. And please darling, God loves you. Give your life to Christ. It isn't too late. He will turn your life around for the better. He will change your story. He changed MINE! Think about it. God bless you.
Me.
Story!! You that is talking,are you a virgin or did you married as a virgin??? If I hear
DeleteLinda eh! Oyibo gi a eh!....ehe! Unto anonymous thinz.. Am a virgin @ 18...am I missing something? My guy don't believe me coz am so beautiful(head bursts!)...and he said he's gonna rape me one day if I no give am p***y peacefully....but he don try o! 1year+ no be beans o! *dodges shoe*
DeleteMy dear I like ur comment n don't mind those immature dullards that will come to attack u. Had sex with my ex, broke up with him later n since I became closer to God, I discovered its not worth it, vnt slept any guy nearly getting to 2yrs n ready to wait for that special one.
Delete*marry*m.....#don't mention#
DeleteAt linda eze, yes I'm a virgin... Do you have a problem with that? Even if I wasn't a virgin, what's your point sef? Why are you encouraging evil??? May God forgive you!
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ANON.8:37am
DeleteSex is purely biological not spiritual!
If we are to agree with you that having sex with a bad man could bring some kinda curse or some spiritual implications, then you're indirectly saying that sex with a good man (e.g a pastor ) will equally attract blessing or could be spiritual rewarding too . So, it's either the two are right or none is!
For the poster, if your bf has 3eyes hmmm, he must have been reading all these comments here. But because you knew he can't that was why you asked us. Simple-it's all coincidence or a kind of spy as some people earlier suggested.
Kam bia kwa!
best comment for this post goes to ifeanyi. Thumbs up
Delete9c 1 @ ifeanyi.pls whoz dat beast/gal dat said she's stil a virgin n very beautiful????am flyin my bra 4 u.
DeleteCheck well, he might have a detective following u.
ReplyDeleteFor your own gud,just leave dat guy.
ReplyDeletesome people have very strong instinct. like my boss would say 'body dey always fone them'. i dont see anything wrong with him. you need to stop cheating. you have a good man
ReplyDeleteSoooooo why u cheating on him? You don enter one chance. Remember that time you ate walnut and palm oil in your dream? That was your swearing in. The two of u don become one, that's why he knows everything.
ReplyDeleteOk!!! Before I take several seat bck, wz pondering aloud y girls dat God blessd wit gud guys like the one u jst mentioned wil need to cheat wit anoda guy? Is it worth it? He is ready fr marriage and u re nt ready wich is y u wants to flip ur wing. I repeat is it worth it? Since u re nt ready for wat he wants y dnt u break it up and do as u like. It is nt worth it. Y intentionaly cause anoda pain?
ReplyDeleteUr guy having three eyes? Its either he is so into u dat he is veri much attuned to u OR he has people monitoring u... #mytwocents#
Ok!!! Before I take several seat bck, wz pondering aloud y girls dat God blessd wit gud guys like the one u jst mentioned wil need to cheat wit anoda guy? Is it worth it? He is ready fr marriage and u re nt ready wich is y u wants to flip ur wing. I repeat is it worth it? Since u re nt ready for wat he wants y dnt u break it up and do as u like. It is nt worth it. Y intentionaly cause anoda pain?
ReplyDeleteUr guy having three eyes? Its either he is so into u dat he is veri much attuned to u OR he has people monitoring u... #mytwocents#
No Offence dear Poster but I don't think you are a very smart person, the guy has studied u well enough that your voice and atitude gives u away when you are up to something fishy and he goes with his instincts as well. Be wise, he may not be occultic, don't loose something good for momentary pleasure!
ReplyDeleteSo as you don tell us now, the guy will call you and ask: "why did you have tell everybody our business?" hahahaha
ReplyDeleteSeriously though, you need that kind of person in your life since you like to cheat.
There is nothing like 3rd eye here, stop telling whoever it is u tell bout the other guys. your friend is a snitch.......girls cant be trusted.
ReplyDeleteYeye girl,u want to eat ur cake and have it,I hope he dumps ur cheating arse,if ure not content wiv him why not just leave.if u marry a nuisance now u'l come on stella's blog and start complaining.Anyway the guy sef nawa.,he's probably tapped ur fone,every msg u get he probably receives,when ur fone rings,he hears ur convo,try changing ur fone and line and see what happens,if it continues,na confirmed monitoring spirit be that or maybe he's a Ghost that's come bk to life,all that traveling na ghost mode...lol,naija,what a peculiar people.
ReplyDeleteI definitely agree with you. He has an app that monitors & records your calls, messages-viber,whatsapp,email etc. He uses gps to monitor your locations. If you change your phone & number & he gets your number it continues. Check out this site:www.stealthgenie.com. It explains why he knows. He can hear the surrounding noise where you are without your knowing. It is just about $159 for the gold package a month. Not much if you want to catch a cheating partner.
DeleteMadam if you know you can't be honest then leave this guy alone and go look for some one else. That is the kind of person i am it can be scary at times to even me, i just see through people. I see things before they happen. weeks to months before some 1 dies i will see it, accidents i see, if a man cheats even before he dose it i see to the extent that i will even recognise the lady and point her out to the guy. It is a gift from God that is why i said since you know you can't be faithful go look for a spiritually blind guy because it is not your guys faulty. I am based abroad any time there is problem at home before they can call and tell me i will be the first to call them.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm!! Moi,you better Come down to naija and make some cool cash...some people this days wil pay anything for you to see there future
DeleteHahahahahaha@moi.since u av a very big eye y won't u c all dis, pls go n seat down joor,wat do u kw u r seeing?even witch doctors r now pastors. Churches full here in nigeria xo u can come down 2 niger n open ur own church , no 1 will doubt u.
DeletePlz oh , quietly go for deliverance is not normal at all .you hv comitted ur self 2 evil spirit himself. Run for dear life
ReplyDeleteTrue love can see through all things..the technology u all re talking about cannot function here in nigeria.it is pure instinct..and d guy is not evil.ok bye
Delete@Anon #45, are you a virgin or u got married as a virgin? Omo, it is gud you sample your guy before marrying him. Pls dont do that mistake.@holy things. I know of a lady that the guy told her they wont have anything together till they get married. They never had anything intimate before. As they were planning for their wedding, the lady went to the guy's house and saw him bathing. That was when she got the shocker of her life___ the guy no get P_n_s. She had to call off the wedding.
ReplyDeleteBack to your story, i think the guy just have a very strong instinct like mine. I know when my guy's way is not straight and i tell it to his face. Shikena. Pardon typo.
Ah! Is it possible for a man not to have D KOKO? Abi u mean it's tiny? Hehehehe! Na wa o
DeletePoster haba! Na wa o. This guy loves you silly, why would you want to cheat on him? He is so into you that's why he can almost tell everything you do and where you are, you think its easy for a guy to know your every move? Do you know how much time and energy it takes, I was like that with a guy I loved so much I would even dream of him when I was a away from when he was cheating when I use to tell him all he had been doing behind my back he got so scard of me. I dumped him after I realized he was always looking for how to cheat. Just like you are doing now. You will lose this guy and discover there is nothing out there you are looking for and wish you had put your bum in one place. Don't wait to get to 30 something and start singing the had I know song. I am married with kids now and that my boyfriend tells me now how stupid he was to loss a good woman.
ReplyDeleteDear blog visitor, ur boyfriend does not have 3 eyes. it is just intuition. My former bf(now hubby) have that kinda spirit. i thought he was spying on me too. but that same spirit helped me while i was in school. he tells me when to travel, and when not to. where to read for tests and exams and things like that. he just knows things before hand. and when he warns about a thing, believe me, you dont want to do it. i would say its a gift from God..
ReplyDeleteBtw, why would you be in a serious relationship, and still be with another guy, to the point of wanting to sleep with him? if your bf had not called, you would have cheated right?
Girls nowadays, only God understands you....smh
.....and one more thing, check him out to see if he is really spying on you, if he is not, and what he is doing is genuine, my advice for you, Marry him! it will save you a whole lot of headache later.
@ bitchplis, your comment has broken my ribs ooo..hahaha
ReplyDeleteyou are really angry with this poster..lol
...........Girls why now, why are you doing this to womanhood? making people think all women are whores....why should you be in a relationship with someone, and still be sleeping around?
O ma ga o.
he knows u wella so when u dont sound like ur usual self on phone,he suspect things aint okay.he is just soo into u,no be jazz jor
ReplyDeleteI had a friend whose bf was in outside Nigeria,dat guy dey monitor abeg.there was dis time he called that my friend nd asked whr she was,d girl lied nd told him she was with me @ the d back of 1 place like dat gisting.do u knw wat d guy did???he told dat my then friend 2 wait 4 5mins dat sum1 will have 2 confirm.what????confirm keh.so dis girl just came 2 my hall with bike nd told me we have 2 go sumwhr nw dat she go explain later.whew!!!which kind life bdat.true true d guy asked sum1 2 come check O.nobe small tin. I tire 4 dis kind guys O.but poster in ur case I tink its just instincts jare
ReplyDeleteI strongly disagree with yall data says he is fetish..When a guy really loves a lady and uses his mind well,pure to d lady, trust me when she is about to err the guy will know..All this is a thing of the mind only if u can study your woman and be clean..I know when something isn't rite with my woman..Trust meam far from fetish..
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Thank u..u don talk am.its purely true love.if I love a girl,there is no way I won't know if she cheats.
DeleteHmmmm na wa Ohh this girl u no get problem Ohh ur a time waster why cheat on ur bf if u want to be free and ur not in love with him then break up with him then later ur relationship was meant to be it will surely happen
ReplyDeleteThis isn't a logical issue. You know it; SDKers know it. So why are you bringing this *problem* to us? Ok you want advice? Remain with your sweetheart. I wish you happy matrimony.
ReplyDeleteANON.8:37am
ReplyDeleteSex is purely biological not spiritual!
If we are to agree with you that having sex with a bad man could bring some kinda curse or some spiritual implications, then you're indirectly saying that sex with a good man (e.g a pastor ) will equally attract blessing or could be spiritual rewarding too . So, it's either the two are right or none is!
For the poster, if your bf has 3eyes hmmm, he must have been reading all these comments here. But because you knew he can't that was why you asked us. Simple-it's all coincidence or a kind of spy as some people earlier suggested.
Kam bia kwa!
Its that wot use to decieve ursef, don't worry one day u will fuck a mermaid n all u v labourd for will be gone if u don't take care. Fuckenizer oshisco
DeleteHe's everything you want in a guy yet you are still cheating?! Sometimes we are the architects of our own demise
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He is not a cultist or using any technology on you. I am a victim as my first and only lover who is my husband now is like that too, He even knows where I am at every point in time without my telling him long before we relocated abroad.
ReplyDeleteIt means that he has taken time to learn you, your body language , facial expression and your voice changes and can easily tell that you are sick or uncomfortable at any point in time even when he is not there in person. It got to the extent that he will warn me not to enter a particular car that he senses danger and it comes to pass,when I was coming back from NYSC we had an accident and were attacked by armed robbers by 2 am and he called me immediately and talked to me till we were safe. You can do that to him if you are faithful and love him with all your heart as I can sense when my hubby is not okay wherever he is, that is what is called true love from the heart.
Sex is spiritual and your first lover connects to you physically and spiritually whether you want it or not. Ask yourself why people even when they grow old or marry another person never forget their first love. Its natural just be yourself and know what you want and grab it.
Babe are u really sure u love dis guy? ask ur self dis question. I hate folks dat cheat. Can't imagine myself sleeping with another guy #teamlove#myboyfriend!
ReplyDeleteWell to me,if u re so decent to hv kept ur virginity n lost it to a man last 2 yrs,n wt all d qualities u claimed he has,u won't be in such a hurry to cheat on such man,then 2ndly u thnk u re gettin younger or u re so fine dat u re decvn urself dat men wll be at ur beck n call,u re not ready 4 marriage bt u re ready to b fuckn around,I see where u will land in few yrs to come,wen u will b runnin frm one night vigil to anoda prayn 4 husbnd
ReplyDeletethis na winchie winchie things o
ReplyDelete@moi,I seriously need u in my life
ReplyDeleteAbeg,I need 2 knw if dis my guy wil marry me.make I "north west"my time..hehehe
Trust mi one of your friends is giving him information about u,it happened to mi also my friends were giving my bf info,he was in Uk while I was here
ReplyDeletePpl r funny, he bugs what phone? Was she on d phone whilst trying to have sex? He is either in tuned with u or does not trust u one bit, and knows u r not faithful to him.
ReplyDeleteMy Advice, Respect Ur self
Because he travels a lot is no excuse to b a skank
Madam poster,as yah leg no dey stay one please,shey u go come service my grandpa.He's just 78 yiars old.
ReplyDeleteBet wait ooh..Guys/men do worse even wen lover no travel self...
He's hacking your calls and sms! My ex does that! I found out when i saw all my inbox messages in his inbox too like we share same sim card! But you're a bloody cheat! He's everything you want in a man and you wanna lash another man! WTF is wrong with your brain! Abeg don't keep him free him for other serious girls who wanna settle down! Smh!
ReplyDeleteHe paid eyes to watch u and monitor your movement. dts all.
ReplyDeleteUr friends might be giving him information or he has a soul tie with you. I am like that with my man and it's not easy. I cry for the connection to break because I feel I am losing myself because it's too strong. It has reduced now though. I can tell when he's doing bad things my heart starts beating fast. I can tell when he's happy, I feel overwhelmingly happy for no reason at all, and I just know it's him. I can tell when he is sad too. Anytime he's with someone else even when we stopped dating I knew. I sense he knows when am up to something bad too. He has called a few times. I was shaking. Though it seemed like we had an open relationsip cause it was distance but you shall not get caught o. Even when we broke up. We couldn't stay apart for long because that connection was still strong. Anyone that tries to come between is ends up hurt. He talked in his sleep once how he cannot be with anyone but me. I know he is up to something this December and I am looking forward to it. Despite both our bad behaviors he is a very good guy and I couldn't think of spending the rest of my life with anyone else
ReplyDeletey some women dey form fool like this. you are portraying yourself as a good girl yet you are sleeping with other men, yet you want to marry, like really? chick, wen u wan marry, u go stop the runs...trust and believe u neva ready and he is already suspecting ur trifling ass anyway.... u write blog as if he is to blame for being paranoid....you are giving the nigga so many reasons to be paranoid. i be woman o by the way....i hate rubbish and this is absolute BS wen you write..dumbo
ReplyDeleteIf he's that good, he probably has access to your email and passwords to your social media accounts. Change all your passwords and see if he's still accurate
ReplyDeleteThose calling the gal names, is the guy a saint where he is?
ReplyDeleteThe double standard of Nigerians baffle me!!!!
Poster, he either has a someone spying on you OR he has an app mobile tracker on your phone!!
Solution? Get another phone and number, and switch off when going on a date!!
It is called HACKING, poster! Not 3rd eye!
ReplyDeleteLook @ the fellow women cussing her out....are you better?
It is a LDR, is he faithful himself?
Love and sex are not the same please! That one man is ur first doesn't mean that you love him.
ReplyDeleteFools how do you conclude he is a good man? Someone that is out of the country most times how do you know he doesn't cheat on her with other women? Till he tells you he wants to marry you don't wIt for nobody, most guys who live abroad will have a girlfriend they r sleeping with.....u better run away cos when you Mary him he shall imprison you like chimes,s wife.......shine your eye
ReplyDeleteFools so you think the guy is a saint? Make una Sidon there
ReplyDeleteAbeg anonymous, this software do I install it on my own phone or say the person,s phone I want to monitor? I know it said target phone but I wasn't sure if it was me the user or the person I want to monitor....my hubby is a dog and he lives abroad, but he lies and behaves like a saint...I need hard evidence to show him that I know and am not a fool Ike he thinks....
ReplyDeletemy ex suddenly knew too much plus my credit info and wld claim my phone called him when in another guys car and heard us.... lies from pits of hell no record of any call. He later confessed he is a worshipper of unmentionable and I escaped his house.
ReplyDeleteDef a diabolical somebody. Used to always mention taking me to hell and is not nija guy
My dear...i think its better u quit if u cant cope wt d relatnship or u desist frm cheating.ur boyfrnd has no power is natural.its jst hs instinct.i have this instinct too,i call it a blessing cos it enables me be in a relationship without being played,and its a curse bcos it has destroyed some of my relationship bcos d ones who couldnt cope with my ability ran away.This ability occurs mostly when i'm so attracted n have deeper feelings 4 a person.it also occurs in every aspect of my normal life and with people i get to meet...i can sense Good n Evil,especially when my boyfrnd is cheating or planning to play games..........i think i hav to stop here...bt he isnt diabolical.he loves u very well dat is why its working on u badly....just b faithful to him and dnt harbour evil against him...i promise u will enjoy him.
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