This post is for Female Blog visitors.....If you are male, please , leave here Immediately!
Why are you women so brutal to the men on this Blog? Why una like make dem tag this Blog Female? which male BVs cant you stand? Dont you think this Blog will be a better place if you Ladies are more Friendly towards the male here?
Oya make una enjoy this space and hopefully the male will not come in here to join issues with una....
Been battling with heavy stomach upsets since on Thursday evening & could not sleep all through the night because the pain was terrible, when i unknowingly fell asleep yesterday morning due to been awake all night, i slept wrongly and woke up to not just my stomach paining me, but also my left shoulder & neck due to my sleeping posture on the couch, when both pains were becoming too much to handle i called a nurse that runs a pharmacy in my street to come over as I can't work or move, and she said the stomach pain was as a result of food poisoning (I wonder which of the restaurants food is responsibleπ€¦π½♂️) and she gave me many drugs to help relieve the pains in my stomach & also for the shoulder & neck pain which is way worse than the stomach pain tbh because I can't move or talk or function properly since yesterday morning till now, am still in serious pains till now from the neck and shoulder but the stomach pain has been reducing graduallyπ
ReplyDeleteFemales & males put me in your prayers please ππΌ
sorry! and recieve healing in Jesus name
DeleteStill try and go to the hospital for comprehensive check up. Quick recovery π
DeleteEyaah, Pele.
DeleteI pray for quick recovery for you ππΏ
Your healing is here Isaacbaba.
DeleteEhya so sorry dear Isaac.
DeletePlease drink enough water while taking your meds.
It is well with you.
Please go to the hospital, how do you just diagnose someone without conducting tests? Get well soon.
DeleteSorry Isaac, I think you should still go to the hospital. Nurse is different from medical doctor pls.
DeleteYou're healed in Jesus name π
Adunni
May God heal you π. Quick recovery to you π
DeleteYou need to seek medical attention if you haven't.. so sorry please feel good
DeleteGet well soon,try and go to the hospital.
DeleteGo to the hospital for proper treatment
DeleteAre you sure it's actually food poisoning, did she run a test on you to confirm if it is food poisoning? Please go to the hospital and run a proper medical test so that you won't be using headache drugs for stomach ache.
DeleteSorry for what you're going through, May the healing hands of God rest upon you, nothing bad will happen to you, speedy recovery to you in Jesus name.
Pele, wishing you quick recovery.
DeleteOh, Chim o. Pele dear.
DeleteUhm π€ who typed?
DeleteHahahahahaha
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It's the hairstyle for me...
The Dada is really scattered!
Stella you no try , which kind dog hairstyle be this *rolling my eyes at you* post wey you for use better picture ginger us . No dey give these men dem upper hand . Imagine dem go
DeleteDey laugh us naa, Stella na see finish be this ooo
It’s sad that some people want you to reason and see things the way they do, once you have a different opinion they will attack and bully you. We can disagree without being rude to each other. Live and let others live
ReplyDeleteNice post Stella .
ReplyDeleteStella, I strongly disagree. We are not brutal. The kangs here tend to generalise A LOT, and insult unprovoked. And when women decide to dish it back to them, we are labelled, bitter, angry, damaged and a whole lot more. This blog will be better if we ALL are cordial, I mean gbas gbos here and there ain't bad. We can throw jabs without the insults.
ReplyDeleteLOL, make I go carry my chair.
ReplyDeleteWoman wrapper, what are you doing here?
DeleteThey made a post for male, you ignored and ran here to comment on a post for female. Who do you this kain thing bikonu?
Your fellow "boys" too are no where to be found on the male post. Teejay, Dante, Doggedity, uncle jelly bean (Jerry), etc are no where to be found on the male post. Just two people, only two male bvs commented . Nawah o
Na real wah ooooo....
DeleteAnoy 19:35 but why, some ladies commented on the male post and were not shot up or bullied, you just repeated the act that brought about this post. Aye Aye yio ó lè tó yẹn.
DeleteStella I don't think the female bv are to be blamed. Ask yourself why they don't attack the likes of Martin Aboy. It's because he respects himself and doesn't talk down on anyone or attack anyone's comment. Same with Kelvin Stella's cousin, despite some of his shortcomings; he respects the women.
ReplyDeleteExcuse me to say but the ones that get attacked are condescending towards them. They started by attacking the ladies 1st.
They two go anonymous to type comments. Gettat
DeleteVery well said. Martins conducts himself with dignity and is all about his business and home. He gives sensible and credible advice. The other self titled kangs are chauvanistic red pill content spewers. Half the time they make no sense.
Delete14:20, Thank you.
DeleteStella, I think it is sad that some male BVs spew vitriol at women in general and expect no push back. Their hypocrisy is also striking regarding their silence on certain posts and speed to comment on others.
ReplyDeleteGranted, these men represent a very small segment of male commenters. There are many other males BVs who are fair in their assessment of the various posts. So, I don’t think these women who go hard are against men in general, they are just against those particular men who are at the core misogynists pretending to be intellectuals.
The blog is not gender focused, it’s not a women focused blog, I view it is an entertainment and current affairs blog, so why would women need to be friendly to the male BVs when it is not a women focused space?
Sometimes I wonder why would someone shave their eyebrows, use a liner to draw over the shaved brows, look themselves in the mirror and say this is better, now I know why.
DeleteGog bless you. You will not see them on post that women condemns what their fellow men did. Let it be about a woman. You will see them crawl out like snail and start saying rubbish. Let's be neutral.
DeleteI dey neutralπ. Make I read comments.
ReplyDeleteI didn't think it's that serious.
ReplyDeletePwetie
Stella,were you not here yesterday when that self acclaimed Kang was throwing shade at eka? I wonder why EKA hasn't even responded very unlike her, abi enjoyment has blocked her sense of gbas gbos. Keep living the life eka, make your enemies dey use the smell chop eba
ReplyDeleteThank you for stating this. Let her keep soaring whereas, something she casually posted some few days ago be living rent free in some haters heads. They'll be fine.
DeleteThem go weep πππ€£
DeleteThey have not even started yet
Ha!!!! I did not see that one oh. Abeg direct me to the post. I’m just even coming back from pretending to be swimming at the lake all day. Pls direct me.
DeleteIt’s when I respond that Stella will hold me comment and now come and make a post such as this!!!!
Exactly! Eka baby, continue enjoying yourself. Keep sharing your wins too. Me in particularly, I enjoy reading them. I don't have an ID before you people will start now.
DeleteNo mind stella, na when she respond una go hear her voice. Anyway, I guess she likes it as it draws yeye traffic.
DeleteEka, pls do not reply that mentally deranged man, he really doesn't deserve your time, and people asking g you to answer him, what to be entertained, silence most times belittles the other party..don't fall for that pls
DeleteI be Jolly Fellow ooo
ReplyDeleteI no get wahala
Loveeeeeee And Peace is my Language
For The Male BV I have no problem with any of them o
Hello iya Boys
Stella, do you want me to be brutal yet very honest?
ReplyDeleteNo one hates SOME of these male BVs. They are the ones who set themselves up for drags.
No one in their right senses will chase them away or come for them lf they drop meaningful comments devoid of gender war or if they comport themselves well here.
If you carefully check the male BVs often attacked, you'll notice there's something off about their behavioral pattern here. Respect is earned! It isn't a right.
Okay, look at these male visitors with good heads on their shoulder; Sir Ugama, Mr Ali B, Martins, Isaac(he's trying too). Anyone who comes for these few mentioned men is just being hateful in my opinion, judging from the way they comport themselves.
Stella you self, they way you enable the unruly male BVs comments and then throw away the responses targeted back at them irks me sometimes. I'd have given you a few examples of such instances but I don't have the time to give them such relevance. They know themselves.
But I understand sometimes too. Maybe you fear that they'll all be chased away and your blog termed a women blog. So I understand.
You too should always create a balance. Since you scrutinize comments before posting, don't post shades directed at people and start withholding follow-up comments. That's not so right. If you want peace, you shouldn't allow comments that starts war.
Good afternoon Ma'am
Very well said!
DeleteVery well said!
DeleteThis is what i talked about last week about her balancing the comment section. She withholds comment when we reply them. Justys whatever her name was insulting herself not me. If I get your time, hmmmmmmm.
DeleteYou have said it all my dear. Their behaviour has a lot to do with their family background.
DeleteWhat me I'm saying is this ,not every barking dog you answer. justySwt for 10 years has begged for giveaway,u sef pity her lost destiny na
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My hair was like that of this dog two weeks ago, as in scattered . I park it and go wherever. Not until my neighbour's five year old son asked me ' Aunty when are you going to make your hair '?
ReplyDeleteThat was how yours truly went to salon.
Una good afternoon π
I am really indifferent about genders shenanigans. πππ
ReplyDeleteStella, I have been on this blog long enough to know female bv don't use to be brutal to the male bv except they have questionable character. The new spring of "kings" seem to have a personal vendetta against the ladies so don't blame them when they push back. The so called kings come with their stone age mentality and think they should speak to the women anyhow because they are men.
ReplyDeleteI enjoy the gbas gbos alot, nothing concern me with any gender fight.
ReplyDeleteπ€£π€£π€£ the dog wear braids wig π nne na wa o.
ReplyDeleteWe are not brutal to any make gender, we all are together here making this place a beautiful blog to visit always.
ReplyDeleteIt's the doggie hair for me π€£π€£
ReplyDeleteSdk, we used to have many male bvs back then na, long before I joined as a bv. Jabs & jokes were thrown round but they still settled.
We can comment without insulting pls π
Adunni
I swear Adunni e dey like that one kelvin dey describe sef π€£π€£π€£
DeleteBut some are neatly braided though
Girlie's date Saturday post...
ReplyDeleteNot me.l don't have that time.l 'v never spoken with any men BV here.Let me read comments.
ReplyDeleteStella this your question eeeeh,here is a faceless blog though. But you would have asked what and what they do that makes women to be brutal to them.
ReplyDeleteAttitude earns you respect not just being a man. Shey. all these kind of men that are bashing women and throwing insults because they disagree with their opinion.
Have you ever seen Martins doing such?? Why is it that whenever men that deserve respect here are being mention is only Martins that they will mentioned.
You know why he is different,the guy get attitude that everybody admires.
Any comment he drops here is valuable.
The rest na 'aku asiri'
Shikenna.
DeleteYou say Martins ehn, him parents really train am, and he collect the training. You can tell he is from a home filled with love and not bitterness/frustration.
DeleteAs I was going through yesterday's IHN, something hilarious caught my attention π€£π€£.
ReplyDeleteSelf acclaimed king's comment coincidentally somewhat rhymed with Dogedity's.
Someone tried to insinuate that they are same person.
The way DoG ran out to refute the claim was too hilarious π€£π€£. Man doesn't want to be likened to an unruly fellow who isn't near articulate as he isπ€£π€£.
I'm sure the other one would silently glory in the fact that he was compared to BV DoG. Someone that doesn't know the difference between "sit" and "seat".π€£π€£. Learned colleague my foot!
Stella let me not find this comment oo. It's a free arena kinda thing today. So post! Thank you!
I laughed out loud when I saw the comments.
DeleteHow can you say Dog is Omotekun lawyer that can't spell eye service, how???
Even Dogg's comment that yesterday was very far from what that one can type.
Stella, I’m glad they have all responded to ur question. Now look at how u phrased the post generated at us female bvs that are just returning the same energy and the post you made for the male blog visitors but I no go too talk because weather too hot and I no get power for argument in this kain weather
ReplyDeleteI love the way you ignored that boy shading you yesterday, he was obviously trying to get your attention but you denied him that π€£π€£
DeleteLove and lights
ReplyDeleteI don't have problems with any male BVs here no matter how few of them always bash women as if they're not born of women or they won't get married to women, as long as my name isn't mentioned, I don't have time to be exchanging words with them, Yoruba will say you talk as your intelligent capacity, I believe that's how far their intelligence can carry them and that's their opinions and mentality.
ReplyDeleteBut there are few males BVS I respect very much here, because they respect themselves, I always learn from their comments, they're very intelligent and carry themselves with dignity.
Na only this dog pix I see πππ
ReplyDeleteE be like e mistakenly puff small ganja π
My own na to read and comment when I have the time and laugh too π
ReplyDeleteIf you like trolls me I go laf join sef π€£π€£ e no concern me and again here is a faceless community, is not made to hold something too serious abeg , those that do fight where una dey get energy please lend me π
For male BVs I don't have any negative vibes with anybody here, even if there is at all I think all na past tense jaree
Live and let live
One love π✌️
Faceless community you say but you get super di*k and jellybean. Dey play.
DeleteWithout focusing on anyone in particular, I think that what is playing out here isn’t just bickering - I term it a slow burn of frustration, hurt, and layered internal self-conflict. Some are born from personal wounds, others are inherited from stories we’ve lived, heard, or read about how a female opinion is not valued. Especially in societies where gender roles and disparities are fed to us from childhood like salt in every meal. Over time, that seasoning turns bitter.
ReplyDeleteFor many of us women, it’s the constant drip - being dismissed, talked over, reduced - often not by all men, but by enough to make us wary. So when we speak, it’s not cruelty; it’s exhaustion from trying to validate our view on subjects. And sometimes that weariness comes out sharp, unfiltered. But then some men, instead of listening, retreat into ego, feeling wrongly accused, boxed into stereotypes, or simply shut out when they dare to engage - some women are guilty of this too.
We can easily point that out with the gender tensions online not limited to your blog. When conversations aren’t thoughtfully framed, they become battlefields to those who think the words sting their sensibility. Empathy walks out, and pride marches in. So it’s not always a gender war; but emotional residues from warped experiences and mindsets. Two sides reacting, not relating. Everyone wounded. Conflicting judgments from generalised assumptions. And no one is heard.
But respect shouldn’t be a favour. It’s air. We all need to breathe it, especially in dialogues. Too often, we forget not everyone knows how to speak kindly, not because they mean harm, but because they never learned how to soften truth without slicing someone open. We live in a world where secure communication is foreign to many, especially those shaped by emotional chaos - reactive attachment disorder.
Two people might correct or make an observation on the same thing - one gently, the other with thorns. When the subject is gender focused, the thorns cut deeper, tangled with old scars. Debate can be healthy. But only if respect sits at the centre. Until we stop arguing or speaking to win, and start listening to understand or react with kind words, we’ll keep poisoning these spaces - I'm guilty sometimes too.
If we want peace, we have to build it - one honest, respectful conversation at a time - no shade, no taking things personally, even if it's our story. Because there's no utopia in anything about life, it's one crazy zigzag which we need to accept with great decorum.
Chai!
ReplyDeleteJust coming on the blog now after a long and stressful day..
But notwithstanding,. I must drop my comment.
99 percent of the ladies here are empty heads, from Eka to Neat (I stop stressing my head with this one since I found out she was also an ikorodu amotekun like her mentor), paternity fraud scare the the ship out of both, 2 people with zero morals, see as that Neat werey was angry about that wrong news of a judge sending a female scammer who collected tfare and chop the money to jail.. you'll just know she's razz,. Slim shady (this one use to have sense, but I don't know what happened, maybe it's how she spends time here reading nonsense comments from her colleagues that influenced her, now I just read her comment and shake head,. ..
Omo, I don't even know most of them names cos it doesn't even matter, they are just trash..
See that one saying even as a broke razz girl that she is she can't date a guy without car.. you think we with our nice car want to have anything to do with someone like you.. make Una no go work, shebi one got sponsor from abroad to marry her.. make Una use am take dey motivate..
It's funny when they call us idle or broke,. Lol.. I been won use Abionah tell Una the story of how we live here but she go dey listen to Una mouth come pull back, me sef no dey interested again. Just know I am that guy you fantasize about but will never have.. we living here fam. Working hard and balling harder.. YoungAndGettingIt.
PS: Do well to avoid me, cos whether in anon or with IDs, if you insult me with your smelly mouths, I'll make show you keep having a bad day with my comments.
Trash Nonsense dirty razz girlsπ️
Ah! πππ Dante o o o, stray bullet reach my side? I never see where I post bad comment o. I even like make you dey attack me,lol . It won't be bad if you point out where my comment is bad , I will also defend myself where necessary and admit my wrong in thesame way.
DeleteOmoh, the way I was just smiling when I got to where my name is π₯²