SDK Looks at you eyeball to eyeball and looks away....
her response is........
" I know you mean well but I don't like messages like this. Don't put pressure on me please. What is "too late" lol. With all the technology in the world stop it!
Plus I'm in my 30s I got time! We are not in 1885 anymore.
And I promise you right now that I am not married is not by circumstance, it's by CHOICE. Not gonna settle because everyone is walking down the aisle and some are getting divorced 6 months later. Pls God's timing is everything I will do it right.
Love you though because I know you mean well."
Some people won't just mind their business.
ReplyDeleteHmmm 🙄🤔🙄
ReplyDeleteNo be only 30s 10s nkor ?
ReplyDeleteChioma is in her 30s.
DeleteNice response from her though
ReplyDeleteShe seems like a sweet person
ReplyDeleteExplainers com yapa these days! Too much shalaye
ReplyDeleteTaking ones time to choose doesn't guarantee getting it right though!
ReplyDeleteNo it doesn't but at least you tried not to be pressured...into making the wrong choice!
DeleteNothing good comes out of desperation
DeleteNo pressure
ReplyDeleteStory of my life!!! 😕😕😕
ReplyDeleteMany people don't even understand why my mom is not worried about me getting married or pressure me into getting married. They believe she is too relaxed. Like how nah???
Being single didn't kill anybody,but choosing the wrong person unfortunately,that actually Did.
ReplyDeleteYou don't owe society a timeline,you don't owe anyone an explanation.
Bam!
DeleteMost people who give this marriage unsolicited advice to someone they dont personally know do it only to successful free women, and I think it comes from a place of envy or just to remind you of something they consider a lack in your life. Because we all have our own problems- you never finish advising your own self, your friends, your immediate family, your extended family, your church members, your inlaws (since you're married), your government whose actions should really concern you...
ReplyDeleteIt's one babe who you don't even know. They just want to see you in a pitiful or sad state cos its satisfying for them to know that you have a need. Once she marries now they won't like it cos there's no more advice to give
Thank you. It is not a well meaning advice. The intent is to mock & to cause sadness.
DeleteThe so called fans be doing the most
ReplyDeleteWell said, i believe this is accurate.
DeleteI had a similar experience, an old admirer who i turned down his proposal. We reconnected through FB and he kept sending me messages telling me of his life, wife and children. I was getting 10-12 messages every 5 minutes.
He then asked me if i was married, i relied yes I am settled with a 2yr old son.
he responded on okay and the BOOM messages stopped.
Made me wonder what exactly was he looking for and I have gotten my answer now ;-)
He wanted to mock you and maybe 'advice' you 🤣😂 can't imagine the shame he felt that day. Imagine carrying grudge for many years. He stopped cos there was nothing else left to shame you with under the disguise of caring lol. Not their fault sha, sometimes it's the devil using human beings to rattle you
DeleteIt's a good and wise advice since she INTENDS TO get married at some point in her lifetime.✅
ReplyDeleteChioma don't be distracted by too much focus on fashion and being a socialite. You can still have both.
Take advantage of marriage and natural conception. Technology is supplementary.
It is nobody's business but hers
DeletePeople need to stop acting like women cannot choose what is right for them
Singleness is not a curse or mockery
21:56 talk is cheap!
DeleteLet Chioma be the one to tell the person it's none of his/her business.
I love her advice
ReplyDeleteYou see that pressure, that's why many young ladies got into bad marriages, Chioma don't mind them o.
ReplyDeleteI love her response
ReplyDeleteSome people too dey do
ReplyDeleteSome people too dey do
ReplyDeleteI love her response. My dear seek God directions.
ReplyDeleteIf a woman never gets married, it does not make them less of a person. I prefer to die single than be in a bad marriage. Chioma has allegedly been around the block and then some. She knows what men are like and knows that if she marries that type of society bobo, chickens may come home to roost. It's her life and her choice. Has the person advising her even eaten three square meals? We should learn to mind our own business.
ReplyDeleteI am doing some work right now with elderly women and many of them been through it with this marriage business, although they did marry early mostly late teens to early 20s. It does not profit any woman to be in a bad or one-sided marriage. It is 100% better to be alone. The only concession is if the woman needs the marriage for physical protection, social respect or financial reasons, considering that in some cultures women are not able to earn an income outside of the home once they get married. Unfortunately, millions and millions of women around the world do not even have the ability to chart their own course to even have the choice to decide whether or not to get married, their culture makes it so they must and most times they do not get a good spouse.
DeleteThere really are situations where two people do have a great love bond, mutual respect, deep friendship, sexual chemistry and sincere attachment, to the point where they even get physically ill when apart. These are the ultimate unions that stories are written about, but these unions are rare, they are not the norm, most marriages are nothing close to that.
Women can be so so funny sometimes. You're in your 30s and saying you have time because this is not 1885? Continue Spinning the block when you're already nearing or are at Geriatric / High risk Pregnancy neighborhood. Yes Fertility science has made improvements but still.. time is not inexhaustible. This is not societal pressure, it is Biology. If you don't want kids, that's fine but thinking you have all the time in the world is just insanity and delusional. "Tick says the Clock tick tick, what you have to do ,do quick". signed- Stella's In house Physician
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