She said:
''If your father, brother have more than one wife then . maybe you should just manage it. I don't know where this idea of fidelity in Africa came from majority of our men cheat. Majority of our men cheat, sir, ma I am sorry your grandfather did!. My father has two wives. 90% of our men cheat it's ingrained in them.
I know you want to change someone, but character formed when they are little some of them were following their daddies to their girlfriends house. Even the oyinbos that said don't cheat, they still do and then they go for therapy.
''If your father, brother have more than one wife then . maybe you should just manage it. I don't know where this idea of fidelity in Africa came from majority of our men cheat. Majority of our men cheat, sir, ma I am sorry your grandfather did!. My father has two wives. 90% of our men cheat it's ingrained in them.
I know you want to change someone, but character formed when they are little some of them were following their daddies to their girlfriends house. Even the oyinbos that said don't cheat, they still do and then they go for therapy.
Jay Z cheated on Beyonce did she leave? Not to the left or right she didn't even bulge or shift. When people are singing, they are singing what they wish for. I am not excusing it, I am just being realistic when it comes to this situation."
Interview with Real life with Aunty Ayo
Interview with Real life with Aunty Ayo
My question is do these men cheat with themselves or cheat with a woman? If it is with a woman, then the women involved are cheaters too.
ReplyDeleteIt's because they don't pay for it and culture enables them. Though there many disciplined ones now,changing the narratives. They are not weakened by wanton desires,but have the fear of God and respect for the wives and kids.
ReplyDeleteThat will be the 10% she left out, which in turn is really insignificant compared to the ones that cheat
DeleteToo many innocent spouses have died from diseases contracted through cheating. If they don’t dies they are treating one infection after another, not the mention the horrible odours they may have to live with for life. The price is too high, especially for women’s bodies.
ReplyDeletetalking out of context. Where in the world is cheating not found? Are they aliens or Fidelity is alien to all cultures. You people be talking out of contexthumans?
ReplyDeleteSo because Beyonce did not leave, it means no one should leave when their husbands cheats on them? Who made Beyonce the yard stick? That's her own personal choice jeez
ReplyDeleteHow many has left?
DeleteReal men stay faithful
ReplyDeleteAs for me, I don't condone cheating and will never do
ReplyDeleteThat's why 1 in every 4 children of a Nigerian man is not his biological child because the 90% Nigerian mentioned cheat with other men's wives, not just single ladies.
ReplyDeleteWickedness begets wickedness.
Whatsoever you sow, so shall you reap.