Hmmmmmmmmmmm
My baby daddy (We have one together) got married but never really let me go and i also held on cos the streets are empty...
I am confused because i just found out that i am 4 months gone with twins for him...How do i tell him? He is going to also look for a way to tell his wife cos i am not hiding this pregnancy at all....
He came for me at my lowest moment when he knew i was vulnerable, how am i supposed to say no?
For those of you that will insult me, i dont need that, i just need advice cos its been done and cannot be taken back..
Or should i not tell him and stay back abroad when i i travel next week for summer? I am not really showing like that........
No advice please, I am a little under the weather......
But you get mind sha...if the baby Daddy na muslim just marry am cos e no go make sense that you are outside and dropping them while hes married.
PS-please send in your chronicles eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh
You don't love yourself or your children. 😔😔😔
ReplyDeleteAbeg born the twins first.
ReplyDeleteThen cool down and write another chapter of this chronicles.
😁😁😁
DeletePlease have your babies and tell him,you both should be responsible for your actions..
ReplyDeleteI feel for the wife but this is one of the disadvantages of marrying a baby daddy..
Women, once a man is a baby daddy, ruuuuun!!! We tell them, and some people that dont like reality ask why, are baby daddies not human beings? Here, this is ur answer, it is for this same reason we stigmatize them. Same with baby mamas, please as a man, if you hear she is a baby mama, wear ur running shoes and ruuuuun away, let her marry her baby daddy, or get another baby daddy to wife her. They fit each other, let’s allow them to be marrying themselves cos it would be unfair to get into a relationship with them, only to be betrayed like this. No wonder even the men don’t take baby mamas seriously, once they hear you are one, they only see a loose woman they can just chop and clean mouth cos most of them are like that, the bulk of them.
ReplyDeleteDear OP, good luck in whatever decision u take cos it seems you have already made up ur mind on what to do.
Anon15:33 I like as you balance the matter.
DeleteYou definitely don't need an advice because you have already concluded and perfectly executed it.
ReplyDeleteThe Balls lies in your court thou, but what if he declines?
Pertinent questions should be asked when taking some certain actions.
. Dodo
And plan what happens to the one you already have with him when you travel and don't come back?
ReplyDeleteAdvice yourself, streets are empty indeed!!
ReplyDeleteMan leave you marry another person, you still open leg collect another nine months.
Low self esteemed Ozuor
Quite concerning honestly.
DeleteSome men are even confused in life, you left your baby mama to marry another woman, still went behind your wife to impregnate your baby mama, why didn't you marry the two of them from the onset instead of deceiving yourself and the two women, now the wife will be hurt and blaming herself for marrying a baby daddy.
ReplyDeleteAnd you the baby mama that allowed yourself to be turned to baby mama twice, I don't know what to say than, just know that he might still not marry you or give you the attention and care you need, just give birth to your twins and be done with childbirth.
Street are empty indeed you will soon know what is called karma that same street maybe your final abode,then you will really know if it is empty or you are the empty person
ReplyDeleteLol😆
DeleteOmo......
ReplyDeleteI read this chronicle here yesterday.
ReplyDeleteStella what is happening?
Your Amotekun kings have used their toxic comments to stop bvs from sending in stories?
It was posted and taken down. I think the poster contacted Stella about something
DeleteLooks like well planned pregnancy to me.
ReplyDeleteSo you are saying that you didn't know that you're pregnant until 4 good months??
Day Play!!!
This is your plan all along so I don't know what kind of advice you're looking for.
Na person wey dey marry Babymama and Baby daddy I blame.😒
Looking at it you already know what to do...so, just follow your mind.
ReplyDeleteE sure me say he go still come again at your lowest moment when him know say you dey vulnerable.
Safe delivery baby girl.
Hmmm. You're an adult. You should know what to do
ReplyDeleteDid you have unprotected sex with him as an act of revenge against the woman he married? Why would you give your body to a man who did not think you worthy of marriage while being the mother of his child? Now three innocent souls are wrapped up in a mess that they did not create. An innocent woman walked into a marriage with an unworthy man and she too is now wrapped up in your unfinished business.
ReplyDeleteYou are angry he did not marry you and was intentional on having unprotected sex with him. You want his wife to know so she can get angry enough and end the marriage, opening the door for you to get what you want. What if all goes as you hope, she ends the marriage and he does not marry you and go marry someone else? Will you sleep with him again?
Get your folks to demand that he marry you because as you say the streets are empty. Second wife is not end of life. You know what you want so demand that he make a honest woman out of you and don’t leave you on baby momma status.
Na like this you go dey street your eye go clear. Cos even if his wife leaves him, he won’t marry you. Hope you know
ReplyDeleteSo just to be clear you are pregnant with twins for a man who is married?
ReplyDeleteYou already have a child earlier for him?
You are good enough for him to fcuk but not good enough to marry?
Ok.
Advice your self darling.
Kisses.
Birth your babie and rest,summon courage and let him know,send him a text and see his reaction.
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