FRIDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Thank God It's Friday!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME....
I am so grateful and i say thank you God for all the Blessings you have brought my way.....some of you here are part of what God blessed me with.....

I am so grateful to God for blessing me to be different, i tow my path and i tow my lane, I do not do bandwagon and i am my biggest fan and believe...

On this special day i wanna say something that i know will benefit other women whom people may have face shamed.....

Woman do not let anyone make you ever feel bad about how you look or how you age...Do not let them write your narrative or spin your story to please their wickedness... Be a strong woman and be confident in how you are created and dont stop thanking God for creating you differently...If anyone thinks they are different and trolls you for allegedly being ugly, troll for them their alleged beauty....Dont let them get away with trying to shame you and dont keep quiet....

Today i woke up and thought about the road i am coming from and it is a wonder that i did not turn to salt cos i kept looking back.....

Every looking back came/comes with a blessing OMG!

Every looking back reminds me to be grateful for where i am.....

BV BLACK SLIMZY wrote me a birthday wish and he ended it with ''You are magic, Stella. Don’t ever forget that''.

I was amazed reading this because i secretly call myself a magician!..

Yes i am magic and so are you all...

Just keep believing in yourself and dont let anyone tell you that you are not good enough..If God put my name on peoples lips, he will put urs in peoples hearts...

I hope that i put a smile on someones face and some confidence in your chest....

Thank you all for the birthday wishes...E don do abeg...Just concentrate on the message and be happy.

God bless you

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD

I love hearing my name called , it’s tickles my heart in a delightful way. This is a reminder to remind me that despite the many hats, especially that of motherhood that I wear, I am still the little girl inside.

When I meet people and they ask for my name and I tell them my name they still ask if they should address me as mummy princess or Mrs Surname. I see how awkward it gets when I insist they call me by my name, so I let it be.

Some months back, my son started calling me by my name again, and I love it, especially when he is exasperated and calls me.

I see the eyebrows raised when he calls me my name around other adults, and I understand that culturally, it doesn’t sound appropriate, but I don’t care, and I love it.

I have recruited my cousin’s kids into calling me by my name just with the aunt prefix since their mom cringes everything they belt out my name at the top of their cute little voices.
It also gladdens my heart anytime I run into old friends, and they call out my name in a way you know that it’s only someone that has known you from childhood can.
I love my name and it’s meaning. It’s a name that points to God’s greatness and my identity in Christ Jesus, so I really find it comforting.

I love your name cos in my translation, its kinda an affirmation of my isoko name..I love your name cos when abbreviated, it means something else...
I also do not mind my Bambinos calling me my name oh.....It is only in Nigeria that it is a must to call someone with a prefix..... Some people on this blog do it, they will be referring to me 
as Aunty Stella....for what? Even if you are Yoruba and una too get respect, am i Yoruba? Me wey no get respect for names....I can call 100 years old man baby boy..hahahahahhahahahaha
When I am on my Boo Dele Momodus page on Instagram, i call him Dele mi and some people come into my inbox to insult me for being mannerless..hahahahahahahahahahahaha

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
MOTHER IN LOVE.

When my husband and I decided to get married, money was our biggest worry.
He didn’t have much, but his family was rich in love and support.

They were all emotionally invested, especially his mother.
Everyone wanted to be proud, to say, “It’s my son’s wedding!”
As the date drew closer, he became withdrawn and overwhelmed.
I saw the stress eat him up daily, and it hurt me deeply.
So, one evening, I sat him down and said, “Ask your mum for a loan, just ₦1 million.”
He looked at me like I was mad.
“She’s wealthy,” I reminded him, “homemade money, not from abroad.”

He hesitated for days, battling pride and fear. Eventually, he gathered courage and spoke to her.
What happened next shocked us both.
She didn’t just give him the loan, she offered to sponsor everything.
From the venue to the smallest detail, she handled it all.
And she did it joyfully, without complaints.
The wedding day came, and it was glorious beyond words.
I still smile remembering how love and support made it all possible.

Lucky you, some mother in law dey drag fried meat for their kids wedding hahahahahahahhahahahahha God forgive me for saying this

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DONT BE AN EASILY ACCESSIBLE KPEKUS

Ladies have you realized how USE.LESS you become once a man chop you? Have you realized how silent men become once they eat you?
You will be in his dm talking to yourself…hey how are you doing? How was work? Have you eaten?

How is your mother doing? Bla bla bla and sometimes he doesn’t even respond or he will respond after hours and hours not that he hasn’t seen your message, he’s got his phone in his hand and he saw your message but he can’t respond because you have become USE.LESS and he doesn’t need you at that moment.

All of a sudden he was good in the beginning, responding on time, calling you and all but once you give him the fruit from the garden of Eden he disappear like the snake that gave eve fruit :

This must tell you something ladies, if you can’t be educated or if your education cannot give you value at least your privat.e must give you value ;you must protect it and value it by all means to make sure it’s not easily accessible.

Men don’t respect women who can be accessed all the time ,infact they don’t even value women that can be eaten or chopped at any time. You must add value to yourself by making sure your thing is well taken care of and it’s not easily accessed.

Relationships are not hard to find but because you decide to reduce value and open your legs to anyone you reduce your value by not being marketable. A valuable woman is not the one with PHD, Degree or driving expensive cars but a valuable woman is the one who knows how to take care of her privat.e part.

I know a lot of women who are educated but very useless and they share their things to anything that drives and give them money and that’s not value.

Protect your priva.te parts because that’s where your value is!! All men need it, they need it so you must make sure you realize that it has value.
How well you take care of your part determines how valuable you are

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