Hailings...........
WEDNESDAY MEMO
I salute everyone..... I hope that your day is going on well?Please can one of my alleged workers compile the names and what they wanted to cook from the last cookathon?dont copy how they cooked it abeg...
Please no other person should volunteer to help cos na so ummuGATE take enter me....
So i just discovered Bulgur wheat as a healthy swap for rice!.....I was on Reality TV star Uriels page and thought it was rice until i read it up so I am on my way to the shops to buy it as soon as i post in house news for today......You can google it up to see..I will also buy shrimps, salmon and spinach to make it.....I cant wait!!!
What else?
So let me ask......How many times in a week do you people eat rice? I am always overwhelmed when i say make me a meal and it is rice rice rice!..Una no dey tire? are there no healthy alternatives to rice? Your kids eat rice 24/7, please change the narrative!
The weather is one kind and i feel like eating hot buns that is sold by the roadside in Okoko...hahahahahahahahahhaha.. street no dey comot for body.
Abionah...Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm you look like my next blog sister cos right now i was dumped...hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
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BV BIG MAMA CRUSHES ON HERSELF ON WOMAN CRUSH WEDNESDAY
Today I celebrate God's grace in my life .
Today I celebrate the big mama in me
I celebrate my strength, my resilience and my heart
May I continue to love and accept myself exactly as I am.
May God bless your kind heart in Jesus name
BIG MAMA
Tight hugs to you Biggie
Today I celebrate the big mama in me
I celebrate my strength, my resilience and my heart
May I continue to love and accept myself exactly as I am.
May God bless your kind heart in Jesus name
BIG MAMA
Tight hugs to you Biggie
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This wrecking ball na werey!
I was still in my base, running a postgraduate program. COVID came knocking, and my default plan was to go back home. He called and said that wouldn’t make sense; I should rather come to his base. I agreed.
Lover Girl's Narrative: Diary of an Unwritten Implosion (part 4)
The worst shocker I got was in 2020.I was still in my base, running a postgraduate program. COVID came knocking, and my default plan was to go back home. He called and said that wouldn’t make sense; I should rather come to his base. I agreed.
I was all set and was waiting for his signal. It never came. When I asked him, he said he had figured it wasn’t a good idea since he was in a high-risk city and an essential worker, so his chances of exposure were high.
Knowing the kind of person that he was, I knew he was lying, and there was another ecstasy elsewhere. “The truth often hides behind convenient excuses,” and his seemed crafted.
I wasn’t far from the truth because nearly a week after that, I got a Facebook request from Y. K., and it didn’t cost me an arm and a leg to know that she was the new catch and maybe the most desperate of them all.
I accepted the request. We got talking via Messenger, and she wasted no time in seeking my advice. She was in a relationship with a man whose description suited Wrecking Ball, and she wanted to know if he was legit or if she was wasting her time.
I gave her the best advice that I could and kept it cool, but I knew something was up. Y. K. thought I didn’t get the memo, so she went further to like all his posts on Facebook, from first to last, hoping that that would give me context.
I didn’t react.
She extended to comments using endearments, and that was when I decided to ask Wrecking Ball about her.
As usual, he flared up about me questioning and doubting him, and then came the malice. I was left in the dark. I went crazy.
“Betrayal cuts deepest when it wears familiar faces,” and mine was searing.
My correspondence with the lady turned bitter, and she launched her attacks.
Wrecking Ball had gone into malice mode as usual. The new girl was having a field day dragging me through the mud, but I couldn’t react because I was certain that was what she wanted, and I knew that would count against me.
I had seen too much shege to want to add another medal to my collection. I was insulted, attacked mentally, physically, spiritually, and otherwise. Luckily for me, lockdown was relaxed a bit, and I figured I needed to be home with family.
I sold off my properties and made the move to go back home ( I was at the final phase of my postgraduate programme and ASUU was on strike).
On the eve of when I was to leave, he called (miraculously, after not calling or picking up my calls for months). I picked up, and he asked if it was possible that we see. I stupidly travelled to his base the next day.
Tell me why I got to know that this lady slept in his house that night, and when she knew I was coming, she created a mess, seized the key to his house, and I was stuck outside for 7 hours. He apologized for the drama and all of that.
I forgave him because I saw that he looked stressed and was full of regrets. In my heart, I was happy that finally, this was the break that we needed, and that Wrecking Ball had learned the hard way. “Hope often blinds us to repeating patterns,” but was I right??? Stay with me!
What a wrecking ball!!!...Imagine the way he played you the silly lady had the guts to contact you? why do women do this to other women?
What a wrecking ball!!!...Imagine the way he played you the silly lady had the guts to contact you? why do women do this to other women?
I cant wait to read the next one..
I hope you all are reading what wrecking ball did? Some men will come and give him excuses...hisssssssss
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
PET NAME OR REAL NAME?
I have always found it amusing how many people call their husbands “Daddy (Temi).” Haha..
To me, it feels strange. I can never bring myself to do it. Instead, I call my husband by his real name or a pet name. Whoever came up with the idea of couples calling each other by their children’s titles, I honestly don’t know.
In my opinion, calling your spouse “Daddy” or “Mummy” feels archaic and old-fashioned. It sounds more like a parental duty or an older relative than a romantic bond. But a pet name? Ah, that is the 'Koko'. Smiles.
A pet name adds flavor, it makes the love tense, it deepens the intimacy, and it keeps the closeness alive.
I know some people don’t agree with me. Many believe that calling my husband by his real name is disrespectful, especially because he is much older than I am. They expect me to conform to tradition, to follow what everyone else is doing. But I don’t see respect in titles alone; I see it in action, in love, and in daily devotion.
When I call his name and he calls mine, it reminds me of the man I fell in love with, not just the father of my children. When I say his pet name, it softens the atmosphere and brings us closer. To me, that is love in its purest form.
What do you call your spouse? A pet name, a real name, or by the name of your children?
We call each other Honey but when we are pissed we revert to normal names....Hhahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahaha.
PET NAME OR REAL NAME?
I have always found it amusing how many people call their husbands “Daddy (Temi).” Haha..
To me, it feels strange. I can never bring myself to do it. Instead, I call my husband by his real name or a pet name. Whoever came up with the idea of couples calling each other by their children’s titles, I honestly don’t know.
In my opinion, calling your spouse “Daddy” or “Mummy” feels archaic and old-fashioned. It sounds more like a parental duty or an older relative than a romantic bond. But a pet name? Ah, that is the 'Koko'. Smiles.
A pet name adds flavor, it makes the love tense, it deepens the intimacy, and it keeps the closeness alive.
I know some people don’t agree with me. Many believe that calling my husband by his real name is disrespectful, especially because he is much older than I am. They expect me to conform to tradition, to follow what everyone else is doing. But I don’t see respect in titles alone; I see it in action, in love, and in daily devotion.
When I call his name and he calls mine, it reminds me of the man I fell in love with, not just the father of my children. When I say his pet name, it softens the atmosphere and brings us closer. To me, that is love in its purest form.
What do you call your spouse? A pet name, a real name, or by the name of your children?
We call each other Honey but when we are pissed we revert to normal names....Hhahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahaha.
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5 MATURITIES TO ATTAIN BEFORE MARRIAGE
1. Physical Maturity
You must attain this maturity before marriage. Physical maturity has to do with bodily maturity and development. Even in some countries, you will not be allowed to vote and do certain things until you reach a certain age. We frown at child marriage, why? Because those children are not mature for it.
So, take your time and grow. Be physically mature. Grow up, and allow your body to be fully developed.
2. Spiritual Maturity
You have heard before that the spiritual controls the physical, that's true. Marriage has its spiritual dimension. One of the reasons why most marriages fail is because they lack divine covering.
A godly and happy marriage is a threat to the devil, he does everything within his power to end such marriage. Don't be careless about your spiritual life. Be committed to it, give it attention, and be a true child of God. Be mature in spiritual matters. Don't be a baby. Be a student of the Bible, be prayerful, and have a relationship with God.
3. Emotional Maturity
I have read stories of how some men brutally beat, punched and stabbed and matched their wives to untimely death. I have also read how some women stabbed their husbands in their sleep to their death. I have read how some jealous partners pour acid on their partners. Most of all these incidents can be attributed to the inability to handle emotions.
Emotions can mar or make a marriage, it can make your marriage heaven or hell on earth, so you must learn how to manage them. Read books on emotional intelligence, anger management, attitude etc.
4. Mental Maturity
Our words and actions reveal the quality of our mental state. We talk or act, you are showing us whether you are a baby or an adult. How mature you are mentally will determine the quality of your decisions and choices.
So, it's important to be mature mentally because marriage will task you mentally, you will make choices and decisions that will either be toxic or healthy for your marriage. Read books, seek counselling, listen to tapes, expand your mental capacity, have mentors etc.
5. Financial Maturity
Financial maturity has to do with being financially free and independent, being able to take care of your bills without depending on others, being gainfully employed and empowered etc.
Marriage carries financial responsibilities, don't make mistakes about it. Even to get married you need money, to stay happily married, you need money. Money pays bills, not love. So, be financially mature. Learn a trade, learn a skill, and have a steady stream of income. Make sure you are employed before marriage. Make investments that can make you money even when you are not working.
Conclusively, in all you do make sure you are mature, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, financially etc. Maturity is non-negotiable, non-transferable preparation you must attain if godly, healthy and successful marriage is your desire.
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FOR ALL SISTERS ON #WCW
5 MATURITIES TO ATTAIN BEFORE MARRIAGE
1. Physical Maturity
You must attain this maturity before marriage. Physical maturity has to do with bodily maturity and development. Even in some countries, you will not be allowed to vote and do certain things until you reach a certain age. We frown at child marriage, why? Because those children are not mature for it.
So, take your time and grow. Be physically mature. Grow up, and allow your body to be fully developed.
2. Spiritual Maturity
You have heard before that the spiritual controls the physical, that's true. Marriage has its spiritual dimension. One of the reasons why most marriages fail is because they lack divine covering.
A godly and happy marriage is a threat to the devil, he does everything within his power to end such marriage. Don't be careless about your spiritual life. Be committed to it, give it attention, and be a true child of God. Be mature in spiritual matters. Don't be a baby. Be a student of the Bible, be prayerful, and have a relationship with God.
3. Emotional Maturity
I have read stories of how some men brutally beat, punched and stabbed and matched their wives to untimely death. I have also read how some women stabbed their husbands in their sleep to their death. I have read how some jealous partners pour acid on their partners. Most of all these incidents can be attributed to the inability to handle emotions.
Emotions can mar or make a marriage, it can make your marriage heaven or hell on earth, so you must learn how to manage them. Read books on emotional intelligence, anger management, attitude etc.
4. Mental Maturity
Our words and actions reveal the quality of our mental state. We talk or act, you are showing us whether you are a baby or an adult. How mature you are mentally will determine the quality of your decisions and choices.
So, it's important to be mature mentally because marriage will task you mentally, you will make choices and decisions that will either be toxic or healthy for your marriage. Read books, seek counselling, listen to tapes, expand your mental capacity, have mentors etc.
5. Financial Maturity
Financial maturity has to do with being financially free and independent, being able to take care of your bills without depending on others, being gainfully employed and empowered etc.
Marriage carries financial responsibilities, don't make mistakes about it. Even to get married you need money, to stay happily married, you need money. Money pays bills, not love. So, be financially mature. Learn a trade, learn a skill, and have a steady stream of income. Make sure you are employed before marriage. Make investments that can make you money even when you are not working.
Conclusively, in all you do make sure you are mature, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, financially etc. Maturity is non-negotiable, non-transferable preparation you must attain if godly, healthy and successful marriage is your desire.
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FOR ALL SISTERS ON #WCW
Dear Sisters,
Can I sit with you for a moment and speak to the part of your heart that has been bruised?
Hurt has a way of reshaping us if we let it. It sneaks in quietly, through betrayal, lies, rejection, or the sting of someone’s careless words, and whispers, “Protect yourself. Harden. Don’t ever let this happen again.”
And if we’re not careful, we start to armor up in ways that feel safe but slowly steal our softness. We tell ourselves, “I’ll treat them the way they treated me,” thinking that somehow payback will give us peace. But it never does. It only drains us, little by little, until the reflection in the mirror no longer looks like Christ, it looks like the pain.
Sister, please hear me: don’t become like those who hurt you.
Bitterness will beg for a place in your heart. Anger will try to rewrite your story. But the truth is this: the more you feed them, the less you resemble who God made you to be.
Forgiveness is not weakness, and it is not denial. It doesn’t erase the wound or make wrong things right. Forgiveness doesn’t even mean reconciliation is always possible. What it does mean is this: you refuse to let their actions define your spirit. You release the burden into God’s hands and trust Him to be your defender.
The call on your life is not to mirror their darkness, but to shine with His light. You were not created to trade insult for insult or evil for evil. You were created to rise above, to love differently, to walk in freedom no matter how others have treated you.
Sister, don’t let someone else’s brokenness break you. Don’t let their wounds turn you into a reflection of their pain. Guard your heart, not with walls that shut people out, but with a posture that keeps it soft, surrendered, and aligned with God.
The world will tell you revenge is strength. But heaven whispers that the greatest strength is refusing to lose yourself to the very thing that tried to wound you.
So today, I’m asking you: release it. Not because they deserve it, but because you deserve peace. Forgive, not to excuse them, but to free yourself. Lay it down, and let God heal the tender places.
Stay tender. Stay free. Stay true to who God called you to be.
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WEIRD FACTS
---If you stay up all night, your body will burn an extra 161 calories.
---The more stressed you are, the slower your wounds and illnesses heal.
---Tigers have striped skin, not just striped fur.
---The mushrooms in Mario games are based on a real species called 'Amanita Muscaria' that when eaten, make people feel like they're growing.
----Scientists have accidentally found a new method to convert carbon dioxide to ethanol, which could help in the fight against climate change.
---If you stay up all night, your body will burn an extra 161 calories.
---The more stressed you are, the slower your wounds and illnesses heal.
---Tigers have striped skin, not just striped fur.
---The mushrooms in Mario games are based on a real species called 'Amanita Muscaria' that when eaten, make people feel like they're growing.
----Scientists have accidentally found a new method to convert carbon dioxide to ethanol, which could help in the fight against climate change.
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Good afternoon everyone
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DeleteGoodafternoon Esther
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Good afternoon everyone ππ
DeleteBIG mama you are very beautiful ma.
Keep being kind Biggie
DeleteFine woman
Mao Akuh
The worst kind of people are:
ReplyDeleteEntitled people.
Ungrateful people.
Shameless people.
If you are unlucky you will encounter or know some persons who exhibit all three at onceπ€¦π½♂️
Always remember this if you come across such persons that setting high standards for yourself is self-confidence then actually Meeting them is self-respect.
Aptly written π
DeleteRIP D’Angelo
My heart goes out to his son who is now an orphan..losing both parents same year is diabolical π€¦♀️
Jeez!!!!!! D'angelo is dead????....OMG ππππ
DeleteI read on yesterday spontaneous post of someone complaining of her sister in-law difficulties in walking as a result of child birth.
ReplyDeleteLet me share my story:
For seven months in my pregnancy journey I was leaping, doctor couldn't do anything except to prescribe analgesic which didn't work. I was told it's part of pregnancy that it will go after delivery. My dear, I couldn't raise my right leg on my day of delivery due to the severe pains.
I went for my six weeks post natal clinic and the doctor prescribed that insert tab for three days and analgesic ointment for massaging for two weeks, but as I speak to you no improvement at all, infact the pains is moving from one part of my leg to the other and currently on my buttock, I can't turn from the bed or walk without feeling intense pains.
So the doctor suggested if after using those medications and no improvement, I should go see an orthopedic doctor and also do a pelvic scan.
I'll advise you see another doctor and also endeavor to pray always because with God nothing shall be impossible.
Happy 28th wedding anniversary to big mama the blog prayer warrior
Happy 27th wedding anniversary to Sarah Bakare
Happy 11th wedding anniversary to Helen.
May God bless and keep us all, AMEN
Pele
DeleteI've been having similar pains on my leg(waist?) for over three years. It moves from one leg to the other. I guess mine was due to sitting on the sewing machine for long hours.
I finally did a scan and was referred to an orthopedist. I avoid walking bare foot and bath with warm water no matter how hot the weather is. I haven't experienced it in recent times though, probably bcos I've not been working aggressively like I used to.
God is your healer in Jesus name π
DeleteThank you.
Mine is on my right hand.
DeleteI feel severe pains in my right hand especially at midnight till early hours of the morning.
I manage it with painkillers and hot water.
May God help us all.
Pregnancy comes with different pains. So sorry, I pray they find a solution for you and bv sister inlaws.
DeleteBeautiful Big mama , may God keep and bless you always
DeleteHmmm what women go through, it is well. I know someone that can't walk well today because of childbirth.
DeleteMay God come through for you Fair Ladyπ€π€
May God Almighty come through for you Amen. What we go through to bring life into this world ππ
DeleteWow. Fair lady, I had same pain during my late trimester but it went away when I gave birth.
DeletePlease try vitamin D. First go to your doctor to have it checked. I had similar problem and it was caused by lack of vitamin D.
DeleteWe celebrate you big Mama! πππ
ReplyDeleteHappy wedding anniversary big mama !
DeleteHola Sandy π©·
DeleteBeautiful big mama π
Happy wedding anniversary @Sarah @ Waju ππ may God continue to bless your homes π
Thank you Sandra and official prestige.
DeleteHappy 28 wedding anniversary to you Big Mama, I pray God in His Infinite Mercy keep you and your husband in good health. Amen. Looking forward to your 50years Golden Jubilee.
ReplyDeleteHappy 27years wedding anniversary to you Sarah Bakare, wishing you everything good that comes with married.
We all gonna be here to celebrate your wedding Golden Jubilee. Amen
Greetings boo π how’s your day going?
DeleteI say a big Amen π
DeleteThank you triple C
Understand one thing:
ReplyDeleteYou can't change what has already happened.
You have to learn to stop victimizing yourself and let go. You have to free your mind from the weight of the past. Good or bad, your past experiences occurred to mature you, not to keep you stuck. Forgive yourself for them, accept what happened, and gracefully let go.
You have better things to be creating with your mind right now.
Isolation actually heals you, people don't understand that thou
ReplyDeleteOui very true
DeleteFinally I have seen someone that gets it.... thank you
DeleteBig mama so beautiful and fair like one of my Aunty. God bless you ma
ReplyDeleteThank you fair lady.
DeleteMy Landlady(Mammi) said mk me,she and her daughter start yeye behavior as content say na that one dey bring money pass,better behavior π€£π€£π€£ I don laf tire π
ReplyDeleteBiko her first granddaughter's birthday is tomorrow what can we buy for her as a gift from granny,she is a young granny so we don't know much ooπ
LMAO
DeleteGlory oya start na. Money dey content o
Hello everyone...
ReplyDeleteBig Mama looks so beautiful. Fine woman❤️.
ReplyDeleteStella, rice ranks as the mostly eaten and popular food worldwide. Nigeria isn't an exception. And one thing again is that we aren't so versatile with food here, so repitition is bound to happen. I eat rice twice in a week.
Wow! Staying up late at night helps one burn calories? Oh wow! A new one.
Sign out post hit the spot π―
Have a great day y'all ✌π»π₯
Stella is about to dump me π₯²π₯²π₯²
DeleteFret not Jewelu m, Stella won't dump you.l
DeleteFret not Jewelu m. Stella won't dump youππ. Not under our watch. Lol...You both are sisters forever ♾️
DeleteThank you the beloved.
DeleteOh Yeah
ReplyDeleteBig Mamalicious π₯°
You Are Beautifulicious
Happy Anniversary Ma❤️❤️
In Houseeee Newsssssss Done Land ooooo
He Done Landlicious
I Greetlicious Everybody ❤️
Hello iya Boys
Hi Chi
DeleteHow are you .
You can say that again
DeleteSweetest Jewel I'm Fine oooo
DeleteThanks For Asking Sweetheart π₯°π«
Mor Lovee
My chikalicious π
DeleteThank you.
Yass my favorite column is here. Lol π
ReplyDeleteIn house news is here everybadi
@Stellz, I can't get tired of eating rice o. Like seriously
Some of my family members can eat rice 7 times a week.
Delete@Jeweluchi ,Wow π, help say hi to my fellow rice loversssss π π
DeleteAwwww big Mama good to see you up there.
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Awwwh Rhapsody π€π€
DeleteThank you.
We eat rice four times a week in different forms.
ReplyDelete@ NFJ, I also love pet names or call my name instead of mummy ****.
It's a nice weather today.
Good afternoon everyone.
Mariam.
I get tired of food easily haven't had rice in two weeks
DeleteSame here too
DeleteRice ti takeover
DeleteI'm watching an interview on YouTube. The guest is one of the soldiers that were involved in the Gideon Orkah failed coup. He was on the wanted list and lived as a fugitive for 9 years before presidential pardon was granted. Military stories of that era, intrigue me.
ReplyDeleteGOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY πΉπΉ
ReplyDeleteThank you all for your prayers and wishes. I'm really grateful ππ
Stella thank you for creating a wonderful family here. May God bless you in Jesus name π
Happy Anniversary BIG MAMA... God bless your home
DeleteCongratulations and happy anniversary π ❤️ π
DeleteAmen π congratulations to you Big Mama
DeleteMore life
More win✌️ peace
Happy wedding anniversary to you Mama, God continue to uphold your home.
DeleteBeautiful you π
Happy anniversary BM
DeleteBeautiful woman! Wishing you many more celebrations π₯
DeleteThank you@ Jerry, Chocolat Noir , Glory, Mor and Mercy bee
DeleteHappy anniversary Big mama.
DeleteHappy Wedding Anniversary to you, Big Mama. You are beautiful. ππ. Weird fact number 1, is soooo not true. I mean with this insomnia, I for don burn enough calories na π€£π€£π€£.
ReplyDeleteHi darling
DeleteHello Candy baby π¬
DeleteYeah..many more anniversaries
DeleteHiyaaaaa Choco baibay ♥️♥️
DeleteHiyaaa NN Momma ..♥️♥️
Mor, Amen to your prayer
Thank you candy. Luv u.
DeleteIHN
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone π₯³
“Consistency turns average days into great results. Stay focused.”
Happy Women Crush Wednesday to all the amazing women here π₯°
True word, good afternoon everyone.
DeleteRemove rice from our menu, wahala de niyen! Sometimes I'll decide not to cook rice in a particular week but 3 days after I'll be missing it.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, i'm tired of seeing rice in Nigerian movies! Can't they eat something else?! Breakfast, lunch or dinner na rice dem dey always show us. π
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DeleteI go weeks without eating rice
DeleteNoodles and fried rice with juice were peak enjoyment in Nollywood movies back in the days. Now it's jollof and chicken πππ
DeleteWas watching a movie yesterday and this came to my mind. Every time rice, rice, rice!!!
DeleteWhat happened to potatoes, yam and egg, Chicken and plantains?
Worst is when you’ll see a family eating breakfast and it’s rice.
Haba nollywood!
I eat rice highest twice a week
DeleteNigerians and riceπ
DeleteI dey tell u..rice and swallow na no go area o...I can't deal without them
DeleteCan Nigerians do without it in a week? Some times, we just go hungry when we don't have other options than rice
DeleteWalahi, i'm tired of their jollof rice and chicken.
DeleteVery annoying people showing us they are cooking but we can see the pot is empty or just water in it. Plus shouting when they open nonstick pot cover as if the thing is hot. Abeg... They should do better.
Whatever your doing that's preventing you from begging for money..May God multiply it..π
ReplyDeleteAmen π ooo
DeleteThank you Jesus
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DeleteAMEN OOOO π
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Wow! See Big Mama for real oo ππ₯° you are beautiful mamaπ
ReplyDeleteYou are blessed
Keep living Big Mamaπ
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I eat rice twice in a week sometimes once sef
Good afternoon everyone, hope your day is going on well
Thank you glory.
DeleteBig Mama, you're so fine, I like eating any kind of rice but I've reduced it unlike before that I ate rice almost every time and everyday.
ReplyDeleteThank you grateful soul
DeleteHmm
ReplyDeleteSiri please play
Wahala by Fela
Cos its about to go down.
Hahahahaha... Siri please play unforgettable by the coles . π
Delete@SDK, I eat rice atleast 5 times a week. I dont Jokr with rice at all.
ReplyDeleteWrecking ball poster, you really saw shege sha, I pray you are in a better place now.
Big Mama, you're beautiful π. I celebrate you too ❤️
ReplyDeleteThank you π
DeleteWe eat rice once a week, I'm not freaked about rice at all,I prefer yam and plantain, Be it ripe or unripe plantain, I would devour it. But rice, mba.i even prefer swallow to rice.
ReplyDeleteThat wrecking ball is a very heartless guy o, But you were too in love to see him coming, Time bomb situation. π³
Big mama, You are so beautiful π. Please dash me some of it. Tnx
ReplyDeleteThank you tango.
DeleteSmiling.
In house has landedπ΄π΄π΄
ReplyDeleteAww,big mama is such a beautiful womanπ₯°π₯°,skin like milk,Happy anniversary to you once again
Maturity to attain before marriage is very important because marriage isn't child play
Sign out meme✅✅✅
Enjoy the rest of the sunny afternoon guysπππ
Thank you babyboosky.
DeleteStrong gene
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteHappy wedding anniversary Big Mama
You're beautiful π
Thank you modupeola
DeleteStella l love rice so much that l don't get tired of eating it. .
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone πππ
ReplyDeleteBig Mama you are beautiful.
ReplyDeleteHappy anniversary to you and yours.
Thank you dear.
DeleteBig Mama you are beautiful.
ReplyDeleteHappy anniversary to you and yours.
Big mama you're so beautiful, happy anniversary mummy, the original oyibo pepper
DeleteAngelic beauty indeed @big mama
DeleteHappy anniversary
I call him daddy and it turns him on.After my father is my husband the two valued men in my life. My father was the 1st to love me,then my beloved odogwu dim oma.but when we are in serious argument ...i call out his surname. My family asked me to change to darling, honey, utom. If you see the way my husband shout noooohhh!!!! I am not complaining,π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£ e shock them. Young man dey answer daddy for house. Bed na ugomπππ₯°π₯°
ReplyDeleteCouldn't stop beaming while reading .
DeleteMany more beautiful years to you guys I love this.
πππ carry go nwanyioma.
DeleteHappy wedding anniversary Big mama π₯³ππ₯³π₯³
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my people
Thank you mystic
DeleteGood afternoon SDK and BVs. My kids eat rice like four times a week. Can't be me. πππ
ReplyDeleteSwallow mama! ππΎ
DeleteStella rice na the main in our menu here o, week in week out we eat it in different forms.. lol π
ReplyDeleteBeautiful Big Mama π₯°
Lover girl you really tolerated a lot cos what's all these?
Y'all enjoy the rest of the day
Watched Thin Line yesterday and I spotted some mistakes the screen writers could have avoided.
ReplyDeleteThe pastor came with his assistant to the hotel so where was the assistant when the pastor was as at the lounge having a drink sotey jezebel spiked his drink, sotey jezebel follow am enter his hotel room. So the PA miraculously disappeared???
If you know the workings of ministry, pastors are always with their PAs especially when outside of their church for ministration and when their spouses isn’t with them to avoid temptation and setups.
How can a popular pastor sit openly in a hotel lounge without your PA with a random woman and you left your drink to go receive a call?? Aren’t you sensitive to the Holy Spirit????
Secondly, the car the pastor arrived to the hotel with was the same car he drove to Annie(jezebel’s) house.
This shouldn’t be as the hotel is in another state of residence from the pastor’s.
Thirdly, did Annie also travel out of her state of residence to lodge in the hotel, because as shown in the movie, she lives in the same state as the pastor.
Please don’t even get me started on that wanna be Americana with abule egba laali he called tattoos π
These people should understand that people with brains are watching these movies o
PS: please and please Annie go back to that doctor and give him 10 hot slaps and then ask him to remove and rearrange that yansh for you.
Hahahahaha... You were really paying attention!
DeleteThe cinema movies are better, you see YouTube? Ahhh.. I've started wondering if directors can't correct their grammar. Sooo many errors!
Thank you for this review felt same way .
DeleteWow I just downloaded the movie today, will probably watch it today
DeleteOnly God knows how many times I looked at the big mama beauty,haha you're beautiful ma. See skin like milk. May your beauty never fade. Happy wedding anniversary ma
ReplyDeleteAwwwh game mistress. You just flattered me.
DeleteThank you.
Good day house. Big mama looking like my big aunty here. God's blessings ma. The day is going great. Thank you Jesus
ReplyDeleteAwwwh my love to your auntie.
DeleteThank you.
Good afternoon everyone. It's a bright and beautiful day. Thank you Jesus. Divine direction πα» Lord.
ReplyDeleteSo them dump you, you come dey find replacement abi. No be for ABIONAH body, you hear ba. Lol. Stella, I already have my blog friend or maybe friends. I will not reveal them until I am ready to pay them to cook me a meal.
ReplyDeleteI am very hungry now but cannot order a meal cos of what that dispatch rider BV wrote about spitting in food just to punish the customers. I no do again. Even sealed snacks like chips, I no go buy.
My friend taught me one style of buying frozen food, especially when you want to buy like just one kilo or half. I wanted to buy one kilo of turkey and I first asked for half. I sent someone to help me buy the other half and seriously, when I put them together, they were more than the initial one kilo the seller brought out at first. Girls thinking deep.
Welcome IHNs.
What happened eventually? Did you receive the food or he took it away ?
DeleteDon't accept boo it's a trap.
DeleteLora, I didn't collect the food. When he called me at first, he said he had another person's order with him, so he won't come to my floor and that he will cancel the order. I said no problem. The app people called to ask why I cancelled and I explained exactly what happened and that the guy cancelled himself. I got a mail from the app that the order is cancelled and I then zeroed my mind. Minutes later, the guy called that he was on my floor, I told him order was already cancelled and that he should go. The real reason was the fear of whatever he may have done to the food. Make I no go wondjure becos of beans and plantain .
DeleteChoco, Allah na big trap. Very big one. Stella dey find who she go use do pepper body. Emi ko. Lol.
Even though there are healthier alternatives, i doubt naija people can do without good old rice o. I also love rice, but i make sure it doesn't feature more than 3ce at most in a week.
ReplyDelete@ NFJ, I don't even like people calling me mummy, except maybe children. How much more my husband. I remember it's one of the things i don't like when i started attending Redeemed church after marriage. I complained tire to those mamas not to call me mummy they refused, saying that's how it is in the church, hain.
@ Big mama, you're so beautiful ma'am. Keep enjoying the grace of God.
Enjoy the rest of the day people.
Thank you blessed k
DeleteThose in support of VDM say "hi" to his potential benefits on this his trip to China while those against it may say "nil,"
ReplyDeleteBig Mama I must say you're beautiful as a person and this compliment all your daily write ups I find interested in reading and inspirational,remain ever bless.
Good day people....❤️
Enjoy your day..✌️
Sir Ugama thank you so much for the compliment.
DeleteMay God bless you.
Super greetings my people
ReplyDeleteHello beautiful people
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday big Mama
You are so beautiful π
That rice matter don tire me, my husband can eat rice for 30 days in a mouth for breakfast and dinner
I am not a rice person but sometimes that is the only breakfast option that will fill one till evening after work
Thank you posh scent
DeleteGood afternoon my people, what's happening?
ReplyDeleteOver here started with rain, as I celebrate sun yesterday. E vex rainπ.
Happy women crush Wednesday to all hard working first daughters, yes oo if you are a first daughter and over all first child and na you carry family for back, I celebrate you. Is not easy,but God has been faithful.
At his own time.
Big mama dash me small beauty naaπ. I celebrate today with you too. Remain blessed.
WE MOVE!!
Thank you shuga. It's all yours.
DeleteI love rice very much, especially when I have the strength to parboil it. I prefer to eat my rice with Egusi soup made with bitter leaf, not ugwu. That type of Egusi soup where you roast the Egusi before grinding. Aby baby loves food.
ReplyDeleteI love rice and I can eat it everyday.
ReplyDeleteMay God continue to bless your marriage big mama, you are beautiful π₯°
Thank you Arike
DeleteGood afternoon everyone. Happy wedding anniversary to you Big Mama, you really are beautiful. You will celebrate many more years to come
ReplyDeleteThank you Ace
DeleteBig Mama, you look so beautiful
ReplyDeleteThank you my darling Eka joy.
DeleteGood day Asa Odogwuπ
DeleteThanks for recommending that film No vacancy
Efi Igbo π€£π€£π€£
From there I watched household Enemy sef
Oha for Oha, Egusi for Egusi π€£π
Please tell me another one Ekaπ
We eat rice 3times in a week.
ReplyDeleteChildren and rice are like 5 &6, I love eating rice too but not daily.
ReplyDelete@weird facts 1 & 2 are great, I now see reason why my model niece usually sleep very late at night.
So wonderful to put a beautuful face to the name, BIG MAMA.
Hello fam.
Thank you God's favor.
DeleteWrecking ball is not a simp.
ReplyDeleteStella sincerely I am tired of riceπ©. Even my youngest son if I give him to school, he would barely touch the food. But it's one of the most affordable food in the country.
ReplyDeleteBig mama looking so beautiful π
I'm also tired of rice but it is the most affordable and cheap food for breakfast. I manage to cook other cheap foods like yam, potatoes, beans, plantain, etc like twice a week for breakfast. Rice for the remaining five days.
DeleteThank you justyswt
DeleteI call my husband by his pet name, guess what? Our children also call him that. My son calls him , "Baby"..
ReplyDeleteIn my head, I'm like " Who is the baby here now ".? I point to my son and say, "You are two years, you are the baby not him" duuuhhhhπ€ͺπ
BIG MAMA!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteYou're so beautiful. Happy wedding anniversary to you and yours. May God's countenance continue to shine in your home.
@ Bv Sarah Bakare,
On this special day of your wedding anniversary, may you continue to enjoy marital bliss. Happy wedding anniversary to you and yours.
© TEEJAY
Thank you Teejay.
DeleteBig Mama you are so beautiful π
ReplyDeleteHappy Anniversary
Thank you jojo
DeleteMy stupid sister got married and had four kids in five years of marriage, no job or business as she keeps getting pregnant every other year, she would be breastfeeding one and another pregnancy has entered.
ReplyDeleteHer equally stupid husband too could not use his brain. Now his business which was the only source of livelihood is not doing well and they kept disturbing me for money . Me that I'm managing with my husband.
I have just two kids only, aged 10 and 7, does my womb have issues? I learned a skill and developed myself in marriage even though I'm a graduate. But as a good job did not come after I relocated to join my husband, I developed myself instead of having kids anyhow.
The stupid husband , I told him to use his car for transportation so that his family can feed , he refused, he said his car cannot do such job, it is not strong enough.. Ok, collect taxi or Keke maruwa and use for transportation and deliver money to the owner, take the rest and feed at least he refused. Which job do you want to go and do now in that dry civil servant State that will be enough to feed your family, mumu man, keep begging for money. Hunger has not hammar you all. I only pity the innocent children especially the baby that is still breastfeeding.
My own hubby can even ride okada if it comes to hustling for food for this family. He doesn't like seeing his family hungry and he doesn't like begging.. mtcheeeerw
look at how you refer to your sister ? See how u insult the husband becos of poverty....you can be angry without using these words........I can imagine what she would be going through with no one there for her...She needs you, even if you dont have money to give her please be there for her mentally and emotionally...ah ah!!!
DeleteBv Big mama is a beautiful woman
ReplyDeleteHappy marriage anniversary to you and your husband. Many more beautiful years I wish you.
Amen π
DeleteThank you.
Radical, I also hate that Mummy Yimu or Daddy Yimu , I prefer we call each other by our first names or pet names.
ReplyDeleteStella , rice is the main staple food in Nigeria. It is easily available, quick to cook and relatively cheap. Also, easy to eat for kids especially.
I love rice in different forms but I can't eat it more than once daily.
Happy 28th wedding anniversary to Big Mama. You too fresh, come soft like my Momma.ππ₯°
ReplyDeleteHappy 27th wedding anniversary to Sarah Bakare. People dey here o. Shioor. Ejima K so na you be dis? ππ€Έ Your face and Ireti eh, it's an awwww something.
May God bless your homes abundantly.
Maturity in marriage...all these without prayers, fervent consistent prayers you'll lose that marriage. Get thee a family altar and hammer prayers there every morning...π
Stella...no vex but errmmm, all these northern bvs here what are they doing for you? Collect from them...millet,sorghum,quinoa, native butter flavored rice. Have you eaten cous cous?π€¨π
Helloooo. That's the chairman of delish in swallow.
If you want a jollof, season it on low heat till it's done but add a blend of ground ataiko and gbafilo(pinches only,filtered in water because they have sand) because you don't like pepper.
Roast before blending.
Gbafilo you crush it to get the tennis balls seed. Your skin will shine, your eyes will shine tland your hair go long dey go.
Nigerians are trapped in ignorance,simple. What rice? Here, maybe 2 times in one month especially for Sunday lunch with Ofe akwu made overnight (e get whyπ✌️). They don't even sample other varieties only 3; parboiled, ofada and brown rice.
Please, there's;
Basmati rice...some eat though.
Idli
Matta
Black
Broken
Sona masuri
Deviled.
Many others. They all have different aromas you'll love. West Africa has, stop buying Daleko and Mile 12 rice. Check cotonou border jor.π₯Ίπ
Things from Ivory Coast, Sierra and Lobe dey na.
I'm munching hot peppered puff puff sprinkled with granulated sugar.
If I talk where I finally found it and been dealing with it, una go cast me.
Chau!
Xhlrted P
Xhirted P. Thank you so much.
DeleteMy luv to ur momma.
Stella this is for you.
ReplyDeleteAs your cooks have dropped delish plenty, let me add.
Potato Meatballs and Chicken honey beans sauce.
1. Deskin honey beans and boil till very tender like ukwa.
Blend fresh tomatoes and sautΓ© with some curry and garlic powder, 2 spoons of vinegar till it becomes baked beans.
Slippery and aromatic.✌️
Set it aside.
2.
Kilo of chicken breast. Diced.
6 spoons of oil. Any.
Marinate for 2 hours in a tight lid plate, placed in the fridge. (While making beans sauce).
With; ground( white pepper, ginger, garlic), salt, a scoop of unsweetened yoghurt. Mix well.
Then fry in a skillet till done and crunchy brown on both sides.
Use low heat bikoπ₯Ίπ€
4 potatoes. Anyone.
4 sausages. Any protein.
1 teaspoon of salt and 2 bouillon cubes in the water.
Blend them loosely with little water to make tennis meatballs.
Fry in deep oil, e get why.
ONCE IT'S DONE AND HOT, FIX A CHOPSTICK INTO IT AND DROP IT IN NO 1 Sauce above.
Roll on both sides and remove.
The remaining sauce, sprinkle mint leaf πΏπ or parsley and serve it with the π§ meatballs.
π²π’
Bon appetitππ₯³
Xhlrted P
Hello ihn π₯°
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone π
Big Mama you are so beautiful and I wish you and your hubby happy anniversary ❤️
Stella in this part of the world rice is the go to food, me i love rice and can eat it everyday sef. Any naija occasion without rice, no be occasion na.
@Lover girl narrative, that guy was indeed a wrecking ball. He showed you shege banza.
NFJ poster you see that wives calling their hubbies daddy, just leave it for my Igbo women π and the ones that calls their spouses by the children's initials leave am for yoruba people (no pun intended) calling each other pet names is it for me.
Sign out meme is so on point π
Y'all should enjoy your evening π₯°
E go surely be ✌πΌ
Thank you osundi
DeleteWow! See beauty .
ReplyDeleteBig mama happy anniversary to you.
You are so beautiful π
Good evening everyone
ReplyDeleteI love rice so much that if I don't eat it in a day I will know something is missing in my body.
Happy anniversary big mama, you are beautiful and I love your flawless skin.
Good evening beautiful people,Big Mama you are extremely beautiful.πΉ❤️
ReplyDeleteThank you Benny
DeleteBeautiful Big Mama ππ
ReplyDeleteKeep enjoying your marriage.
Congratulations to you and yours..
I love rice but cant eat it more than 4 times in a week..
Thank you Stella Maris
DeleteHBD to big Mama and may the Lord continue to bless your home!!!!π₯πHappy anniversary.
ReplyDeleteThank you Anon
DeleteWrecking ball, your story na wetin most naija girls dey see. If I tell you what happened to one of my friends. Her boyfriend took her and one other girl to the Cinema at the same time and lied to both of them that the other girl was the cousin. They were all chatting and laughing with him not knowing they were his babes
ReplyDeleteBig mama you are beautiful, really beautiful.
ReplyDeleteHappy anniversary to you, more honey honey in your marriage.
Just got back home, I am exhausted.
I'll take a shower now and rest.
Thank you God for today, I am grateful