Pinky's CORNER

‎There is a man living with his family opposite my house. This man left his family for years(the wife and four children) to live in with another woman who eventually gave birth to two children for him.

Leaving his wife to work and cater for four children all alone. 3 girls and 1 boy but they are now grown up. 

The guy is the first born and doesn't stay with his mum again but the younger ones who still stay with their mum.(one is a graduate, the second to the last is a hair stylist while the last is an apprentice somewhere around here)‎

‎The wife and the children packed into this flat 4 years ago and after several begging from her children to allow their dad come stay with them since he isn't living fine with the other woman their mum accepted and the man packed in with them 2 years ago. 

The children said and I quote "a je baba wa ni #1000" (meaning, their dad never spent any dime on them but used all his money to run after another woman).
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‎Yesterday night, they began to shout and the shouting don dey turn to another thing. We rushed there and on getting there, the man was about using charm (igbadi) to flog the last born while the mother was shouting and screaming for help. 

I held his hand so tight and someone else wrapped him up like fufu. We took him outside then i asked the other lady to call their elder brother which they did. The guy came with a police and arrested their father stating that "he regretted allowing his dad to come stay with his mum and his siblings". The police men took the man away with the igbadi he was holding.
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‎Wetin cause fight: the man went to bring the two children he had out of wedlock to stay with them and commanded the other children to take care of them and also send them to school. This was what he was discussing with them before the meeting led to another thing. 

Na from my aproko level I kan gather say, the two children don dey for that house since 3 weeks ago but baba lie say na him brother pikin(the brother the wife and that the children don't know). 

It's from baba's phone they got to know that those children belong to him(Note: they knew their father had 2 children outside but they have never met them or seen them before).
‎Now, you brought another woman's children (regardless of the fact that they are his children) to the house you don't pay the rent, the house you don't give money for food, the house you don't pay nepa bill. Everything they do in that house is done by the 1st,2nd and the 3rd child of the innocent woman. 

This man still has the mind to start beating his wife and still wants to kill his own daughter for rejecting the 2 children. Hmmmmm.O deep gan oooooo.
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‎Who does that?  When you had money, you were nowhere to be found. He finished everything, still the children forgave him and he is here trying to claim the man of the house. This man is totally at fault here because he couldn't even talk. He could not tell us what happened when we asked him. The wife and the children made their point openly but baba couldn't talk and he was still threatening them.
‎It is well shaaaa
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I wanted to ask why some Yoruba men have this attitude toward entitlement mentality and making babies up and down but i dont wanna be seen as making comments targeting a particular tribe so let me leave the question i wanted to ask.