She said;
“ Social media has become an integral part of our lives, and unfortunately, it has also become a platform for spreading false narratives. On a recent Sunday morning, I woke up to numerous posts that were intentionally targeted at my lovely daughter and trying to portray a false image of her well being. As a fiercely protective mother, my initial reaction was emotional, but I knew that I had to stand up for my child.
It's important to note that my daughter is a happy, healthy, and well rounded child. Anyone who has met her in person can attest to this.
To further emphasize my commitment to my daughter's well being, I have been her primary caregiver for the past five years. I have handled all of her expenses except for school fees, which her paternal grandparent has kindly covered for the past three years. I have not received child support from her father, but our child knows no lack. She is growing in a healthy environment and is very happy.
In an effort to reaffirm my commitment to her happiness, recently waived all outstanding child support payments and relinquished future claims. This decision has left me fully responsible for our child's financial needs, which i welcomed development by both parties.
Family is important to me, and I believe that it's essential for my child to have a relationship with both parents. Just as I had with my late father, who I had cherished memories of, I have never denied her father access or a relationship.
Instead, I prioritize her safety and structured schedules.
I am grateful that my daughter has a loving relationship with both parents.
Moving forward, I kindly request that my innocent child be left out of false narratives and stories. Let's channel our energy towards things that are more profitable and healthy. “
Thank you
TSM
It's important to note that my daughter is a happy, healthy, and well rounded child. Anyone who has met her in person can attest to this.
To further emphasize my commitment to my daughter's well being, I have been her primary caregiver for the past five years. I have handled all of her expenses except for school fees, which her paternal grandparent has kindly covered for the past three years. I have not received child support from her father, but our child knows no lack. She is growing in a healthy environment and is very happy.
In an effort to reaffirm my commitment to her happiness, recently waived all outstanding child support payments and relinquished future claims. This decision has left me fully responsible for our child's financial needs, which i welcomed development by both parties.
Family is important to me, and I believe that it's essential for my child to have a relationship with both parents. Just as I had with my late father, who I had cherished memories of, I have never denied her father access or a relationship.
Instead, I prioritize her safety and structured schedules.
I am grateful that my daughter has a loving relationship with both parents.
Moving forward, I kindly request that my innocent child be left out of false narratives and stories. Let's channel our energy towards things that are more profitable and healthy. “
Thank you
TSM
Do what makes you happy
ReplyDeleteI remember vividly when Imade was born, it took the combined effort of Dele Momodu and their entire family to coerce Davido to accept the baby, So all these shenanigans is for what. Everyone knows that Davido is not a non bad Dad.
DeleteIt is well
ReplyDeleteSophia you have my love any day or time. TSM I saw on RHOL is super level headed and intelligent. You know what is good for your daughter and I applaud you. Imade is your priority and I know you will protect her at all cost.
ReplyDeleteThey should leave this lady alone
ReplyDeleteSince the arrangement works for her, then no issue, welldone Sophie👍🏻
ReplyDeleteNawa!! Sophia, this is not classy and it's definitely not maturity.
ReplyDeleteI'm one of those who argued that protecting your child should be the paramount importance to you. And applauded you for not allowing your child be at the recent event because in a world where a girl child is vulnerable you shouldn't be comfortable she goes to a place you cannot supervised.
But my dear, you see this post; " You have goofed". David is not the one that attacked you for that matter you should handle the trolls not him. The world has no business knowing what the child support you both agreed on is.
This press release comes across like you are looking for his reaction and reply. At this point it looks like you are angry and have " a bone to pick with him". Move on Sophia, you are dragging yourself back by allowing this bitter feelings. Move on and stay on your grind. Forget all about him and release him. Let your soul breath, and make space for another connection.
If the burden is too much for you then renegotiate with his family peacefully and keep the media out of it. If the family refuses to support further, then my dear, cut down on your expenses, live within what you can afford and move on. They are not God. Stop allowing your feelings and happiness attached to this one man. Come on Sophia, we all know David is not a "catch". Stop pulling yourself because of a community penï§. You have lost nothing losing David.
Well said but Davido should support his daughter financially whether he gets on with Sophia or not. I have a baby daddy who supports my daughter financially and we don't see eye to eye. His transfers is even more regular than my salary and not that he got it like that! 8yrs and he has never missed a payment! Point is you can never be taken seriously as a father If you wont even provide for your child.
Delete"she has lost nothing losing David", then what is all this cry about solely taking care of her own daughter?. If she doesn't who will?
DeleteShe was 27, consciously got pregnant for a boy of 21yrs. After denials and conflict she had the baby. Why can't she take care of her baby?. Nigeria has a lot of problem now, go and sort your own
DeleteThe small boy wey no respect himself nko, wey chop wetin pass am
DeleteLet's dead this narrative that Shopia still wants Davido and hasn't moved on. Sophia is living her life, taking care of her daughter making silent power moves. She might evwn be in a relationship. She has moved on and she has every right to write whatever she wants so that everyone knows that Imade is being raised by her especially funancially. Aside of her grandfather paying her school fees. Sophia is intelligent and beautiful she has not missed anything by leaving Davido. Davido and Chivido fans need to stop trolling Sophia. Davido has married Chioma so what else do yall want from Sophia? Stop projecting. There is nothing special about Chivido. Chioma has not won anything but a cheating husband that will still cheat but she doesnt care because he has money. She is a doormat and that's why Davido chose her. He can sleep with countless women and she will not leave plus pardon me for being insensitive but if not because of the death of their son he would have never married her. He felt forced to. That union is not genuine but this is my humble opinion. Anyways Leave Shopia alone!!!
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DeleteDoes your Baby Daddy have access and family bonding time with his child.
Or he is just a cash transfer Daddy.
Some fathers in a full family home pay all bills without any attachment to their children.
By decision or mistaken belief that all needed from them is money, some fathers do not know their children and vice versa.
Fatherhood goes beyond swiss clockwork efficiency cash transfers.
Women who want the best for their children know this.
Children look back in years and realise this.
Davido was not a prize but she was caught sneaking to Ghana with Davido, till he finally left her and went back permanently to Chioma?
DeleteAnon 13:21 you are the one implying she wants him. My write up didn't state that. It addressed the bitterness. Note you might not want someone but be bitter and angry about the things they put you through. And her press release shows she hasn't healed from the hurt yet. No one will do that for her, she must put in the effort to heal from those emotions and move on.
DeleteAnon 11:05 give us a break. Would you have complained if a man of 27 date a lady of 21? Did David tell you he didn't know her age? He that was housing a 27 year old girlfriend and impregnated, what was he looking for? Was he "graped?"
Yeah that is what we all say, when you try to hook a man by having a baby for him and it backfires, you will be saying that the man is not a prize. The grape is sour. Take care of your child and leave social media. If not for Davido , who knows this one?
Delete@13.21, you're doing the exact same thing you are accusing fans of. You're attacking Chioma directly who did nothing to you and talking trash against her union and spreading false & dangerous narratives and projections. If you guys have moved on, behave like it. Look in the mirror pls
DeleteWell done Sophie 👍 keep protecting your lil princess
ReplyDeleteIt is well!
ReplyDeleteI like how she is putting it out here that she isn't receiving any child's support.
True...before everyone thinks she is living on David's dime!
DeleteI also support how she's letting everybody knows that she's not receiving child support, so that frustrated and bitter people will not be thinking that Davido is the one bankrolling her and her child, and start trolling her and her daughter anytime they appear on their timeline or social media.
DeleteExactly. God will take care of them.
DeleteSchool fees no be child support?
DeleteExperience shows that it is better for her to let their child bond with her siblings and paternal family.
She wants to prove a point. Good. But the real price is costlier than Naira or Fx Notes.
See wetin fiercely protective mother wear
ReplyDeleteLmao….
DeleteYour hate on her though. She's living her life, face yours
DeleteHahahahaha @Dante's comment.
DeleteSorry sir next time she go wear wrapper and Adieu papa polo
Deleteeven chioma that has been wifed still dey expose body
Weldone Sophia 🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteSophia my 💕...dnt mind them..u are a great mom and I applaud u for dat👍
ReplyDeleteSophia, you mustn't respond to every Tom, Dick, and Harry.
ReplyDeleteYou said you've been her primary caregive for the past 5 years and handled all her expenses and with the same hand you type you RECENTLY waived all outstanding child support payments and relinquish future claims.
That means you were getting support or have gotten and it stopped.
Madam relax and enjoy your life
Is it the "waive" that is difficult for you to understand or what?
DeleteIt simply means she RECENTLY let go of the backlog of child support he refused to pay.
Do you now want to tell me that Davido has never paid any child support since Imade was born or rather he stopped?
DeleteDon't let emotions becloud your sense of judgement .
It is well with you ☺️
ReplyDeleteWell done Sophia.
ReplyDeleteTo think she hasn't been living large on Davido's benevolence like his fans claim.
1. Both you and her father gave birth to her and she is the responsibility of you BOTH. If school fees comes from her father's family (I see it as coming from him still), while you take care of other needs, I think that's fine. Cos Lagos school fees ain't small.
ReplyDelete2. For rent - they offered you an apartment years ago which you rejected, so that's not their fault.
3. For other forms of financial support, you and David have been fighting online since I knew you guys, so that's nobody's fault but BOTH of you in not being mature to let go of emotions and court/lawyers to figure out what works best for this child. 4. You are the older parent and the onus is on you to act more matured. He may be richer but money is not everything. Thus, I think child support info is too much info for the public but also, trolls should pls leave this babe naa. Abeg.
5. To young people out there- I beg you, hold unto Jesus and flee fornication. There is not a thing you will gain. From heartbreak, rejection trauma, broken homes, stigma, mockery, STDs to unwanted pregnancy, it's not worth it. Especially ladies - know you will be more affected than the man. Learn from others...
The world has changed. Both in religion and culture- Pregnancy won't make anyone marry you, not anymore. He will someday marry and you won't be his priority. Your child won't get 100% parenting cos his new family will be his priority (and rightly so). Even married women struggle if we're being honest..talkless of single ones. It is what it is. Understand male privilege vs female privilege and make decisions very carefully...
Well said
DeleteI have nothing to say again
"Understand male privilege vs female privilege"
DeleteToday's woman wants to enjoy both, but shirk the responsibility of each
Unfortunately there are separate price tags permanently attached to each
This message should not only be for women, and yes she did well by making it clear to whom it may concern
DeleteYou're a strong mother.
ReplyDeleteSophia dear, you are doing well. Don't respond to dem trolls anymore ok?
ReplyDeleteSophia dear, you are doing well. Don't respond to dem trolls anymore ok?
ReplyDeleteWhy are you all saying she should not respond...with all the false narrative out there,why wont she set the records straight. Davido is rich, why cant he pay child support for this child.what would it cost him afterall he and chioma flaunts wealth up and down. Nigeria is a useless country with no law
ReplyDeleteFunny life
ReplyDeleteDavido does not generally respect his fans.
His fans troll Sophia
Sophia trolls Davido
Cyclical disrespect
Meanwhile, an innocent child is in the cycle centre
In an age where the records can be fetch with free data on a torchlight phone
Who is the loser
The child being fiercely protected allegedly?
Hmmmmnnnn
People should leave this lady alone for Christ"s sake.
ReplyDeleteSophia please enter house if you want to protect your daughter as you claim. You are not the first single mother and you won't be the last. So many women are taking care of their children married ones inclusive. Stop this deceptive narrative you are protecting your daughter. You are exposing her instead.
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