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“Gone are the days that being a single mother was a stigma. Single mother’s kids are achieving greatness. Men now pursue and even plead with single mothers to marry them, recognizing their experience. If one man rejects you, another will welcome you. I'm the President General of Single Mothers Association”
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ReplyDeleteSo right..
Delete3 went down this year from my relations.
Another 2 on 28th and 31st December next week. Loading at full blast.
I made that comment on Wednesday 26th November in house news. Find it.🧐
Be of good conduct. The best groom is yours. The tides are changing.
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Make una dey fool unasef.. the men that prefer single mothers over women without kids are men who either don’t want kids anymore or are already in a polygamous marriage.
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ReplyDeletePresident general indeed 😆😀😅..wish her well in her tenure
DeleteEverybody deserves love 😘
ReplyDeleteAll hail the Queen Mother President General 🙌
You strong gan!
PGSM 😁😁
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
I'll agree with her to a great extent and I will say, one thing about single mom is that, majority of them are now becoming more hardworking and hustling to take good care of their kid(s)
ReplyDeleteThey no longer wait to be fed or taken care of by their baby daddies. Gone are the days they seek pity. Today, most single mom flaunts their babies and wear the badge proudly.
Child bearing brings somewhat responsibility to these women and I think I will agree experience comes in too. What about love? They are great lovers too especially the ones with good upbringing.
I'll choose a single mom over and over again that brings respect, love and stability to me than a GenZ baddie with all the right curves.
© TEEJAY
I am sorry teejay, you strike me as someone that doesn't know what he wants.
DeleteI have watched blow here and there for years now.
You should have stated your reason for saying so. I guess you haven't read my comments in the past where I stated I have dated two single moms and would have married one at the time if I was financial buoyant.
DeleteI have stated categorically here that I'm not intrigued by virginity but if I ended up with one, it's still fine. All I need in marriage is a woman that will bring stability to me. You should understand that's what almost every man desire.
So what are you confused about my stand or comment? Feel free to comment.
© TEEJAY
Your comment to Stella’s post is one of the most accurate description of hardworking and decent single mothers that I have read on any blog. The wisdom expressed speaks volume, and I commend you for the wisdom expressed.
DeleteOK beautiful grandma
ReplyDeleteThis woman ehn 🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteWhere the single mommas at? I celebrate you guys 😁
ReplyDelete*side-eyes* The 'real' men are looking for Vaigins..(sic) *clears throat
ReplyDeleteLol. If believing this makes you sleep better at night, no wahalla 😂
ReplyDeleteLmaoo likeeeee 😂😂😂 th lies they tell themselves
DeleteI just tire, sure, there are men that don't mind, but most men?? hehehe,
DeleteLet's say it like one percent of men that don't mind
Men marry single mums o
DeleteMy big bro Dante nor go like this talk o lol
ReplyDeleteMajority of this generation men are looking for stable women. As long as you have money or connection, they will do anything to wife you. Don't be carried away. You will lift their status, then they cheat and spend your money.
ReplyDeleteGbam...always looking for soft landing even the married ones. Just have a well furnished 2bedroom flat and small change they will be rushing you..To sleep with you and get a lil peace away from home!
DeleteExactly. Majority of men nowadays are golddiggers
DeleteWahala
ReplyDeleteAnd you have met all the men?
ReplyDeleteI tell you ma'am, there are still SOME men out there who do not want a single mother. So too, SOME women do not want a single father.
Not hating. Just don't like generalisation in any guise.
Exactly. The era of shaming single mothers is over. We raised our kids, built ourselves, gained wisdom , now we come with value and experience. If one man couldn’t see it, another one will line up and recognize it. We’re not begging for seats at tables anymore; we’re hosting the meetings.🤪
ReplyDeleteDey hype yourself/unaselves. Moat single mothers are emotionally broken and aggresive in relationships - they are either in control or no peace.
DeleteShe didn’t say “prefer” sha
ReplyDeleteAnd single mothers have always remarried
In my southern state we don’t look down on single mothers. I don’t know if this is more a Yoruba thing
I don’t think Muslims even think this thing is that hard like that
I have lived in the south west. In fact, I grew up in the south west.
DeleteI have lived in the south east, south south and the north.
So I can say this.
When it comes to the region where younger men marry older women, and where divorced women or single mothers can easily remarry, it's in the south western part of Nigeria that it's more common.
A married woman can threaten her husband with divorce, go ahead to divorce him, and would not have much fear of not finding another husband.
I saw this play out while growing up, and it's still happening till date.
A lot of south western men do not have much problems marrying single mothers or divorced women.
Unlike men from other regions.
16:50 maybe they remarry but yall like to shame the poor ones
DeleteMy south south state not dey add shame to it
Yes they can always marry to single fathers too best........
ReplyDeleteSeeking validation..😂
ReplyDeleteMe cross my legs, Sip my chil Heineken as i listen to lyrics of the 90s
There’s some truth in what she said, which in a way is a masterclass in the strategic rebranding of resilience. By transmuting historical complex circumstances into a new form of social prestige, she is effectively commodifying maternal strength to fit a shifting matrimonial market.
ReplyDeleteHowever, does this "preference" signal a genuine evolution in the Nigerian male psyche that is predominantly anti, or simply a pragmatic pursuit of the "pre-vetted" woman, one whose capacity for labour and emotional endurance has already been stress-tested by the rigours of solo parenting and has now made themselves invaluable not to be ignored?
While shedding the badge of circumstantial single-mother inconvenience is necessary, we should be wary of a demographic born from systemic marital failure due to bad character and greedy motives rather than fate. True progress isn't found in single mothers becoming a more "desirable product" for men to consume.
Experience is a profound teacher, but let us not mistake the hardening required for this resilience as a mere cosmetic upgrade for the next bidder.
Women in whatever capacity are not commodities, even though some betray us as one. More single mothers are reengineering their empowerment and upskilling to get to that level of attraction, which some informed men are now finding as desirable choices.
The truth is money answers all things
ReplyDeleteIn all just have money
Dey console yourself Iyabo..... she dresses well but I just don't feel her.
ReplyDeleteIyabo Stop misleading young girls,, there is no dignity in single motherhood.
ReplyDeleteThere is Abeg
DeleteThe children honor and respect their mothers struggle over them
Go ask their sons especially
If you like follow her advice and don't work on yourself and your marriage. She is praying that her daughter should not become a single mother. Does that tell you something? It's because she is stable financially that is why she is spewing nonsense. Apart from her fashion sense, there is nothing enviable about them all- not only her. She might have good intentions but her ways of doing things are off.
ReplyDeleteYes, majority of those that love singles mothers are lazy and want a woman that won't ask for money , instead they collect from her and still enjoy free kpekus.
ReplyDeleteNot majority
DeleteSome just like the woman