Hmmmm......
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
DECEPTIVE LOVER
I was already planning to go and see my girlfriend's family during the festive period so this was a perfect time for me to introduce myself to her mother.
I later got a text message from my girlfriend telling me not to park my bus in front of her compound like I normally do, that I should park on the next Street and walk down to her house.
I thought maybe the street is blocked because of an ongoing event. I parked on the next Street as she instructed. When I entered the street everywhere was free and I kept wondering why she asked me to park on the next Street.
Immediately I knocked on her door she rushed out and pulled me to one corner of the compound and said why am I wearing jeans and t-shirt, why wasn't I properly dressed.
I told her I don't understand, I came straight from work to her house and besides this is how I dress to work everyday.....
As a bus driver was I supposed to wear a suit?.
When I finally met her mother, she was really glad to see me. She said, she has heard so many good things about me.
That her husband cannot wait to meet his new lawyer son-in-law.
Lawyer ke!
Before I could respond my girlfriend interrupted me and and said I should follow her outside that there is something she would like to tell me.
When we went outside, she said she's sorry that she told her family I'm a lawyer because if she had told them that, I'm a bus driver, they will not rate me. I was really disappointed in her. The girl that I want to marry is not proud of me.
I am a proud bus driver. I have been driving since at the age of 20 and now I'm 27 years old with three buses and two properties; one in my village and in the city.
From the proceeds of my bus. I give her 3k for her upkeep everyday.
I have stopped giving her money. You cannot be collecting money from me and not be proud of the hustle that brings the money.
I told her since she's dating a lawyer she should wait for me to win a big case, then I will come and marry her, for now I don't think I want to proceed with the marriage plans.
I don't want to build my marriage on lies
Am I overthinking things?
Hahahahahahahahahahahah Please dont be angry with her.....I agree with you that she was wrong but look at it that she loves you and accepts you but she knows her parents will not accept you and does not want to lose you..Please forgive her and tell them that you are a Bus driver and that she was joking about you being a Lawyer.....
Pls dump the werey let her parents look for lawyer husband for her . I'm happy you're proud of your means of livelihood. Don't ever go on with her lies. Let the parents know point blank of what you actually do . Rubbish
ReplyDeleteYou and the poster are big fools I believe you’re a hungry goat. If she doesn’t love the arrogant poster in the first place she won’t cover his bus driving and bring him to her family in the first place. Wait she even take ordinary 3k from you daily? You’re a stingy goat poster. I believe you have another girl you’re spending well on. Fools
DeleteCorrect. Let him dump her. Any relationship or marriage entered into on the basis of lies will not last the test of time. The lady is only postponing the inevitable. What happens after the marriage and the parents find out he has actually been a bus driver all along?
DeleteIf he wasn't giving her daily upkeep money, that lady would have dumped him long ago.
Stingy poster
DeleteVery stingy
DeleteTell her mom the truth.
DeleteAnon 15:32, 15:59 and Shooter Gal, I would want to believe your comments are just rage baits to make people comment.
DeleteYour feeble attempts to shame a hardworking man is laughable. What of the lady? 3k everyday for 31 days is close to 100,000. For a girl he isn't married to? A girl who isn't even proud of his hustle? He should just be giving her free money abi?
Meanwhile, what do you think would happen when any of her family members board a bus and see him driving it?
My goodness! Poster @ 15:32, why so vulgar? Who raised you? This is why I don’t like mingling with naija people, before you say Jack Robinson you lot already resort to insults.
DeleteAnd no, he is not responsible for her when they are not married yet. This is why the Nigerian men will continue to keep y’all as property.
Lol, all of you saying dump her, forgive her, don't forgive her, this that, as if you are doing the girl a favour. On top 3k?
DeletePoster pls forget this sentiments, the truth is you both vision are mismatched, and love is not enough , which is showing in her reservation and wishful longing of an image different from who you are.
She will regret you and you will in turn regret you and it will be a whole mess.
Its a good thing you are doing very well in your capacity. Find a good woman that matches your vision. Let her also find a man, that matches her vision.
Even With the properties you mentioned, You are not doing her a favour. She needs to do an introspect and not stiffle that she subliminally seeks, while still being with you. Your relationship as it is, is a ticking time bomb. Leave her, while she also leaves you. You both should face front and keep searching.Cheers!
Typo, **she will regret you and you in turn will regret her**
DeleteThose of you calling him stingy, are you comparing him to your regular millionaire? Come on, this guy is a humble hustler, trying to make ends meet through bus driving, yet you see 3k DAILY as a small gift to his girlfriend ? 3 *28 =84 per month, is small for a bus driver to gift his girlfriend? Wow wow wow. He's not even a yahoo boy , neither is he working with any of those highly exalted companies, yet he could manage to squeeze out 84k out of the money realized from BUS DRIVING and you people have the mind to call him stingy?
DeleteI think she likes you but she’s sure her parents won’t
ReplyDeleteHaven’t you heard all the play songs about marrying taxi driver
And you how can you go see your I laws for the first time and you wear jeans and t shirt. That’s not good na
Dress like omoluabi
🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteSorry Poster but this made me laugh. No vex with her pls.
Dude, you can forgive her if you want, I WOULDN'T! That's a Major Red Flag there. She's a social climber and obviously doesn't respect your hustle and that disrespect will extend to you in the foreseeable future.
ReplyDeleteIf you want to boost the Chronicles traffic here, then enjoy, else you should come clean with the family about who and what you are and prepare for the worst, that is if you're still considering love and forgiveness. Better yet, quietly drop her at the next emotional bus stop like a policeman without transport fare and go your merry way.
There’s no red flag there pls
DeleteShe just wanted to marry him and didn’t want her parents to oppose
I’ve seen s guy lie to his family about his girlfriend’s age cause she’s older. He knew they would resist
Poster focus on the fact that she did this so she could marry you and you’ll see things differently
And resume giving her the money while you make a final decision
Lol and he's Bragging with 3k
DeleteAnon 3k daily is 90k o, plus he has good intentions.
DeleteThere are a lot of women that don't get that amount from their bf
I agree with Stella, she loves you and does not want to lose you...
ReplyDeleteBut I think she should just tell her family the truth cos you can hide it forever
🤣🤣🤣. This is one funny chronicle. Dear poster, please pardon my laughter. Your description is top notch. I pictured the scenario and bursted out with laughter😂.
ReplyDeleteBack to the crux of the matter. Honestly, any relationship built on lies won't stand the test of time.
In as much as she loves you and wants you but wants to paint you differently in the faces of her parents so that you'll be highly respected, I still feel there are better ways to do that. I mean, for how long is she prepared to keep up with the false status? She is definitely wrong
Talk things through with her. Let her come out plainly and tell her parents whom you really are. If you're accepted, fine! If not, then it's on them.
Lol. But this will not go well with you in the future. When will the lie even End.
ReplyDeleteHahaha oniyeye. 😂😂😂
ReplyDelete3k daily for data. Wow you really tried, good boyfriend 😼
ReplyDeleteOh how I love you Shooter 😘😘😘
DeleteYou don’t ever hide the truth
Keep being you girl 🤝
Poster this 90k per month is not much na
DeleteWell if that’s what you can afford
Hmmmm
Delete15:59, to the amount of stories I read on here and the countless talk about living on a tight string, that 90k would do many BVs a great deal, especially if they don’t even have to crawl out of bed to get it. She literally is earning money while she sleeps.
DeleteThank you anon
DeletePeople shaming this man would queue up whenever they hear Stella is doing giveaway.
DeleteAll of a sudden, 90k is now chicken change.
Na God go judge una
That girl loves you , she is protecting you from insults from her parents and siblings. She is trying to avoid see finish. I did the same thing, I packaged my then husband very well before my parents though he was a hustler then. . 26 years later, everything is rosy.
ReplyDeletePlease forgive her and next time dress appropriately. You are what you wear.
Stop giving her 3 k every day except she is a student. Let her get a job , feeling entitled isn’t a good sign. Why can’t she work for her money.
But a lawyer though? There is packaging and dressing up a situation but giving the person a profession they are not even remotely connected to is too much. If they had conspired together to do this then fine, but that was not the case, what she did was wrong. What else is she ashamed of silently, his looks, height, table manners, conversation skills, family of origin? You can’t be ashamed of your person.
DeleteShe should go back to her mum and say the truth haba
ReplyDeleteBe proud of that gentle man
You're a man. You will never get justice here. Chronicles are only for women. Some are already dismissing the 3k you give her everyday which amounts to 1m plus per annum.
DeletePlease give the money to your mother. Her prayers for you will serve a better purpose.
Men are not humans, they should be exploited simply because they have a woman they fancy.
This is quite hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 very hilarious.
DeleteBut poster sef, now that you know what she likes,you can be driving a bus and going to school na. Upgrade if you love her.
Honestly, if you cannot walk proudly down the street with the person you are dating then you have no business dating them. Are you not a businessman? She could have easily said you were a businessman in the transportation industry, this would be the truth. Who knows how far you will go, logistics, courier, special persons, you’ve already done very well for your age. A lawyer is just too much of a lie and completely unnecessary when she sits on her asa and collects 90k monthly. Why take your money and be ashamed of the way it is earned, especially when you aren’t even doing anything immoral or criminal? The world is full of crooked lawyers, being a lawyer isn’t anything special and unless you’re in a good firm the pay is shyt for a long time.
ReplyDeleteShe is not proud of you, I am glad you know your worth!! If she cannot tell her parents the truth, please dump her.
ReplyDeletePackaging KO, packaging ni
Dear poster I'm sure she loves you, but knowing the kind of parents she has she has decided to shield you her own way. If you truly love her then calm down and have a rethink. Don't use annoyance to handle the matter. But wait, 3k?? Wow
ReplyDeleteI just tire for that 3k
DeleteVery funny, just be careful Sha.. because it's possible she will see one Lawyer tomorrow then dump you.
ReplyDeleteAnd for those shouting the poster is stingy, 3k daily is at least 90k monthly. How many women get that from their men? Even married women, how many husbands gives their wives 90k as dash, not for the house o, for personal use? See them condemning the poor guy. Poster you're trying jare don't let anyone belittle your efforts. Forgive her if you can, with the condition that she comes clean to her parents. If she's not proud of you and what brings food to the table she should waka far.
ReplyDeleteTake your broke ass away from here. Allow your sisters take 3k everyday from smelling bus driver everyday
DeleteNa wa oooo,3k daily is 84k monthly,je try na,if he was giving her 50k monthly she would still hv been thankful
DeletePls shut it. Women get way way more than that from their men. I guess you’re not used to getting huge amounts so 90k a month is a big deal to you
DeleteHmmm toxic people everywhere.
DeleteIt's always poor people that have not really seen good money in their entire existence are quick to devalue money,
DeleteThe rich can't even use such words,but u see all this fake it until u make it...
Suddenly 90k per month is a chicken change to them,keep laughing at the young man,I'm sure some of ur brothers can't even do half of what this guy have done.
Why is she ashamed of your hustle?
ReplyDeleteAnything built on lies and falsehood will eventually crumble.
Poster, you're not her dream man. You're simply Mr available. Leave her and look for someone in your social class. You've seen the sign now.
ReplyDeleteWow. You're just 27? Are you sure you're ready to settle down? You still have a lot of time. Please think about it long and hard enough. Marriage no be here. But you've accomplished a lot for your age. Well done
ReplyDeleteYou people are very funny. 3k every is almost 100k per day. This is the salary paid to some graduate in this Nigeria. Some people are bad mouthing this poster for taking care of someone he cares about with what he can afford when most of you cannot even boast of 90k after your monthly expenses. The entitlement mentality here pisses me off.
ReplyDeleteThis is why I don't date below my social class. Inukwam upkeep because you get toto😂
Chairman, if you marry this lady, you will just end up in regrets. Look at all the comments above shaming you for giving her your hard earned money. Not one thought into how you even hustle to provide for yourself and your loved ones.
ReplyDeleteThat's going to be your life when you get married. She would disrespect you. Her fellow women will laugh at you too. Society will judge you harshly.
It is not worth it. Don't be fooled by bumbum. Marry someone who respects your legitimate hustle.
This is why I laugh when people talk about how marriage is hard. There’s an element people miss when courting, looking at the little things and seeing the big picture. If she can lie to her parents for whatever reason, who says she would not justify telling you lies in the future. It’s the lack of integrity in our culture for me, and yet we love church and God so much but somehow look the other way when it is not a big sin. lol
ReplyDeleteToday it is her parents, tomorrow it will be her friends, then it’s going to be people in the kids’ school. Guess what! it will be unending.
And it’s strange that you lot are encouraging this demeaning behavior from the lady. If roles were reversed, you will scream blue murder. Has anyone even considered how this will mess with this man’s mental health?
Your comment is on point
DeleteYour comment is on point
DeleteThank you 💯 in all, consider your mental health.
DeleteLiving a fake life drains the hell out of you.
How about the kids? Will they be spared or introduced into the web of lies/make belief? Na this kind behaviour dey make people put hand where them nir suppose.
Poster, do not make the mistake of spending your life with someone that is not proud of you.
This chronicle hit home sha.
ReplyDeleteMy ex is a driver with LBSL (BRT) and I am a Lawyer. Minus what he does for a living, this guy was the best relationship I have had in a long while. This guy literally treated me like a Princess. Even as the relationship has ended and he has asked that we should be friends, how can I stay friends with someone I still have feelings for?
I cannot blame the poster’s girlfriend for her actions because the world we live in is quite superficial and she wouldn’t want to expose her man to that harsh scrutiny. If anything, I admire that he has a handwork he’s proud doing.
Poster, please forgive her. All she did protect you.
Stella, please don’t publish if I am not anonymous.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this chronicle made me laugh so hard. Poster, upgrade from driving bus to a lawyer if you lover her. Or leave her alone because the lies cannot continue forever.
ReplyDeleteI think she loves you but does not love your job. You can see it as a challenge to upgrade yourself. Or be proud and concentrate on your bus driving business. The choice is yours.
How can people be belittling someone's good gesture? Whether it is 3k or 100 daily its the fact that he shows a sense of care and protection over her. What sort of ungrateful and entitled people do we have here? I'm a woman by the way. The gf is not even complaining about the amount. You people have left the purpose of the chronicle to jump on a nonsensical matter.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely not. She is living a false life. You need to leave or you ll regret it
ReplyDelete