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PROMISE OF MARRIAGE BROKEN
Few months ago, earlier this year , I found out my girlfriend was still chatting with her ex , doing I love you, I love you too. And I'm sure during her usual short travels outside the state, its the guy she goes to do meet and greet with.
I didn't confront her, I gathered enough evidence and was able to convince my self that it is true. I started planning my life without her, emotionally, mentally and financially.
I withdrew from her but was still banging the shXit out of her and doing small small things for her. But the banging come pass the small choppings oh and she noticed that.
3 months ago, I told her , babe I'm done and we broke up. 2 weeks after that, she viewed my WhatsApp status and noticed I'm in a new relationship and an obvious upgrade from her and I'm crazy about my new babe.
My ex then texted me and was like "so you couldn't even wait and you have moved on so quickly, I told her, "I moved on since January when I confirmed that you were still chatting with your ex boyfriend, doing, I love you, I love you too.
Wetin concern me. I served her a very hot cup of tea. Why are some women so ungrateful and chasing what's in between trousers? Now she's threatening lawsuits because I promised her marriage and raining curses and wishing karma on me.
Well if she takes you to court and you dont have evidence to back up your accusations you will lose...While breaking up with her, you should have accused her and see how she reacts.....What kind of evidence did you gather? Can you present it in court even if it is thrown out? Did you look for excuses to break up with her cos you found someone else?
Youmoved but still banging the shxt out of her? you are very wicked and deserve all the curse and karma...Hisssssss
Stella don vex🤣
ReplyDeleteWhen they do to women what they do to men, I think it hurts more which explains Stella’s rant.. my guy 1 casa for you abeg
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ReplyDeleteClap for yourself
SDK, your annoyance no go hold water. She deserves all she got. But for me, once I notice/confirm my partner is sleeping with someone else, I cant touch her again
DeleteThe good news is that you are the side prick in your new relationship.Look at you shouting about banging, no wonder she left you, oga it is not by strength, it is about emotional connection. I am sure she never came while she was with you, if not she won’t have gone to her ex.
ReplyDeleteI may not support the guys actions, but from your comment, it seems you are the Lady that was being banged, how do you know he was the side prick, moreover the guy didn't say she left him, he did. In fact I suspect you hundred percent.
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She is a Suspecta
Stella please kindly check the origin of this chronicle
ReplyDeleteIt was posted as a comment under a post on the Banana Island blog yesterday
The comment is still there, word for word
It is the second comment under the post…
X USER STIRS DEBATE AFTER SHARING CONTROVERSIAL ADVICE ON GIRLFRIENDS WHO STILL CHAT WITH THEIR EXES
If you are trying to direct traffic there i no dey fear....I have more content and if you or whoever brought the chronicle here mischievously its all good cos its now content here.....whatever it is thank you, now lets give advice and move on..
DeleteChai Aunty Stella is Soo smart, too smart. Anyhow you think you're playing the game, she's always two steps ahead of you 😂. Anon sorry o this one didn't work
DeleteIf I was trying to divert traffic to that blog would I not have written the real name of the blog?
DeleteHow many new bvs and new visitors to this blog know that “banana” whatever is a pseudonym for that blog?
E don do, make we nofight...sorry i replied rudely.
Delete15:36 you don’t have to support everything
DeleteWe guys hate being disrespected. It's her fault. She is the kind that want to eat from both sides.
ReplyDeleteMy question is did you have a strong evidence that she is really s*xing the other guy. If you really love her, you would have confronted her to know the truth
When you saw that she was seeing someone else, why didn't you confront her and end things? You decided to continue sleeping with someone's child that you have no good intentions for.
ReplyDeleteThat's being cruel. Na wa!
Just hear you people, so it's she that has good intentions for him not leaving her ex? So now that 2 can play the game, it's him that's the bad guy?
DeleteGuy never mind this ladies, they always want to eat their cakes and have it back, when they fail as most always do, they now begin to act as the God that created you by laying curses that will definitely go back to sender.
Come to think of it, how come our African women never have any positive spiritual powers to affect and change any man's life for good, or even for themselves? But are always quick to remember unleashing curses?
Team of confused human beings for sure.
Yeye man. It's obvious you still love her and you just moved to the new woman to pepper her and nothing more. Very soon now she will carry your name to okija shrine and you will bring out the tuface Idibia in you. You loved her and wanted to marry her and now you're suddenly crazy about another woman? What if the new woman is also fucking around? Or have you done your findings about her too? Continue chilling preek here and there
ReplyDeleteIf it's discoverd she is also fucking around, she will be dropped at his own timing too.
DeleteOkija will just strike someone for avoiding a clear red flag? Your team members should continue living in fools paradise, The results are glaring on the streets and in your faces.
Oshey baddest, what if the new woman turns out worse. New love can be sweet like that
ReplyDeleteHe moves on
DeleteLife goes on
Women move that way too
Bragging about banging her ruined your story and puts you in a shade of grey .
ReplyDeleteSome exes are difficult to seperate completely from, especially if the bond was strong and you may have to come to terms that there may airways be a bit of an attachment there. It's reality.
You were hasty and your steps were wrong. Suspicions are usually tainted by emotions. Except you had irrefutable evidence, you did her nastyand you should've asked yourself the question 'what if am wrong"? You also should have confronted her. At the least, let her see the errors of her ways.
Then again, this is a consequence of labelling and cancel culture. No need for high index of suspicions, no consideration of possibilities/ other angles. Just reckless, inconsiderate actions.
Am a guy BTW, so....
Abeg man no wan laff.
DeleteHe who seeks equity must do equity.
ReplyDeleteHe who comes to equity must come with clean hands..
Let her sue and waste her money, so far you have evidence to back up your claim, nothing dey sup..
I like the part of you b@nging the shxt out of her 😂,. I would have liked it more if you convinced her to give the back entrance too.. I support treating people the way they deserve to be treated ✌🏾
Oga,you moved on, but you couldn't move on from her body right. You should go to court, You deserve it.
ReplyDeleteYou went ahead to bang her after gathering enough evidence that she is not ment for you. Why did you not let her go immediately you found out?
ReplyDeleteThe good thing is that you have moved on and she will also move on one day. Life happens, we move.
Madam SDK, thanks you for the last paragraph of your message...
ReplyDeleteI was actually feeling sorry for him until I read that part in his post... That's rather tasteless! Two wrongs can not make a right.
If you like bang the shit out of her good news is that her tohtoh still belongs to her,you didn't go with it,so bro she didn't loose you lost.
ReplyDeleteSame thing I did to my ex too.
ReplyDeleteBabe was dating me and booking knack appointments with several other guys from my house. This was a lady that we had even started marriage plans. My family loved her like a daughter and her mother took me as a son. It still beats me why she did what she did. Relationship of 2 years.
I checked out of the relationship in my mind, but still explored all my wild fetishes with her. Eventually I broke up after 3 months, and told her all that I knew. I called all the guys names she had cheated on me with, so she would be fully aware that I had evidence.
She went around telling her friends another story. Some ladies are just for the street.
Sha be using protection
DeleteComments by female SDK Bvs are as expected and as usual.
ReplyDeleteVery very few women see a woman having two or more romantic relationships at a time as wrong.
Yet they talk about love and emotional bonding the most.
And most women are only pained when the avenger in any failed romantic relationship is the man
That few are the man's mother, or his sisters and other women who get no-strings financial benefits from him.
A woman in the man's shoes would have been advised to safe massively from his pocket and plan a more painful exit.
#NaUnaWay
Sha be using protection
DeleteI have a feeling that you will be cheated on again, when it does ask yourself why you keep attracting women who feel no loyalty to you.
ReplyDeleteThat is the Koko 19:47. But he isn't smart to realize that. He is busy doing revenge seggz to get a pat from the imaginary brotherhood, forgetting that life na per head. If you mess up your life, the brotherhood will not help you, your fellow men will mock you. He should ask himself what he has gained from his actions. If he hasn't improved, the current one will still step out. Not necessarily because he is bad, but he may be choosing wrongly or have a trait that pushes women away. There is no need for revenge seggz. Once you find out your partner is cheating, stop sleeping with them and confront them wisely with receipts. Find out if the relationship is worth continuing or not. If you can't get over it, dump and move on. Don't immediately jump into another relationship. Heal, get yourself together and decide what you really want from life and relationships. Then observe any negative patterns which you should ditch, eg find out why you are attracted always to certain kinds of people. When you are healed and more developed emotionally and in other areas of your life, seek healthy partners for a healthy relationship.
DeleteHow can you b*ang someone you clearly know is cheating?
ReplyDeleteYou try well well.
You no even fear say her ex fit don give am a very deadly STI and she would have given it to you as a parting gift.
Well done sir.