TUESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings...........

TUESDAY MEMO

How the go they go......

Abeg can you people be kind enough to share different Christmas menu? This is a request i saw severally in the comment section, suggesting it a sa  post but i figured that we can do it here........

Please those of you that plan to drag up gist about those two BVs getting married, please drop that gist, I am certainly not interested in it and the reason i revealed it was them is known by them alone and those dropping some comments trying to insinuate or drag others that have dated and broken up into the ish..Please drop it............

There is no spilt milk and I am not related to anyone here... if you comport yourself well and wanna stay fine, if you wanna go, its fine.......I dont break down crying cos anyone stops commenting......I am not demanding that anyone getting married must inform me but i also cannot reveal the reason why that is a must on the whatsapp group or even here....

Those who know why, know why!!!!

 Sometimes it is better to read the book and not judge it by itself beautiful cover.sometimes it is also good to read the book and not a judge it a glance....

it is OK to inherit enemies but please do not help them plot the revenge they have been planning before they met you...do not allow anyone use you!!!

Nobody should push me to talk...lets leave it this way and respect silences.....

Teejay and Dante i find both your comments this morning in SP really disgusting...LOL...make asawo leave una catch shame.....

The giveaway has ended for the month of December and God used me to bless 60 people, some outside of this Blog...We hope to do more next month by Gods grace.

Enjoy the rest of the day and stay well......

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LET GO

One of the hardest lessons in life is learning how to let go.
Letting go of guilt that keeps replaying in your mind.
Letting go of anger that quietly drains your peace.
Letting go of love that no longer loves you back.
Letting go of loss that changed you, and betrayal that broke your trust.

Change is never easy. It asks us to release what feels familiar, even when it hurts us. We fight to hold on because it’s all we know, and we fight to let go because deep down we know we deserve peace.

Letting go doesn’t mean you didn’t care. It means you’re choosing yourself. It means you’re allowing healing to begin, making room for growth, clarity, and a future that doesn’t weigh so heavy on your heart.
Sometimes the bravest thing you can do isn’t holding on, it’s finally letting go.
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There is a message inside this for the person trolling me,please let it go so that i dont respond to your trolling...I will spoil the rest of the year for you.....LET IT GO!!!

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WEIRD FACTS

----Mosquitoes can smell your blood type
Type O is their favorite

---When choir members sing together, their heartbeats also synchronize

----Drinking two glasses of water when you wake up can help you feel happier, sharper, and more energetic throughout the day

------You’re slightly taller in the morning than you are at night

------There’s no universally accepted definition of how high a hill must be before it becomes a mountain

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ITS CHRISTMAS

The countdown is loud, but let your heart be louder.
Pause and reflect: What are you holding onto that should have been released this year?
Some weights are emotional, some are grudges, some are fear dressed as caution.
As Christmas draws near, choose peace over pressure, gratitude over comparison,
and love over performance.

You should not enter Christmas carrying heaviness. Lay it down.
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Harsh Truths About MEN Nobody Wants to Admit

-. Men are only loved based on what they provide. A man without money, status or value is invisible to society — even to his own family.

- Men don’t get sympathy; only expectations. A struggling man is mocked, not helped. The world doesn’t care about his pain — only his productivity.

- If a man fails, he is on his own. No safety net, no pity. A failed man is seen as useless, even by those who once praised him.

- Men are only as good as their last achievement. Your past success means nothing if you can’t maintain it. The moment you fall, you become irrelevant.

- Nobody teaches men how to deal with emotions. Society says, “be a man,” but never explains how to handle pain, stress or heartbreak.

- Men are judged by results, not by efforts.
Nobody cares how hard you try — it is deemed that if you don’t succeed, you’re just making excuses.

- Men must build themselves from scratch.
No handouts, no shortcuts. A man must create his own value or be ignored.

- Men’s problems are seen as complaints. If a man speaks about his struggles, he’s called weak. If he stays silent, he suffers alone.

 -Men are replaceable. In relationships, jobs, and even families — if a man can’t provide, he’s discarded like an old tool.

-. A man’s worth is always conditional.
No matter how much he loves, gives or sacrifices, his value is always tied to what he can do.
This is the brutal reality. A man must level up, stay strong, and never expect handouts. Because in the end … Nobody is coming to save you.
NOTE: So remember to TAKE CARE of YOURSELF 
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TRUST THE PROCESS

As the year winds down, it’s easy to focus on what didn’t happen, the goals you didn’t tick off, or the progress that felt too slow.
But growth doesn’t always announce itself; it often happens quietly, in lessons learned, resilience built, and strength gained.

Every step you took this year, even the uncomfortable ones, shaped you.
The delays taught patience.
The challenges built character.
The waiting refined your focus.

As a new year approaches, don’t rush the ending or fear the beginning. Trust that what didn’t work out was making room for what will.

Carry the lessons forward, release the regrets, and step into the next season with clarity and faith.
You’re not behind.
You’re being prepared!
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THINGS THAT EARN HUSBANDS RESPECT

- Handle the welfare as expected
- ⁠Be in control of your emotions
- ⁠Be confident
- ⁠Have good communication skills
- ⁠Have boundaries with third party
- ⁠Be physically and emotionally available
- ⁠Be growth oriented
- ⁠Be patient
- ⁠Be gentle but firm

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