Good afternoon house please i have something bothering me so i want to share it here for advise and suggestions , anytime i have something i always want to share it with people no matter how small that thing is i must want to share with someone . Now my issue is that when it is my turn maybe say i need something all i get in return is excuses mind you i dont do these things for repayment . I dont know if it is a weakness but i just always want to give .
Give if that is who you are;and if that's what makes you happy.
But know that being good or kind to everyone/anyone doesn't mean others would give you that same treatment;you fit dey jam ungrateful/obiakpΓ³ people till the end of the world.
Don't give because you want others to do same for you if you are ever in need;it's a cold world and we humans are more about self interest;hence many don't mind giving you various excuses to ensure they are never inconvenienced because of your own convenience.
Also understand boundaries;there is a very thin line between being a kind person;and trying to seek everyone's validation by constantly giving;so they would think you are a kind person.
You alone truly know which category you fall into ☝️☝️☝️
It is more blessed to give than to receive. Always have this mindset that it's not the people that you have helped that will help you to avoid disappointment.
One thing is sure, whenever a need arises, help will come cuz givers never lack.
If you follow the way some humans behave you will start to act out of character. Please be yourself❤️πππ
Doctors, nurses, pharmacists, or anyone who is under the medical line can have an input. Please I want to know if I am over thinking things or is normal. I had surgery in 2019 after some complications i discovered that i have infections, i started treatment but along the line everything looks okay and i gave up on it. I should have gone for test from time to time to check if my body healed from.the infection or not but i forgot about it. In 2022 i started experiencing heavy bleeding, pro long period and watering discharge. I was told the fibriod has regrown. So the discharge is due to the fibroid, i was asked to take out the fibroid but was sacred since rhe first one was not easy, it may regrow and i was not married as i was told only pregnacy ould calm ir doen. I refused ans started managing it with some supplements and the size reduced, i only bleed once during my monthly flow, it last from 3 days heavy while 2 days is just a lightdrop. So i still discovered that the discharge was still heavy, then i visted another hospital and found out it was yeast infection, they gave me medications and i was better. After few months the discharge continued , but i stopped the supplements to see if the supplements was rhe main thing, the discharge became heavy. I told my now husband about it because we meet during that process and he was ready and willing to go through the pricess with me. Since two hospital declared me infection free but i was still having heavy discharge, i just reluctantly visted a new bye laboratory where i was diagnosed of having moderate syphilis, my whole world crashed rhar day Could it be thay the infection has been there have but the wrong thing was done the reason why i have been having serious discharge. Few weeks to my wedding. I went for a test and some medications was prescribed, I started taking them but I and am my husband has met before the time because when I was sure of the marriage I requested we test to be sure is what I can handle, I don't want to cry later that his thing is not working or is too small blah blah. I know the infection was from me because mine is even stronger than his.
My question is I took the treatment and got married but didn't go back to redo the test before we started meeting again. Mind you when I was taking those antibiotics, he was also on treatment but we both never went for test to be sure we are okay before we started meeting when we got married. I have been preaching to my husband we should abstain while we treat the infection and be sure everything is okay before we continue but he is not buying that ideal. We have done like 4 test since we got married all showed moderate infections, we have taking injections for 14 days, taking oral, I took drip, we have taken herbal still the infection has refused to go. I feel because we keep meeting while on the medication that is why the drugs are not working but my husband insist we must meet as he is not ready to cheat on me.
That if we don't meet for one to two mo ths in the name of treatment, is not easy what a man sees outside on daily basis. I don't know what else to say as he keep claiming the Doctors, his cousin that is a pharmacist told him meeting with me is very okay while on treatment. I feel the reason I have not taken in was because of the infections as everything comes out after meeting. It comes out heavy, from the moment we meet, a day or two days after meeting everything keep coming out. He has been complaining of waist pain so I tot this could do the magic to stay off me till we are completely okay but no way he cannot stay a day without meeting with me.
I want to know if I am the one thinking too much that the reason I am still battling with infections is because we still meet, I pick it up from him after meeting or meeting is stopping the medication to work properly. I am tired of taking medications since we cannot abstain. Thinking of refusing any test or medication until he is ready to abstain so that we can be treated once and for all.
1. If both partners are being treated for an infection but continue to have intimate contact without abstaining for at least one to two months, it becomes very difficult to completely clear the infection. You may keep reinfecting each other, which leads to repeated use of different antibiotics and unnecessary strain on the body. In such a situation, conceiving can become quite challenging.
2. Regarding fibroids, hormonal imbalance is often a major underlying factor. When hormones are not properly regulated, it may indicate that certain glands within the endocrine system are not functioning optimally.
3. What I am about to say may sound controversial, but it is important to consider. You mentioned that you previously had a fibroid surgery and that it started growing again. When a woman undergoes fibroid surgery before giving birth, the chances of conception can become reduced.
I want to ask if I am saving enough money or I should save more from my monthly salary. My salary is paid twice in a month (we have bonus paid middle of the month while salary comes end of the month). The bonus is 50k while my salary is 141k. I do 60k contributions in a month, send my mum 30k monthly. My dad is late so is just my mum and a small girl staying with her, apart from the monthly 30k I do for her. I also buy raw food of 60 to 80k like quarterly or any time she complains of no food.
I also have my other siblings who do send her money from as little as 5k to 20k monthly basis too. We pay the girl's school fees, uniform, textbook, school bag, sandals and any vital need from the girl.
I want to know if I should save more or go ahead to spend the balance of 81k from my salary. I am married and my husband is also working, his income comes huge some time depending on contracts. I support with my balance to keep the home and still contributes bulk when I collect my contributions.
Was just thinking like I don't save anything, my corporative savings is 20k monthly.
My Lagos people, I just bought one tiny pawpaw the size of my head for 1.3k. Water finish for my eye.π Like if I open mouth waaaa, I can swallow that pawpaw like a wrap of eba. Is this how you people spend on fruit?? I saw 5 miniature mangoes, they told me 1k. Like what tf?????? πππ And imagine I'm on the mainland oh, I'm sure that pawpaw like key chain would be 5k with plenty abeg on the island. π E get where people who are not children of Dangote dey buy fruit for Lagos or this is how it is normal normal?πππππππ Let me just adjust my expectations.ππππ
You're such a funny person π Sorry about that...pls next time find your way to Ketu market. You'll get affordable fruits especially if they're in season π₯π
Iyana Iba market in Lagos,fruits and various farm products are cheap there when they are offloading,and even if they aren't offloading,you just go where they arrange and sell in bulk(they have the fruits section,just ask around). It's from there that those who resell come to buy too.
If you can find your way to mile 2;it's a straight bus to Iyana Iba market and less than 30 mins.
Hello everyone I have problem getting network on my glo line. Most times, my glo data expires cos I don't get network often to use it. The network comes once in a while. I'm tired of buying data I hardly use cos of bad network. Pls do I need to change from 2g Lite or something. Pls advise.
Good afternoon. Please I just did my passport for the first time. And because of my age dey said they're not making use of affidavit that I should issue birth certificate. the person running it for me later find a way and did the birth certificate but the issue here is that the place of birth does not tally with my real place of birth. I don't know if that will affect me later. But everything is correct. What I mean is dat I'm claiming my mom gave birth to me in Imo instead of Lagos.
My hair is residing. I can't open my hair in publlic. I have used different products to no avail. An ex held my hair tight during an arguement and most of my front hair removed because I was carrying braids that day. It's been almost 8 years yet the hair has refused to regrow. I am always on low cut. I was asked to do hair transplant but I don't have the money. Anyone who has a solution for female baldness should help a sister.
If you don’t have money you just have to work with castor oil and rosemary oil, maybe add biotin vitamins in the mix. Eat good source of protein and iron.
My business No is a Glo line and network is usually not stable on it for internet;it comes on and off..but we have other internet options(WiFi).
To be sure though,upgrade your SIM by going to their office or using their agents around you;let them upgrade you to the Glo 5G SIM,when they are done they would give you a new SIM pack(5G enabled for faster internet) and you can then check if the connection is now stable for you..
Another thing is location,I have friends who can swear Glo is the best network in Nigeria,so first upgrade to the 4G or 5G SIM let's see if it makes any difference for you,and I hope this helps.
My teenage son's legs sweat and smells when he removes his footwear. My hubby suffers same too so I believe he inherited it from his dad. Please is there a remedy because I don't want anything that will reduce his self esteem.
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Good afternoon great minds.
ReplyDeletePlease does the size of mammary gland determine the quantity of miliki?
Thank you
No it doesn't....smallest size can even surprise you with the flow of excess "miliki";na God go determine;not size.
Delete@MARTINS
No it doesn’t
DeleteIt doesn't o π
DeleteThank you ooh @ Martins, Chee and Adunni
DeleteGood afternoon house please i have something bothering me so i want to share it here for advise and suggestions , anytime i have something i always want to share it with people no matter how small that thing is i must want to share with someone .
ReplyDeleteNow my issue is that when it is my turn maybe say i need something all i get in return is excuses mind you i dont do these things for repayment .
I dont know if it is a weakness but i just always want to give .
Sha know where to draw the line, so people don't take you for granted.
DeleteGive if that is who you are;and if that's what makes you happy.
DeleteBut know that being good or kind to everyone/anyone doesn't mean others would give you that same treatment;you fit dey jam ungrateful/obiakpΓ³ people till the end of the world.
Don't give because you want others to do same for you if you are ever in need;it's a cold world and we humans are more about self interest;hence many don't mind giving you various excuses to ensure they are never inconvenienced because of your own convenience.
Also understand boundaries;there is a very thin line between being a kind person;and trying to seek everyone's validation by constantly giving;so they would think you are a kind person.
You alone truly know which category you fall into ☝️☝️☝️
@MARTINS
It is more blessed to give than to receive. Always have this mindset that it's not the people that you have helped that will help you to avoid disappointment.
DeleteOne thing is sure, whenever a need arises, help will come cuz givers never lack.
If you follow the way some humans behave you will start to act out of character. Please be yourself❤️πππ
Gbam, Gifty!!! God bless you and Martins
DeleteEUM Cali
Doctors, nurses, pharmacists, or anyone who is under the medical line can have an input. Please I want to know if I am over thinking things or is normal. I had surgery in 2019 after some complications i discovered that i have infections, i started treatment but along the line everything looks okay and i gave up on it. I should have gone for test from time to time to check if my body healed from.the infection or not but i forgot about it. In 2022 i started experiencing heavy bleeding, pro long period and watering discharge. I was told the fibriod has regrown. So the discharge is due to the fibroid, i was asked to take out the fibroid but was sacred since rhe first one was not easy, it may regrow and i was not married as i was told only pregnacy ould calm ir doen. I refused ans started managing it with some supplements and the size reduced, i only bleed once during my monthly flow, it last from 3 days heavy while 2 days is just a lightdrop. So i still discovered that the discharge was still heavy, then i visted another hospital and found out it was yeast infection, they gave me medications and i was better. After few months the discharge continued , but i stopped the supplements to see if the supplements was rhe main thing, the discharge became heavy. I told my now husband about it because we meet during that process and he was ready and willing to go through the pricess with me. Since two hospital declared me infection free but i was still having heavy discharge, i just reluctantly visted a new bye laboratory where i was diagnosed of having moderate syphilis, my whole world crashed rhar day
ReplyDeleteCould it be thay the infection has been there have but the wrong thing was done the reason why i have been having serious discharge. Few weeks to my wedding. I went for a test and some medications was prescribed, I started taking them but I and am my husband has met before the time because when I was sure of the marriage I requested we test to be sure is what I can handle, I don't want to cry later that his thing is not working or is too small blah blah. I know the infection was from me because mine is even stronger than his.
My question is I took the treatment and got married but didn't go back to redo the test before we started meeting again. Mind you when I was taking those antibiotics, he was also on treatment but we both never went for test to be sure we are okay before we started meeting when we got married. I have been preaching to my husband we should abstain while we treat the infection and be sure everything is okay before we continue but he is not buying that ideal. We have done like 4 test since we got married all showed moderate infections, we have taking injections for 14 days, taking oral, I took drip, we have taken herbal still the infection has refused to go. I feel because we keep meeting while on the medication that is why the drugs are not working but my husband insist we must meet as he is not ready to cheat on me.
That if we don't meet for one to two mo ths in the name of treatment, is not easy what a man sees outside on daily basis. I don't know what else to say as he keep claiming the Doctors, his cousin that is a pharmacist told him meeting with me is very okay while on treatment. I feel the reason I have not taken in was because of the infections as everything comes out after meeting. It comes out heavy, from the moment we meet, a day or two days after meeting everything keep coming out. He has been complaining of waist pain so I tot this could do the magic to stay off me till we are completely okay but no way he cannot stay a day without meeting with me.
I want to know if I am the one thinking too much that the reason I am still battling with infections is because we still meet, I pick it up from him after meeting or meeting is stopping the medication to work properly. I am tired of taking medications since we cannot abstain. Thinking of refusing any test or medication until he is ready to abstain so that we can be treated once and for all.
I’m truly sorry for what you are going through.
DeletePlease take note of the following:
1. If both partners are being treated for an infection but continue to have intimate contact without abstaining for at least one to two months, it becomes very difficult to completely clear the infection. You may keep reinfecting each other, which leads to repeated use of different antibiotics and unnecessary strain on the body. In such a situation, conceiving can become quite challenging.
2. Regarding fibroids, hormonal imbalance is often a major underlying factor. When hormones are not properly regulated, it may indicate that certain glands within the endocrine system are not functioning optimally.
3. What I am about to say may sound controversial, but it is important to consider. You mentioned that you previously had a fibroid surgery and that it started growing again. When a woman undergoes fibroid surgery before giving birth, the chances of conception can become reduced.
I want to ask if I am saving enough money or I should save more from my monthly salary. My salary is paid twice in a month (we have bonus paid middle of the month while salary comes end of the month). The bonus is 50k while my salary is 141k. I do 60k contributions in a month, send my mum 30k monthly.
ReplyDeleteMy dad is late so is just my mum and a small girl staying with her, apart from the monthly 30k I do for her. I also buy raw food of 60 to 80k like quarterly or any time she complains of no food.
I also have my other siblings who do send her money from as little as 5k to 20k monthly basis too. We pay the girl's school fees, uniform, textbook, school bag, sandals and any vital need from the girl.
I want to know if I should save more or go ahead to spend the balance of 81k from my salary. I am married and my husband is also working, his income comes huge some time depending on contracts. I support with my balance to keep the home and still contributes bulk when I collect my contributions.
Was just thinking like I don't save anything, my corporative savings is 20k monthly.
My Lagos people, I just bought one tiny pawpaw the size of my head for 1.3k. Water finish for my eye.π Like if I open mouth waaaa, I can swallow that pawpaw like a wrap of eba. Is this how you people spend on fruit?? I saw 5 miniature mangoes, they told me 1k. Like what tf?????? πππ
ReplyDeleteAnd imagine I'm on the mainland oh, I'm sure that pawpaw like key chain would be 5k with plenty abeg on the island. π
E get where people who are not children of Dangote dey buy fruit for Lagos or this is how it is normal normal?πππππππ
Let me just adjust my expectations.ππππ
You're such a funny person π
DeleteSorry about that...pls next time find your way to Ketu market. You'll get affordable fruits especially if they're in season π₯π
Also pawpaw is not in season.
DeleteBut we have sweet pineapple in season nowπ
Iyana Iba market in Lagos,fruits and various farm products are cheap there when they are offloading,and even if they aren't offloading,you just go where they arrange and sell in bulk(they have the fruits section,just ask around).
DeleteIt's from there that those who resell come to buy too.
If you can find your way to mile 2;it's a straight bus to Iyana Iba market and less than 30 mins.
Hope this helps.
@MARTINS
Hello everyone
ReplyDeleteI have problem getting network on my glo line. Most times, my glo data expires cos I don't get network often to use it. The network comes once in a while. I'm tired of buying data I hardly use cos of bad network. Pls do I need to change from 2g Lite or something.
Pls advise.
Go change your sim to 4GLTE at glo office.
DeleteTry another network nah
DeleteChange from that 2g. Lite and again, does ur phone supports 4g
Delete@Lora
DeleteThank you π
Thank you, Pinky
DeleteChange to another provider,that glow wasted all my money on data that wasn't used
DeleteGood afternoon.
ReplyDeletePlease I just did my passport for the first time. And because of my age dey said they're not making use of affidavit that I should issue birth certificate. the person running it for me later find a way and did the birth certificate but the issue here is that the place of birth does not tally with my real place of birth. I don't know if that will affect me later. But everything is correct.
What I mean is dat I'm claiming my mom gave birth to me in Imo instead of Lagos.
Go to any health centre and ask for the National Population person there. They will reissue another one. It's used to be #500 naira years ago.
DeleteMy hair is residing. I can't open my hair in publlic. I have used different products to no avail. An ex held my hair tight during an arguement and most of my front hair removed because I was carrying braids that day. It's been almost 8 years yet the hair has refused to regrow. I am always on low cut. I was asked to do hair transplant but I don't have the money.
ReplyDeleteAnyone who has a solution for female baldness should help a sister.
Google about minoxidil. Buy it(be very careful where you get it cos it’s mostly fake they sell in Nigeria).
DeleteGet the 5% minoxidil and apply on affected places. Be patient cos you’ll get to see new hair in about 3 months.
Downside, you have to be on minoxidil for life else your hair will stop growing in the affected places.
If you don’t have money you just have to work with castor oil and rosemary oil, maybe add biotin vitamins in the mix. Eat good source of protein and iron.
DeleteMy business No is a Glo line and network is usually not stable on it for internet;it comes on and off..but we have other internet options(WiFi).
ReplyDeleteTo be sure though,upgrade your SIM by going to their office or using their agents around you;let them upgrade you to the Glo 5G SIM,when they are done they would give you a new SIM pack(5G enabled for faster internet) and you can then check if the connection is now stable for you..
Another thing is location,I have friends who can swear Glo is the best network in Nigeria,so first upgrade to the 4G or 5G SIM let's see if it makes any difference for you,and I hope this helps.
@MARTINS
Thanks Martins
DeleteHello everyone.Please which European country can a 41years old relocate to with N7,500,000 for Masters in International Business
ReplyDelete7mil, you say? None.
DeleteMy teenage son's legs sweat and smells when he removes his footwear. My hubby suffers same too so I believe he inherited it from his dad. Please is there a remedy because I don't want anything that will reduce his self esteem.
ReplyDeleteGo to a good Pharmacy and buy foot powder spray.
DeleteEUM Cali
Thanks everyone for the advice on glo network. Truly appreciate.
ReplyDeleteThanks everyone for the advice on glo network. Truly appreciate.
ReplyDelete