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REGRET
I have been full of regrets and cant sleep at night since Monday because i refused a marriage proposal from a man who flew all the way from France just to see me.
We met online and our conversation for that 1year was like we have known each other for years but when he came, he wasn't as handsome as he was on phone and I noticed he was not as tall as seen and has a little hunchback and bow legs. Those were what discouraged me from saying yes to his marriage proposal because I was looking out for my unborn kids.
What brought this regret is seeing his post with his pregnant wife because he got married the same 2024 I rejected him and he has flown the wife abroad to be with him.
What brought this regret is seeing his post with his pregnant wife because he got married the same 2024 I rejected him and he has flown the wife abroad to be with him.
Since we parted, no man has asked me out and I am almost 40 years.
You were looking out for your unborn kids by refusing him marriage? Please you forgot to describe yourself!..Did he lie to you about how he looks by editing himself or you assumed and got disappointed by your assumptions? No be by fine or handsome marriage dey use last oooooooh.
You were looking out for your unborn kids by refusing him marriage? Please you forgot to describe yourself!..Did he lie to you about how he looks by editing himself or you assumed and got disappointed by your assumptions? No be by fine or handsome marriage dey use last oooooooh.
You are almost 40?You should be worried if you wanna have kids.... Why dont you save your eggs in case you no longer have any by the time you marry?
Please block that guy cos you will continue regretting as long as you continue monitoring him......
But let me just tell you that you are not a smart woman at all cos you fall yourself hand....You wan enter abroad and you dey look how person leg bow,how him head coconut and how him back hunch....sebi you for travel first?
Mtwwwwwwwwwww
ReplyDeletePoster you should have asked us before na, if you are almost 40 meaning you were in your late thirties 2yrs ago, at that age you let a seemingly good man slip away just because of looks ha.
ReplyDeleteJust hang in there God will give you your heart desires
Plus men with bow legs are notorious for being good in bed. She didn’t like what she see and now pining because someone else took it. What will she do with herself when the man gets weslth
DeleteYou will not find a new catch if your mind is still there regretting and wishing you were in his wife's position. The best thing you can do for yourself is; delete his number get it off your phone and save it on a place where you won't have to be seeing his Whatsapp status updates. Just make sure you stop seeing his updates. Move on like nothing ever happened between you
ReplyDeleteMscheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwww!!!!
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DeleteContinue Mscheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwww!!!!
DeleteWhy are you regretting your actions, you don't like his physical appearance and there's nothing wrong with that, stop regretting and move on, God will provide your own for you.
ReplyDeletePoster, you made the right choice for you, him and your unborn children so why the regret?? You saw something you cannot live with and said no. It is better than marrying him and fustrating him or regret later. Delete his number and focus on yourself, it's not the end of the world.
ReplyDeleteNaaaa don’t regret
ReplyDeleteYou don’t like him
Find someone else
You better move on. Thank God the man found someone that love him with his look.
ReplyDeleteExactly 💯. She should move on.
DeleteBV Official prestige
No need for regrets. You already made your choice and living with it. Yours will come soon .🤗
ReplyDeleteGod Will Grant You
ReplyDeleteYour Heart Desires 🙏
Hello iya Boys
And na woman marry nkubi o
ReplyDeleteYour regret came from the fact that he was able to get another woman (probably beautiful than you) to marry the same year you rejected him. Stop monitoring him and his family and focus on how you're going to get your spec. Shalom.
ReplyDeleteYou already made your choice just love with it.
ReplyDeleteThe man didn't create himself and he has seen someone who likes him like that.
Just focus on yourself and pray. The right handsome tall chocolate dude will find you. Goodluck.
You never spoil your life—you just make choice based on wetin matter to you that time. Make we talk true, na because of him looks you take reject am, no be say na bad man. Na your right, but every choice get consequence. Now, no be him you dey miss, you dey miss the things wey for become your portion now-marriage, stability, and the life wey him go build with another person.
ReplyDeleteThat man no “win” and you no “lose.” Him just move on find person wey accept am fully. You sef still fit do the same, but no be if you continue to dey sleep insider regret over decision wey you no fit change.
Next time, make you put more weight on character, values, and compatibility pass height or looks.
You are smart. Very smart. May God bless you.
DeleteIf person nor marry for love, at least., make eyes see fine face n body..
ReplyDeleteIf he no dey France, with all the same features, you for dey vex?
ReplyDeletePoster, what is really paining you here?
ReplyDeleteThat he's married or he got another lady pregnant or he took her abroad. Yet Nkubi is happily married. You were honest with what you wanted, thank God for that cos the man dodged marrying someone who doesn't truly love him. I pray you find what you're looking for. At your age, I thought you'll be wiser and look out for character, values and compatibility instead of looks. My sister, you fuck up o. May God show you mercy.
Your remorse has only been triggered because you see someone else has accepted what you refused and she is now pregnant with a life ahead of her and you are still at square one. If his hunch back and bow legs were a turn off then so be it. If he was still single you would not have felt anything. The root of your feelings are in envy and you have to remove it from you. Send him well wishes and a happy and healthy baby for him and his wife. He deserves his happiness, as do you. That man was intentional about finding a wife and building a family and he took matters into his own hands to make it happen. He knows his body, he knew some would reject him, but that did not stop him from seeking for his happiness. You likely were the first choice for marriage and your rejection probably hurt him but he dusted himself off and put his show back on the road.
ReplyDeleteYou have to learn to be at peace with your choices in life and move on, cause what if he becomes wealthy tomorrow or you see his wife living a luxurious life you will go bat shyt crazy. Stand up in your choices and move on. And just like he did, put yourself out there or you may end up with nothing. Move on and be intentional about your life!
The damage has been done. Let's pray someone else comes along
ReplyDeleteGod saved that man..I congratulate him..yes...
ReplyDeleteTo see single guy nearing 40 is hard. You con see this one wey con dey abroad yet you reject am. Kpele o
ReplyDeleteThere is an old black and white movie from the 1950s called Marty, it deals with this subject matter and is a great film. If you ever get the chance watch it. Stars Ernest Borgnine.
ReplyDeleteYou will be fine, carry your cross with your full chest, now you are jealous of his new bride. Learn from your mistakes and move on
ReplyDeleteIf you had married him, you would resent him in your heart and treat him badly.
ReplyDeleteEveryone has got expectations on how they want their partners to be.
You did nothing wrong.
Stop harbouring him in your heart and see your own man come to you.