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SERIOUS ADVICE NEEDED ONLY
I am in an established relationship with a few babes, nothing really serious just that sxx is a big issue for me. The one that i would have want for wife to have sxx with her, just create the appropriate setting and start by touching her and pulling her close! Don’t wait for her to “want” sxx.
If I marry her, the chances are her “wants” may rarely come. If she lets you touch and pull her, you are in. We have had sxx in situations we could not have ever imagined. If I continue to wait for her wants, chances are high that I would remain a married bachelor and I can't continue to initiate sxx always.
She never seems to want sxx as such. But she has sxx with me whenever I want it. And she enjoys it fully! And no she does not ever give any kind of signals.
I have to start it and end it also.
My second girlfriend actually used to demand sxx if we went without it for days. She would actually suggest having sxx. Sometimes I used to do it even though I was not in the mood and even when it's inconvenient or I'm working which I expect her to understand.
My third girlfriend is just like my first. Never once did she ask or even suggest having sxx. She also did not give any so called signals. In fact she would always appear shy and needed to be coaxed into it. But the contradiction is that she was the easiest to get aroused and came really fast and once aroused she wants it badly.
Like I mentioned earlier, sxx is a big deal for me, I don't want to make mistakes and regret to be looking for fill up outside. Is there any kind of advice for me here. Holier than thou peeps should avoid my post please. I'm not in anything too serious with any of them and it's not frequently we do this.
Which kind wahala be this? The one that did not initiate it, you complained,the one that initiated it, you still complained....wetin you want?You sound really selfish and make everything all about you.
My bad advice to you is that you should go and buy those dolls with kpekus if you can afford it and that one no dey talk yes or not..You go gbensh tire...
Please change your attitude towards this thing...The woman who will truly love you for better for worse might be someone that does not like gbenshing..DO NOT USE SXX to find wife oooooh.....
I am in an established relationship with a few babes, nothing really serious just that sxx is a big issue for me. The one that i would have want for wife to have sxx with her, just create the appropriate setting and start by touching her and pulling her close! Don’t wait for her to “want” sxx.
If I marry her, the chances are her “wants” may rarely come. If she lets you touch and pull her, you are in. We have had sxx in situations we could not have ever imagined. If I continue to wait for her wants, chances are high that I would remain a married bachelor and I can't continue to initiate sxx always.
She never seems to want sxx as such. But she has sxx with me whenever I want it. And she enjoys it fully! And no she does not ever give any kind of signals.
I have to start it and end it also.
My second girlfriend actually used to demand sxx if we went without it for days. She would actually suggest having sxx. Sometimes I used to do it even though I was not in the mood and even when it's inconvenient or I'm working which I expect her to understand.
My third girlfriend is just like my first. Never once did she ask or even suggest having sxx. She also did not give any so called signals. In fact she would always appear shy and needed to be coaxed into it. But the contradiction is that she was the easiest to get aroused and came really fast and once aroused she wants it badly.
Like I mentioned earlier, sxx is a big deal for me, I don't want to make mistakes and regret to be looking for fill up outside. Is there any kind of advice for me here. Holier than thou peeps should avoid my post please. I'm not in anything too serious with any of them and it's not frequently we do this.
Which kind wahala be this? The one that did not initiate it, you complained,the one that initiated it, you still complained....wetin you want?You sound really selfish and make everything all about you.
My bad advice to you is that you should go and buy those dolls with kpekus if you can afford it and that one no dey talk yes or not..You go gbensh tire...
Please change your attitude towards this thing...The woman who will truly love you for better for worse might be someone that does not like gbenshing..DO NOT USE SXX to find wife oooooh.....
You are a confused being. You have the one that initiates xes, and the one that doesn't, but you want the one that doesn't initiate it. Don't annoy me this afternoon.
ReplyDeleteHe should kuku marry all his women and rest abeg. What a chronicle
DeleteVery nonsense sombori. Dey nack dey go. Nack never wound sha
DeleteVery selfish young man who thinks women were created only for his untamed passion and fantasies.
DeleteI am a happily married man of 20 years and counting and I can tell you for a fact that it takes more than being a pro at sex to be qualified as a wife material. If sex is your major criteria for marrying a lady, you are in for a shock.
Thank you Stella for your red pen... Spot on.
Na gbenshing be your yardstick for finding wife ? 😁
ReplyDeleteOnly Segz. Is a criteria for you? You haven’t gotten to know them for who they are. You don’t know thier background nothing. Na wah oooo
ReplyDeleteContinue sha. You will find what you are looking for. It’s the women I pity because this shows that you have no plans to even be faithful in marriage because Segz is your god
Only Segz. Is a criteria for you? You haven’t gotten to know them for who they are. You don’t know thier background nothing. Na wah oooo
ReplyDeleteContinue sha. You will find what you are looking for. It’s the women I pity because this shows that you have no plans to even be faithful in marriage because Segz is your god
Wahala
ReplyDeleteKeep searching till you get what you want.And leave the 3 girls.l
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ReplyDeleteWith the way you are going you will surely get it wrong, I for advice you but not with that attitude,😏
In the end you won’t marry any of these women
ReplyDeleteYou will marry a naive very unexposed native girl
You will do all the work
You will then turn around and hunt for these ones
Messy and undecided
Insatiable being! What then do you want? Your tye would still cheat after being married anyways. I just wish does ladies know what they are up against. Poor souls!
ReplyDeleteYou didn't even know what u want,you just complain about everything,what the hell is your problem?
ReplyDeleteGet yourself checked..
Funny
ReplyDeleteMarriage is beyond sex.
Open your eyes young man.
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DeleteThe little I can understand with your chronicle that was so difficult to read is that you have ego. what's the big deal if you are the one always initiating it? If not for this world wen don spoil, where you see our mothers having the balls to initiate sex and not be branded as ashewo. Abeg stay one place jare and stop acting childish and confused
ReplyDeleteI don't blame you. I blame those ladies that are opening legs for you anytime you want sxx.
ReplyDeleteAll your attributes for a wife concerns the do. But you are not even clear about that. You know what you want, go for it nau. Since you are used to tasting multiple kpeks b4 marriage, do you think you will automatically stop that after marriage because you marry a person who wants to be doing the do? Marriage is a challenge with plenty responsibilities. Sometimes those responsibilities could drive the need to do the do out of the window.Lemme stop here.
ReplyDeleteSo, what is the chronicle about? I'm not sure what advice you are seeking.
ReplyDeleteLove will not come through sexk for a woman. A woman's willingness or unwillingness to initiate the act does not say anything, people's lives are complex, cultural and religious conditioning influence their perception of how they should behave, especially in intimate matters.
It appears that at the core of your chronicle is a little boy seeking love and validation. You want to be wanted and craved because it is something that you have never likely felt in your life. You feel that if a woman was really into you she would be all over you and desiring you with a volcanic intensity. You are going about it the wrong way, you fear emotional depth and connection that is why you have three girlfriends. You do not want to invest yourself too deep emotionally because you fear you would not be able to handle the pain, another rejection, another 'I am not good enough'. Your issues would work best in a professional setting. If you object to counselling then seek God while He can still be found, He can heal whatever the pain is and guide you to a wife that will love you and appreciate you, not through the illusion of seck, but through a soul connection that removes all the fear and gives you divine peace.
Confusion akariala. No love,how segz go sweet you when you are not in love? You think you are wise right?
ReplyDeleteYou can NEVER seek the clarity you need in three various relationship because there would always be a room where you would keep comparing and contrasting each others strength and weaknesses;then end up losing everyone and having none to wife..
ReplyDeleteSecondly here is an unsolicited advice;when you have finally settled down as a MAN and family responsibilities faces you squarely every blessed day of your life;you would understand that s*x is good;but there is more you should look out for in a woman you wish to call your wife forever..example:
A) Can you both train a child in good morals?
B) Can you both tolerate each other and grow together?
C) Do you both have a sustainable business or career to raise a family? etc etc
Marrying a wife is not just all about vibes and Insha Allah,hence some people who are not yet married usually think you just wake up every blessed day of your life with your wife and it’s steady gbenshing 24/7 for 365 days with nothing else to worry about..
Bros @Poster,e get the kind challenges wey life go throw you eehhh;even early morning your preek wont just rise for you to pee;not to talk of Gbensh..
So Don’t major the minor! Rather ask important questions,because As s*x is important to you;a good home and a good mother plus the money to train your kids is more important;compared to your pleasure(s*x).
so try GUIDE oooo(make and have money) then help yourself by focusing on just one lady whom your kids can proudly call “Mother” and whose flaw you can cope
With forever because perfection is what you can’t find in anyone;including yourself..
Hope this helps.
@MARTINS
I give you three gboza. You are too much
Deleteanon, seeyour fellow Man o. Borrow sense.
DeleteMore wisdom !!!
Marry the 3 and flow with each according to your sexual mood at any point in time.
ReplyDeleteMarry the one who initiates sex and is willing to give you back to back without any inhibitions. People are wired differently and yes, sex is food to some people in marriage.
ReplyDeletePls don’t marry the one who doesn’t initiate sex because she will see shege in marriage with you. You don’t seem to be someone who will be faithful in marriage anyway and with that kind of wife it will be worse.
It actually amounts to wickedness and selfishness
when you marry someone who doesn’t align with your core values. You will end up emotionally abusing her by sleeping with the kind of woman you would have wanted.
Sex is so important to some men that they would rather do away with a virtuous woman and pick a prostitute. No one deserves to be shamed for their preference.
I’m female btw.
this bring me to ask this poster what do men really want??
ReplyDeleteHolier than thou... See hennn, God is never wrong, bro. Pray for a good woman that will complete you. Sampling before marriage won't solve your issues. How long will you continue?
ReplyDeleteWhat if you find the person that meets all your requirements in terms of the "do" but gives you concerns in other areas?
This is how all manner of dirty diseases are flowing up and down. People smelling strangely, una no dey even fear with the incurable STDs upanddan????
ReplyDeleteYou never Dey serious 🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteYou are using sex to find wife?
Iga-ebe ka ewu when the time comes
Only you girlfriend number 1,2,3. You're doing well.
ReplyDeleteIt is better you give your life totally to God. Repent of your sins, stay focused, pray for your life partner and you'll be so surprised non of those three girls are yours to wifed.
You seem to be a type that wants sex even after your wife has put to bed. You a nonsense sombori . You not taking of family, moral and all that entails in this life. You just all about sex. Na food. Oga chop
ReplyDeleteI'm loving this new 'bad advice' that Aunty Stella is dishing out these days
ReplyDeleteThere are hardly any virgins again. Xes xes xes everywhere. Ha! O ga o.
ReplyDeleteMr man you don't know what you want,infact you are confused.
ReplyDeleteYou never ready!
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