STAND ALONE NARRATIVE'
WICKED WIFE
Dear Stella and BVs i really need advice as my marriage is about to scatter.....
I received an anonymous message in a sealed envelope pinned to my car some months back and the message warned me not to sleep with any of my wifes friends as she is setting a trap for me to fall so that she will have a reason to divorce me and concentrate on the man she is currently in love with..
I was quite shocked cos if anyone had told me that my wife did not love me i will not believe...or that she has another man outside? No, that would be hard to believe....
Most of what was told to me in the mail is currently unfolding and its a confusing phase for me..
The truth is that i have slept with two of her friends without her knowledge but that was before we got married and before we got serious when i was really wild....She does not know and i think one of this her friend is the one behind this anonymous whistleblower....
I don't want to reveal a lot here but i have confirmed that there is another man in my wife's life and he lives in the UK, i don't know how far they have gone or if she has slept with him but does it make sense to dump your husband for a married man?
The Anonymous warns me not to alert her as it will turn bad in their circle.......The anonymous also says if i want to see the ''Angel'' i married i should let the scenario play out and i will be glad i did....
It will shock you to know that i have dodged sleeping with one of her friends already....I played along and lied i was stuck in traffic....
Should i confront her or just keep documenting what she is up to?I am tired and need tips and advice cos i am really so shocked and never heard of anything like this........
We have been married for some years and no ids cos she is not ready.
Thank you.....
Hmmmmmmm i personally hate suspense so i will advice you to ask her what she is up to , I mean ask her outrightly or start telling her about the things she is planning as if its a dream you had...she will be shocked...rephrase everything a long dream you had and watch her...she will share the info with those she is planning with and the other will mail you again.
Make i siddon give you baddooooo advice......Those silly ladies that agreed to this evil plan with her, make you wear jacket for gbola gbensh the massive living daylight out of their kpekus...useless friends...gbensh and bone face, if them like make dem record am.....All of una na alibaba and the 39 thieves.
Go and confess to her on how you slept with her friends before marriage then tell her all that the anonymous has told you so you can probably save your marriage cos nothing dey outside.
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I suspect that the one that wrote the anonymous letter is one of the ones you slept with and who never liked the idea of you and your wife together, and wants to watch your union burn. Guy you are the one that knows where the shoe pinches and what you feel for your wife. Take a decision and stick by it. You will be shocked to discover that the person that sent that info is the main one urging your wife to cheat. As for your wife, I wonder what exactly is pushing her. Having bad friends will definitely mess up your life. This goes for both genders.
DeletePls follow Fan's advice ..100%
DeleteWhat a messy situation. Trust, past secrets and possible manipulation. Who told you your wife doesn't know about your past affairs with her friends? Why is she not using an outsider to set the trap? Why must it be someone in her circle? Dey play. Some people are always ahead of the game no matter how smart you think you are. Just follow Aunty SDK's red pen. Good luck
ReplyDeleteMake I add my own bad advice.
ReplyDeleteFirst, consider what you have to lose if you both disengage.
Do you have kids? Do you both have joint properties and accounts? And do you really love her? If not, abeg fall for the trap, gbensh all her friends. Keeps the records of the notes. If she finally succeeds with her plans, then show her the evidence, and tell her you knew her plans but were playing along, and that you enjoyed fucking her friends. I bet you, it's going to pain her to her bone marrow!
Poster said No kids yet
DeleteWhat if she comes across this chronicle?
ReplyDeleteShe will know you know
Wooooo… I don’t know again.
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ReplyDeleteSDK your red pen advice cracked me up.
your wife and her friends are not good people, her friends have eyes to sleep with you while she is busy sleeping with another woman's husband. You should confront her already, no need to keep pretending while you are having sleepless night.
ReplyDeleteMake sure you have some evidence to back up your self when you have to confront her. Hope you are ready to take whatever that may come out of this whole story.
Messy
ReplyDeleteSave your marriage
ReplyDeleteUse Atlantic tell her to stop her plan
Not every time you leave your woman for another man
You sef no be angel so give her heads up to stay where she is
You too didn't try at all, sleeping with your wife's friends even before marriage was a very terrible thing to do, It either you confront her and sort this issue out, or you both jejely go your separate ways.
ReplyDeleteLoose man.. I want her to dump your silly ass. You both diserve
ReplyDeleteBoth of u are mad oh. See script. Why not confront your wife about the guy and take a decision. You better leave all these gossip and face your family and build a legacy for yourself. Which Kain nonsense gist be this? Abeg face front!!! Make money build wealth and start building a family. You are there listening to old wives fables. What is the informants business with your family?
ReplyDeleteI’m so pissed off. Be a man and lead your family!!!
Build a legacy with a woman her mind is somewhere else. A legacy with a wife like his, with her type of friends will be difficult.
DeleteVery messy situations. I guess she's aware you slept with her friends before getting married to her. Probably she just wanted to take her pound of flesh.
ReplyDeleteWish you luck as you navigate these mess.
Poster May God Almighty Help You In This Situation You Are Right Now 🙏
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
So you slept with her friends before marriage and expect her to be loyal to you in marriage? My two cents is that your wife knows you slept with her friends and has been planning this cold revenge all along.I feel pity for men especially the the Kangs who think they have women all figured out...or who think women are the least intelligent of all God's creature...women can be deadly, highly manipulative and trust me you do not want to have to deal with a narcisstic bi@#tc###@h! Poster let this play out or confront her and end the marriage, your wife has mentally checked out of that marriage.Sorry!
ReplyDeleteGuy, there is nothing messy here. There are only two possibilities:
ReplyDelete1. One of her friends that you slept with in the past is not happy with your family and wants to scatter it or come back/ continue to sleep with you.
2. Most of the people in your wife's cycle are cheaters, and they want her to pay for her crime by 'helping' her to scatter her home. Don't be surprised if they actually arranged the guy abroad for her.
Forget the pretense and the optics, most women cheat. So, discuss with your wife, you don't need to discuss the past if she did not ask, but tell her what you know and let both of you resolve the matter.
So you were sleeping with your wife's friends? God forbid you.
ReplyDeleteI suggest you play along. Don't reveal the information you received, just observe everything carefully so you can find the truth by yourself
Your wife and her friends are not good people. I mean look at the company she keeps. It says a lot about her.
ReplyDeleteGuy, both of you deserve each other! This story dey sweet me!
ReplyDeleteExactly..they deserve each other.
DeleteDon’t play along with games or anonymous scripts, this is your marriage, not a test. Right now, you’re acting based on secrecy, assumptions, and guilt from your own past, which is only making things more complicated. Instead of waiting for things to “play out,” have a calm, direct, and honest conversation with your wife. Focus on what you know and how you feel, not accusations from an unknown source. If a conversation doesn’t bring clarity or it turns defensive, consider involving a neutral third party like a counselor, or her parents. But don’t let anonymous messages control your decisions.
ReplyDeleteMan, don’t disclose anything yet, play along let everything unveil before thee. Your wife friends are not good people, this also tells the kind of person your wife is. You need to let things unfold so You will know more about the woman you call a wife. Don’t follow any advice of build your home, you have to know what you are building and who you are really building it with.
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