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MOTHER IN LAW BROUHAHA
I have a big problem with my mother-in-law with and its with what she has been doing whenever she pays visits to our house ....
Before I decided to tell her politely the first time, I called my husband and I told him I don't like the way his mom will be wearing under wears up and down in the house anytime she's around and he told me to tell her I don't like it I said thank you for giving me go ahead as in ehnn the thing always pissed me off whenever she is around.
Well before he asked me to tell her by myself there was a day me and my husband were inside the sitting room early in the morning he just finished praying around 6am so we decided to sit at the sitting room and be watching TV and all of a sudden my MIL just come inside the sitting room with transparent underwear that she wanted to charge her phone but there's socket in the room she is sleeping ....
As she just bend down to charge like this I said mommy what's is this I have male children I don't like it.
She now replied me that one of her friends use to tell her that it is good to show your children that you don't have any secrets and you have a neat skin. I said ma not i
n this place ma'am ...
My husband did not say anything and she's not stopping anytime soon.
Mother in law with Kpekus all over the place? That woman's intention is to scatter your marriage oooooooh...Please do not tell her anything, let her son have a talk with..put heat on him behind the scene to address the issue with his mum...if he does not see anything wrong with what she wears then he probably grew up with her moving around like that..
Make i give you bad advice? Ask your husband whether he dey gbensh him mama corner corner or whether he don gbensh am before.....
Wetin be this one again..
ReplyDeleteWonders shall never end..
If you do not have evidence of any incestuous relationship between your husband and his Mom, please do not follow Stella's bad advice. I agree with her on the point that your husband should be the one to address his mother's indecent dressing, but don't go around accusing him and his Mom of incest. That's a rather grave allegation
ReplyDeleteVery grave allegations that can scatter the union.
DeleteThis is disrespectful and dirty behaviour. Why won't grandma respect her old age?
ReplyDeleteAbi ,how old is she ?
If she has a daughter, just chat with her and ask her how her mum dress when she visits..
Let your husband put an end to it.
Women and their hot blood, DO NOT ADDRESS HER!! It is ur hubby’s responsibility to handle his mother, dnt start what you cannot finish pls. Put pressure on him to talk to her
ReplyDeleteAre you not curious to know if that is how she was when your husband was growing up? Even he seems unbothered by it, why must you speak with her about it? Did you do your findings before you got married, cause seems as though you married into nudist or semi-nudist family..lol
ReplyDeleteLols @nudist and semi nudist family,see there are people like that,maybe that's her pattern before now,there are people that don't even like to wear anything once they enter inside house ,but is your husband that will do the talking please
DeletePlease let your husband do the talking and don't ask Stella's question
ReplyDeleteSome Mothers and their thought process Sha 😡
ReplyDeleteOdikwa risky mehnnnn!
Na wa o .Let her son talk her.
ReplyDeleteNawao
ReplyDeleteChai! Tings dey happen sha...........
ReplyDeletePoster, each time she wears any transparent clothes around, run inside the room and get a wrapper to cover her up, respectfully tell her it's not proper. I'm sure she will know that you don't mean any harm, hopefully she will change.
ReplyDeleteI actually know a man that did this till he died. Whether children, grand children, he didn't care. He walk naked (but was in his house). He said the nakedness they will still see when he dies. It was really disgusting to hear.
ReplyDeleteFor the sake of your kids, your husband should do the talking. This is all shades of wrong. Does she do same in her daughters house?
Same thing I am seeing when I visit my friend o. I have not been able to call her to order and don't know how to go about it. she goes completely naked in the house. Her male cousin who is 28 years lives with her and her 2 daughters of 15 and 13 years. She is on the big side and they are see the nakedness. she will walk from her room to the sitting room completely naked where everyone including the boy is seated. she will call the boy to send him on an errand in that state where the boy have no other choice but to have eye contact with her in that state. Each I visit, I am always cold. Mind you, there is nothing going on btw her and the cousin because according to her, she raised him
ReplyDeleteWhat is she going to do when menopause hits and she gets really hot.
DeleteThis one is not good o, haa 😮
DeleteStella with bad advice these days 🤣
ReplyDeleteyour husband should do the talking, is possible his mother have been opening her body while he was growing up for him not to see any big deal about that. If you continue to talk to her, soon she will tag it disrespect or you are sending her away from her son's house.
ReplyDeleteLeave her alone
ReplyDeleteSome Naija women are body free like that
You never see where grandma go just remove blouse say she need fresh air
Nothing wrong with being body free, but why not just keep her body freedom to her own abode. Do you want someone picking their nose or passing gas at the dinner table. There is a time and place for everything. I think once you are out of your own home you have to adjust yourself no matter if it's your children's place or someone else.
DeleteMana say e no good to have any secrets, which secrets? 🤣🤣
ReplyDeletePls let you hubby do the underwear discussion, it's necessary since you have male kids.
Dear poster, there are some women like that o. My blood sister always around naked and even changes clothes in front of her 10 year old son, she has been doing this for a long time. I don talk taya my mouth sef dey pain me. Na to sidon dey look o. There's a probability she has been doing it since he was a kid.
ReplyDeleteDoes your mother-in-law need to be told before she knows she would cover up? That's crazy
ReplyDeleteI grew up in a body free household there's nothing wrong in it .Just that you don't like it. Don't take that werey Stella's advice pls
ReplyDeleteThat you’re used to it doesn’t mean it’s right. Kilode?
Delete@Poster, you are not wrong to feel uncomfortable about this situation at all, especially with children in the house, but the way you handle it will make a big difference in whether it gets resolved peacefully or turns into a bigger issue. The main thing to understand is that this is not just about what your mother-in-law is doing, it is also about your husband taking responsibility, because that is his mother and he should not leave you to handle something this sensitive alone. You already spoke to him once, but you need to go back to him and let him understand clearly that this is affecting your comfort in your own home and it is not appropriate in front of the children, and you need him to respectfully speak to his mother about it.
ReplyDeleteRelax madam. Nothing wrong with this. Install AC if you want her to cover up
ReplyDeleteThis is all shades of wrong considering that, it is not her house.
ReplyDeleteIndeed, one may ask, is she the step mother or did the husband ever have sex with her?
You should not tell her, rather push for your husband to talk to her about it