He said she told him point blank that he could not gbensh and marriage with him was making her lose herself.....
Ekpo sat down on The Honest Bunch Podcast and spoke openly about the end of his 11 year marriage to Mayowa Lambe. He shared how he found out she had secretly been using contraceptives the whole time, even though he was trying hard to have a child. At 48 years old and with no kids, Roby said he was getting ready for a sperm test when he learned the truth. He also talked about a trip Mayowa took to Miami. He thought it was for fertility treatment, but later heard it was for a BBL.
The biggest shock came when he saw her wedding photos online. She had married someone else without telling him.
Roby said the discovery hit him hard.
In the interview, he showed some old WhatsApp chats from Mayowa.
In the messages, she complained about their marriage, saying it was making her depressed, that the sxx was not good, and that she saw him as a mistake.
Roby read the chats out loud while sitting in front of the podcast microphone looking emotional.
I dont understand why he is shocked that she remarried without telling him, did they not get a divorce?
She is very wicked and evil.
ReplyDeleteNothing stopped her from walking out of the marriage earlier instead of stringing him along and wasting his productive years.
There are two sides to every story and I won't believe anything this man says until I hear the other side of the story.
DeleteIf the woman talks now, it would be different. It is clear that at a point they both knew the marriage was over before she remarried. Almost all women know when they cannot return to a man no matter how he really loves them or profess to love them. She was gone when she travelled out of Nigeria. He knew that from the day he knew of her travel.
DeleteQuestions for the women Bvs who wondered how a woman can be thrice married yet they are still looking to be married
Do you have the mindset of this woman if all the man said is true or if only one half of it is true?
Again, would you marry this man?
And would you let or support your son or brother (to) marry a woman yet to be divorced from an existing marriage?
See are some wishes and wondering cases are?
Sometimes what we have may be better than what we wish for or wonder about.
Selah
Earing and dread ,/ tattoo no mean say you get street OT... bobo just move on..
ReplyDeleteYou fkk up!! Wrong moves.
But
What goes around come around like wulahu...
Dear men!!!
Abeg get sense.....
Pray God replenish you.
May God comfort him...
ReplyDeleteHe should be grateful that it's not paternity scam...
It's well with you handsome 🙏🏿🤗
ReplyDeleteI pity the woman wey go come marry the emotional baggage he is carrying.
ReplyDeleteEspecially if she is like his ex-wife or worse. Good or better women have a way of making a fair man the best of the pack.
DeleteHmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteIt is well
So sad 😢
ReplyDeleteUsing contraceptives without his knowledge all those years… wow! She really disliked him!
ReplyDeleteAbout her getting remarried… weren’t they properly divorced?
I watched the full interview to the end. They got married traditionally. The bride price hasn't been returned till date. This made it easy for her to travel abroad and get married for papers. He should cut his loss and move on. She was the one that toasted him , he fell in love and married her.Men are naturally hunters( she hunted her catch in this case) He didn't see the writing on the wall. She most probably never really loved him. A very sad story.
DeleteI watched the full interview to the end. They got married traditionally. The bride price hasn't been returned till date. This made it easy for her to travel abroad and get married for papers. He should cut his loss and move on. She was the one that toasted him , he fell in love and married her.Men are naturally hunters( she hunted her catch in this case) He didn't see the writing on the wall. She most probably never really loved him. A very sad story.
DeleteThough it's painful but the handwriting was boldly written on the wall. The woman told you she no longer felt anything for you and you still didn't get it. Pele o
ReplyDeleteSo Sadddddd Chaiiiiiiii
ReplyDeleteWishing Him Divine Healing
Hello iya Boys
Let's hear from her.
ReplyDeleteExactly. No be who cry first be victim.
DeleteI really felt for him watching that clip. But I laugh at that part where he said "I be Calabar boy ooh"
ReplyDeleteBut that woman is extremely wicked, saying your husband touch irritate you while still collecting money from him.
Good solid eight years they were looking for kids not knowing the woman was busy taking contraceptives.
May God save us from evil spouses.
I saw the video this morning and I felt sorry for him, girls like mayowa are polygamous, they can't stay with one man for long, she will dump this recent husband soon and move on to the next
ReplyDeleteWas he also faithful all through? When the lady confronted him about his philandering with small small girls on IG,he stylishly brushed the question aside. He's crying because none of his flings resulted into pregnancy, maybe he can't even father a child .
ReplyDeleteThe lady also mentioned she gave him money to start business,alaye chop am, he was now looking for retirement plan, I'm happy the lady is smart
If what you say is true then he deserves all he got and more. I like her style, no long talking, everyday arguments, begging him to change, or crying her eyeballs out and doing war room, just move on.
DeletePpl do not know that once they commit adultery that they have spiritually divorced themselves from the marriage. Adultery is not a game or fun, it is a divorce in the spirit and a valid reason for a divorce in the physical.
But she didn’t tell him
ReplyDeleteShe told her friend
Stella ,why holding my comment or are you trying to protect the guy from being scrutinized
ReplyDeleteIt is very hard for a Nigerian man who is fertile, a celeb with small change in his pocket not to have any child, either in marriage or outside marriage at 48yrs of age.
ReplyDeleteI'm thinking that he truly has a problem because if not, after finding out that his wife was using contraceptives, he would have impregnated someone outside.
After the separation too, he didn't impregnate anyone till now. How?
Let me hear from the wife first.
Sorry ooo
ReplyDeleteSo unfortunate...
Sorry ooo
ReplyDeleteSo unfortunate...
A lot was said!
ReplyDeleteI don't know her side of the story but all he said she did to him were just not fair. Why not end things properly and let everyone move on in good time? Not fair abeg
Just move on
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