He revealed that he dated three other girls after his failed marriage to Anita but none met his expectations but that changed when he met Ivy.
In his words;
"Marriage is sweet, there's a time it would not work
Separation is not a bad thing
Am somebody that has never been in love
I actually tried three other girls, everybody failed the exam
When I met Ivy, I was looking for someone who would understand, apart from my pain
You know when you need a pillow to put your head, someone that would tell you it's okay".
- In a recent interview with Clout Africa
Does that mean he never loved his ex wife?
ReplyDeleteI wonder
DeleteThat was after his marriage ended.
DeleteI think you can love someone without being in love with them. It doesn’t seem like he is even in love today just that his current wife has a nature that can provide the emotional support he needs.
DeleteYea, they always claim "i have never been in love", when it ends.
ReplyDeleteSo he never loved his ex wife and current wife?
ReplyDeleteIt's well
ReplyDeleteCongratulations
ReplyDeleteWere you not in love with your first wife?
ReplyDeleteImagine coming out to admit he never loved his first wife! Someone that birthed 3 kids for him just because he wants to praise his second wife!
ReplyDeleteThese men sef!
Read and understand before you comment.
DeleteHe said after his marriage ended.
Don't confuse us with your past?
ReplyDeleteKeep it moving .
Hmmmm
ReplyDeleteMost men don’t love anyone but themselves, the reason why a lot of marriages fail. I wonder why people are bashing him for saying he’s never been in love. The attributes of love is clearly stated in the Bible(for us Christians). How many people can confidently say they meet up?
ReplyDeleteWhat I think is most important in marriage is kindness, mutual respect and empathy.
I will pick these over love anyday, anytime.
You don’t need to love someone to marry them…know this and know peace.
I’ve come to the realisation of the fact that when the Bible was being written, God didn’t have Nigerians in mind.
Lol @ your last statement.
DeleteMen will ALWAYS stain one's white. What's the meaning of his statement? In a bid to praise Ivy he ended up sounding daft..
ReplyDeleteTo me, he didn’t really praise her and he stated that he has never been in love, which to me means she is included too. All he said about her is that she is understanding and has shoulders he can lean on. The marriage to her was 100% practical and without sentiments.
DeleteThey can say anything to please the one in the house now.
ReplyDeleteHmmm, hello Mr please keep moving ok
ReplyDeleteChai
DeleteYou must always comment rubbish
DeleteAlways love to read my rubbish,and i promise must not stop writing it for you ok
DeleteEwu😅
He said he has never been in love!
ReplyDeleteThere is a huge difference between being in love and loving someone! He could have loved his ex-wife, but he was not in love with her!
Honestly speaking, I am not even surprised! A lot of people marry because the other person ticks boxes...and not because they could not imagine life without them! That is why you will hear/read of a man proposing marriage after a few weeks or months! The woman just fulfills most of his requirements.
Look at all the times we have seen women write chronicles about not having romantic feelings for a particular man, yet there is pressure to marry him because [insert reason]. You see BVs even telling her to go ahead, and that "love will come later"/ "love will grow".
A lot of marriages are contracted off a list, rather than feelings!
Especially African marriages they are mostly based on practicality and ability to provide something, there is nothing emotional about them. That’s why we get so many chronicles where the spouses sound like complete strangers who married on the first day they met, and bv’s keep asking what was discussed during courtship.
DeleteTrue
DeleteYou wanted your marriage to be centered around you alone. You have to make compromises to make your marriage work.
ReplyDeleteWhy are people bashing him for saying the truth, nobody needs a soothsayer to know that, because if he was in love with his wife, he wouldn't dare to cheat on her.
ReplyDeleteMost of Nigerian men aren't in love with their wives, if they do, they won't be cheating on their wives and hurting them, domestic violence, divorce, constant criticism and insults to women both online and offline will not exist, if you're in love with someone, you will never do anything to hurt him or her and then call it mistake or weakness.
Spot On 📌
DeleteCheating allegedly not that you are sure. We make up stories when men abandon their marriages why.
DeleteHe sounds so Narcissistic. Woman user
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