I salute............Terrific Thursday!!!
THURSDAY MEMO
Nothing broken, nothing missing so na yourself you dey do....Only trolls and online haters will understand what this means..
How una dey?I am doing great oooooooooh.
Enjoy your day abeg, I wan enter Sun now now....
I never see that my fake cousin comment since, abi e don repent?lol
Hugs to everyone....
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SDK VERSUS BV DANTE WILL NOT HAPPEN
I see the mocking comments towards me in Wednesday Spontaneous post comment section and I am confused.....Did i announce that Dante and i fell out?I didnt like his comment and i reacted to it...I no get time to carry anybody for mind..I dont know anyone here personally and it ends here....
I noted that Dante has been agressive towards me since his book launch and i wonder why Is it cos i brought down the post announcing the book? You requested for it to be brought down and i did just that, so where is all the negative energy coming from?And the anons celebrating saying i enabled him...Enalbed what ?He is free to air his comments as long as it does not cross the line...
Those of you celebrating what i dont know can continue doing so..............I love drama!!!
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EVERY PARENT NEEDS TO READ THIS
I said to my Daughter.... "If you reach 18 and you are not solving problems, then you are becoming a FOOL."
I might have sounded harsh abi? Maybe.
But was it necessary? ABSOLUTELY.
Currently, most Wealthy parents are busy destroying their children by loving them too much.
You know there's a special kind of poverty that only affects rich people's children. We are not talking about financial poverty but COMPETENCE POVERTY.
I see it everywhere:
You see a 20-year-olds who can't negotiate a price at the market.
25-year-olds who panic when their phone screen cracks because "Dad always handles these things."
30-year-olds who have never had to solve anything or do simple house chores because Mummy and Daddy are still solving their problems.
And we call this "love."
We call this "taking care of our children."
IT'S NOT LOVE. IT'S SABOTAGE.
In case you dont know.... business is NOTHING but problem-solving.
Marriage is problem-solving.
Leadership is problem-solving.
LIFE is problem-solving.
And if you raise a child who's never solved a problem by age 20..... you have raised an adult baby who will collapse at the first real challenge.
I know some wealthy parents don't want to hear this, but when you solve every problem for your child, you are not protecting them, you are crippling them.
I keep telling my daughter that.....
At 18, you should be solving problems I don't even know exist.
Problems your friends have.
Problems in your school.
Problems in our neighborhood.
Problems you see on social media.
Small problems. Big problems. ANY problems.
Because every problem you solve develops a muscle in your brain.
That kind of muscle is called COMPETENCE.
And by the time you are 25, that muscle should be so strong that NO PROBLEM scares you.
But if I solve all your problems until you are 20... By the time you are 25, you will be weak and scared of challenges and would be dependent on others.
You will be unable to survive without someone holding your hand, and I would have failed you as a father.
This is because you can't inherit problem-solving skills. You can only develop them.
And if you spent 20 years avoiding problems while Daddy solved them... then you are finished when Daddy is gone.
It's my prayer that we raise a generation of PROBLEM-SOLVERS, not PROBLEM-AVOIDERS
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I might have sounded harsh abi? Maybe.
But was it necessary? ABSOLUTELY.
Currently, most Wealthy parents are busy destroying their children by loving them too much.
You know there's a special kind of poverty that only affects rich people's children. We are not talking about financial poverty but COMPETENCE POVERTY.
I see it everywhere:
You see a 20-year-olds who can't negotiate a price at the market.
25-year-olds who panic when their phone screen cracks because "Dad always handles these things."
30-year-olds who have never had to solve anything or do simple house chores because Mummy and Daddy are still solving their problems.
And we call this "love."
We call this "taking care of our children."
IT'S NOT LOVE. IT'S SABOTAGE.
In case you dont know.... business is NOTHING but problem-solving.
Marriage is problem-solving.
Leadership is problem-solving.
LIFE is problem-solving.
And if you raise a child who's never solved a problem by age 20..... you have raised an adult baby who will collapse at the first real challenge.
I know some wealthy parents don't want to hear this, but when you solve every problem for your child, you are not protecting them, you are crippling them.
I keep telling my daughter that.....
At 18, you should be solving problems I don't even know exist.
Problems your friends have.
Problems in your school.
Problems in our neighborhood.
Problems you see on social media.
Small problems. Big problems. ANY problems.
Because every problem you solve develops a muscle in your brain.
That kind of muscle is called COMPETENCE.
And by the time you are 25, that muscle should be so strong that NO PROBLEM scares you.
But if I solve all your problems until you are 20... By the time you are 25, you will be weak and scared of challenges and would be dependent on others.
You will be unable to survive without someone holding your hand, and I would have failed you as a father.
This is because you can't inherit problem-solving skills. You can only develop them.
And if you spent 20 years avoiding problems while Daddy solved them... then you are finished when Daddy is gone.
It's my prayer that we raise a generation of PROBLEM-SOLVERS, not PROBLEM-AVOIDERS
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IF YOU ARE MOVING FROM NAIJA TO THE US; PLEASE READ THIS
If you’re moving from Nigeria to the USA and you’re confused about which city matches your personality, here’s the easiest comparison you’ll read today
New York City = Lagos
Fast life. Pressure. Endless movement. Multicultural madness. Everybody is chasing something bigger
Washington DC = Abuja
Clean, organised, political energy, planned roads, and everybody looking important
Atlanta = Owerri
Young people everywhere. Party life. Hustle. Business. Vibes. A city that moves confidently on its own
Houston = Warri
Raw hustle energy Oil money vibes, hard workers everywhere, and everybody trying to secure the bag.
Chicago = Ibadan
Strong identity. Deep culture. Big influence without making too much noise.
Los Angeles = Port Harcourt
Soft life mixed with expensive living Entertainment, luxury, traffic, and everybody trying to “make it”.
Dallas = Benin City
Strong Naija community. Family-oriented. Cultures mix easily. Settling feels softer.
Minneapolis = Kaduna
Quietly important. Practical people. Calm lifestyle. Mostly work and real life.
Seattle = Enugu
Creative crowd. Calm energy. Tech people everywhere. Expensive but peaceful
Philadelphia = Ilorin
Underrated. Affordable compared to bigger cities. Strong community feel.
Miami = Aba
Trade, enjoyment, nightlife, money movement, and hustlers everywhere
Denver = Jos
Peaceful. Calm weather vibes. Quietly solid and underrated.
Detroit = Onitsha
Busy movement. Hustle spirit. People grinding hard every day
Beverly Hills = Nnewi
Money. Luxury. Rich people avoiding stress
Boston = Nsukka
Book people everywhere Academic pressure and intellectual vibes.
San Francisco = Ile-Ife
Prestige. Tech brains. Old influence. Intellectual bragging rights
Las Vegas = Festac
Everybody came to enjoy life No explanation needed.
Baltimore = Mushin
If you know, you know.
Charlotte = Akure
Balanced lifestyle. Quietly underrated. Young professionals love it.
New Orleans = Calabar
Culture, festivals, food, music, enjoyment
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WEIRD FACTS
-----The rush of euphoria after a long run comes from the same chemical compounds found in cannabis
----- One year on Uranus is roughly 84 years on Earth
----- If you drank 42 cups of coffee in one sitting, the caffeine overdose would kill you.
----- Coca Cola kills insects.
---- Don’t broadcast every high and low of your life. Just live. Don’t try to convince the world you have a life.
-----The rush of euphoria after a long run comes from the same chemical compounds found in cannabis
----- One year on Uranus is roughly 84 years on Earth
----- If you drank 42 cups of coffee in one sitting, the caffeine overdose would kill you.
----- Coca Cola kills insects.
---- Don’t broadcast every high and low of your life. Just live. Don’t try to convince the world you have a life.
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Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteHola Esty 💞
DeleteUSA & Nigerian comparison so on point
Me ==== Lagos —- New York babey 💛💛💛
Congratulations to Crystal Palace for winning the Conference League last night.
ReplyDeleteAs the world is preparing for the biggest club competition finals on Saturday.
I say make I use this opportunity Remember Stella her promise to me, when Dortmund qualify to play the Champions League final against Madrid in 2024.
Stella, you promised me a complete Set of Dortmund jersey, with Face cap and mofula, say anytime you they come Nigeria you go get them for me, I say make I remind you, incase you don forget.🙏.
You still fit convert shaaa.
LOL 😂😆
Greetings Nwokem 💙
DeleteStella go don forget about this promise , BVB jersey is so lovely ⚫️🟡
Im waiting patiently for Saturday for EPL to complete the clean sweep in Europe when Arsenal win the CL
Europa — Aston Villa
Conference —- Crystal Palace
CL —- Arsenal
In this particular order
Oliver Glasner is a great coach, he won them two trophies in two years…sad he’s leaving at the end of the season
Welcome IHN. Being a while.
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DeleteHola babe ❣️ welcome back
Delete@Sandy baby hope you’re good? It’s been a min
@Jojo Lee our new movie buff , hope you’re good? It’s been a min…I miss your movies recommendations
@Miss Betty @Modupe @Foodie @Lily Angel hope y’all doing okay 👍
Yesterday's Eid was so Rammicious....as I dey eat fried meat.... them dey serve me pepper soup cow meat...... same time suya for my front..............
ReplyDeleteone of my church member " passerby " saw me where I dey, dey eat... she said isn't that brother Jeremiah? she just dey shout my name brother Jeremiah.... !!!! Brother Jeremiah!!!!!! Mo ya look away...... I dnt talk while eating.......... as I say make I look left small I saw our Assistant pastor..... sitting beside me& he greeted Me “As-salāmu ʿalaykum Jamilu : i replied ,he was even answering the name ismilah.....with a straight face..... he said dnt worry all of us na one God we get,!!!!
Ephesians 4:6
May God accept all our sacrifices...
Greetings
Lol 😂😂😂
DeleteAmen
That your Pastor sef na guy man 🤣🤣 Eku igbadun Alhaji Jamilu 🤭
DeleteYou ehn🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteMy area too was rammilicious and cowmilicious yesterday
Dry🙄
DeleteYou don't have to change your name or religion before they serve you Sallah food. Dem no send your religion
😂 😂 😂 Jerry
DeleteOo serious!
DeleteLoolz 🤣
DeleteI have one sweet amebo that just 'appened ryt nau.
ReplyDeleteTo type long story na the problem. Even thinking of typing sef, my hand go dey pain me.
Una wey sabi type, I raise my portable backside for you.
😭😭😭😭
Soooo, una don see meat? Me I never smell am. As just to SMELL I never see. I will go out later and buy suaya for myself, let me console myself. If I was in Abuja now, na so meat go dey rush me for office and fresh dates.😭😭😭😭😭 kai!!!!
You'd have used the small energy you used in typing this to type the gist 😭😭😭😭😭😭
DeleteThis anon na wa for you o 😂 see as you just dey hoard gist.
DeleteChoc wan hear gist? 🤣
DeleteI never smell am o but somebody promised to bring for me on Saturday.
Abeg make una no vex, na first meal of the day I just dey chop, I haven't had a minute to breathe.😭. I go gather energy spill the gist tommorow. No vex.😂
DeleteSign out post on point 📌
ReplyDeleteGreetings to the esteemed readers of SDK blog 🫶
Hi Best Baby
DeleteGreetings dear
DeleteHello Baci dear
DeleteBaby Girl 😘
DeleteHello beautiful people 😍
ReplyDeleteHope your day is going well 😊
Sleepy 😴 stressed...
Who wants Sallah meat??
Send a DM if you are in Ibadan South region
Have a wonderful day
Bless your kind heart Poshscents. It's been months that I ate meat last, I would have contacted you cos I'm in Ibadan but I am so broke that I don't have one kobo for transport to get the meat myself or through waybill 😭
DeletePoverty you do this one.
Chai 😪 anon 🤗
DeleteGod bless your kind heart Poshscent ❤️
Ikorodu bus dey iwo road 😁
DeleteGood afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteI'm making my hair now. My classmates and I will be hanging out/clubbing tomorrow 💃💃💃💃.
I've eaten enough sallah ram for this year😂😂😂
Chai, overenjoyment 😆
DeleteI can feel your energy level . Make sure you've a good time.
DeleteNa lie,you no see any meat collect
DeleteI had too much to eat and take home yesterday, beef tho and not ram meat
DeleteI love this weather. It's just so cool. ☺️
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my good people of SDK blog.
ReplyDeleteToday's sun can roast o
ReplyDeleteI agree/love that comparison of usa to Nigeria, again ayra star has said something similar to it too..
The must read post for parents is absolutely true .... this almost happened to me but I didn't let it especially being the last and a whole lot , I dont mean that i was over pampered but my folks always saw the need to fix things so I'm not stressed but i knew i didn't want that kinda life for myself.
ReplyDeleteLmao 😂 this relocation post really made me laugh it's kinda apt.
Hello Vincent how are you holding up?
Hello everyone, it's a lovely day nice weather 😊 ☺️ enjoying my day , I hope you are too.
Hello Sweetest Jewel 🥰
DeleteYou are coming out from your shell now by posting lengthy comment unlike before.
DeleteSo you can talk?
Good pm to the one and only Jewel in the Savannah. As pertaining the holding up part, I am fine but on a low key for now. Thanks a bunch!!
DeleteIt's when you go to Facebook comment section that you will realize that many are dumb.
ReplyDeleteManyyyyyyyy!!! Sometimes I'll feel like saying something but I no wan make dem come meet me for night.
DeleteMostly the AI post 😭.
DeleteBut why is IQ so low in Facebook. Then fit sell dustbin give them. Dem go buy.
DeleteNa for night my Sallah meat arrive 😄
ReplyDeleteAfter the wait, it was worth it...very plenty. Let me save some for weekend stew 🍲🍖 Thanks to my dear friend.
I am sending you some rain & coolness Stella 🌨️💕
The weather is weathering fine..
How una dey my beautiful people 😍
Mine Arrive Late Nite ooo
DeleteI done Make Stew And , Rice Already
Join Me Everyborrri 😁
How Are You Doing Dearie 🥰
Awwww, Chika dear....I dey come for road 🚗🤗
DeleteWhat's really going on.
ReplyDeleteEverybody is going to China.
All these content creators make dey no carry their craze go their and spoil business for the real business men.
Everything to them na cruise.
Leave business for those wey Sabi
I'm still wondering what is happening in China.
DeleteAh tor... Even the one that is selling premium wigs no let us rest for WhatsApp status with her journey to China. Na there dey reign now o
DeleteMy tot exactly.
DeleteThey should not put sand sand for the real biz people biz.
Wanted to ask the same question last week.
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteWelcome ihn news
ReplyDeleteHope everyone is fine?
Tomorrow is my birthday
I will be going out with boo and few of My friends..
In addy to me
God am so grateful
You disappointed all my enemies
You fought all my unseen battles for me
What more can I say?
Thank you Jesus 🙏
Mumu with a broke boo
DeleteTomorrow you will still come and lament here.
Be doing yourself
Anon
DeleteU re booless that's y it is paining u
Cry blaaaaaad
I am cool with him
He treat like a queen
Lonely want twist your neck 😊
Happy birthday in advance
DeleteEnjoy your self
So by now you must have heard that many of your pastors are relocating abroad.
ReplyDeleteThe one that shook me to my core was the one that had a radio program in the 90s/2000s on leadership/business etc. If anyone had ever told me he would rekicate, I would have said NEVER.
What I find absolutely fascinating is that God always tells them to go abroad.
Not to the NORTH, not to middle belt.
Not to any countries where the Word would surely be grateful to hear the glad tidings ...
Noo, God will always tell them to go to US, Canada, Kenya etc. Dem no dey ever hear Pakistan, Somalia, Yemen, South Sudan?
Eyaaah.
What a kind and generous God. God wey sabi betta ting.👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Soooo, who is God telling abroad to come here??
Abi, abroad pastors and pastresses no dey hear God to relocate to Nigeria to spread the word?
Buahahahahahaha.
You can go to Maiduguri. Or are you not a child of God? What would you gain going to places as such in this modernized era when you know how violent the people can be when they meet someone trying to win them over in a place where they have already captured? Let me tell you. God will not send anybody there but there are other avenues through which Christians can meet them and talk to them. Any christian you see there didn't go there mainly to win them over,. They relocated to those places for greener pastures and from there found fellow believers to fellowship with. If by chance a close neighbor or associate decides to follow them to the church one day then glory be to God.
DeleteWhich coca cola kills insects??? The one for Nigeria wey dey attract rat sef??? Mtshewwww
ReplyDeleteIt's been a cool, calm day. Hello everyone.
ReplyDeleteThat comparison of USA to Nigeria, I don't agree to that of Port Harcourt and Los Angeles. Maybe because I have been to both places. Everybody is not hustling to make it in Port Harcourt, most people just settled there to enjoy their money, whether gotten legally or illegally
ReplyDeleteOne of the biggest mistakes young people make is thinking that if they haven't achieved anything by the age of 25 or 30, they've failed. They see their friends getting married or building houses, and they start to feel fear and anxiety, which sometimes even leads to envy. You know, success has no calendar. Some people achieve success early in life, others only at the end. The main thing is to never stop working hard and believing. Don't measure your progress by your age, measure it by how much you increase your knowledge and improve your habits every day.
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Thank you put copied cos I know you dont write this well
DeleteThere is a © that says copied @Anon1632. Haba mana!
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I Greetlicious Everybody ooooo ❤️
The Write Up About Americana 😁
Hello iya Boys
Babygirl 😍 Eku holiday 🥳
DeleteSweetie 🥰
DeleteI think you are seeing how all these your hungry content creators are travelling to China?
ReplyDeleteMost of them have no money. It is the money you are giving them for preorder that they are using back and forth.
The preorder is even more expensive than the China goods selling on ground in Nigeria.
Anyway that is not my issue, before you know it, China will soon restrict access.
I'm fact I'm hoping for it.
No how Nigeriana will not go and make a nuisance of themselves where ever they go.
China that omo ibos have been travelling since 1905, e reach content creator hand dem wan scatter the way. Mtshewwww.
E bi like say to create content doesn't pay anymore for them dey rush dey go China.
DeleteEverybody is now doing preorder, going far to expose the business secrets.
Make dem no shaa no spoil things for those that are yet to travel for genuine business,cos I know Nigerians too do.
Some of them travel there with no cash. They are using money people sent to do business. They will buy ,add their own and use your money pay.
DeleteGood afternoon BVs
ReplyDeleteI am still enjoying my Sallah meat
I hot a big bowl of rice, raw meat and fried meat.
Plenty enjoyment for you
DeleteBe You, Do You..Be Thankful and remember God knows who YOU are...
ReplyDeleteNawao with fibroid and weighloss o. I was advised to reduce weight because of fibroid,now I'm constantly hungry, I walk 10000 or 12k steps daily. I'm just tired of don't eat this don't eat that,no rice ,no bread, rice is my favourite meal,I can delete bread but rice😥.
ReplyDeletePlease say a prayer for me
It is well with you dear anon 🤗
DeleteYou will surely be healed in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. AMEN.
DeleteI pray for permanent healing for you 👏 Pls for now, faithfully adhere to your Doctor's instructions 🙏
DeleteYou can eat rice but little with vegetables
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Hello 👋 everyone 🥰
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I don't eat ram, so I locked my door very well cos 3 of my neighbors are Muslims and they all killed ram. I heard knocks but didn't open the door. I haven't gone out today too. Make the meat finish, there's no point collecting something I'd end up putting in the bin. Not nice.
ReplyDeletePS, this is not about religion. I don't like ram meat, suya or however. Too fatty.
I always wonder what the fuss is about ram.
DeleteI dont particularly like ram too.
Hello my lady hows our baby ?
Ram meat is sweet oh, I love to make stew with ram meat. Once of things I miss about kd is buying ram meat from central market to make stew with it. Ram meat suya na last bus stop 😆
DeleteWe share same sentiments about tossing food gifted you in the bin.
DeleteMy co worker at work told me about her neighbor who gives her food but she ends up throwing it away… I told her that’s a mean thing to do as she can just reject it and she says she feels telling her NO will make the woman feel bad so she’d rather collect it and throw it away….
Very wicked woman.
I’ve never eaten ram before. My Muslim friends and neighbors hardly buy ram during celebrations.
DeleteRam meat is very delicious
DeleteI love it
Hello, Your Majesty, she's doing great. Thank you ☺️
DeleteAnon 19:00 🙌🙌🙌.
You don't work? Take it, bless it and take to the office tomorrow.
DeleteYou think your neighbors don't know that you were inside and refused to open for them?
Simply say I no dey eat ram.Simple. I hope your husband and children also don't eat ram o. Because they day they catch them eating ram suya ehn.....🤣🤣🤣
Hi Blessed K, I dropped a comment under your SP comment this morning, I hope you saw it
ReplyDeleteGlory O, you never show to tell us how you use your own sallah meat fry suya.
ReplyDeleteYou know you like to dey show yourself.
Even if you no collect,but because others are saying they collect, you too go claim that you just finished eating your own now.
Lols i know you are missing me abi my comment😅
DeleteUnfortunately i was too busy today ok,my side no too do sallah celebration nah and i can't just claim to eat ram or suya while i no eat inugo
My Suya will be tomorrow as usual,weekend things 😅
It's a beautiful cold evening here
ReplyDeleteThank God for life and health
Bvs pls be careful out there, kidnapping is on the rampant. They now demand as low as 200k after kidnapping random people.
I asked you to take down the book post because of the too many negative comments you approved..
ReplyDeleteAnd honestly, I that's not why I'm vex.
There's a way I have always stayed on this blog, I don't rate most people here, at least most that comment, so I don't bring important things about me here, cos they can't help, they can only destroy, it's the same reason I never disclosed my profession until you did.
This same pattern was repeating with the book, they cannot help, broke ass people wey no fit afford to pay for delivery but are good at only destroying.
My reason behind it being posted here was for awareness and publicity, not cos I expected any sale from them, they are giveaway mongers only. But as I say that they were only out to destroy, as that's only what they do, and all these negative comments were approved, I felts it's better the post was brought down instead of their negative being seen as review when people search for the book online.
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I'm vexed cos you enabled insults and shades thrown at me and when I respond, you hold my comment.
I have pointed this out times without numbers lately and it continues.
Even in the same comment that you'll say if there's an insult, you won't approve, someone will come there in anon and throw insults at me and you'll still approve it.
That's my annoyance.
I have never asked anyone to support me, I can handle myself, I am an army, I no need anyone support, even if they are 1 million, I will still fvck all of them up, so far na yarning, if you are going to be allowing their shades and insults then why hold mine.
Do you know how annoying it is for me to decide to take time of my busy schedule to answer a stupid person who came at me because he or she is foolish only to for the comment to be held because my own come back is hard.
So you care about their feelings but mine doesn't matter.
I have boundaries when I reply, I don't involve families, a person source of income etc but your people cross this line with me and you enable it, but when I decided to cross the line too, you held my comment, because you dey pity them.
This are my issues.
No, I'm not aggressive at you, I have always been blunt, and I don't do it with disrespect when talking to you, many people here won't tell you the truth except they go anon - frenemies, maybe you feel this way because of my comment about you and Frank Edoho, and I still honestly feel that comment was the truth.
In that same comment, you approved an anon unprovoked insult at me but when I made my next post days later, you came at me.
In summary, this was why I made my comment yesterday, because this was repeating itself again, I made my comment, got reply and I replied without any insult and next thing, my comment wasn't approved.
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I'm (not) sorry to say, too many stupid people dey here and they have been trying to make you hate me and knock heads together because they are not comfortable whenever they see me for many reasons especially for what I represent, they are guilty of fraudulent lifestyle, toxic behaviour, entitlement, prostituting etc, and they feel attacked whenever they see my comments, but I no send them, them too small for me.
They don't like you either, they are all just looking for how to run another scam. Very useless MFs.
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I'm sorry if you feel insulted but I feel you have been provoking me when you enable insults against me but scrutinize my own comment, hence the comment.
Good night 🙏🏾❤️🥂
#YourRealestEver
#DonDante
Haaaa Dante don see una finish for here that he no rate or send anybody.
DeleteDante does it mean that you don't have a favorite here,at least?
DeleteKwakwakwakwa 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you will continue to cry you go cry blaaaaad keep crying lawyer isonu.
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