Wednesday In House News....

 Hailings!!!!!

WEDNESDAY MEMO
How is everyone doing?I hope that your day is cool?mine is perfect!

I wish you all a nice day!

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BV GLO GLO UPDATE!!!!
So yesterday she updated me on her new life....
She met someone who heard her story and swore to love her and give her the good life in anyway that he can...He has accepted the kids as his and the kids are so happy to finally have a father figure.....
She married him quietly in February and moved on since her uselezz hubby decided to vanish into thin air for over 10 years now....
She says she does not need money from me anymore as her new man is trying his best.
The kids are in school and happy and business is going on well for her.......
She says that she will not behave like Miss H and pretend to have problems just to collect money.... LOL

Welcome to our new in law oooooh....

Congrats on your new Marriage, this new man will stay with you forever...

The one that ran cos he travelled abroad will forever regret his actions one day!

God bless you sweetie.......

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

I always tried to avoid trouble with the street boy who lived around our area.
He was younger than me, yet he constantly called me by my first name without respect.
In our culture, younger people are expected to address elders with proper titles.
Each time he spoke to me casually, I felt insulted and looked down upon.
I warned him several times, hoping he would change his attitude.
Instead, he became more stubborn and confrontational.
One hot afternoon, our argument turned into a serious fight on the street.
People gathered around us as voices rose and tempers flared.
I expected him to back down because I was older than him.
To my shock, he attacked me fiercely and beat me badly.
I felt humiliated and powerless in front of everyone watching.
My anger burned deeply after the fight ended.
At that time, a police officer who was interested in me was also my friend.
I reported the incident to him and explained how I had been disgraced.
Without hesitation, he gathered two of his fellow officers.
Together, they went after the young man who had beaten me.
The officers dealt with him harshly and left him bruised and helpless.
I stood quietly in a corner, hidden from sight, watching everything happen.
As I watched him suffer the same pain he had given me, I felt satisfied. 

He never disrespected me afterwards.

LOL...You wicked...So how you take compensate the Police officer?

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TEACHER LIFE

Parents please, I know getting children ready for school is not easy.
Morning routines can be exhausting:
- waking them up
- bathing them
- finding socks that have mysteriously disappeared
- packing lunch
- trying not to miss the school run
I truly understand but abeg… let these children at least come to school looking neat and smelling nice because some children honestly walk into school looking like they live alone and pay their own fees.

You see one tiny child and start wondering: “Who prepared this one this morning?”
Uniform rumpled beyond explanation.
Like it was washed, squeezed into a nylon bag, forgotten for two days, and brought out Monday morning.
Shoes looking like they trekked from Lagos to Abuja.
Socks with emotional damage and hair fighting for survival.
And somehow, after years in the school, some parents still cannot remember:
- which day is sports wear
- which day is uniform and which day requires special outfits
So on Colour Day, Pajama Day, Career Day and all those themed events…
everybody’s child looks coordinated and excited.
Then one child walks in looking like the outfit decision was made in the car outside the gate
And the painful part is this: Children notice these things.
Adults like to say: “They are just kids.”
No.
Children are VERY aware and They know when they look different.
They know when their clothes are untidy.
They notice when others laugh or stare.
You’ll see them quietly pulling down a too-short trouser or hiding shoes under the chair and honestly, it affects confidence more than people realize.
Nobody is asking for designer clothes or perfection just effort.
Clean uniform.
Neat hair.
Fresh smell.
Shoes that have seen small polish this week
Because presentation matters and sometimes, the way a child enters the classroom affects how confident they feel before the learning even starts.

This made me remember my Dad...He was very present,very alert and you cannot wear anything dirty to school...Everything top notch.....A father that fathered all fathers..LOL

Rest on in peace my dear Papa......

Rest in peace too mama!!!

I am always on about my dad cos he impacted on us the most.....

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WEIRD FACTS
---- Scientists discovered a mushroom that sustains itself only on plastic
It doesn’t need oxygen, and scientists believe it can help clean our landfills

----- Using your non-dominant hand for mundane tasks (eg: eating cereal, opening doors, etc.) for two weeks can improve your self-control

------Learning to regulate impulsive responses is no different than learning a new skill, and small exercises can help tame levels of aggression

----- The average human body temperature has actually dropped from 98.6 degrees to 97.9 degrees over the last 150 years

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To the Woman Ready to Love Again

I know your heart still carries the weight of what didn’t work. I know you remember the nights you cried yourself to sleep, the promises that turned to dust, the version of yourself you had to rebuild piece by piece after they left.

But hear me: that ending didn’t disqualify you from love. It qualified you for better love.

A failed relationship doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re human. It means you tried, you cared, you gave what you had at the time. And now, you know yourself better. You know the red flags you’ll never ignore again. You know the kind of peace you refuse to trade for temporary attention. You know your worth, not in theory, but in your bones.

So walk into this new chapter with your head high and your heart open, but wise. Don’t go looking for someone to fix what hurt you. Go looking for someone who meets the healed version of you. Love isn’t about erasing the past - it’s about proving to yourself that the past doesn’t get the final say.

You’re allowed to be cautious and hopeful at the same time. You’re allowed to take it slow. You’re allowed to say “I’ve been hurt before” and still believe that this time could be different.
Because it can be.
Because you deserve a love that feels like home, not war.
Because the woman who survived that last heartbreak is strong enough to recognize real love when it arrives.
This isn’t a rebound. This is your reset.
Go love again - not blindly, but bravely.

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MEN THINK SAY DEM TOO SMART
When men want to take advantage of women, they often start by sneaking prostitution into the conversation, trying to humiliate women into submission and disadvantageous positions.
We’ve all heard these lines: “Why is she asking for transport money?”—often from a guy expecting a lady to come and cook for him.
“Why is she asking for money to go?”often from a man who has slept with her the entire weekend.
“Why is she asking for money for hair?”often from a guy whose lady is already doing full wifey duties for him.

The moment they insert the line “We are dating, not doing prostitution,” the woman is left with no option but to offer her skills, services, sacrifices, body, and everything in between free of charge just to avoid being labeled a prostitute.

But today, I want to talk to you ladies. I’ll give you two pieces of advice; take whichever one fits your situation.

1. No man deserves your body, your service, or any undue sacrifice without the commitment and protection of marriage. It simply isn’t worth it. A relationship is supposed to be a time to gather data, to know if he’s good enough for you, not a place where you sacrifice your body.

2. Because I know that centuries of religion and conservative teachings have not stopped two consenting adults from doing what they want, and because people have the right to choose, here’s my second advice:

Do not allow any man you’re sleeping with, cooking for, or serving to bully you into giving everything for free under the disguise of “we are not doing prostitution.” If he wasn’t seeking something, he wouldn’t have an erection in your presence. Abi, are you his wife? Any man who develops an erection around you must be able to afford the responsibilities that come with being with a woman. Even in marriage, intimacy is not “free”, it is backed by commitment, protection, and financial responsibility.

Husbands hustle daily to ensure their wives are cared for, because they know complications can arise, and they must be there to support, sometimes it is even their entire family that hustle to keep the wife and children stable.

So, where you do not have this type of protection, bill him! There is no such thing as love without sacrifice. If he is not ready to sacrifice financially, he shouldn’t be erecting his “third leg” around you.
Even food you order from Chowdeck comes with a service fee and delivery fee. Yet a woman who comes to your house to cook like a chef is told she cannot ask for money because “she is not a prostitute.” A bunch of broke, penniless men with erected p€n1s€s.
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