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Monday, October 05, 2026

MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS ---- A Word To Unrepentant Haters, Headjammers And Gaslighters

 Hailings..........



MONDAY MEMO...………
How una dey my people? I am in a good place, in a good mood and grateful and thankful...I hope you are thankful and not complaining and blaming God for anything and everything? He gave you a gift today.!!!
I feel like eating fried yam ooooooooooooooooh...The type that they call dudun abi dundu…….It is fried and really crunchy…..I think i need to buy yam but who will peel it for me? peeling yam scratches my hand...lol...Not sure sha but my hand becomes sticky somehow and it activates OCD things for me...…..

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Ehen A BV came into my inbox to say she wants to relocate her sister to another country from Nigeria and she has only 4million naira and has sister has some money and they want me to introduce them to a BV who can get them visa for the sister to go in search of greener pasture…..I dont know why i feel funny about this so i wont reply inbox…
Please there is nothing likr greener pasture again for now so keep your money…..They are just deporting people from different countries back to their homeland. If they dont deport you, you will hide Inside until you are old..
if you must do it avoid US; Europe and Canada especially…...Na wah!!!
Have a nice rest of the day….
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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A Word To Unrepentant Haters, Headjammers And Gaslighters

This is their memo.
They can keep twisting, shouting and projecting. Their bitterness is loud, but it is not powerful. Their confusion is constant, but it is not deep.
Their gaslighting is persistent, but it is not effective.
They need to stop expecting explanations from people they are determined not to understand.
Their insecurity is not anyone’s burden.
They can keep hating.
They can keep jamming.
They can keep twisting.
But their targets will keep rising, and their darkness will never touch anyones light.

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

One of the many things I think couples don't discuss, ask about, or perhaps understand about a potential spouse before marriage is their attitude towards conflict resolution.
I have been with my partner for twelve years, and I must admit that it is very difficult for us to settle when we quarrel.
The reason is that my husband and I have different orientations and attitudes towards conflict resolution.
Whenever we have a misunderstanding, he prefers to sweep it under the carpet and pretend like it never happened. The next day, he is talking to me as though we didn't just have a fight. This irritates me a lot because I like to communicate my feelings about an issue and explain how the other person can understand me, so that we don't repeat the same mistake.
I don't know if this is a man's thing, but I sometimes believe my husband does this on purpose to avoid accountability, although he claims he just likes to let bygones be bygones.
This difference in our personalities has led to us having longer periods of conflict because I put my foot down, and so does he.
Although he usually compromise in the long run and we settle our differences, I wish I had known this about him from the onset.
My advice to potential couples is; discuss your approach to conflict resolution before getting married because there will always be misunderstanding.

I know a couple who dated for 10 years and then they got married. The marriage only lasted for two weeks cos of an Argument that went South...They could not settle because both stood their ground...


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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.

Growing up, I was scared of God. I knew He loved me, but I lived with the fear that He would punish me for every wrong thing I did and send me to hell. I was also scared that the devil would come for me if I failed God. My Christian life was ruled by fear. Every Sunday, I answered every prayer call because I was terrified. I even avoided singing some Christian songs because I felt unworthy. It was a cycle that never ended.
Then I found God outside religion and outside the pressure of being a pastor’s child who was expected to live up to certain standards and public approval. I found Him as a Father whose love is unconditional.

I found a Father who is not waiting to punish me, but has made His grace available to help me in my weaknesses.

I found a Father who wants me to come boldly, imperfect and honest, who wants to communicate with me, who is not insecure and can handle my raw emotions and my big questions. His mercies are new every day, and I cannot exhaust them.
I found the Father who tells me when I struggle with sins and imperfections that my sins may be red like scarlet, but He can make them white as snow. Words cannot describe how beautiful it is to be loved by Him, held by Him and carried through fire and life’s challenges in His embrace.
This is the God I want my children to know and walk intimately with.

This is nice and i am sure they will learn everything fast from you since you are homeschooling.....
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SIMPLE RULES TO HAPPY LIFE

1. ‎LET IT GO. Never ruin a good day by thinking about a bad yesterday.

2. ‎IGNORE THEM. Don't listen to other people live a life that's empowering to you.

3. ‎GIVE IT TIME. Time heals everything.

4. ‎DON'T COMPARE. The only person you should try to beat is the person you were yesterday.

5. ‎STAY CALM. It's okay to not have everything figured out. Know that in time you'll get there.

6. ‎IT'S ON YOU. Only you are in charge of your happiness.

7. ‎SMILE. Life is short.

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WEIRDFACTS

--- The mushrooms in Mario games are based on a real species called 'Amanita Muscaria' that when eaten, make people feel like they're growing.

--- Never judge someone without knowing the whole story. You may think you understand, but you don't.

--- It’s better to know and be disappointed, than to never know and always wonder.

---The tendency to be pessimistic and negative is a genetic trait similar to hair and eye color. Some people are just born to be pessimistic.

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TRY THESE

-.-- Can you set up some rules for yourself and abide by it? ...It's called principle.
--. Can you stop yourself from doing something others are doing? ...It's called discipline.
---. Can you keep going even when it’s tough? ...It's called perseverance.
--- Can you choose peace over proving a point? ...It's called maturity.
--- Can you forgive even when it hurts? ...It's called strength.

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THINGS ABOUT FART YOU SHOULD KNOW

√ An average person farts around 14 times a day. Those 14 farts a day are enough to fill up a balloon.

√ Farts are made up of hydrogen sulfide that reduces mitochondrial damage. Smelling farts can be healthy, thus next time you fart take a nice deep breath and thank the person.

√ This is not something to be embarrassed about as it means that you are healthy. A healthy digestive tract produces farts. If you are not farting at all go to the doctor

√ The original meaning of fart if forth as wind from the anus. This word was coined in 1962
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122 comments:

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    1. As I got first spot today, i am so happy. To do giveaway just dey hungry me ehh. Lol.

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    2. Congratulations Aby dearie πŸŽ‰ Let's be popping the wine here πŸ˜€πŸΎ

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  2. Dear God,
    I don't ask for much this week, just bless all members of SDK Blog beyond our expectations, in this remaining days of 2026.
    Amen πŸ™ πŸ™Œ.

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    1. Amen! Thank you for your prayer, TripleC. I wish you the same and even better!

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    2. Amen πŸ™

      Greetings Nwokem πŸ©ΆπŸ’š how’s your day going?
      It’s a wet cold afternoon here, loving the weather πŸ₯°

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    3. Yes o. A miracle that looks like a lie.

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    4. Amen.
      I receive my blessings in Jesus name πŸ™πŸΌ

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  3. Spring holidays started today and what best was to spend it but to go on a vacation!!!!

    So we are driving to a small country we’ve never been before, rather, the kids and I have never been to before.

    Luxembourg!!!!! πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸ’ƒπŸ½. I’ve heard it’s a beautiful small city.

    From there, we head to a part of France we’ve never been before. Not even to tour or anything but just to change location and scenery!

    I’ve packed ludo, scrabble and snake and ladder games that we will just use to chill indoors!

    I hope my kids behave so I don’t feel like we’ve carried our drama to a whole different country πŸ˜‚.

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    1. Wow! Eka nwanyi Oma, you guys should go and enjoy jaree
      Your kids won't behave anything oo,carrying una drama to the place na must and na normal thing nahπŸ˜…πŸ˜…

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    2. You and your family should enjoy yourselves and make sure to explore to the very end..,

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    3. Happy holidaying Eka baby 😍🍹

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    4. Glory O this Eka Joy that you have been hyping since only God knows when. Does she even see you? Does she rate you at all? Nne na wa o.

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    5. Eku igbadun in advance πŸ˜„ one day I will travel to one of my dream country.

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    6. The way I am reading this you people need one extra family member. Luckily I am available for adoption. So sweet to read. May God continue to bless, guide and protect you and your family always πŸ™πŸ’•

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    7. I have observed Glory here for years. She seems a free spirited woman who enjoys seeing good in others. I am not 100% but that is my observation.

      I have also noticed that she ignores people who try to pull her down and say nasty things about her. Wait Stella! Ewekwala Iwe, is that not maturity on Glory side?

      Na wah! People who feel they are up there and look down on others are the one who have not got their acts together.

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    8. Anon 25:49, yes o, that's the spirit πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

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    9. Enjoy your vacation with your family ♥️

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    10. Wow, this holiday is really holidaying ooo, see enjoyment, enjoy yourselves, don't worry the kids will be too happy to disturb you.

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    11. Lol 😊 please allow the kids to be.
      Enjoy your vacation πŸ₯°

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  4. Raining heavily at my end here.

    Farting is sign of healthy life😁. Let me tell my hubby😁

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  5. Happy Teacher's day to our beautiful Teachers and Educators here@ Nk darling, Icefishseller dearie, our dear Miss C and others I may not remember as Teachers πŸ˜πŸŽ‰
    Thank you for your dedication and love πŸ’• As a parent and student, I appreciate all you do πŸ€— May God greatly fill your lives with blessings and give you wisdom & grace to do more πŸ‘
    Good afternoon beautiful people 😍

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    1. Amen..

      Hello beautiful Adunni πŸ₯°

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    2. My darling Mercybee 😘

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    3. . Thanks dear,
      Good afternoon everyone

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    4. Adunni Mi Owon, e seun gidigan 😘πŸ₯³... A Thunderous Amen !!!

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    5. Awwww, Tochi dear πŸ₯°
      Happy Teacher's day πŸŽ‰

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  6. One of the biggest lies about japa is that it is a permanent escape. No doubt, the opportunities are real, but so are the sacrifices. As a migrant, you might actually be winning financially while quietly struggling emotionally, socially, and mentally. This is the part nobody talks about enough. There can never be a place like home.


    ©️ TEEJAY

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    1. Always talking from both sides of your mouth and famzing people who doesn't give a hoot about you.
      Slutty Chic never'd mentioned her profession here but you just opened your mouth like a running tap. Learn to shush your mouth.

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    2. Anon 14:32,

      Keep crying, you hear. Let me even provoke you more. You need to see how she laughed at the comments on that thread yesterday. That woman is a one-in-a-million friend I have gotten from this blog. She doesn't need you people's kind of drama or validation. If I hadn't disclosed about knowing her for over 6yrs yesterday, would you have known? Only saying she's a lawyer is making you to cry. Continue.

      I said what I said yesterday with my full chest and she didn't feel any bad about it. So deal with it.


      ©️ TEEJAY

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    3. I pity anyone who will ever confide in tj. He talks too much for a man.

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  7. I no get Int. Passport as I dey write this comment so.
    Maybe next year I would apply to get it.I am not motivated to travel abroad with all the gbas gbos happening to non paper holders.
    If I have to travel,then I am definitely going for visit(s)and not overstaying my welcome there.

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    1. My darling, try and get it o. You may get an opportunity to travel for business or work πŸ€—

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    2. Sis me and you both. I don't have too but I've put it in my to-do list and inshallah I'll have it. Incase of ' choose a country you'd like to go for vacation ' πŸ˜„
      Imagination wan wonjure meπŸ˜‚

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    3. My babe Adunni,we go try get am next year.I am just so lazy about it.
      Osundi my love,me and you dey the same be that.Baby Girl,Dream,hope and believe.Na you think say na imagination,God says BE! And it is.

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  8. Stella, you really need to caution this excesscode on how he talks to people. His comment on clapback post yesterday was unneccessary. Dimplez is one of the ladies here that doesnt go looking for trouble. Calling her Pimplez, saying she wants to trend is an insult to her. He wrote a so called apology, and still insulted her, only to still type nonsense yesterday. Call him to order, he is doing too much.

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    1. That one is his biz i dont care

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    2. Dimplez, pls do not ever stoop to his level to respond to him, when he comes with his fake love. He's not worth your precious time.

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    3. You're right about Dimplez, she's always on her lane

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    4. Chucky this should be beneath you. Know when to stop !!

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    5. Excess3code said he has changed and he is spreading love now. Seems he has changed his name to Papa Chucky . Watch him out.

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    6. Papa chucky i respect you a lot, please its time to stop this if you respect me too right back....I hate this kind of ish with someone i like doing this in the comment section....
      show genuine love......
      Thank you my sweet papa chucky with the beautiful wife and kids...

      Nobody should try to gaslight me into anything it wont work...
      Dimplez address papa chucky directly n don't let them gaslight u into a fight oh..
      hugs to everyone

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  9. Good afternoon SDK and BVs. It's a rainy Monday

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  10. Good afternoon everyoneπŸ₯°
    Happy Teachers day to NK and co😘 wishing you guys more strength and wisdom
    Rules numb 6"Only you are in charge of your happiness."gbam
    SDK rub palm oil on your hand before peeling the yam to avoid scratching

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    1. Asa Baiby πŸ₯³πŸ˜˜Thank youuuuuu

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    2. Really? I didn't know about the oil thing before. Thanks Glory baby 😍

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  11. Good afternoon beautiful people

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  12. IHN
    Good afternoon everyone

    "Happy Monday! May your week be filled with peace, grace, and new opportunities."

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  13. So an anonymous posted " You wonder why a particular guy and babe that hot married were hated so much.............He got married to the best compared to the rest yen yen yen.

    Be giving yourself hope after your desperation to get married at all cost made you sleep with majority of the male blog visitors ( excluding from the guys you met off blog). Just maybe because you got pregnant out of wedlock made him marry you.

    Atleast, the ones he dated didn't open their legs for him but you, had to open your legs not only for him but for everyone just like shoprite door. So please shut up and stop.feeling like someone who just won a Grammy because we both know you are the "man" in the home( doing the feeding, paying the rent and all)

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    1. You people should stop this nonsense here. Leave them alone. What's your business with what adults do here? Are you still this pained? Some of you here are a terrible set of people instigating hatred, fights, and enmity here. The owner of the blog has moved on from all this drama, yet you people will always find a way to drag it up each blessed day. They're now married, and that's all that matters. Leave them to their life and business. Is that too difficult to do? Constantly dragging them won't put food on your table or money in your account. Please, enough of all this irrelevant comments here pulling people down.


      ©️ TEEJAY

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    2. E be like say gist dem don dey boil for pot. Make una do me well.

      I never receive my amebo quota for today.

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    3. Eweleke πŸ™† let me ON my Antenna fess
      Chei Nepa people have taken light and my solar don offπŸ₯Ί

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    4. If she slept with a lot of guys nko, she got married out of wedlock, AND SO? How e take concern you. You people should leave her alone, and face your miserable lives.

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    5. @16:13, Then tell her to stop commenting of how a medal the guy is!!!! No one cares by the way

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    6. 16:13, Candy you are welcome. Defender of the Defendless

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    7. Anon 15:16 you is freaking cray🀣🀣🀣,i don laff tire.

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    8. Teejay when you keep replying all these sick heads here that are looking for who to pour their bitterness on,it will make all of you look the same. Don't engage them like I always say,if not you go explain tire.

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    9. I AM CONFUSED.......How does someone marry out of wedlock??????

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  14. Happy world teacher day to all the fellow teachers here, today is declared non-teaching day, our learners are at home enjoying themselves.

    Hello everyone, the heavy rain this afternoon didn't give notice, thank God it has stopped, pesin go get chance go home from school.

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    1. Congratulations My Learned Colleague πŸŽ‰

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  15. BBNaija fell off so fast, I must say. I didn't even know one was going on, not to talk of its finale yesterday. I think I'll say the just-concluded edition is the most unwatched since its inception. The reasons aren't far-fetched. You know what I mean by that.

    Is there any economical value to it? Just like other TV shows, I feel it's time to rest this as well.

    ©️ TEEJAY

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    1. The focus is on election campaign and insecurity

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  16. You won't always feel amazing. Some seasons are meant to test you. You lose momentum. You lose faith. You lose yourself. But your inner fire never really leaves. It just buries itself beneath distraction. Beneath comfort. Beneath stagnation. The spark is still there. You just have to do the thing that used to light you up. Not scroll or troll. Not sulk. Not wait. But do the opposite. Make something. Move your body. Revisit your old notes. Watch the thing that once gave you goosebumps.
    You're not broken. You just need to be reminded of what lights you up.

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  17. Good day everyone.
    It's been raining here all day.
    What's the weather like in your area?

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    1. It just started raining here too. Thank God I got home before it started.
      Good afternoon ♥️

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  18. This Mr and Mrs Ikoyi gist funny me die. 🀣🀣🀣
    Pesin dey owe pesin money.
    Debtor con use the debt buy gift for the borrowee. πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
    Borrowee dey clap, dey shake bum bum as e don receive gift. E jump, e twerk, e do 100 selfies, e give Onigbese dawuru dawuru solid knackings,e know no say dem don run am high street. 🀣🀣🀣🀣
    Later later, Borrowee say, wo ogbeni wey my money na? Faworaja onigbese say 'Which money yeah? I bot gifts for yo yeah, that's from the money yeah, noo nooomoney injit'.πŸ™†πŸΌ‍♀️🀷🏼‍♀️

    O chim! Na so una dey for here???🀣🀣🀣
    Chai, one ring for don solve all this online comedy o.πŸ™†πŸΌ‍♀️

    Ehn, but I no dey like put mouth as Mrs Ikoyi don talk say make we mind awa business dat time, ehen. Say e won experience debtorpreneur for her self.πŸ€”
    Ah tor, pesin see signs koro koro, e say no , this wan no belleful am, e won see wonders.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£
    So make we online amebos dey look, dey laugh.
    .🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    1. Hahaha 🀣🀣🀣 anon you too like amebo aswear 🀣

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    2. Na the Yoruba language wey you join write do am for me🀣🀣🀣.

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    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€£ true sha all of us are amebos.

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  19. Good afternoon my people, how Una weekend go?
    Welcome you guys to a new week of blessings.

    You get 4 million, instead you find better business over here to start with. You want to gamble with it.
    Yes ooo travelling abroad is gambling, is no guarantee that you will make it or get a good paying job in 5years.
    Anyways what do I know self 🫀?



    WE KEEP MOVING!!

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    1. Which business?
      With the inflation in the country. Some of you just open mouth wahh, obviously, you haven't done business before, you think business is that local hairdressing and tailoring you people disturb us with in business giveaways. 4 million naira is nothing anymore in this country

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  20. It's World Teachers' day Celebration Make Some noise πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ’ƒπŸ»

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    1. Lol


      But una dey flog noise makers for class later....


      Congratulations 🎊

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    2. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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    3. Happy teacher's day Nk baby of the most high πŸ₯°πŸ₯° God bless you for all you do and may you enjoy your rewards here on earth.

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    4. @KJ🀣🀣🀣🀣
      Thank You My People πŸ₯³πŸ₯³

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  21. So Stella about the Yam, got a muddy new yam and wanted to cook immediately and I was like nothing will make me get my hands that dirty so I got nylons and tied on my hands and it was so helpful that I wondered why I've never used that tricked before because it didn't also scratch me. If you have gloves around you can try using them just that I doubt the flexibility.

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    1. If i wear gloves i cant do it oh,before i cut myself

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  22. Good Afternoon Beautiful People ❤️
    Raining heavily here!

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  23. These guys should calm down abeg!
    I still have plans to move to Canada one dayπŸ™. Very sokn

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  24. To all the wonderful teachers, may your days be blessed with good health, strength and happiness. Happy Teacher's Day celebration.

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  25. Let me be your plug for premium crunchy supermarket standard kulikuli with nationwide delivery.
    The digits are zero nine zero four eight two one two two three one..🫢

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  26. For those who want to come aboard, thinking it will take them 5 years to settle, perish that thought, except you are coming in with a highly skilled migrant visa and have a job already.

    If you are a student or spouse, give yourself 7-10 years before settling.

    If you are on visiting visa, don’t even think about it because there is no route to settlement for you except asylum seeker. It is now very difficult to achieve that as well. I have seen lawyers, highly educated Nigerians who came in with visiting visa wasting 15-20 years of their lives here. They run away from authorities in whatever they do. Do you want to live like that?

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  27. For those who want to come aboard, thinking it will take them 5 years to settle, perish that thought, except you are coming in with a highly skilled migrant visa and have a job already.

    If you are a student or spouse, give yourself 7-10 years before settling.

    If you are on visiting visa, don’t even think about it because there is no route to settlement for you except asylum seeker. It is now very difficult to achieve that as well. I have seen lawyers, highly educated Nigerians who came in with visiting visa wasting 15-20 years of their lives here. They run away from authorities in whatever they do. Do you want to live like that?

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  28. How una dey?

    I came so so late....The rain disturbed me today and there was no light at all

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